Top 12 Valentine Adult Gift Ideas!

What are your top picks for Valentines Day?  These are mine!
1. SINGLE GUY
Tenga Flip Zero – Vibrating. Once he’s stuck his fingers in this bad boy. His finger is hooked, and so will he. Don’t forget to squeeze down for that suction. It’s a great toy for most lads – but if theyre horse hung (girth) he’s going to struggle.
2. SINGLE GIRL
Womanizer – Been selling these things like crazy. Great for those that are looking for that something a wee bit different. Other wise rabbits will take care of everything for them. Particularly bi stronic fusion, dual stimulation, thrusting and power. Lady Bi if they don’t care much for the thrusting.
3. COUPLE
We-vibe kit. Any Kit. get the best of everything is a single kit. You want the we-vibe for weekends and the tango for weekdays? You got it. Want the we-vibe for partnered play and the premium womanizer for when you’re home alone. We have you covered.
4.BDSM
Wartenberg Wheels (They’re coming soon). One of my favourites, great intro toy. Great for sense play, just all round great toy. I’m also a huge fan of bondage kits. Everything matches – which is a bonus. Lastly. A wand. Must have a wand. Le Wand, Palm Power, doxy. Get them a wand to go with every single other toy.
5. GAY GUY
Is it for his partner? Is it for him? Not all gay guys like anal play. So work out if it’s for his dick or for his ass. Prostate toys for those that like to move during play – the vibe will hit his p spot with every single thrust. Masturbator for his dick. otherwise get the poor lad some good quality anal lube.
6. BI- PERSON
Depends on their sex, whether they like anal, dick or vaginal play or all three. Refer to above written.
Strap ons are a great mix for bi guys and girls, pegging play is an understated area of play. Worth a mention whenever a heterosexual couple is looking for anal toys for him – it plants the seed in there for them.
7. TRANS PERSON
Depends on MtF or FtM. Dilators for MtF are a must have. Buck off Range for FtM.
8. CLIT
Womanizer. Tango/NU Bullet. Clitoral suction pumps. Three very different types of stimulation which will have almost everyone covered.  If they like it a bit rough and are into bdsm – get a clamp on it.
9.ANAL
Buttplugs are great for girls since it adds pressure to the vaginal walls. B Vibes have this down pat, especially the rimming which will do something very few anal toys do. For prostate i love the classic Bootie by fun factory. Great beginners toy, moves with your thrusting and applies it where you want, when you want every single time.
10. INSERTION
I can’t go past the tiger G5. Those ribbings. That curve. That bend. That power. Come here tiger, let’s play. Great length, great for friction movement and did i mention that power?
11. LONG DISTANCE
Kiiroo set. Sure the we-vibe is great and all but teledildonics are just amazing. You can feel the masturbator move with the specially placed sensors in the g spot vibrator.
12. PROSTATE
Bootie. B Vibes. Steel Butt Plugs – the underrated stars of anal play. Less friction, easy to clean, won’t break and super fun with sensory play.
13. LUBE
Superslyde for everyday penetration, Pjur Original for those that need a little more viscosity, and JO premium (black) for heavy duty play. Surgical lube for sounding, and J-Lube for fisting. Intimate Earth Waterbased for sensitive skin.
14. MASSAGE
Superslyde. Mix it with your own sensual oils so that you’re not committed to a single scent every single time. Else wildfire black which is highly concentrated, great for muscles and just pretty damn awesome for intimate play.
Valentines Sex Toys
15. PROLONGING
Viga, Super dooz hands down. Stud 100 if we have it in

Furry Etiquette!

