Boosting Sexual Satisfaction In Couples

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5 Sure Fire Ways To Boost Sexual Satisfaction

The pandemic changed our lives completely, especially our sexual practices. While some of us staying with our partners got too much time for action, others staying without them missed all of it. And unfortunately, following the safety guidelines, there is no way even to get sexual satisfaction from the best hookup sites. However, irrespective of the current relationship status, gender, and even age the sexual satisfaction remains the topmost concern for most people. Hence, a discussion about the subject grabs attention without any effort. So let us dig in deep into the wetlands and find out the secrets of sexual satisfaction and relationship happiness with the following tips:

Tip 1: Foreplay Has More Power Than You Believe For Sexual Satisfaction

Sexual satisfaction doesn’t come from sex alone. It is the build-up of arousal that makes the release so pleasurable. So, instead of doing it like a duty, enjoy the process the way you did initially in a relationship.

For example- Watching romantic movies with intimate scenes in dim lighting can set the mood well.

Tip 2: Experiment For Sexual Satisfaction

If you keep eating your favorite dish every day all day, it becomes boring. Experimentation helps with excitement in bed and boosts sexual activity in couples for longer years. Not all experimentation will be satisfying, but you might some that give you more sexual satisfaction than others. It also stops sex from becoming a routine activity.

For example- Try new positions, role-plays, toys, etc.

Tip 3: Communicate For Sexual Satisfaction

Another most essential step we often neglect in a relationship is talking about sex. Many couples find it uncomfortable and even unnecessary to discuss their likes and dislikes. It can change the experience, increase the comfort level & trust in a relationship. While it is easier to satisfy a man, men face problems understanding how to know if a lady is sexually satisfied.

How To know If A Woman Is Sexually Satisfied?

Sexual satisfaction is best determined by facial expressions and responsive actions. If your moves and actions arouse your partner, then they will respond with their touch and eagerness for your body. Women try to express their satisfaction with post-sex cuddles, hip movements showing interest in round two, kisses, moans (gibberish statements lost in the air).

Tip 4: Find the Turn Offs For Sexual Satisfaction

As individuals, we always think of activities that ensure sexual satisfaction for the partner and us. But how many times do we talk about the turn-offs? Instead of avoiding doing something stating you are not in the mood, talking it out helps. Your turn-off could be a particular action, body hair, odor, or anything else. Tell your partner and ask them about theirs. It supports both of you to address the issues and feel more wanted. Also, in the case of actions, you can easily opt for other alternatives and ensure sexual satisfaction to your partner without being unsatisfied yourself.

For example- toys and hands can replace oral pleasure.

Tip 5: Invest In the Relationship for Sexual Satisfaction

Sex is not just about physical attachment. The need for touch comes from the mental requirement of being close to your partner. Love is the essence of sexual satisfaction; hence, putting efforts to show love to your partner outside the bed can show beautiful results on the bed. Leaving something for your partner’s pleasure or doing something specifically for their liking can have a more profound effect on your partner.

For example, a massage, a small gift, cooking their favorite food, deleting the number of someones your partner doesn’t like.

Research on sexual satisfaction has found that mental health affects the relationship and pleasure. Hence, doing activities like yoga and meditation can help improve the mental health of couples and, in turn, increase sexual satisfaction. What do you think is missing in your relationship that is hindering your desired pleasure? Comment below!

Author’s bio:  

Miranda Davis is a freelance writer in the relation and psychology area. Miranda is interested in such topics as building healthy relationships between people, love/sex compatibility, and how to find the right balance in life in general. She is currently doing specific research on the topic. Miranda loves cooking and long-distance walking.

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Morning Erection in Men

With a groan, he rolled over and draped his arm over her shoulder. It was enough to wake her, coupled with the faint dawn light sneaking through the curtains. She could tell from his breathing that he was still asleep.

Most of him, anyway. His cock jutted through his thin pajamas, pressing against her back. She found this far more distracting than the incoming streams of light and the early commuters driving past. After all, it was some time since they’d managed to find to fuck, far too long in her opinion.

