What Women Wished Men Knew!

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There are so many things that men don’t know about ladies’ needs or wants in the bedroom. It’s not because men couldn’t care less, but its only in light of the fact that the subject either hasn’t come up or she’s so bashful it would be impossible for her to offer you this information. While each lady is different and their emotions divers, there are a few things all ladies can agree on concerning sex, for the most part. We can tell you the general consensus, but

  1.  Communitcation

Talk with her, be straightforward and discover what she enjoys and what she doesn’t. Since couples who impart their needs and wants have much better sex and all the more regularly, you ought to urge her to discuss the things she needs.


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2  She Prefers Period Sex

For the most part, this is genuine, but there are principles. It can have a tendency to get extremely wet very quickly; tossing a hotdog down Niagara Falls may be a more suitable depiction. ON the flip side, the other issue you may face is interim vaginal dryness. If she uses tampons, expect some dryness so get ready by having some lube convenient. She will warm up before long,  and appreciate your efforts because she also would find dry sex to be painful and not enjoyable . The reward of period sex is that she is prone to be very horny— the hormones released make this a positive time for a nookie.

3  She Does Prefer Non-Stop Sex Sessions

This is faking-it domain. Don’t accept the buildup: Being the man means being a man and knowing when to simply getting your load off and appreciate the fruits of your work. A cute young lady staring you in the face is awesome, so don’t pass this up by attempting to outdo yourself.

Incorporate sex toys into your love-making sessions and use them for foreplay.  Get her off first before you start having sex – she will appreciate both having the climax and you will appreciate having the burden taking away in case you are to cum first.  You will often find that once your partner has cum she will cum more easily the second and third time.  You sex session will end with the two of you entwined in each others arms both satisfied and sexually satiated.

4  She Only Likes Fingers When Used Well

First off ensure that your fingers are clean, they are not rough and your fingernails are trimmed and filed.  You are going to her erogenous zone and she will not want anything dirty down there.  Now go slowly, don’t grope or poke, gently stroke the entry to her vagina that is packed with thousands of nerve endings so it is sure to be sensitive.  The whole point of putting your fingers down there is to provide her with pleasure and she will prefer you stroking the outside rather than thrusting your fingers inside her.

When you do put your finger inside her gently target the G-Spot which is up and inside her.  You will feel it as it a bump with many ridges on it.  The purpose is to gently tickle this joyful spot within her that will ultimately make her orgasm.

5  She Prefers Attempting New Things

You should always be looking a fun ways to make your relationship better ensuring it does not become dull or mundane.  One such way is to try new things and trust me the new thing she wants to try first is not going to be anal sex.  Everyone is different and for some women fisting, anal sex and fetish and bizarre acts are what they desire but for the larger percentage of women it may be a new sexual position, or perhaps having sex in a different place.  Whatever it is talk to her, find out what it is she desires and then deliver!

6  She’s Horny In The Morning

Men with their morning glory have woken their partners since the time of cave-men but did you know that many women are horny in the morning too?  However, they just need a little time to warm up.  Putting your woody between their legs and thinking that you are going go in is not going to work.  Cuddle her, give her gentle kisses on her neck so that she wakes up relaxed, happy and horny.  Many couples think that lazy morning sex is better than at other times as their bodies are completely relaxed.  Not everyone is a morning sex fan but most are!


7.  She Loves a Sex Gam

There are different things that ladies subtly like, every lady is different and so are her mysterious loves and hates.  Ladies enjoy games and why not incorporate a sex game that will help you figure out what it is that she likes.  A game of sexual truth or dare, or perhaps sexual twister?  This is an extraordinary way for figuring out how to learn more about your partner and with your partner, and for discovering things you would never have thought to ask.

Remember: The best sex is had by lovers who can honestly and genuinely talk about what they want.  Read what men wished women know about sex!





What Men Wished Women Knew!

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Many men find women’s sexuality very hard to understand. If that is true, male sexuality could qualify as an uncharted forest with many ways to trek but no clear destination. Anyway, it is the perceived belief that in the matters of sex,

a gentlemen’s needs are basic!