A furry convention is one of the most fantastic formal gatherings. The gathering involves members of the furry fandom or rather those who are interested in the concept of fictional non-human animal characters which posses’ human characteristics. Since it is a formal gathering, upon people meeting, they exchange ideas as they transact business, they engage in fan activities such as entertainment as well as recreation. The event originated in California in the 1980’s and it has been embraced in most parts of Europe as well as North America. However, attendees of the event have a certain way they present themselves. Among the furry etiquettes includes:

Should not approach anyone randomly

It is one of the general suiting practices maintained at the furry event. Due to
the fact that fur suits can be a bit scary, it is very normal for some people
not to enjoy them at all. It is always advisable to check how the people or the
person you are approaching they are before engaging them. If you realize that
they are not comfortable with your approach, it is better to turn the other way
ad leave them alone. It is also not advisable to chase a person when in the
furry suit. Interrupting the events of other groups also is not recommended.
However, if other people want to approach you, they can and to indicate that
you are fine with it a gesture is recommended such as waving at them, offering a high five, or even holding your arm out. The same accord should be provided to the others, in case they need to interact they will if not, one should not bother them at all.

 

Should have a handler

A furry event can be scary sometimes hence the reason to have a handler. A
handler is a person who is supposed to act as a guardian throughout the event.
Their main job being to act as your ears and eyes ensuring that you are guided
throughout the event and more so making sure that you are guarded from creepy people in the event. When attending for the first time, it is more scary hence the more reason to have someone to keep you away from troublesome people and always guide you so safe places. The handlers are also supposed to always provide you with something to quench your thirst when dehydrated and more so they are recommended for full suiters. Since there are possibilities of the event being characterized by emergencies, one should make sure they have signals worked out with their handler. This will equip you with the know how of requesting for help in case an emergency arises.

 

You should not touch anyone because you have Fur suits

Being in a fur suit limits someone’s ability to see and also moving around is also a huge problem. Hence in the event that you suddenly touch someone especially from behind, it is very easy to really scare them. It is therefore recommended that if someone asks you whether you want to touched just say no and before touching any one it is advisable to always ask them first. If their answer is no, it is paramount that their decision is respected without questioning them about it to avoid any misunderstanding. This will ensure that Fur suiter’s right to personal space is respected.

 

You should not damage the Conspace

In the event that conspace is destroyed, the you or thecon will have to bear the burden. Since a furry convention is mostly held at Hotels, they have ground rules of not tolerating any damages and in most cases, they do not allow any furry conventions to be held in the same premises in case there are any damages of Conspace. It is always expected that attendees of the con should responsible people and more so the actions portrayed at the convention represent the organizers of the event as well as the entire community. Therefore, lack of maintaining proper discipline affects everyone at the convention.

 

Ask in case you need a photograph taken

Human beings are referred to as social beings due to the fact we rely on each other to exist. However how well we relate to each other is the key to a peaceful coexistence. In the convention too, how well the costumers relate to each other is of vital importance. In the furry convention there are a million chances of bumping into a photographer since they are memorable as well as enjoyable moments. Hence taking a picture or two with another costumer is allowed. Nevertheless, it should be at a mutual consent. In case you need a photograph taken, where by you pose with costumer, it is always good to ask them first to make sure they are comfortable with it. This is just a general courtesy since not everyone likes taking pictures.

 

One should know where to get water and take your head off as well as keep clean

Wearing the furry suit is requires one to keep taking water regularly to avoid
dehydration. It is therefore recommended that upon arrival at the convention,
one should make sure they trace safe place where they can take off, they head
and rest a bit. Also, they should locate where to get water places so that when
they get dehydrated, they can re-hydrate themselves. When at the event it is
always advisable to not take more than an hour without water. Keeping clean at the conventions also should be a priority. Therefore, when you get out of the
suit, you should take a quick bath and pray the suit to freshen up. The face
should be washed up regularly when you visit the water areas. This is recommended since being in the suit makes one sweat too much leading to a bad smell when out of the suit. Keeping yourself clean avoids diseases, and bad odor when attending the con.

 

Avoid misbehaving in public convention spaces

In most Furry conventions, public places are places requiring good behaviors. So are the spaces around the convention center. In appropriate behaviors as well as misconducting your self at convention area calls attention from the
organizers of the event who might take a disciplinary action against you. This
calls for utmost conduct when at furry conventions and avoid public display of
a fetish. This is because there are people of different age blackest which is
an indication for everyone being responsible in regard to behaving
appropriately or wearing appropriate costumes at this place. Such kind of costumes should be left at home or covered up y placing other costumes on top of it. This is not just for costumers but also for any mature art seller. They are required to sell their art at hidden areas to void exposure to everyone.

