Oral Sex Technique Guaranteed To Make a Woman Orgasm Every Time

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When I was a young adult first starting out having sex on a regular basis, I had no idea how to make a woman orgasm.

I had heard about the clitoris, but had no idea where it was located, or its importance for a woman’s orgasm. This lead to a pretty bad sex life, at least from a self-esteem perspective… and a couple of failed relationships.

However, after being fed up with the bad sex and results it was leading to in love life, I took the time to learn what was necessary to satisfy women in bed, orally and otherwise.

Among several other areas I needed to improve my sex life as a man, I purchased a pile of books specifically on the female orgasm — including oral sex books, books with penetrative techniques, Taoist sex methods and more.

One of the first ways I learned to make a woman orgasm was an oral sex technique which, while simple, was a godsend for me, and would be for other men if they struggle in the area as well.

Use This Oral Sex Technique To Bring Women To Orgasm On Demand

Bring your girlfriend / wife to orgasm on demand with this technique (well… with a few minutes of warming up and work), and you’ll have a happy partner every time. 

I learned several other techniques to make women orgasm since then — via penetration, orally or manually — but this is an excellent starting move to get down to ensure she’s at least had an orgasm during sex.

Get Her Warmed Up… So the Clit is Hot to the Touch Once You Touchdown

Make sure to circle all her erogenous zones without touching them directly during foreplay, for some time. Tease her, get her hot and begging for some direct stimulation. Lick around her nipples without touching them directly, same with her clit.

Then after a bit of teasing, stimulate the nipples directly, work your way down to her clitoris, and begin some stimulation to her clitoris with your tongue.

Forget Reciting the ABC’s With Your Tongue; That Doesn’t Work. Repeat The Same Stroke to Help Take Her Closer to Orgasm 

The tongue stroke that always works best for me is repeated long strokes from bottom of tongue, where the tongue is wider, stroke all the way up to the tip of the tongue, and then a light snap on the clit with the tongue. 

It doesn’t need to be any one precise motion, such as this, but something along these lines I’ve found works best for me. However, the bottom line — if you hear her moans, and she’s grabbing your head, hips rising off the bed, you know you’re hitting the right tongue stroke, so keep that up.

The whole idea of reciting the alphabet with your tongue must have started out of a joke, but I’ve seen it seriously advised in some places… there is no worse idea than this. Imagine a woman changing the type of stimulation she provides to your penis on each “stroke”. It will take you a lifetime to reach orgasm.

Once That Pelvis Begins Rising Off the Bed, You’re On The Right Track – Introduce The Killer Finger Motion

When you’re licking her correctly, after some time, she’ll begin raising her pelvis off the bed, and into your face. She may begin gyrating. You’re on the right track.

At this point in time, introduce two fingers — your index and middle fingers — into her vagina, while keeping up the oral stimulation on her clit. DO NOT change what you’ve been doing on her clit.

With these two fingers, you want to rub against her upper vaginal wall (her g-spot area) in a “come here” motion. Keep those two fingers “coming here”… and she’ll be “c*mming here” in no time.

Continue On and Soldier Through to Her Orgasm

Now, your neck muscles and tongue may begin to ache when first starting out giving cunnilingus, but keep it up. They’ll get used to it.

You want to keep the clitoral stimulation up, and the manual as well. Hit her hot spots from both sides like this. And if she raises her clit into your face/mouth, respond back. Control her, hold her… pin her back to the bed with your mouth for fun… and before you know it she’ll be reaching one of the most powerful orgasms she’s ever experienced, and thanking you for it.

Guaranteed Orgasms = Guaranteed Peace

This is not only a surefire method of ensuring her complete satisfaction, but an excellent solution if you suffer from premature ejaculation, as you’ll be able to get her to orgasm before you even begin penetrating, or shorten the amount of time you’ll need to penetrate once you do actually enter (something I used to my advantage in the early days of my sex life).

Just remember… even during penetration. Pay attention to the clit for better chances of her orgasm!

Bio / About the Author

David Carreras is a sex researcher, author and blogger who’s been writing about natural, mental and physical methods a man can use to improve his sexual abilities for over 10 years now. His techniques are compiled in Mr. Manpower’s Guide, and you can find his latest research and ideas on his blog. He teaches natural methods over medical solutions, as this will improve a man’s confidence knowing he’s not relying on an outside source.

6 Couples Sex Toys Which Will Transform Your Love Life

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So the time has come where you have decided to step things up in the bedroom, whether it is to heighten your own personal pleasures or you and your partner want to explore your sexual connection through trying out some new things. Many couples find themselves at a point where the idea of introducing sex toys and accessories is somewhat intimidating however; we have put a sensual list of sex toys together to help you feel more comfortable and get excited for the surge of intriguing pleasures that come with adding a little spice into your love life.

