Rules for Gay Threesomes!

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Internet and social media have been expanding day by day. There are several meeting apps such as blendr and grindr among others have finally led people to have a gay exchange meeting or fast instant sexual gratification from a random guy. These applications are very famous within the gay community as it allows gay people to simply find a sex partner that’s nearby without the hassle of meetings up, drinks, leaving the house or going to a crowded bar. Using the internet and dating apps you can too, when approached in the right way, allow you to have a threesome as well.

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The most important thing in every relationship is communication and you’ll need to discuss this matter with your partner first, unless you’re the only looking to third wheel it which in some ways makes it much easier. If you have a partner you will find that although threesomes can be unique and highly erotic, they can bring insecurities as well jealousy and tension to the relationship. You may need to discuss these insecurities with your partner and tell each other why you’d like to have threesomes. Be ready to answer their questions. It’s not necessarily about you or your partner, but it may simply be about being open minded and a curiosity to try new things, new people and to learn new stuff. Trust me, everyone fucks differently, and we have learned many new things about each other simply by being with others.

I would strongly suggest that most gays’ sex life may be a lot more improved after a threesome experience. I will also say though that the threesome experience is not for everyone and it takes strong individuals and a strong relationship to handle it. Your will have to find someone that is attracted to both of you. This is sometimes harder than it seems. Use the applications, put up a photo of you and your partner and talk to people that you both find attractive. Once you’ve found someone you both agree on, it’s up to you whether you want to talk to them, or get right to the point.

Some people think that it is better to know them, their likes and dislikes and eventually their sexual likes and dislikes so that you can determine their compatibility with you.  There’s no right or wrong answer to this, but talking to them beforehand saves the embarrassment of any expectations they or you may have had prior to the sex. Many gay men are new to threesomes so it is best to organize a night out with you, your partner and him to a local public bar and have a couple of drinks and discuss about everything. The ice should get broken pretty quickly and you will finally see if you are all going along well. Finally relax and let things flow smoothly. You will be surprised to see when the other guy will propose you to go for a threesome before you even mention it.

Make sure you communicate totally so you are both on the same page andOK for the threesome. If your having multiple threesomes, some people like to make rules about the number of threesomes you can experience per week, how you would have safe sex and whether anybody can use sex medications during the threesome. Some other topics you can think about when making rules includes whether you would like oral sex performed or who is on top, in the middle or on the bottom. The thought here is to set down standard procedures so that both individuals in the relationship feel great when the time comes for the third person to enter the equation. Do some background to find out who your visitor really will be. Will it be a hook-up over the internet, a pick up whilst cruising or someone you both like and know.

One of the huge issues that can happen amid trios is that some individual feels that he is not quite a part of it or overlooked. This happens if the visitor is more into one individual in the couple over another. One approach to minimize issues here is to converse with the individual you are considering welcoming ahead of time and telling them the significance of equal consideration. This would likewise be a great time to share the guidelines that you and your partner have made. While not a guaranteed approach, this can go far in making the experience more agreeable.

By following my advice you can have the threesome you always wanted in your gay sex experiences. Use blendr, grindr or another online dating app for your Gay Exchange experiences are ready to go.

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Organising A Blendr Gay Threesome!

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The rise of social media and location based meet-up apps such as blendr, grindr and brendr mean people can have a gay exchange fast or seek instant sexual gratification from a nearby ‘random’. These apps are hugely popular, especially within the queer community as it allows people to avoid the ‘scene’ to find partners, or simply find a sex partner that’s nearby without the hassle of drinks, leaving the house or going to a crowded bar. My partner and I regularly engage in threesomes to add a new dimension to our sex life, and when approached in the right way, there’s no reason as to why you can’t have a threesome as well.

 

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The essence of every relationship is communication and firstly, you’ll need to bring it up with your partner. Whilst threesomes can be hot, they can bring forth insecurities as well jealousy and a disruption to the relationship. You may need to address any insecurities your partner may have as to why you’d like to have threesomes. Be prepared to answer their questions, one of the hardest questions I had to answer was the ‘am I not good enough?’ question. It’s not necessarily about you or your partner, but it may simply be about being open-minded and an eagerness to try new things, new people and to learn. Trust me, everyone fucks differently, and we’ve learned many new things about each other simply by being with others.

I would strongly argue that our sex life is a lot more fulfilling now, but I will also admit the threesome road is not for everyone and it takes strong individuals and a strong relationship to handle it (communicate). Your second task will be to find someone that is attracted to both of you. This is sometimes harder than it seems. Peruse through the apps, put up a photo (together or separately) and talk to people that you both find attractive. Once you’ve found someone you both agree on, it’s up to you whether you want to talk to them, or get right to the point on fucking.

If both of you have chosen you need to make a trio happen and you have any already considered what is required from whom you choose be careful where you do it.  Many residential communities are not so accepting of strange people coming into their neighborhood.  Safety is a primary concern.

Perhaps you work so much you never have time for each other anymore and seeking another person or persons will bring that spark back between you.  Personally, I prefer getting to know the people I have a threesome with first. I get to know their likes and dislikes and eventually their sexual likes and dislikes so that we can determine their compatibility with us. I also use this to weed out the creeps. There’s no right or wrong answer to this, but talking to them beforehand saves the embarrassment of any expectations they or you may have had prior to the sex. The last time we did this, the mature gay guy was new to threesomes, it was organized by my partner, and so to suss each other out we went to a local public bar and had a couple of drinks. The ice was broken pretty quickly and we all realized we got along well. It wasn’t long before the guy turned around and said ‘Are we going to sit here all afternoon or are we going to go and fuck?’

In the threesome whoever you are be as mindful of the other two as you can. In case you’re the awkward extra person dynamic appears to be off, or one part plainly wouldn’t like to continue make an elegant way out. On the off chance that you told your accomplice they could kiss the other individual however rapidly discovered you couldn’t stand the sight, let them know without blaming either party for accomplishing something incorrectly. Confirm your accomplice’s significance to you a short time later, and notwithstanding amid, so they don’t feel debilitated. The quest for sexual oddity isn’t a reason to treat another person severely, and if your relationship merits being in by any stretch of the imagination, it’s not worth risking due to a seriously executed enterprise. In case you’re delicate and capable, you can have a wild night that brings you both significantly nearer together, and sires some astonishing climaxes.

Needless to say, the scotch I was drinking disappeared very quickly.

 

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