Kissable, Blow Job proof lipstick

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Let’s talk about lipsticks for a little bit.

 

There is something infallible and sexy about 1950s pinup red lipstick, or dark gothic pout anything really on soft plump lips as they press up against yours, bite down against your skin or seal tightly around your…

 

Sorry, imagination got away from me there.

 

My point is, lipstick is an amazing accessory on anyone who wants to wear it. Many of our wonderful customers have been asking about my lipstick lately and if it comes off during kissing and other more lucrative activities

 

What isn’t necessarily as sexy, is the smudge left over. Sure a perfect kiss mark left on your play partner’s skin in the shape of your lips is pretty hot. Smears of red up and down their body, across their face and across your own somewhat can look a little more like a crime scene or  scene from Twilight or Vampire Diaries.

 

It can be a sad and harsh reality that because of this, some people tend to forgo their hot and sexy lips to avoid the hassle. So In my travels I have found some very very promising lipsticks that stay on during the steamy make out, the sloppy kisses and leave no trace during an oral ordeal.

 

Websites often demonstrate lipsticks durability using the paper towel method, the tissue kiss or the collar transfer. We are going deeper than this. These lipsticks have been tried and tested on meals, and night outs, drinks and dinners, parties and partners and for the good of research, many kisses and extra curricular activities to ensure that you have the best advice when it comes to stay proof, smudge proof and kiss proof activities. These lipsticks, what I adore about them, is that they apply once and leave at home kind of products. No need to touch up. They last on any good girl.

 

Maybelline Super Stay Matte Ink

 

My number one all time favourite! It is accessible, it isn’t costly and it stays and stays and stays! There are so many amazing colours to choose from and this baby stays with you all through the day and the night and if you fall asleep chances are it won’t come off on your pillow while you sleep as well. Say goodbye to the awkward smears and rings on the body when you play. The trick is two layers of this bright colour but make sure each layer is dry before you apply the next.

 

Stila Stay All Day Liquid Lipstick

 

Found at Sephora this beauty comes in the most beautiful fiery red that is sure to dazzle any retro lover. Long wearing and very kissable, this beautiful shade will get you through nearly every single kiss and scene. Unfortunately Stila is not Oral proof, but will definitely last a steamy make out.

 

LipSense -Sene Gence

 

The ultimate in stay proof everything proof lipstick. This lipstick is on another lipstick to anything I have ever tried. There is a reason this sheek and sleek addition always has a display at Sexpo and comes highly recommended. It is so “stay proof” that you need a special remove to take it off. Does that make it worth it? If you’re like me and hate Lipstick getting all over each other during scenes then yes, yes it is.

 

Mac Lip Pencil

 

Though not a lipstick, this gives a much more defined look and stays on and on and on. Because it is a pencil it is not as easy to apply in the sweeping fashion but the results are worth it as again, you will not need to retouch, so that means this stays at home when you go out. Amazing shades and choices.

 

Nyx Professional Liquid Suede Cream Lipstick

 

Another super accessible good one to know about that is relatively cheap and found everywhere in so many different colours. My biggest tip is let this one set. Thin layers and if you’re really unsure, use a hair dryer to help it set. The oils keep your lips unbelievably supple and smells amazing.

 

Tips to keep lipsticks on for longer:

  • Exfoliate lips once a week using a lip scrub to remove dead flaky skin and give a smooth even surface to work with.
  • Moisturise your lips at night with a melting lip balm or carmex to seal in nutrients and replenish your lips.
  • Don’t bite or chew on your lips.
  • Avoid using lip balms over your lipsticks, this will cause the super stay ingredients to separate their bond and run.
  • Place a thin 1ply tissue over your lipstick and dust with translucent powder to keep your lippy in place for an extra matte hold.

 

What are your favourites? Drop us your suggestions or tips to keep your lipstick on.

 

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Tiffany

OhZone Caringbah Adult Shop Sales Assistant, Educator and Lip Stick Fanatic.

