Ignite The Erotic Flame – Tantus Harness Kit

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I have been married for almost two years now and the fact is that I love her even more today than when we first got together which is amazing. This is the motivation that gets me through most of the things in my life. I feel like she deserves to be treated right and I want to make sure that she has a lot of fun in the bedroom. To be totally honest with you, I tend to cum pretty quickly. It has always been a problem. When I cum to quickly, I explain to her that she turns me on so much because I find her so beautiful but sometimes, I feel inadequate when she has to finish herself off with a vibrator. I have already blown my load and there is nothing left in me to keep on going.

My wife is the kind of person that loves experimenting. She wants to keep our sex life alive and so do I. Sex is one of the most important aspects of our relationship. I had always been sceptical about introducing adult toys to my marriage however my wife had always been the one to spice things up in that department.  I had never had any past experiences with purchasing adult toys as that was her department but my friend recommended that I should take the initiative to look for something to spice things up in the bedroom, so I went to an Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre in Kogarah. I explained my problem to the sales consultant who professionally and politely guided me through the selection that they had in the store.

What’s included in the Tantus Harness Flame Kit

This is when I saw the Tantus Harness Flame Kit. The Tantus Harness Flame Kit is a sex toy collection which includes a dildo, harness and a removable bullet vibrator. The dildo is purple and textured with a beautiful flame pattern. The dildo is also a different size to me, so she can feel what it is like to have a different size inside of her. The harness is made with straps which are worn comfortably around the waist. The harness has an O-ring at the front. The dildo can be inserted through the O-ring and it will sit firmly in place. The harness also has a pocket where you can place the bullet vibrator. The bullet vibrator is used to send pleasurable waves of vibrations through the dildo for added pleasure. I can also remove the bullet vibrator and use it directly on her clitoris during the foreplay or when I am thrusting into her. I bought this baby on the spot for a very reasonable price and I am telling you that my sex life has never been the same since I purchased it.

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Why we love the Tantus Harness Flame Kit

I knew that this is was the kind of thing that I wanted in our bedroom as it would satisfy her. I could use the Tantus Harness Flame Kit as if it were an extension of my own body. I would be in complete control of the experience and watch her enjoy the pleasure that she would experience from every individual thrust. To top that off, the vibrations would send waves of pleasure through her. The orgasmic build-up for her would feel out of this world. The thing is fantastic and using it just makes the whole sexual experience even more satisfying for us both.

The fact that it comes in purple was an added advantage as that is her favorite colour. You can just imagine the smile that was on her face when she saw that I had remembered what her favourite colour was and that I took the initiative to get something that she would love.

We just wanted to get to the bedroom and try it out and boy let me tell you it was amazing. The fact that the shaft gently curved for pinpoint stimulation of the G-spot is amazing. We both love that the dildo is also soft to the touch. It makes for an easy ride as it has no problems at all. This is even better as I see in her eyes the pleasure the dildo is delivering to her each and every time it enters her. When it is in her she moans in delight and will often ask for more. This also helps in making sure that the positioning is accurate so that you never have to worry about hitting the right places.

The fact that it is even designed so that it can actually remain in place during the whole sexual experience is why we love it more than any other adult toy. This makes the whole thing just easy.

I think I hit the jackpot the moment that I purchased this amazing adult toy as it is just the right kind of fun that any relationship needs and has given me so much more confidence in the bedroom department. The fun in our bedroom just keeps getting better and better. This baby just gives us the pleasure of getting to try out new sex positions each day. We look forward to using it when we both get home from work at the end of the day and are ready to have some fun. I no longer have to worry about her not being satisfied… And when she is spent I enter her like the conqueror I now am. I also happily spurt without holding back when I know she has already been satisfied.

She joked about pegging me with it. To be quite honest, the seed has now been planted by my wife and I am now interested in pegging. I have been reading up on it on the internet and am just trying to work up the courage to actually try it. Perhaps I should read up on it some more and may let you know.

My sex life really needed the Tantus Harness Flame Kit. It offered the right kind of fun I needed. This is an amazing sex toy collection and I just love the fact that I too now am an adventurous person sexually. I would recommend it to anyone with a similar problem as mine. Though if you would like to try out a harness kit with different sized dildos you can buy the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit which has two untextured dildos.  I now look forward to my regular visits to the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres in Sydney. To put it simply they are the best adult shops out there.

Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Instantly Sync Your Sex Drives With We-Vibe

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It’s like a cult following – the We-Vibe Sync, Oh My God! You don’t have one? Well, why not? You NEED one!!

It’s a couple’s vibrator, teaser, and pleasuring U shaped delight!

You want your lover to tease you while they aren’t even near you? Don’t worry We-Vibe has you covered!

Overseas? No worries!

At work? No worries!

In another room? No worries!

Right next to you? Oh my god definitely no worries!

The We-Vibe Sync is marketed as a couple’s sex toy but is easily just as amazing used as a solo toy, so no one will ever be disheartened by this little U shaped delight.

Not only does the We-Vibe Sync make your clitoris and G-spot spring into waves and pulses of delight with its adjustable settings, but it is made to suit almost all body types and shapes with its adjustable fit as well!

A few little specifications about the We-Vibe Sync

  • 2-year warranty
  • Dual stimulation
  • Adjustable fit
  • Body safe silicone: it is made without latex, free from phthalates and BPA.
  • Remote control connected: The remote can change vibration modes as well as the intensity in the moment. Either partner can use the remote and it works up to a distance of 3 meters.
  • Smartphone app connected: The free We-Connect™ app allows you to play and control from anywhere. Vibe to music with beat mode or use touch mode for real-time control at your fingertips.
  • 100% Waterproof: Yes, this means it’s submergible!
  • Rechargeable: Charges in 2 hours, for up to 90 minutes of play.
Specifications of the We-Vibe sync
Image: Features of the We-Vibe sync

It comes in two colour variations unless you get the sensations in Sync pack, which comes in a coral colour.

What’s included

  • Sync couples vibrator
  • Wireless remote control
  • Storage case/charging base
  • USB cable
  • We-Vibe Lube
  • Quick-start user guide

Size

  • Length: 2.95”
  • Height: 1.65”
  • Width: 1.25”

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    Image: We-Vibe Sync in blue
We-Vibe Sync with package
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How the We-Vibe Sync works

Many people look at this device with the most confused look on their face and trust me, trying to explain how this device works using only words can be hard for some people to actually imagine. So with the use of this diagram I am going to show you how this device works and fitted. Simple isn’t it!

For those using it as a secret vibrator for your lover to control during a night or while at work, etc you can insert the device the same way, or for more control if you are nervous about the device falling out, you can put it in with the larger head inside and the smaller head pressing firmly on the clit, either way will give you waves, pulses and vibrations of delight.

Using the We-Vibe Sync
Image: How to use the We-Vibe Sync

The main issue most people have with this device is the app, the more reviews you read, the more you notice that people either love it with all their being or they hate it! And just to clarify they don’t hate the Sync they hate the app! If you read into the hate reviews they are all because of the app disconnecting during use. Now, I don’t know if it’s because they have connected it wrong or if they haven’t fully followed the instructions completely, but with my trials I did notice a few reasons why the app would disconnect.

This can be fixed by making a few simple changes and if you follow the instructions correctly, you can take full advantage of all the Sync has to offer. One issue I noticed was that laptops, iPads, tablets and other Bluetooth devices can interrupt the connection. That being said if you move them 1-2 meters away at least this considerably decreases the interruptions.

Also something that I thought was fairly self-explanatory others may have not thought of, the Sync must always be in close distance to the device that has the app on it, and you send a link to your loved one for them to control. Which means the primary app device should be on your own device, which then allows you to send a link to your lover to give them the option of controlling but you can also disconnect their control if need be.

The app allows you to have a lot more personal customizations then just using the remote or button on the Sync. You are able to create your own custom playlists choosing your favourite modes, intensities and durations.

Not only can you customize your vibrations you can also video call and text over the app to your lover (aka your pleasure controller) to make it even more personal and intimate.

The We-Connect app features

  • Touch the screen to control the vibrations and build intensity, swipe to change modes and pinch to adjust intensity.
  • Multiple modes
  • Create and customize your own vibes by drawing your own vibe!
  • Make your own playlist of your favourite modes. You can adjust the duration of each vibration and intensity.
  • Your lover can control the We-Vibe from anywhere in the world.
  • You can control each other’s We-Vibe and pass control back and forth.
  • In-app voice, chat and video.
We-connect on the smartphone
Image: We-Connect on the mobile

Now not only is the Sync amazing! It also has two features on the We-connect app that is exclusive just for the Sync!

