Nude Photos – A Guide For The Self Conscious

Self Conscious – Not always being able to love your body is a hard thing to go through, sometimes seeing nude photos and having to take a minute to think “Is that really what I look like?”  Before being sad for however long it lasts. Not understanding how people look at you and think you’re not hideous.

It can really take a toll on your mental health, your self-worth, and even your social life if it’s really consuming.

Taking nudes and feeling sexy with this kind of mindset can be a really tiring and depressing experience. Especially if the attempts don’t work the way you want it can throw you into an even deeper pit… T

Here to Help you With Your Nude Photos

Running an OnlyFans has actually helped me to see how sexy and desired my body is.  Even when I think it’s undeserving of such attention (and I’m quite good at hiding my flaws now, or embracing them, depending on the day!).

Know Your Angles

What works for my body won’t work for yours.  Same way what works for most Insta models won’t work for me. You need to know what flatters your shape. Whether that’s squatting down and taking photos of your butt to bring out those curves. Or contorting in a way only you can to have that waist absolutely snatched.

My angle is anything whether I’m twisting and turning to show a more defined waist and butt. But some days even that doesn’t work and I need to go back to the drawing board.

Don’t be afraid of your flaws

I remember thinking I needed to have every roll, stretch mark and wrinkle covered when I was younger… WRONG.

Your flaws make you sexy, they make you YOU. Believe it or not people really do love all those kinds of “imperfections.” It’s such a natural thing to happen to the body and no one is as out of love with them as you are.  Chances are whoever is looking won’t even notice, and if they do they will love them.

But if you are, hide them!

You don’t need to be in love with those things to still take good nudes. Personally, I still have days where I hate my stomach (almost every day, but I’m working on it lol). But that’s nothing a strategically placed hand/blanket/scarf/ribbon/rope can’t fix.

Draping over your body between your hips and ribs will cover any roundness, rolls, or (in my case) flab that you don’t want to be seen. While still showing a gorgeous silhouette of your figure.

Rotating your hips just slightly while standing will create amazing lines through your posing, uncomfortable with your stomach. Take photos from behind, no one needs to know!

Whatever works for you and makes YOU feel best.  Because while you might be taking these photos for other people it is about how you feel about them first and foremost, you need to feel sexy for that to come through in the shot.

If all else fails, dim the lights.

I recently bought strip LEDs. Let me tell you, nothing hides flaws better than red lighting on a low setting. You can’t see a single issue, these are a godsend.

I usually flip between all the colours just to keep it fresh. But if you find a colour that works for you stick to it, no one’s gonna care that your nudes are all blue/green/red. They’re just going to be excited that you’re nakey on their screens.

Get some new outfits and accessories

Buy some new lingerie, get some new toys.

I recently bought the Honey Bunny set from the Play by Fantasy Lingerie line (which comes complete with bunny ears, a tail, cuffs, and a collar with a bowtie, which is ADORABLE). This added to red lights is a stunning combination. Swap out the collar that came with the outfit for a Scandal Collar with Leash or The Scandal Wide Tip Crop and you have a range of fun things you can do.

Whatever makes you feel sexy, pull out all the stops. You don’t even have to show full nudity for the pictures to be stunning.

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Don’t be too hard on yourself

I know I can be the toughest critic for my own photos and in the moment will beat myself to a pulp with criticism, but try to avoid it.

Try a few different poses. Don’t check the photos in between. Just go as many as you can, be positive. Feel sexy. If you check them after and don’t like them, do not dwell on it, do not delete them.

Give it 5 or 10 minutes, try again, take some more.

If you don’t like them still leave them for a while. Sometimes it takes calming down and being out of the moment to really appreciate what you’ve taken, I know if I leave them for an hour and come back I can usually find a few that I like.

Probably because the expectation of looking like a bloody model is gone, so I can see myself through regular eyes and actually take in me for me.

