There are countless men out there who are looking to improve their Confidence around Women and their dating lives. Whether they’re in the process of coming out of a bad relationship or not yet comfortable with themselves, men must understand what makes women tick.
Women want men with confidence. This might seem like a stereotype, but it’s true. If a woman thinks you’re too afraid to approach someone or that your body language is submissive to her, she’ll be turned off.
Here are some tips men can use to become more confident around women
Don’t “Sales Pitch.”
Women aren’t interested in hearing a sales pitch. They’re not at the bar to buy something; they’re at the bar to meet someone. If you open with an unsolicited sales pitch, your date will be turned off instantly. Your conversation will be much more pleasant if you connect on something casual.
Avoid the “I’m Alone” Fallacy
Women like men who are confident because that means they can take care of themselves. But there’s a difference between being assertive and overbearing. Don’t walk around with the attitude that you’re better than everyone else.
Read Her Body Language
Women are attracted to men who understand what their body language means. If you’re unsure if she’s interested, watch her body language. If she seems turned off or agitated, use the “broken record” technique. This is when you simply repeat your statement over and over again in a light-hearted and humorous way.
That means you don’t pretend to be someone you aren’t. If you’re a bit shy at first, show her that you’re a bit different. Girls aren’t attracted to men who are exactly like them; they like dating people different from them.
Keep Your Sense of Humor
Women love guys who know how to laugh with them. Avoid using sarcastic jokes, as women often find that offensive. Instead, make light-hearted jokes that show you’re comfortable in your own skin.
When a man starts talking about the drama he’s had in his past relationships, women are turned off. They want a man who is in the present moment and who enjoys life.
Women are used to men leading the show. If you’re proactive, you’ll show her that you can take charge in social situations. You don’t need to be overbearing about it; just make a suggestion and take action.
Practice using a doll
Yes, we’re talking about using love dolls. Why would you do such a thing? You’re trying to give yourself a confidence boost when you’re in the bedroom with a woman. If you don’t have much experience in the bedroom, it can feel like the world is closing in on you.
Performance anxiety is a real thing, and the only way you avoid it is through practice. Practicing your lovemaking skills on a doll will boost your ability, and that will make you feel more confident around women. You won’t shy away from talking to a woman because you’ll know that if you get her in the sack, that you’ll be able to satisfy her every need.
There you have it, follow these tips, and you’re sure to be a hit with the ladies. But, above all else, enjoy the process of meeting new women and use every opportunity you get to make a connection with someone new.
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