  • Beat mode: This mode gives the option to vibe to the rhythm of your favourite music, or picks up ambient noises in your surroundings.
  • Touch mode: You have real time custom control over every action. Use the screen to instantly control the vibrations.

For these reasons and so many more the Sync is one of my favourite sex toys in store because it has so many uses and reasons for its existence.

If that doesn’t majorly tempt you into buying a Sync then I’d say you were insane! It is one of the best couples sex toys available.

I am part of the We-Vibe cult are you?

Author: Morgan is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Although relatively young Morgan has lived a life filled with experiences that have made her grow as a person. She has completed and is a product and interior designer who is a strong believer in equality between sexes and speaks out against violence. Working in the adult industry has allowed her to grow as a person and come out of her emotional and sexual shell.

3 Ways That The Ǝlements Collection Will Astound You!

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From our good… no great friends at Pipedream Products, the Company who also bring us the Sir Richards Collections would like to introduce me, you, all of us, to the “Ǝlements Collection”. Creators of this line have taken a deep and intimate dive into the male body and its pleasure zones. The collection is comprised of three unique pieces designed to enhance the male sensory experience. Whether your play is solo or coupled, these sex toys are sure to add a new sense of stimulation to any session.

Using their industry experience the “Ǝlements” Collection creators have combined their intimate knowledge of male pleasure and innovative technology to make these sex toys stand beside the best of them. Each piece is designed with ease in mind. The setting and vibration controls are easy to find and understand making it user-friendly and easy. They have 5 speeds and 4 variable functions that tantalise the body oh so well! Strong powerful vibrations offer a very exciting time, and what’s even better is how whisper quiet they are. They are USB rechargeable and offer 1.5 hours of use on a full charge. If you can last 1.5 hours with the use of these vibrating beauties, I salute you!

Like I mentioned earlier these sex toys would be great for a fun time by yourself or with a partner, sex toys are always fun when you share! Just remember to be safe, especially with a partner you’re not fluid bonded with.

All three pieces in the “Ǝlements” collection are made from platinum grade silicone and are phthalate free. They are waterproof as well which means you can enjoy the Elements experience anywhere.

Element MS (Masturbator Sleeve)

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Sex Toy: Sir Richards Masturbation Sleeve

The first piece in this new collection is the Vibrating Masturbation Sleeve. Don’t let its size fool you. In fact, I appreciate this masturbators size, it’s discreet and easy to take anywhere. At just over 3 inches long this little guy’s punch will impress you, no doubt. The Creators have ingeniously put the motor along this device, specifically to maximise the sensory experience the user gets from the ribbing texture within the MS. The side is thin wing like pieces that allow the user a custom fit and pressure to enhance their personal pleasure. Everything about the Ǝlements MS is designed to stimulate the Frenulum, the male equivalent to a clitoris. The frenulum is the soft tissue under a man’s urethra opening and down the underside of the shaft. You might have thought you were over hand jobs after high school, but with this sleeve, it might be a favourite again.

Element CR (Cock Ring)

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Sex Toy: Sir Richards Cock Ring

If I’m being honest and I usually am when it comes to most things especially of a sexual nature, this is my least favourite in the collection. It is one small personal preference regarding all cock rings. If you’ve read any of my other reviews or articles about cock rings you will already know I just don’t appreciate a cock ring that is meant for only the shaft! I want that sensational feeling a cock ring provides, I want my whole cock to experience the feeling. When a cock ring is placed in front of the balls it excludes a huge portion of a man’s cock, there is an average of 3 more inches to a man’s shaft continuing inside. In my opinion cock rings that encompass the cock and the balls provide a more vigorous sensation and not to mention a much stronger orgasm. When the Ǝlement creators were designing this cock ring they were designing it for the female partner who could be joining in. It has an intentionally place node on top designed to stimulate your female partner’s clitoris. Not surprisingly this is also where they placed the impressive motor. It is only my opinion but I think this and many cock rings would do better to focus on a man’s perineum, it’s such a major source of erogenous pleasure for a man. However if I use this ring with the next piece in the collection, all my issues are solved.