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Beautiful Model Angles

End on a high note

As long as you have one photo you’re really happy with, you’ve succeeded. Sometimes I stop a shoot when I’ve only got one good photo. But it’s strategic.

I know that if I keep going and none of the other photos turn out well I’ll end up finding a reason to hate that one too. Making all that work go to waste. Sometimes you decide to quit while you’re ahead and that’s completely fine!

If you know you’re having a day where you can’t handle too many bad photos, stop the second you find a good one. But if you really like that photo and think you can snap a couple more similar and be happy with them keep going.

Learning to love your body for all of its features is a hard journey.

It can be draining, tiring, and downright heartbreaking some days, but we can get there in the end…

Even if it’s just 5 out of 7 days (or 3 out of 300 photos) it’s better than 0 and it gets easier over time. Remember that you are a magnificent creation to be loved and adored, by others, but most importantly by yourself.

Now get out there and take some nakey photos.

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Sex Toy Review

Dulce Bunny Will Get You Out Of The Closet!

Look past the ladylike pictures of high heels on the box and you will find the packaging is quiet nice.

It’s a really tough cardboard, and the shading is slick. I’m enthusiastic about greenish blues, and paisley, if done right, can be truly charming. There is a viewing ‘window’ on the front where you can see the Closet Collection Dulce sex toy so make sure when you open it there are no prying eyes around.

It’s six inches in length, around an inch and a half wide, and is not an insertable sex toy. That is to say, you may have the capacity to. Yet it’s truly not made for that.

Clearly, since it’s a bunny

It’s got ears to invigorate either side of your clitoris while you’re masturbating. But dissimilar to different bunnies, this toy additionally has a hard stub behind the ears that vibrates really well. So you require more firmness whilst you use this piece of the toy to invigorate your clitoris while the ears massage your labia.

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Blue Dulce Bunny

Dulce Bunny Features 

  • It’s waterproof and flashes blue with every beat.
  • Has 10 modes (9 throbbing variables and one setting that is so quick that for me it was just a touch too intense).
  • Can be turned up or around the + and – catches.
  • There are just three settings; low, medium, and high.
  • Begins on one of the throb modes when you push the button.
  • You use the kind of g-looking catch on the base to go down through the variables. Intensely quick vibration is the last one.
  • I took this toy with me when I traveled to Singapore because it is simply so discreet.  Doesn’t even really look like a vibrator.

Vibrations on this toy are not what you generally expect from a sex toy.

They’re somewhere between what you would expect from an insertable vibrator and a massager (the massager generally being stronger vibrations. But they’re really solid. Once I made sense of what I was doing it certainly hit the spot for me.

It comes in a silk sack to store it in and a one-year warranty. Pretty much the main thing this toy is implied for is clitoral massage. But you could put it on different erogenous zones also as a massager. I found the bend not to be a perfect ergonomic fit for me. But I am a very small woman so think that it may be good for larger women.

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A bit Confused at First

Having owned a number of Lelo toys I am used to their controls. So was a bit confused at first use of this toy – especially the three vibration strengths. I soon worked out that you have to click through each of the modes strongly and it worked just fine.

In the control department, I certainly prefer my Lelo Gigi .  This takes AAA batteries and is not rechargeable.  I used it probably for about 4 hours of continuous use before I had to change the batteries.

Cleaning is a breeze but the packaging was a bit confusing as it said it was a silicone toy. But also indicated ABS Rubber so I would suggest you use warm soapy water to clean it up after use.  To be on the safe side only use water-based lubricants.

All in all and to be quiet honest this is not the best sex toy I have ever tried or reviewed (#Love Lelo Gigi 2 vibrator review) But it is a welcomed addition to my treasured sex toy box.

One Reply to “Nude Photos – A Guide For The Self Conscious”

  1. as a man I don,t consider what a woman looks like, more important is that she is soft and warm. All women are pretty even those who think they are not it,s just that some are prettier than others.

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