Will You Be My Sex Doll?

About Adult Dolls

The Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres surely have some interesting products for sale. From vibrators that twirl, rotate & double penetrate to penis plugs in all shapes, colours & sizes, there’s something in here for everyone. I love to see customers coming in and discovering toys they may never have been exposed to before. Out of all the gadgets & toys in the store, sex dolls would have to be the products that cause the most reaction from customers. Sometimes they cause laughter & disbelief, other times there’s a genuine curiosity & fascination;

“Do people actually buy these?!”

The answer is: Hell yes!! I get customers buying sex dolls for a gag gift at birthday parties & I also sell them to men who are interested in a lifelike masturbating device. The technology with sex dolls is becoming even more advanced, with so many options available to suit all people & all budgets.

 

The history of commercially manufactured sex dolls dates back to 1908, where a Sexologist called Iwan Bloch wrote about dolls available for purchase in Paris that secreted oil to replicate vaginal lubrication. They took 3 months to build and cost a small fortune. I’m not sure what they were made from but I can’t imagine it felt as pleasant as the lifelike materials that are available today. The creation of softer plastics and higher quality materials have led to sex dolls that are eerily similar to an actual human being. Sex dolls have come so far over the last 100 years, with so many options to build your own “dream doll” available online. You can choose the body type, breast size & shape, skin, hair & eye colour, hair design (pubic & head), piercings and tattoos on your custom doll and have it delivered to your door.   

 

There can sometimes be harsh judgements associated with certain sex toys, with products for men, such as sex dolls, probably the most stigmatised. In an article published in The Journal of Positive Sexuality

“Sex dolls-Creepy or Healthy”

(Knox & Huff, 2017), it is noted that many people stigmatize those that buy sex dolls & see the men who use them as unable to attract a sexual partner. I find the male sex toy stigma to be such a double standard as women do not get judged for having a plethora of sex toys tucked away in their bedside table the way men do. I like to point this out to men & women who express judgement for those who have male sex toys as it quickly gets them to question their opinions (and more often than not they usually end up buying one for themselves or their partners shortly after!!). Sex dolls can be a great masturbating toy for those seeking a life like experience so no need to be ashamed.

 

I have had multiple discussions with people & read valid concerns from those who work in the field of human sexuality about the effects sex dolls have on human relationships. There exists a reasonable fear that the use of sex dolls will ultimately shut men off from real human connections, especially those who are shy or have difficulties with interpersonal relationships to begin with. There are also concerns of further objectification & exploitation of women through the availability and use of sex dolls. It is no wonder the line between reality and fantasy is becoming blurry as there are so many products that are unbelievably lifelike. The birth rates in Japan are the lowest they have been since the 1970’s, with the use of sex dolls and love robots said to be one of the biggest causes for this decline.

 

I think that it is important for those using sex dolls to understand that a sex doll is a masturbating device & not a substitute for human connection. With such a widespread addiction to technology, I can see how the use of sex dolls can cause alienation & isolation for certain people so feel they need to be used with awareness. I am not saying that men who use a sex doll must also be having sex with an actual human being or must be limiting the use of their sex doll. I just feel it is important for men using them to not get so far into fantasy that they forget to have connections with others. Because at the end of the day, regardless of how advanced sex doll technology becomes, nothing could ever replace the love & compassion that a human being can offer. 

 

Human Like Doll
Robotic Sex Doll

Sex dolls can be a fun and pleasurable masturbation device that gives a more life-like experience compared to other masturbators.   Before you buy why not check out the sex doll buyers guide.

Thoughts about Sex Dolls

Sex Dolls on Bed

There are certainly lots of fascinating items for sale in our sex stores, and I have what I call my bucket list. It’s a list of the things around the store that make me wonder “Wow, do people really buy that? Or “what the hell is that even for?’ well I didn’t have to work here for very long to find out that people do buy absolutely everything we sell. As for what everything was for, thankfully Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre staff are brimming with knowledge about everything sex related and have turned out to be a much better resource.

I have a peculiar soft spot for the sex dolls, they are one of the only things in the store I have not sold for its designed purpose. (At least not knowingly) I have only sold them as gag gifts. For to me they are synonymous with what I thought of as a sex toy when I was young. I bought one myself actually a few years ago and attempted to fashion a shower curtain out of it.