Element PM (Prostate Massager)

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The final design in the Ǝlement collection is the Vibrating Prostate Massager. This little guy just like its collection mates is a powerhouse in a pint size casing. This massager focuses all of its attention to the wonderful pleasure zone this is the prostate and its exterior buddy the perineum. This sex toy makes sure this area is pleasure satisfied. The insert-able portion of this massager is just over 3 inches long, but what is so interesting is the double hump you’ll notice along the shaft. This design feature allows for the massager to cradle the prostate gland an encumbered vibration sensation. Very intimate and very intense. If that wasn’t enough the base of this Ǝlement PM is another node designed to send those powerful vibration settings along the perineum and to the prostate from the back side. I mean how lucky is that prostate? You really can get your p-spot beyond pleasure with this sex toy!

If you’re looking for some new sex toys to enhance the male experience during play time, look no further. Come into one of the Oh Zone stores near you and check out the Sir Richards Ǝlement Collection.

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Having been a regular contributor to this blog for the past couple of months he has consented to add his profile to our ever expanding list of bloggers that provide us with the great content provided to you. We thank all our contributors and authors and a special thanks to Patrick whom we deem to be an expert on all things relating to sexual wellness and adult lifestyle with quality writings. Be sure to follow Patrick on Instagram.

It’s A Nice Day For A White Wedding!

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I am always in line for a bargain and I have found a great one! The White Wedding Kit is made by a popular adult lifestyle company named Pipedream Products. The kit is a special selection of beginner sex toys for couples on their wedding night. Products like this are usually packaged between 2 sheets of plastic, the White Wedding Kit comes in a very sturdy box with a picture of a groom carrying his champagne toting bride over his shoulder. Since the kit is affordably priced the extensive list of products it includes rather spoils the box as it contains 12 products!…Yes! You read that right …It contains 12 products!

 What’s Included In The White Wedding Kit?

  1. Anal Beads: The Anal Beads are white, well everything in the kit is white which matches with the bridal theme. The Anal Beads can be used by both partners. It has five beads on a string and they are small enough for beginners.
  2. Duo-Tone Balls: The Duo-Tone Balls are Kegel Balls that measure two inches in size. They are on a string with weights that move around inside the balls. The Duo-Tone Balls are the perfect weight for someone who has never used them before. Hopefully the bride will be exercising her pelvic floor muscles with all the sex she will be having. It would be fun to wear them whilst you go about your regular activities, it is a teasing reminder of what a honeymoon is all about.
  3. Rabbit Sleeve: This silicone Rabbit Sleeve is 3 inches long, it is an attachment for the bullet vibrator which turns it into a clitoris stimulator. Simply place the bullet vibrator inside the Rabbit Sleeve and use it as intended. The Rabbit Sleeve can also be stretched over the multi-speed vibrator.
  4. Multi-Speed Bullet: The Multi-Speed Bullet is made from ABS Plastic and measures 2 inches in length. It is controlled with a remote on a cord so you can control or you can let your partner take full control of your pleasure. It is a rumbly bullet but it is not buzzy! There isn’t enough power to make it special, it is perfectly adequate for this kit though.
  5. Waterproof Multi-Speed Vibrator: The Waterproof Multi-Speed Vibrator is made from ABS Plastic and has a tapered tip. It measures 7 inches in length and has 6 inches in insertable length. It is surprisingly powerful! It is a little bit noisy but people expect a bit of noise on your wedding night. It does say it is waterproof on the box but I wouldn’t take it into the pool, bath or shower because if the battery compartment isn’t sealed tight enough water can leak into it which will ruin the vibrator.
  6. Cock Ring: The Cock Ring is designed in the shape of an engagement ring, it is quite cute. It isn’t too durable but this stretchy Cock Ring is perfectly fine for a couple to try out.
  7. Cock Sleeve: The Cock Sleeve is shaped like a phallic dildo. Slip the Cock Sleeve over the Vibrator to give it a more realistic feel.
  8. Glow Love Dice: The Glow Love Dice are sex dice, one dice has parts of the body listed on it whilst the other has an action listed on it. And as the name suggests, they glow in the dark which means you can use them in the dark. All good fun.
  9. Couple’s Coupon Book, I love Couple’s Coupon Book as I hate asking my partner for things. I wish he would automatically know what I want 100% of the time. The is a coupon book that has all sorts of things you can cash in with your partner with out having to say the words out loud. It let’s you cash in everything from your partner organizing dinner to both of you making a porno. Or you could use the coupon book as if it were a lucky dip which is even more fun.
  10. 3 x Assorted Sample Tubes: This assortment pack comes with Lube, Sex Toy Cleaner and Warming Gel. They are a small testers so you will want to bring along more of your own!
  11. Feather Tickler: The Tickler has 3 small feathers on a plastic stick but if you like tickles then it does the job. If you are anything like me and you always bother your partner to draw on your back the Feather Tickler makes the job much easier. Pair the Feather Tickler with the mask which will help to heighten the sensations.
  12. White Satin Mask: The White Satin Mask is definitely not made from satin and it’s a touch transparent. One of you can wear the mask and the other can try out all the sex toys on the wearer. It is a great introduction into the BDSM Community.
As you can see, The White Wedding Kit offers value for money. Even though the Feather Tickler and the White Satin Mask are certainly not made with luxury in mind, it is the addition of those two products that make it a bit better than the usual couples kit, because they encourage you to think outside the box. It is a great way for a couple to try new things with out spending too much money especially if you are not even sure about what you are into yet. The addition of the Glow Love Dice and the Couple’s Coupon Book turn this kit into a great gift. Whether you are getting married at the registry office or making it a massive celebration make sure you are prepared for the honeymoon! The White Wedding Kit is a great purchase and a great gift for all couples not just ones getting married. Be sure to read up on How To Introduce Couple’s Sex Toys To The Bedroom.

