5 Ways To Tease Your Partner In Bed

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The best way to add a little spiciness to your sex life and increase sexual tension is to be playful with your partner. To be playful, you need to take the initiative and use the power of seduction by teasing them in various ways. Teasing is all about amping up the atmosphere so that you become an unattainable object of desire what’s end up in passion between you and your partner.

 

Teasing is a way of foreplay that builds a closer relationship and intimate bonding. Those consequently lead to a happier sex life. Does it sound like the kind of relationship that you and your partner want to have? If you want to use teasing as your secret weapon, get inspired on how to start!

 

1.  Foreplay Starts Outside of the Bedroom

 

One way to spice things up is to show your partner that you are in a flirty mood before you end up in the bedroom. You can try sexting and teasing your partner through the messages, so when they stand at the door, the only thing they’d want to do would be to pounce on you.

 

You can start flirting even during a casual kitchen conversation. Showing interest by the sheer body language or mimics can be an incredible turn-on for both of you. You can do foreplay in a slightly roundabout way, like a true flirting professional. Using euphemisms, innuendos, and suggestive remarks can add even more chemistry between you!

 

2.  Use Sex Toys

 

You can find plenty of types of sex toys that can not only enrich your sex life but can also be a great way to initiate foreplay. You can find a wide variety of toys on the internet, starting with realistic sex dolls and ending with handcuffs, flavored lubes, or remote-controlled vibratorsthat plenty of couples claim to use regularly in bed.

 

Vibrators are a great way to try something new in your sex life. They can be used during oral sex or intercourse, but you can also play with them on your own to tease your partner and set the right atmosphere.

 

3.  Talk About It

 

Communication is the key to success, and if you want to have a happy sex life, you should be able to openly talk about physical intimacy with your partner. Discussing boundaries is crucial in a healthy relationship and directing the other person towards the kind of stimulation that you like the most. It should never be embarrassing for you to talk about sex candidly, as it gives you nothing beyond greater satisfaction and a stronger bond.

 

However, you can also use the power of words when you’re flirting and want to seduce your partner. Have you ever had a wild dream about your partner? Or maybe you fantasize about things your partner would do to you? Tell them about it! A happy sex life should be free of judgment and be all about common understanding.

 

4.  Use Eye Contact

 

Eyes are one of the most seductive parts of your body. Sometimes one long glance deep in the eyes can do more than simply stripping in front of the other person. You can do that unexpectedly, smile in a flirty way, and be sure that the tension between the two of you would rise.

 

5.  Discover The Sensitive Body Parts

 

We all have points on our bodies that are much more sensitive to touch than the others. You can discover those places on your partner’s body map, which can be an intimate experience from which the both of you can benefit. After all, it’s going to turn you on even more while seeing their reactions and shivers all over the body.

 

For most people, the sensitive body parts are the back of the neck and spine. Be delicate, and touch your partner there with slow moves. Touch their wrist and head, and see which parts evoke the strongest reactions. All of the places where the nerves are allocated can give them better sensations. You might not even know where your own sensitive body parts are, so it’s a great way to understand your body better and have even better sexual experiences.

 

Conclusions

 

One of the secrets to a long-lasting happy relationship is keeping it active and fun. Teasing is one of the best ways to do so. It builds an attraction between two people, increases mutual desire, and makes your relationship more spontaneous. Moreover, it’s much more than just luring your partner into the bedroom – it’s about the emotions and tensions between a couple, even in a long-term relationship.

 

Remember that those tips are only an inspiration, and each person has their own turn-ons. Not everybody is a fan of sex toys, so don’t feel rejected if your partner doesn’t find it playful. Use your imagination, as you know best what your partner appreciates the most in you and what made them fall in love with you.

5 Amazing Sex Toys That Will Get You Through Quarantine

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Miss sex? Surely, this self-isolation bore you and maybe stressing you now. But this is the best time for you to know more about yourself and experiment a little. Your hands can surely help for sexual satisfaction, but if you want a next-level orgasm, this could be a perfect time for you to add these fantastic best male sex toys  to your list.