Evolving in the bedroom is an exciting commitment which can boost your own understanding of how you would like to receive or experience pleasure as well as opening up an adventurous side to your relationship. So let’s get saucy with this list of six couples toys which will transform your love life and bedroom into a boudoir of heightened arousal and sensual connection.

1: GOOD VIBRATIONS

 

The stimulating sensation of a vibrator and introducing it into the bedroom can certainly spice up your sexual experiences; whether you are focusing on yourself or bringing it into your relationship. It is recommended to start small when introducing sex toys into your boudoir therefore opting for a sleek and sensual bullet vibrator or perhaps even a vibrating cock ring for your male partner; you are bound to experience heightened external and even internal climaxes. The vibrator is designed to stimulate the clitoris and with so many various types on the market, from the design to the materials they are made from; it is best to do some research and see what you and your partner feel comfortable with and what types of vibrators will intrigue you both the most. Remember, this is all in the name of experimenting and exploring one another so there is no need to shy away from what could potentially bring you both closer in pleasure.

2: ALL ABOUT THE DOWN UNDER

 

For those who enjoy oral sex but tend to have limited experiences in the bedroom due to a partner not being quite comfortable with the idea or perhaps not entirely experienced enough to pleasure you down under; then looking into the oral sex stimulators and simulators is an exciting new avenue to embark on in the bedroom. With almost any sex toy imaginable on the market, it is no wonder that now you can find a toy that helps simulate the experience of oral sex whilst keeping within the boundaries of your partner. Although the real deal will always be the best deal, especially as it is all about connecting and exploring your partner and their sexual desires, there is no harm in finding alternatives that work for you both. Oral sex is always better with a partner but at least going down under can be a pleasurable solo experience too.

3: WET ‘N WILD

 

So you and your partner have booked a weekend getaway and of course, you booked the lodge with a private hot tub. There is something so sensual about getting sexy in water, whether in a swimming pool or Jacuzzi but if you have already been there you will know that sometimes the water can actually limit the experience and how it feels. Adding silicone into saucy mix will not only keep you wet where it counts most but it will certainly keep you and your partner going for longer. As silicone lube is hypoallergenic, using it will provide a silky smooth application, perfectly suited for those who tend to be a bit more sensitive at the naughty bits.

4: A SEXUAL BOND(AGE)

 

So you might have heard the term bondage or perhaps BDSM, which for beginners, can be somewhat intimidating. This is why we recommend starting out with a light tough and a little restrain. Grab yourself and your partner a funky or sexy leather pair of hand cuffs and experiment with tying one another up. Most handcuffs are adjustable, so you can pick and choose how tight you may want it or feel comfortable with. This is a great way to push one another boundaries, tease and tantalize your way to a climax whilst strengthening your bond, so to speak.

5: GETTING UP, CLOSE AND COMFY

 

Up until this point, some of you might have already tried out one of the sex toys we have recommended or perhaps you are not quite there in the relationship to introduce vibrators and cock rings. Why not try out a little interior decorating with a twist in the bedroom by bringing in a sexy chair or couch. If you are not quite sure how to go about choosing the right chair or perhaps you are interested in finding out a bit more of the various types and how they can be used to spice up your love life, then see these reviews for some of the top rated chairs and couches. You can use them to encourage different sex positions, experience other forms of climaxes as you maneuver your body around and on some sensual furniture.

6: FUN FROM BEHIND

For the couples who have reached ultimate comfort levels with one another or who are keen to push their boundaries to the backdoor; getting up close and personal with anal sex is a great way to take your love life and sexual relationship to the next level. There are a variety of anal sex toys available for personal desire or for couples who want to add a bit of vibrating thrill to their anal pleasures. From beginner or entry level prostate massaging vibrators to the more advanced anal plugs or beads. Find out what works for your comfort level and of course, what feels good because at the end of the day; exploring can only lead to new discoveries.

 

Some of the above mentioned sex toys can seem a bit out of your comfort zone or perhaps you are intrigued but you are not sure how to get your partner on board. Why not start with a little research, just like reading this article, and get yourself excited first. See what tickles your fancy, consider what yours and your partners’ comfort levels are and engage in an open discussion about how you both are ready to take your love life and transform it into the fantasy you’ve both desired.

How I Meet Casual Partners On Adult Dating Apps

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Casual sex encounters with a stranger can be hard at times (no pun intended). There are tons of casual sex seekers out there looking to hookup with no strings attached. However, it isn’t really socially acceptable to just go up to someone and ask them if they want to hook up. Trust me, that’s not how it goes, and I am speaking this from my own experience. However, thanks to technology that is readily available to all casual daters have multiple platforms to find each other and meet for sex.