Isn’t that so?  What you see and hear is normally part truth, but not the whole truth. It’s no big surprise that women looking for the perfect mate will let those that are not so perfect know and let them know how to get there.  But can the same be said about men?


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Just like there are things women wished men knew, here is a list of 10 things that men wished women knew and would do –

1  Men Respond to Praise:

It’s accepted that most men are so consumed by their own moxie that there is no fear of diving straight in when it comes to the sexual act, however most women require flirting, dating, compliments before they feel comfortable enough be with a new partner.  But this acceptance is not necessarily the truth.  Men like to be complimented just as much as women do but do not react the same way.  Men worry about how they look and a quick comment like

“You are looking so hot”.

will make him feel more comfortable when taking off his clothes and getting naked.  It is not just women who worry about their bodies and stress over the way they took.  Be extra sensitive to your man, compliment him often and eventually you will see the results.

2  Men Fear Intimacy:

But not for the reason you think! Studies have demonstrated that young men are more tender and much more expressive, than young ladies until they achieve school age. Around then, social restraints of words, musings, emotions and our craving for human association goes underground. So unthinkable is this longing for closeness that it can alarm men since we acknowledge how much we are in need for it. What’s a lady to do?   There are many circumstances that this can be seen but if your man withdraws emotionally after sex.  This may be because he is fearful that he needs you so much or is afraid of being rejected.   At that point when you identify this behaviour, withdraw a little yourself. This gives him time to see that his childhood propensities are, actually, consummately masculine.

3  Men Appreciate Sex for Sex’s Sake:

Remember where we came from!  We were and are hunter/gatherers.  Men were born to hunt and it is inherent, even though opposing modern social standards, that if he is not the alpha male of the tribe/family, he be of you and be able to provide.  So instinctively a man may feel the need to dominate in sex and men want you to appreciate this as well.  Sex does not have to be lovey, dovey all the time – sometimes he will crave wild and crazy sex – and if the truth be told, you probably do too!

4  Sex Is Not Just About the Penis:

As the saying go, a man thinks with his head – the head of his penis.  But that is not always true – even though the dick does get most of the press.  Men also like foreplay and they have more than one erogenous zones.  He may want his back or thighs massaged, or his nipples kissed, perhaps passionate cuddles.  This is a genuine turn-on for a man and he is more likely to give you what you want if he has been seductively aroused. Why not next give him a treat with a blow-job – but whilst going down on him restrict between the perineum and the scrotum when he is about to come.  This will elevate his delight and he is sure to give you what you want after being so erotically treated.

5  Men Encourage Fantasies:

Many men (and women) have secret desires that they are reluctant to share with their partner in fear of judgement or disgrace.  But having hidden secrets is not good for any relationship so encourage him to these imaginings and if it agreeable with you share them and make them a reality for him.  You need to open yourself up and let him know that he will not be judged by you.  Next time you are alone, act one out for him.  He will feel heard and freed from those clouds that were hanging over his head and respect you more as his soul-mate and sharer of the most intimate part of him.

6  Men Like It When You Talk:

Talking for talks sake is a major gripe that me often have of their female partners.  Talking that empowers, enlightens or has purpose is mostly appreciated.  But the talk that he would love is dirty, grimy, sex talk before and whilst he is in bed.  Those words will take him to places he always wanted to be.  Let him feel like a conqueror as you shout out the words

“You beast. Keep Fucking Me!”

Talking dirty to him if going to engage more than one sense in your lovemaking sessions.

7  Men Need Your Honesty:

Men need to be illuminated, instructed and told.  They need you to instruct them on what they are doing right in bed, what you would like them to do additionally.  If you are not feeling like sex, tell him why and let him know when you will have that desire again. Not being honest with him will cause resentment and frustration in him and the relationship.