 

Wand Vibrators

Nowadays, most women are now using vibrators, such as the popular wand vibrator. It is used for external stimulation of the vagina. However, others mistakenly use the wand by inserting it directly into their genitals instead of using the wand to run over the outer parts of the vagina to feel the satisfaction.

 

Wand vibrators have a simple shape, size, and controllers, so you can also use it on other parts of your body like nipples, testicles for men, the perineum, inner thighs, and labia. It is more pleasurable than the bullet type, especially for women with clitorises, and they tend to have stronger orgasms.

 

A perfect solo session is not possible without doing foreplay. Curious about where to buy this fantastic toy? Don’t worry. It is very much available to any online sex toys shop, so you don’t have to go outside and risk your life during the spread of the Covid-19 virus.

 

Cock Rings

Do you have a hard time erecting your penis? Not a problem; try using cock rings. These rings are worn around the penis base, and some are also putting it around their testicles. It will help their penis to erect harder, longer-lasting, and bigger. Cock rings come in different materials such as flexible silicone, leather, metal, and rubber.

 

In addition, cock rings are also used for medical purposes. Men that suffers from erectile dysfunction or is having a hard time maintaining their penises erect during sex can seek help from this sex toy.

 

Anal Beads

The anal beads are the unsung butt-play hero. They’re amazing. However, not all know more about anal beads as they mistakenly use this as butt plugs. Butt plugs and anal beads, although they all go into the anus, are two different toys. Anal beads give stimulation through movement, but plugs need to penetrate the anus to provide pressure and fullness.

 

Anal beads are meant to go in and stay in place; it stimulates inside the body. Not to mention, there is a lot of pleasurable possibility in the anus, and you don’t need to put anything inside them but to fully enjoy the pleasure. The opening part of the anal is clustered with nerves so that you can play it with a sex toy like anal beads.

 

Sex Dolls

Because of the pandemic and self-isolation, improvised sex dolls are now very in demand. The new version of sex dolls can smile, blink, moan, and interact. You can have exciting sex with these dolls just like how you do it with a woman’s body. Most of these sex dolls are made from silicone material, which is almost the same to human skin. As such, it makes a best companion at bed during this quarantine.

 

They are safe to use. You will be the only one who will use the doll, so you don’t have to worry about virus transmission. Also, they allow you to perform and explore more sexual positions. Remember, no matter how realistic they are, these dolls don’t have feelings, so they are very much available every time you need them. Perfect fit for self-isolation, right? These will differently change your quarantine routine.

 

Dildo

Unlike wand vibrators, dildos are used to penetrate the woman’s genital to feel satisfaction. It looks like a penis and comes in different sizes, shapes, and materials used. So if you miss the feeling of being penetrated because you are a distance away from your partner, then this is the best sex toy for you.

 

The good thing about this toy is anyone can use it. It can be inserted into the vagina or the anus so all genders can use it. The best advice for beginners, never to use the huge size. You can start to buy the smallest or medium size then if you think you need a bigger size, that’s the best time to get huge sizes.

 

Takeaway

Quarantine is not easy to handle; a lot are experiencing anxiety because of this isolation. However, there is always something you can do to change your quarantine routine. Using these sex toys can somehow help you to take away the stress and boredom.

 

Sex can produce good hormones in our body, which can help us to survive this pandemic. Having a healthy sex life produces antibodies that fight against viruses and bacteria. So what are you waiting for? Get up and buy the best sex toys that suit you.

Will You Be My Sex Doll?

About Adult Dolls

The Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres surely have some interesting products for sale. From vibrators that twirl, rotate & double penetrate to penis plugs in all shapes, colours & sizes, there’s something in here for everyone. I love to see customers coming in and discovering toys they may never have been exposed to before. Out of all the gadgets & toys in the store, sex dolls would have to be the products that cause the most reaction from customers. Sometimes they cause laughter & disbelief, other times there’s a genuine curiosity & fascination;

“Do people actually buy these?!”