Stay Safe by Sexting This Holiday Season

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We all need a lot more affection in our lives in the age of a pandemic. It’s been a trying time for everyone to find ways to feel human again. A sense of touch, smell, and sound of a sexual partner in crime has been taken away from those who are single and ready to mingle. In today’s world, we are to stay at a minimum of six feet away from everyone who is not in our own household. The scent of the perfume is harder to get a whiff of when farther away. Masks are worn in public, while adding a sense of mystery to one’s appearance, also muffle the sound of a sexy voice. How is a sexual single who may have been more sexually active pre-pandemic to get their needs met in this scenario? Well, one sure bet to stay safe and sexy while at home is sexting.

 

This is about staying safe, being considerate of others but still finding alternative ways to get off. As it’s vital to stay isolated as much as possible it’s equally as vital to feel connected every day. We are more sexually repressed now than we have ever been in decades past. Even when the world was more sexually inhibited in the 30s, 40s, and 50s there was no stay at home order in place in those eras. This is a very new thing for humankind to go through while still trying to have somewhat of a life. Especially a sexual one!

What Are Sexting Ice-Breakers?

 

Just like approaching a woman in a bar, it can be tricky for the naturally more shy/introverted man to think of the right things to say. With sexting, a lot of the stress of having a good conversation starter is off the table. There is no small talk necessary, you’re in a space where you get to focus on having your sexual desires met at a distance.  When you sext it’s about establishing what your kink factor is before anything else. Not asking someone “How was your day?”.  Here are a few sexting icebreakers below to help you get the party started via your smartphone.

Are you Vanilla/Hardcore?

What are you wearing?

Guess what I’m wearing right now…

What’s your fetish?

Do you like being bad/good?

How wild are you on a scale of 1-10?

Are you into group sex?

 

Finding out what your kinks/desires are is half the fun of sexting. The other half of the fun is finding out what the women are on into the receiving end of these sext messages.  It’s the easiest conversation starter, to ask/tell a woman you are sexting with what you may be into/are open to knowing more about before hooking up. Maybe you are more Vanilla but curious to know more about what a hardcore sexting exchange might be like. It’s good to mix things up and you will find sexting is really about uncovering what really drives you and turns you on.

Where To Start?

 

A long-standing, reputable, and fun place that caters to the sexting community is Arousr. There’s no better place to start sexting than to do so anonymously. This way you don’t have to worry about saying the wrong thing to someone in your inner circle that might lead to awkward social gatherings or gossip when things do eventually open again. Discretion is key when it comes to sexting. When you are not required to reveal your identity it adds an extra little bit of freedom to go wild. You never have to worry about a chat host holding what you say against you. They are there to cater to your sexual needs and desires, whatever those may be.

Yes, you can always text people you know for free. If the texting you do now led to hot steamy sexting you wouldn’t be here reading this blog. In life, we tend to get what we pay for. Sometimes the hottest woman you know may simply not be into sexting or actually be terrible at it. When you use platforms tailored around feeding sexual desires you’ll find a lot less trouble, hassle, and headache, all while maintaining your anonymity. Feeling secure and safe in a sexual environment is what we all need to have an enjoyable experience.

Final Thoughts On Sexting

This year was a tragic one for many but it’s also a teachable moment. One thing we know is that if we want good things in life we must invest in them. That does not exclude our sex lives. Waiting for things to open to be flirty and reach sexual pleasure is not realistic nor is it healthy, both mentally and physically. It’s enough to make anyone go stir crazy being stuck inside with no place to safely go.

It’s very healthy to seek out ways to express yourself through the written word and can also be quite cathartic. It’s sexy, safe and it is a lot of fun when you have an open-minded woman on the other end to enjoy sexual banter with. Now is the best possible time to step outside of your comfort zones and try something new. Sexting is safe, stimulating, and much more personal than streaming porn or Netflix all day.

About the Author

 

I’m Femme Fatale, writer, and Sexpert. I have a vast knowledge and affinity for Fetish culture as a former Fetish model. You can find me every week writing for Arousr. My favorite fetish is Domination.

 

 

 

 

AI, VR, Porn and the New Sex Tech Boom

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Teledildonics, the webcamming boom, VR porn, and the general sex tech explosion of the early millennium showed little sign of slowing down as 2020 appeared on the horizon. As we now know 2020 to be a more or less unmitigated disaster year, many suspected something as seemingly frivolous as sex tech would suffer the fate of, say, live music. That has proven to be far from the case.