All thanks to the internet that makes it easy for everyone. Dating apps allow everyone to present themselves online and access a larger pool of potential partners that they might not have access to offline. Gender doesn’t matter because both men and women are signing up for dating apps a lot. There are a few key pointers that everyone should consider before signing up.

I have had my share of casual encounters with a fair number of partners. Some of the encounters were great, and some not so much. Some were flakes or duds, but some encounters truly spiced up my sex life. It is all about being aware of the right way to get it started. Here are some of the important steps that have worked for me:

Get an Identity – It is true about what they say about the first impression being the last. The profile picture and an interesting bio matter a lot. It is what’s worked for me the most. For example, people are attracted tosexy, intelligent, funny, and humorous people. These traits earn most of thepoints for casual sex seekers in my experience. Nobody wants to spend their time with someone that has a dry personality and no sense of humor.

Finding casual partners for hookups can be hard most of the time, especially if the bio and picture section is empty. So, I think that having one’s own identity will go miles in getting you a hookup.

Going Online – Many popular dating apps and sites help host people from all across the world. A lot of online daters are at least open to embracing hookup culture, however there are specific apps that are strictly for casual sex and hookups. My personal favorite is Meet N Fuck App (https://meetnfuck.app) because it is easy to use on my phone and it is easy to find local hookups with people in my area by filtering by location. There are a lot of different hookup dating platforms, but just make sure you do some research before taking the plunge, as some of them just aren’t that good and can be real time wasters. Once you find an app or site you like, the key is to look for someone with the same interests. That is what I did when I started going online on the majority of the dating apps. I started creating a profile on multiple dating apps to cast a wider net so to speak. The more I put myself out there, the more the chances of finding a date.

There will be many questionnaires, quizzes, and basic information that need filling out. Completing all these sections is a must. It helps establish matches as fast as possible without complications. I also recommend signing up for certain dating apps that target the specific needs of its users. There are all types of different adult dating platforms that target specific niche audiences. There are Milf dating apps for mature women, ethnicity specific sex sites, fetish specific platforms, and pretty much anything you can think of. Try looking for mature dating apps for someone with more experience. Also, try signing up for interracial dating sites for more diversity.

Start Chatting – When I say start chatting, I don’t want you to get the wrong idea of spamming with chats. That’s not how things should start for any user. There is this saying about how one should knock on ten doors. Not every door will open, but there will be one that does. So, users need to start knocking. I drop about 20 “Hello” messages to 20 different people. I don’t expect a reply back from every one of them. However, there will be one or more that will reply.

It is important to email and message these potential friends with benefits by expressing their interests. There will be some that connect, and they will reply. Some won’t, but it is important not to get discouraged. Everyone has different interests and tastes, so it is important to build a thick skin. I advise you to be charming, fun, and respectful. Whatever you do, always remember to not be a creep in any shape or form.

Go Dating – After I successfully build a rapport with a potential casual partner, I suggest meeting in a public place first. It is the polite and safe thing to do for both parties. It is also a good opportunity to have a vibe check and make sure you’re both on the same page and get a little more comfortable with each other. I recommend you do so to make the first best impression with your partner. It will lay the perfect groundwork for the hook up to happen.

Summing It Up!

The online dating and hooking up scenes are quite fun, and it gets better every year with newer apps popping up. You will come across all types of personalities with different backgrounds and interests. I try to always keep things casual, be myself, and exude confidence. Healthy communication is key to having good fuck buddy relationships. That is how I have the most fun with these dating apps. Always avoid being a creep and respect space and boundaries. I have come across many disappointments too, but the good times always make up for it. Embracing hookup apps and hookup culture in general has allowed me to live out sexual fantasies, become more comfortable in my own skin, and of course indulge in a lot of pleasure. It isn’t for everyone, but if you are curious about casual dating online, I recommend giving it a shot.

Why You Need to Choose an Online Adult Toy Store Shop

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Do you wish to spice up your sex life but don’t know what to do? With the romantic gestures and the cuddles, something often feels amiss. Don’t beat yourself up! You can never go wrong with exploring the different types of adult toys when it comes to caring for your bedroom needs. It’s a chance to broaden your sexual horizon as you delve into its exploration while appreciating your partner and self. If you are excited about buying erotic products and are shy of visiting a physical store, online sex shops got you covered. Don’t be too skeptical about this process! Here’s why on-net adult toy stores are worth a look.

Discretion

It’s easy to get unsolicited advice from different people who seem to pry into your sexual life. It’s often quite common, more so when one speaks about getting erotic products. Get a chance to avoid the judgmental looks and the curiosity from nosy relatives once you choose to walk down this path.

The beauty of shopping at on-net adult toy stores such as deliciasexshoponline is that the packaging is of the utmost discretion. It hardly reveals any text or image concerning the contents within. The package also gets delivered at your doorstep, and you can continue enjoying your privacy.