8  Men Enjoy the Dance:

Often a man’s desire for something grows when he cannot have it.  Sometimes make him work  at getting you in bed.  Get  him to Court you,  tell you how much he loves you, how much he desire you.  Get away from him sometimes.  Have a weekend away with the girls.  The separation may actually make his desire for you grow and on your return bring closeness to your relationship.  Tease him by allowing him to watch you whilst using sex toys but not allowing him to touch you during that session.  Make him want you, and only one with hot desire.

9  Men Like Pornography:

Most women do not get turned on by pornography and will watch it only for their partner.  But men do watch porn all the time, whether you believe it or not but it should not be cause for great concern or pathologized.  Just because men are a visual creature being turned on by looking at images or movies it does not mean that they are a sex addict or sick.  Often he may be watching extreme porn so that he does not do those things to you.

Try meeting him halfway and instead of thinking about what does not do it for you think about what does it for him.  Grab a couples porn movie and surprise him one night by watching it with him.  This act of genuineness will go a long way in bringing closeness.

10  Men Always Need It, But Not for the Reason You Think:

Men are blamed for being sexually unquenchable, however ladies ought to reevaluate this. Men see sex as a fun way to express their love and they wish women would take more of a ‘carpe diem’ approach to it. We travel through life at the rate of sound, with increasing difficulties and burdens. With the constraints of time in our busy modern lifestyles there should be no reason why we do not envelop ourselves in delight and joy at every opportunity and for men sex gives this.  It will you too, given the chance!

So these are 10 of the things that men wished women knew.

Now, if you want him to know what you want read on for the things that Women Wished Men Knew!


8 Masturbation Techniques You Will Want To Try!

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From time to time a fellow simply needs some alone time to reconnect with himself with male masturbation. Everyone needs to know simple methods to gain sexual fulfillment without needing to satisfy another person. When you think about it, it’s not selfish because if you feel good and your sexual health is taken care of that is what matters. There are times when masturbation needs to be done. Obviously, I’m not proposing that you start stroking off chronically and demonstrate to your lovely young lady the exit door. Yet sometimes, on the off chance that you feel the need to stroke it, here are seven masturbation strategies you ought to go for a little of difference to spice up your stroking techniques.


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Be a little daring and try one or why not try all of them?

1  The Masturbation Sock:

People use the sock method of male masturbation mainly because the feeling is nicer as inside of the sock is soft. People like trying new things and experiencing different types of sensations because using a hand for masturbation all the time can get boring. When you have came and blown your load into the hamper, just throw it into the washing for reuse. People can’t tell what type of adventure your sock has been on as there won’t be any staining on the outside. People don’t actively look at sock’s because sock’s do smell bad after they’ve been used on someones feet for a whole day. If your a person of texture, you can even turn the sock inside out for some more fun times. The main types of people who use socks are people who are not circumcised as it is less likely to irritate their skin.

2  The Sandwich Bag:

Fill a plastic sandwich bag with petroleum jelly and put your erect penis straight in, squishing the jelly so that your whole penis is secured. At that point, put your penis, still in the bag, between the sleeping mattress and the base. Pump until climax. The best part? No mess to clean up afterwards.

3  The Hand Job Plus:

While standing, contort your lubed-up hand. Our house favourite lubricant is SuperSlyde. Pick the hand which you feel most open to using. Your hand position must be with your thumb against your stomach. Wrap your hand around your penis. Instead of stroking with your hand, move your pelvis to pump hard until you are done with your hand. It’ll make you have a feeling that you’re really infiltrating a vagina. Alright, perhaps not quite.

4  The Tapper:

Despite the fact that you need to have a touchy penis for this to work, this will at any rate prove that you don’t in the event that it doesn’t work. Keep your clothing on and make yourself erect. Once you’re at your fullest erectness, tap the tip of your penis with the tips of your fingers. It ought to take some degree longer than common masturbation for you to achieve climax yet when you do, it will be beautiful no doubt…

5  The Ball Squeeze:

Whenever you’re stroking off and feel just as you’re going to cum, put your other hand over your scrotum and gently crush and draw it down (or all the more forcefully, on the off chance that you like that kind of thing). That way, you get to feel your semen going through your body, going through your urethra and out the hole.