The answer is: Hell yes!! I get customers buying sex dolls for a gag gift at birthday parties & I also sell them to men who are interested in a lifelike masturbating device. The technology with sex dolls is becoming even more advanced, with so many options available to suit all people & all budgets.

 

The history of commercially manufactured sex dolls dates back to 1908, where a Sexologist called Iwan Bloch wrote about dolls available for purchase in Paris that secreted oil to replicate vaginal lubrication. They took 3 months to build and cost a small fortune. I’m not sure what they were made from but I can’t imagine it felt as pleasant as the lifelike materials that are available today. The creation of softer plastics and higher quality materials have led to sex dolls that are eerily similar to an actual human being. Sex dolls have come so far over the last 100 years, with so many options to build your own “dream doll” available online. You can choose the body type, breast size & shape, skin, hair & eye colour, hair design (pubic & head), piercings and tattoos on your custom doll and have it delivered to your door.   

 

There can sometimes be harsh judgements associated with certain sex toys, with products for men, such as sex dolls, probably the most stigmatised. In an article published in The Journal of Positive Sexuality

“Sex dolls-Creepy or Healthy”

(Knox & Huff, 2017), it is noted that many people stigmatize those that buy sex dolls & see the men who use them as unable to attract a sexual partner. I find the male sex toy stigma to be such a double standard as women do not get judged for having a plethora of sex toys tucked away in their bedside table the way men do. I like to point this out to men & women who express judgement for those who have male sex toys as it quickly gets them to question their opinions (and more often than not they usually end up buying one for themselves or their partners shortly after!!). Sex dolls can be a great masturbating toy for those seeking a life like experience so no need to be ashamed.

 

I have had multiple discussions with people & read valid concerns from those who work in the field of human sexuality about the effects sex dolls have on human relationships. There exists a reasonable fear that the use of sex dolls will ultimately shut men off from real human connections, especially those who are shy or have difficulties with interpersonal relationships to begin with. There are also concerns of further objectification & exploitation of women through the availability and use of sex dolls. It is no wonder the line between reality and fantasy is becoming blurry as there are so many products that are unbelievably lifelike. The birth rates in Japan are the lowest they have been since the 1970’s, with the use of sex dolls and love robots said to be one of the biggest causes for this decline.

 

I think that it is important for those using sex dolls to understand that a sex doll is a masturbating device & not a substitute for human connection. With such a widespread addiction to technology, I can see how the use of sex dolls can cause alienation & isolation for certain people so feel they need to be used with awareness. I am not saying that men who use a sex doll must also be having sex with an actual human being or must be limiting the use of their sex doll. I just feel it is important for men using them to not get so far into fantasy that they forget to have connections with others. Because at the end of the day, regardless of how advanced sex doll technology becomes, nothing could ever replace the love & compassion that a human being can offer. 

 

Human Like Doll
Robotic Sex Doll

Sex dolls can be a fun and pleasurable masturbation device that gives a more life-like experience compared to other masturbators.   Before you buy why not check out the sex doll buyers guide.

Thoughts about Sex Dolls

Sex Dolls on Bed

There are certainly lots of fascinating items for sale in our sex stores, and I have what I call my bucket list. It’s a list of the things around the store that make me wonder “Wow, do people really buy that? Or “what the hell is that even for?’ well I didn’t have to work here for very long to find out that people do buy absolutely everything we sell. As for what everything was for, thankfully Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre staff are brimming with knowledge about everything sex related and have turned out to be a much better resource.

I have a peculiar soft spot for the sex dolls, they are one of the only things in the store I have not sold for its designed purpose. (At least not knowingly) I have only sold them as gag gifts. For to me they are synonymous with what I thought of as a sex toy when I was young. I bought one myself actually a few years ago and attempted to fashion a shower curtain out of it.

Surely guys aren’t blowing up these plastic things and fucking them! What about the seam for god sake? It would be like sticking your dick in an inside out freezer bag!