At first she hadn’t even realised she was gently squirming against him. She clasped his arm, holding him close, giving her something better to grind against. As she rocked up and down, she felt him sliding between her cheeks.

She took his limp hand to her cheek, stroked it against her. It seemed like a lifetime since she’d felt that added tenderness, instead of just jumping straight into their familiar routine. Even if she had to use his hand to give it to herself.

His breathing changed, and she paused, listening. He was still asleep, but his breath was certainly getting quicker. And his cock was still hard. She shimmied out from under his arm, lowering herself down the bed, kicking off her panties along the way. He still didn’t wake up as she pulled his pajama shorts off.

The sheet was light on her back as she took hold of his erection. Her lips parted, teasing his throbbing head with her tongue. She eased him further into her mouth, gently sucking and licking the smooth flesh.

She’d forgotten how much she loved to suck him off, when she was given the time to savour him, and not simply doing it to get him hard enough for penetration. With her free hand, she finally made contact with herself. Her folds were already damp, plenty enough for some natural lube before moving her fingers to her clit.

Instantly she felt the charge surging through her, enough to let a moan seep out of her mouth, humming along the sides of his shaft. Finally, she felt his hips shift beneath her, his groan audible even beneath the sheet. Yet for once, he let her do her thing, no hands on her head, no lifting the sheet to watch her. He too was simply savouring the sensations.

She slipped into a rhythm, two fingers rubbing each side of her clit, to a similar pace to her mouth around the head of his cock. Without so much of him inside her, she was able to use more of her tongue, from which his writhing body and ever increasing volume revealed his pleasure. Hearing this only spurred her on further, quickening her pace both on herself and on him.

Then she felt the sheet lift slightly, and she braced for the inevitable hand on the back of her head, driving her further down his shaft. She was surprised when instead his fingers lightly stroked her cheek. It was something altogether new for her. And she loved it. She lingered there, not bobbing her head, just rolling her tongue around his tip, her fingers pushing deeper against her clit, faster, harder.

She felt herself nearing orgasm, her whole body rapidly rising to ecstatic peaks. She could no longer work her tongue on his cock, but left him inside her mouth anyway. She didn’t realise just how much he was enjoying her heavy breathing around his wet dick regardless.

At last she let go, giving herself over completely, allowing every electric current to surge through her. Her knees wobbled and she rocked back and forth, lost to the moment. Listening to her come kept him rock hard with just his tip in her mouth, feeling her whole body tremble.

Still basking in her glow, she resumed giving him a sloppy blowjob. As her saliva dripped down his shaft, his balls, she collected it in her fingertips, already wet with grool, and went exploring. She felt him flinch as her finger entered his ass, something they’d only tried once or twice before.

She let the liquids keep flowing from her mouth, dribbling past his sack, gathering it in her hand for extra lubrication. When she felt there was enough there, and that he was more open and receptive, she eased a second finger into his ass. He moaned loudly, mostly from pleasure, but with a tinge of pain. She didn’t move her fingers for a while, just let him get used to the fullness as she gently wrapped her mouth a little further down his shaft.

After a few minutes, he started pushing himself against her fingers, and she knew he was ready for more. She could feel his prostate beneath her fingertips, and she increased pressure against this spot, all the while feeling his body react beneath her, and listening for his audio cues.

She barely needed to bob her head on his cock, instead just holding him in place, warm and wet, in her mouth. It was her fingers doing all the work this time. And by the sound of it, she knew she was doing a bang up job with it.

While a straight up prostate milking can take a long time, with just that little extra sensation on his cock, and he was peaking within five minutes. She felt his ass tighten around her fingers, and as the first drop of hot cum hit her throat, she eased her fingers out, drawing an even louder orgasm from her partner.

Swallowing down the last of him, she crawled back up the bed. He wrapped his arms firmly around her and kissed her like it was their first time. She loved his hand holding the back of her head, his fine chest hairs running through her fingers.