6  The Palmer:

Once you’re erect, put some lubricant within one hand, and instead of rubbing your penis with your hand, continue rubbing the tip of your penis against the palm of your hand to climax.

7  The Ring In:

Spread both your hands with lubricant, and structure a ring with your thumb and pointer. Place it around the base of your penis. Slide the ring up to the base of the glans (where the head begins). Presently structure a ring with the fingers on your other hand and do likewise thing. Continue stroking with one ring or both until you peak.

8  Ice, Ice, Ice Baby:

For this strategy, stroke off as you typically would, yet when you feel the impression of sperm going through your urethra, seize some ice blocks or pulverized ice with the other hand, then keep stroking off to finish. The inclination of ice in one hand, warm in the other will enhance your ejaculation

So why not try these 8 great masturbation techniques and they can only improve your male sexual health.




Stroke Your Way To Happiness!

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Do you want to experience more in your solo sex sessions? Are you a man searching for a change to your regular stroking experiences? Male strokers and masturbators can give a  far superior than-normal feel, with compositions that empower and tease the nerve endings in the penis better than a hand ever could. Men like to look for sex toys designed for males like strokers and set aside a few minutes each day for enhanced solo sex play – they’re anything but difficult to use and simple to clean giving out-of-this-world excitement. Most are affordable too and if you calculate how many times you will use them divided by their cost are well worth the limited investment.

Perhaps you are feeling hesitant about purchasing one having reservations because it takes you out of your comfort zone or perhaps you are worried what your partner will thing about it.  There is no need as almost every man has used or owns a masturbator of some sort and they are also used as tools to extend the time you are having sex increasing your sexual stamina and delaying ejaculation.

Some partners may have reservations about you purchasing an anatomical replica of a vagina, anus or mouth but there are many masturbators and strokers out there that come in a cup or other innate object.  Using a stroker will help you develop your erotic performance and take you to a lovemaking peak – whether you are with someone or not.

Each stroker you purchase is unique some having tighter openings, with peaks, ridges, nodules and chambers inside.  These textured tunnels will help maximize the sensations that your penis will feel and invigorate it to heights of joy. Some strokers are also double ended so that you can two styles of masturbation in the one unit giving totally diverse experiences.

It is important to used plenty of water-based lubricant in this style of sex toy as it will enhance the experience and make for a more realistic session.  It will also ensure that there is no friction that would make your penis uncomfortable and even hurt.  It is essential to use water-based as most strokers and masturbators are made with cyber-skin or similar and the material will perish if silicone or oil is used.

When you and your stroker are lubed up, you can put your cock inside the entrance. Begin by opening up to entry and around the head of your penis, appreciating the impressions and guaranteeing everything is smooth and lubey. At that point, get prepared to enter the male stroker with zest.  When you start, the entry door to the stroker may seem like a tight fit, however the stroker will grow to and take your cock regardless of its size. Hold the base of your penis and the stroker solidly and ease into the stroker. Once you are inside, now is the ideal time to work out your most loved approach to it.

Begin by holding the outside of the stroker and tenderly stroking it all over your full length. Be mindful so as not to go to far over and over again, so you don’t slide right out – as you get to understand what you can do with the stroker you can be more lively with your penis fun. Have a go at turning the stroker as you move it, kneading the head of the penis, twisting it with back and forth motions of the wrist. Don’t simply just stroke it up and down like a crank as this, whilst pleasurable, won’t fully explore the sensations of the ribbing inside.

If your stroker has an opening on the flip side (and the greater part of them do) you can use your finger to mostly or completely cover the gap to expand suction inside the stroker. It can take a couple of tries to effectively ace the craft of changing suction and keeping a hold on your stroker while stroking, yet as with all things rehearse does make it great.