Sex Dolls are not what the used to be though, technology has made them extremely life like. The more life like they become though, the more I am freaked out by them. The same can’t be said for everyone though. There is a large community of mainly men out there getting way more from their dolls than sex. These guys are forming genuine emotional attachments to their dolls and sharing their lives with them, to most this would be even weirder than the fact that they fuck them.

Some of the most realistic Sex Dolls nowadays can cost thousands and thousands of dollars they come with custom built orifices.  The Sex Dolls have removable vaginas, eyes that can be manipulated and interchangeable, magnetised faces. They have bodies covered in high tech silicone and can have metal movable skeletons that can be positioned at whim. Gone are the days when all the wannabe doll screwers had to choose was basically a beach ball with a face, and every time they penetrated the thing it popped! They are already making robotic ones that can talk back and companies are utilizing all the AI technology they have at their real life fingertips.

 

Blow Up Porn Sex Doll
Sex Toy: Bonnie Rotten Collection Fantasy Fuck Doll

 

The ultimate aim is to get the Sex Dolls to talk back and interact, but having read the websites for the dolls and delved into the forums. The product is clearly marketed to and used by men who want a partner that never answers back. They extol the virtues of sharing your life with someone who listens to you unconditionally when you talk about your bad day. A doll that never looks like she has let herself go, a perfectly giving and understanding, non-judgmental girlfriend. The men are sold the dolls as having hearts aren’t cold like real women, although their bodies are, that is unless you purchase warming devices, (yes they can have heating systems).  You could argue that they are just like a super-almost-human version of a fleshlight and funnily enough the inventor of the Flesh light, Steve Shubin, was after a patent a few years back to make a lubricating vagina.

The Sex Dolls are mainly used by males, but not exclusively. You can purchase realistic sex dolls for only a few thousand bucks! According to “Real Doll” (the Ferrari of doll makers), they are mostly bought by gay guys. It is well worth checking out what the dolls look like. I even joined the doll club on the Real Doll site so that I could have a proper snoop around and see what makes these ‘Idollotras’ tick (I think I made that word up). Jolly interesting it was too.

Japanese people love Sex Dolls, this didn’t surprise me, and neither did the fact that they have Doll brothels, with doll prostitutes, One Japanese man even made a sex doll that doubles as a drinking fountain. I thought that was quite cool.

I have watched a couple of great documentaries about Sex Dolls. One involved a married couple in the UK who own hundreds of dolls, they live in a little suburban house and the dolls are all arranged doing normal stuff, just having dinner with them and watching TV. The couple say they don’t ever have sex with the dolls.  Frankly, just hanging out with them, is probably even more disturbing than fucking them.  We all know the British and Japanese are well known for their kinks, but it isn’t either of these countries that are major purchasers of these dolls. The Philippines come in at number one closely followed by…..Australia! Yes!  Sydney and Melbourne beat any city in the world including any in America. These dolls are out there amongst us right now stealing our men!

You may not see them though because it is actually illegal to fondle Sex Dolls in public. A guy in the US was arrested in a shop car park for making out with one.  Some of these dolls are criminals too. Their cunning owners strap them into car seats next to them so they can sneak into the carpool lanes. They are not all on the wrong side of the law though, some are out there protecting their owners from being burgled when on holiday by staying home and guarding the house.

In 2011 one Australian couple were saved from drowning when they clung onto their blow up Sex Doll and Australian officials amusingly issued a statement that sex dolls “are not recognised flotation devices.”

The Sex Doll documentaries out there on this subject are fascinating and well worth a look, there is also the movie with Ryan Gosling, Lars and the Real girl. The advances in technology I mentioned, both with robotics and Artificial intelligence mean that these dolls are going to get more and more realistic. ‘Westworld’ may not be just a science fiction series on Netflix in 100 years’ time. It might be actual science. The creators at Real Doll are already creating dolls that talk back to you.

 

About the Author: Emily is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

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