Surely guys aren’t blowing up these plastic things and fucking them! What about the seam for god sake? It would be like sticking your dick in an inside out freezer bag!

Sex Dolls are not what the used to be though, technology has made them extremely life like. The more life like they become though, the more I am freaked out by them. The same can’t be said for everyone though. There is a large community of mainly men out there getting way more from their dolls than sex. These guys are forming genuine emotional attachments to their dolls and sharing their lives with them, to most this would be even weirder than the fact that they fuck them.

Some of the most realistic Sex Dolls nowadays can cost thousands and thousands of dollars they come with custom built orifices.  The Sex Dolls have removable vaginas, eyes that can be manipulated and interchangeable, magnetised faces. They have bodies covered in high tech silicone and can have metal movable skeletons that can be positioned at whim. Gone are the days when all the wannabe doll screwers had to choose was basically a beach ball with a face, and every time they penetrated the thing it popped! They are already making robotic ones that can talk back and companies are utilizing all the AI technology they have at their real life fingertips.

 

Blow Up Porn Sex Doll
Sex Toy: Bonnie Rotten Collection Fantasy Fuck Doll

 

The ultimate aim is to get the Sex Dolls to talk back and interact, but having read the websites for the dolls and delved into the forums. The product is clearly marketed to and used by men who want a partner that never answers back. They extol the virtues of sharing your life with someone who listens to you unconditionally when you talk about your bad day. A doll that never looks like she has let herself go, a perfectly giving and understanding, non-judgmental girlfriend. The men are sold the dolls as having hearts aren’t cold like real women, although their bodies are, that is unless you purchase warming devices, (yes they can have heating systems).  You could argue that they are just like a super-almost-human version of a fleshlight and funnily enough the inventor of the Flesh light, Steve Shubin, was after a patent a few years back to make a lubricating vagina.

The Sex Dolls are mainly used by males, but not exclusively. You can purchase realistic sex dolls for only a few thousand bucks! According to “Real Doll” (the Ferrari of doll makers), they are mostly bought by gay guys. It is well worth checking out what the dolls look like. I even joined the doll club on the Real Doll site so that I could have a proper snoop around and see what makes these ‘Idollotras’ tick (I think I made that word up). Jolly interesting it was too.

Japanese people love Sex Dolls, this didn’t surprise me, and neither did the fact that they have Doll brothels, with doll prostitutes, One Japanese man even made a sex doll that doubles as a drinking fountain. I thought that was quite cool.

I have watched a couple of great documentaries about Sex Dolls. One involved a married couple in the UK who own hundreds of dolls, they live in a little suburban house and the dolls are all arranged doing normal stuff, just having dinner with them and watching TV. The couple say they don’t ever have sex with the dolls.  Frankly, just hanging out with them, is probably even more disturbing than fucking them.  We all know the British and Japanese are well known for their kinks, but it isn’t either of these countries that are major purchasers of these dolls. The Philippines come in at number one closely followed by…..Australia! Yes!  Sydney and Melbourne beat any city in the world including any in America. These dolls are out there amongst us right now stealing our men!

You may not see them though because it is actually illegal to fondle Sex Dolls in public. A guy in the US was arrested in a shop car park for making out with one.  Some of these dolls are criminals too. Their cunning owners strap them into car seats next to them so they can sneak into the carpool lanes. They are not all on the wrong side of the law though, some are out there protecting their owners from being burgled when on holiday by staying home and guarding the house.

In 2011 one Australian couple were saved from drowning when they clung onto their blow up Sex Doll and Australian officials amusingly issued a statement that sex dolls “are not recognised flotation devices.”

The Sex Doll documentaries out there on this subject are fascinating and well worth a look, there is also the movie with Ryan Gosling, Lars and the Real girl. The advances in technology I mentioned, both with robotics and Artificial intelligence mean that these dolls are going to get more and more realistic. ‘Westworld’ may not be just a science fiction series on Netflix in 100 years’ time. It might be actual science. The creators at Real Doll are already creating dolls that talk back to you.

 

About the Author: Emily is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

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