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The first occasion when you use your stroker, you’ll most likely come rapidly yet slowly developing your sexual stamina is all piece of the stroker’s motivation. Couples have been using vibrators into their love-making sessions  for a considerable length of time so why not add a stroker to your foreplay, they’re awesome. Choose a transparent sleeve so you both get a close perspective of this sexy activity.

Using a stroker is awesome as a feature of foreplay with your lover, escalating your pleasure before sex, but on the other hand they’re incredible for shared masturbation or now and again when you need to be close together however don’t want to go down the road of full sex. In the event that your lover gets tired while providing for you with a hand job, a stroker will facilitate their assignment and you’ll adore your stroker much more when your partner is working it for you.

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Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas For Men!

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So after much ado I finally got two Men’s Valentines Sex Toys to review. The reviews are of the Pulse by Hot Octopus and the Cobra Libre from Fun Factory.

The Hot Octopuss Pulse

Who Needs To Go Out Anymore

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After pleasant trials with different toys, I was starting to think I would never discover my true intimate romance. At that point the Pulse arrived and I knew we were a match. The Pulse is stunning. It would appear that something Picasso might draw it is so aesthetically pleasant: smooth, intriguing, with powerful bends and fragile wings to grasp the uncovered cock. This one took me to the following level in “Dear Lord, I’m going to cover myself in my own soul sauce!”

When I had charged the gadget, by means of the included USB link. Though, I required my own connector plug. I was prepared to give it a go. Genuinely, the holding it up was the most troublesome part. (I was going to say “hardest,” yet the hardest part was the point at which I let the Pulse work its wonders.) First, however, I viewed the tasteful instructional feature in which Adam indicates how, through props and drawings, the toy can be utilised solo or for couples play. With or without a touch of lubrication, you lay your throbbing cocking between its silicone wings and let it fly. One will most likely appreciate the way Adam smothers a constrained laugh when he says, “… the toy makes you hard and afterward PULSE will make you cum without you needing to do much at all… ” in that swoon-impelling voice.

The Pulse is not waterproof, however cleanup requires simply a little thought and a warm wet sponge or towel – a minor hindrance when its operation made me question 30 years of making do with wanking on my own. Swaying as opposed to vibrating, the protected PulsePlate “moves more like a cylinder,” Adam says. What the hell does that mean.

However I adored it. I touched it. I brought it to City Hall to see if it was legal to marry a sex toy..

At that point it jumped out at me that Adam and Julia, prime developers of Hot Octopuss (and of the charming couples club) are without a doubt the most savage individuals on the planet; with the development of Pulse, it is clear they need to make my Valentine’s Day every day of the year.

In this way my mission finished. I may have discovered my intimate romantic sex toy however I think our promises will require more to have an open relationship. Curiosity and what not. Great Valentine’s Day Gift to me!


The Fun Factory Cobra Libre

A Real Head Only Job

A Real Head Only Job

Like the Tango Smartvibe, this is a Fun Factory item. I adore the Fun Factory as their sex toy range as it is brilliant, full and their items are suitably named. At that point there’s the great craftsmanship and staggering customer service. The Cobra Libre, which looks like a dashing auto vehicle, is intended solely made for male vibrating excitement, in the same way as a souped-up, simple and clean Fleshlight.

Cobra Libre is rechargeable and waterproof, without troublesome alcoves and corners to hold your flowing jism. It has “boundless vibration causing conceivable outcomes” by means of two vibrators, worked by a delicate tap on top of the device. The novel yet constraining thought is that is it intended to invigorate just the male glan so it is a head job that does not go past the head. You can place the Cobra Libre on the head of your penis, whilst you use your hand to stroke the available shaft area. Or you can just let the Cobra Libre do all the work for you.

Often in the throes of the strokes one would be tempted to thrust ones cock all the way in but the Cobra Libre may leave your head purple and battered if you do. So the Libre will give you delightful torture and forces restraint in a novel mens sex toy. Be gentle with yourself always and respond to how your body reacts. Fun Factory product’s also have a 2 year warranty.

So these are my men’s Valentines Day Sex Toys Reviewed. Hope you liked them.