 

Virtual reality porn and its related forms offer a more intimate take on the standard pornstar-viewer exchange; a hugely more intimate take. Staring into the eyes of a star you’d previously only seen with other men and women as they surround you with their highly individual sexuality is an experience that most definitely changes a viewer’s understanding of the future of both entertainment and sexual expression. Not everyone favors sharing their private intimate time with your typical (or even atypical) pornstar but remain interested in expanding their horizons along a similar path. Thankfully, they too have plenty of options to explore during isolation and social distancing.

 

Guys, Girls, Games

 

Standing at the intersections of virtual pornography, artificial intelligence and adult gaming, Hybri offers users a chance to enter a slick sci-fi world and create a virtual companion of their own design, and to bring that companion into their actual environment via a mobile Augmented Reality app.

 

The virtual entities created by Hybri users can be customized in numerous ways and be made to look like basically anyone. Facial features and expressions, hair, body shape, skin tone, and even personality traits can be tailored by Hybri users. Obviously not all will be creating romantic partners but Hybri’s developers have certainly provided for those seeking a virtual romantic partner.

 

Next Gen Sexting

 

If designing a virtual partner from the (virtual) ground up is too much effort for you, and if you’re more interested in conversing with, rather than staring at, your digital pal, chat bots utilizing Artificial Intelligence may have more to offer. SlutBot, a text-message-based chatbot created by San Francisco outfit Juicebox, brands itself as a free tool to help those hoping to try sexting actual people by giving them an AI porn partner. Along similar lines but providing a more humanoid character-based approach in its app and web interface, Replika allows users to create a virtual chat partner who learns from their interactions and experiences. Where a user’s relationship with their Replika can lead is entirely up to the two of them.

 

Replikas (as the virtual individuals are known, though they each have a name) exhibit personality traits somewhat more independent from those specified by users. Occasionally appearing to get stuck in a conversation loop and often taking a starkly opposite reading of a user’s inputs and their intentions, Replikas nevertheless have developed remarkably deep relationships with some users. As a tool providing therapeutic company, creations like Replika are becoming more widely utilized and valued. The fact that Replika, SlutBot and other such AIs can be used for purely prurient interests is a boon that reflects right back on mainstream virtual reality porn. And, as is so often the case, the feedback loop between the industries of vice and mainstream tech advancements is in full effect.

 

Bots Behind Closed Doors

 

In an effort to combine the open-ended opportunities provided by AI characters with the physical pleasure of more traditional adult interactions, AI-augmented brothels have begun appearing around the globe. Naughty Harbor, located in Central Prague, Czech Republic, offers patrons a chance to book time with one of the in-house attendants, each one as sexy as she is non-biological. With a motto of “What happens behind closed doors, stays behind closed doors,” Naughty Harbor seems to be freeing people of the complications arising from living out fantasies with another human being, someone with physical and emotional response systems built on self-preservation, not solely on gratifying a partner.

 

Suggestions that AI-equipped “sexbots” be largely used for teaching young people consent, personal boundaries, social interaction, and common courtesy before they enter the world of adult dating. Bots are now being constructed and designed with “consent modules” in place that will require the bots human collaborator to cultivate a compassionate, mutually rewarding interaction that’s much closer to the realities of human dating and relationships.

 

Some doll creators are heading in a more directly gratifying direction, however. Harmony, a creation of RealdollX, utilizes her AI programming to hold fluid, flexible conversations, charm her companion, and even tell jokes. Perhaps more importantly, Harmony’s facial features and articulation come extremely close to human realism. Must compassion and consent be directly programmed into such a convincing character or will users’ inevitably begin to see their artificial companions as more-or-less human?

 

Will our expanded expectations of virtual and non-human partners transfer across to our interpersonal relationships, too? Will those who employ the aid of an artificial companion come to be more sensitive and compassionate in their relations with other humans, or will they favor the more malleable, self-serving experiences had with a sexbot? As distant as a future full of artificial humanoid lovers may seem today, technology and human sexuality do seem to be headed in that direction whether we’re ready for it or not.