The convenience

There aren’t most people who are openly willing to talk about adult products, as some view it as a sensitive topic. Most individuals prefer to keep the issue discreet and avoid the sarcasm comments from other people. If you are curious about adult products, you can quickly log online and look for on-net shops that sell them. It’s a chance to avoid the long queues to pay for a product or sitting in traffic to get home.

You also have ample time to relax and browse through the long list of adult toys that will come in handy when you need them. One also can check how to use adult toys to gain maximum pleasure.

Accessibility

The most intriguing part about online adult toy shopping is that you have a limitless option to choose from always. It’s a chance to check out the vast array of products ranging from kinky costumes, cosmetics to fascinating erotic products.

You can get to explore all these with no shame as you also choose what suits your fancy. With complete access to numerous adult toys, you are free to try something new each time, and bedroom boredom becomes a thing of the past.

Never stop learning

Online adult toy shopping provides an in-depth learning session. With each product, you become more intrigued to learn about its benefits, usage, and side effects. You can also watch tutorials as you become more conversant with the various types of adult toys. With a clear description and images, you will always be on the right path during your purchasing process.

You can now check deliciasexshoponline for a one-stop-shop with all matters sprucing your bedroom prowess. Get a chance of each delight as you get to have the ultimate orgasm suitable for your immune system. With adult toys at hand, you can now enter into the new intriguing, and spiced sexual experience like never before.

Webcam Modeling Jobs: What Do You Need to Know?

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In this day and age, there are a lot of ways to earn some money while staying at home. You have a variety of choices, but if you’re a girl, working as a webcam model is arguably one of the most attractive jobs out there. There are a lot of benefits, such as good earnings and being your own boss, but there are a few small downsides as well.

To make things a bit easier, there are a few things that you can do. You can prepare yourself before you get started, and there are things you can do to make your job easier, such as figuring out which ones are the good cam girl sites, or learning how to do your own insurance and taxes. So, without wasting any more of your time, here is what you need to know about webcam modeling jobs.

 

Don’t Use Your Real Name

One of the downsides of working as a webcam model is that once you’ve put yourself out there, you stay there. If you’ve got any intentions of changing your career down the line, you should be prepared that some companies (or individuals) might be more conservative, and your history as a webcam model may be a problem for employment.

And while there are plenty of privacy settings that allow you to take care of this in an easy way, a good tip would be to not use your real name when you’re working. Choose an alternative name that you like. You can go for something that’s sexy and memorable, but make sure nobody else is already using it. You don’t want fans getting confused, do you?

 

Social Media is Key

You might put social media in the “I’ll do it later” category, but that’s not the way to go – you want to take care of it first. Make sure you don’t connect your real social media to your cam girl profile, and instead, create suitable social media profiles that use your model name.

The key ones to have are Twitter and Snapchat. Twitter is basically the go-to social media for the cam world. It’s got many purposes, you can tell your fans when you’ll be online, you can connect and talk to them if you want, and you can even make friends with other webcam models you’ll come across.

Once you’ve made those two (and make sure that is before you start working), you might want to go for Instagram next. Like Twitter, you can use Instagram to announce when you’ll be online, and you can connect with your fans and other webcam models.

One thing all social media profiles you make have in common is the fact that you can use them to advertise yourself. Whether you post ads, or you just share things on social media, you get engagement, which in turn, will get you more fans as a webcam model. Make sure you post the links to your profiles when you’re camming, and you will be letting people know where they can see when you’re online next.

 

You’ll Need to Deal With Financials

One of the best things about working for an employer is the fact that many financial aspects, like insurance, or a retirement fund, are automatically taken care of. You just get what is left after those things are taken out, and in some cases, you need to take care of taxes yourself.

However, being your own boss means that you’re the person that takes care of these things. You will need to learn how to deal with these financial aspects if you’re going to work as a webcam model. Fortunately, while they may seem complex at the beginning, they’re actually pretty easy once you get the hang of them. Yes, you’ll be lazy and won’t want to do them at first, but you’ll get used to them.

The Technical Aspect Isn’t That Difficult

Last but not least, to work as a webcam model, you’ll need to have a webcam. While some might suggest getting a good webcam immediately, this may not be the best idea. If you have a laptop, chances are it already has a webcam you can use. Yes, it might not be the best quality, but it will do while you’re getting started.

The idea is to start with the bare basics, and then use the money you earn to invest in better equipment. Whether you get a better webcam, and a better laptop, or something else, you’ll quickly figure out what you’re lacking as you’re working.

But don’t rush with spending – make sure you enjoy your job first, and make sure you see the potential for a good income. If this is the case, by all means get yourself a good setup.