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

I’m A Flogging Sex God!

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The Black Rose line of toys and accessories comes to us from Doc Johnson, Doc Johnson is one of THE big names in the adult sex toy industry, they have been around since 1976 manufacturing innovative and trusted adult products from their home base in California. With over 500 employees they are ever expanding and improving themselves striving to set the bar for industry standards worldwide.

Priding themselves on being American made at their in house laboratory where their chemist makes sure that the material being made and chosen suits the products perfectly that will do nothing but impress and better the sexual experience of every customer. The Black Rose line includes restraints, insertables, harnesses, accessories, lotions and impact play equipment.

Black Rose Whipping Willow Design & Packaging

The line all shares the same theme, purple and black and where possible including a rose, the packaging design of the Black Rose line is very eye catching and sensual, glossy black boxing with a model who was born for the role, she sets the scene extremely well for you to imagine yourself using these products.

​While the quality of this line is average (which is not to say bad but by no means luxury items) I want the entire range of Black Rose products, being a reasonable price that matches the mid-range, decent quality of these items, they are so incredibly aesthetically pleasing they make up for not being ultra-high quality with just being absolutely gorgeous.

Who Should Use The Black Rose Whipping Willow?

The Black Rose Whipping Willow is a small to medium sized flogger, it is made of a vegan-friendly leatherette and the falls of the flogger are soft and deliver a nice stingy hit with just enough weight to give it some slight thud, it will leave you nice and pink but without any lasting welts or heavy bruising and because of this the Whipping Willow is perfect for beginner to intermediate kinksters, sadism and masochism lovers, or for experienced or mild impact players to add to their warm up repertoire.

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Black Rose Whipping Willow Features

The handle of the flogger also includes a wrist strap to help control your flogger and stop it potentially flying out of your hands across the room if you were to accidentally lose control, which of course we hope never happens.​

While the Black Rose Whipping Willow could be considered pretty with its lighter toned and ever so slightly almost metallic purple leatherette handle, with the leatherette wrapped thinly around it in a spiraling design secured with a silver stud and black decorative leatherette rose at the base of the handle it is still an intimidating weapon, a seductive and alluring looking tool for pleasure and pain.

The length of the Black Rose Whipping Willow is 29.5inches (74.93cm) long including the handle, the handle is 2 inches (roughly 5cm) across, the falls (otherwise known as tails) of the Whipping Willow are 16.5 inches (41.91 cm) long and weighing in under 1kg at 0.48lbs it is a very light weight and easy to swing flogger.

How To Clean The Whip

Cleaning the Black Rose Whipping Willow is simple, just hand clean it by wiping it down with a warm wet cloth or dry clean only, don’t use harsher toy cleaners or any chemicals to clean this toy because of the fabric and its porous nature you may damage the leatherette. If you do get your flogger wet and after cleaning make sure you dry it somewhere in the sun or use a hair dryer on a very low heat so that no moisture settles and has a chance to grow any nasties.

Remember To Be Safe!

Lastly but certainly not least, be safe. This flogger is perfect for beginners as I’ve said but that also means being extra careful while you and a partner discover the joys of impact play and flogging together and of course remember, have fun! It is a great sex toy to begin your Fifty Shades of Grey experience!

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!