 

Respect

Respect is an important social aspect as far as humans are concerned. In absence of respect, havoc reigns.  It is due to this that people are usually requested to respect each other to allow a peaceful coexistence. In Furry conventions too, there is need to respect not just fellow costumers but also the event organizers. The organizers of furry events are people of great stature since they are volunteers. It is paramount that they are respected for putting together the event. The rules they lay down to be followed should also be respected and followed to the letter. This is just a gesture of appreciating
their great work or rather as a way of thanking them.

 

Do not remove your head in public and do not talk in the suit.

The furry convention is guided by myths and beliefs. It is due to this very reason that removing the head while at the convention will break the magic. However, on normalcy, removing the head makes one a sweaty person in a suit and disregards you as a fun character. Talking while in the suit is also against
the rules due to the myths upon which the event is based on.

 

Act and move around

Keeping your self busy through out the event is fun. Since the main theme behind the event is entertainment, standing around in a suit is not fun. One should find places of entertainment or if not, they should try and entertain others. Being funny in the convention will highly depend on the character one has chosen. If you have chosen a funny character, one should act the part however choosing a serious character does not prevent someone from acting funny when at the convention. This because one should try to find  entertainment no matter what character they have chosen.

 

Keep the fur suit safe

The fur suit should be kept safe at all time. It is not necessary to get rough with
the suit. It is important to note that fur suits are expensive to acquire hence
the reason they should be kept always safe. Tails and jaws should at all times
be kept intact to avoid any damages since fixing can be quite expensive. It is
also not good to damage something when given for it is a show of disrespect as well as lack of appreciation to those who have offered the fur suit.

Furry facts

References

https://aminoapps.com/c/furry-amino/page/blog/convention-etiquette/WJkg_EbliXukEvDnQlxBkVvXB31Dm0W2vaK

https://www.adisc.org/forum/threads/45926/.

10 Reasons Cosplay Trumps Melancholy!

Cosplay is a combination of two words costume and play. This is an art of dressing up in your favorite superhero or anime character.  Cosplay has become very popular with conventions and communities set up almost everywhere. There are reasons behind every costume which makes it more interesting.

To some it’s a hobby while to others it’s simply a way of expressing themselves and getting away from their normal life even if it’s for a day.  With so many young adults becoming cosplayers every day, you can’t help but wonder why they are doing it and how it helps them. After interactions and a lot of research I compiled 10 reasons it helps.  After you read this you might change your mind about calling cosplayers nerds.

Acts as a stress reliever

Once you’re in a costume you are no longer yourself all you can think about is the character you inhabit. In most stories what costume players will tell you is that once you’re in the costume you forget about your worries and simply enjoy being someone you’re not.  “You’re playing dress up right, and you can be whoever you want to be for a day,” Jerry shared to me.  Jerry loves to make costumes especially superhero costumes. He personally loves Deadpool which is amazing since Deadpool is everyone’s favorite superhero movie.
When he is wearing Deadpool’s costume he tries to have as much fun as possible with friends or even by himself with no fear of being judged or questioned.

 

Offers An Escape for People Who Suffer from Social Anxiety and Shyness

There are communities and conventions set up for cosplayers. Most people who suffer from social anxiety tend to alienate themselves from social situations which makes it even hard to deal with their problem.  In conventions they meet people alike with similar hobbies and passion. Therefore they will keep meeting now and then and when they hint no one is judging or criticizing they realize it is far easier to interact than they thought.  Making friends becomes easy and all they can hope for is that they keep making more friends.
Once they show off their skill and talent in such a huge crowd, they feel completely different and way comfortable that they are no longer shy. Even if someone judges they are aware that they are not the ones being judged but the superhero character they are wearing.

 

A Boost of Confidence

One to three people in a group of ten are not aware of their talent. Finding something you love and are perfectly good at does boost your confidence. Costume-play is an art that hasn’t been recognized for a long time and with every stitch displays the confidence the artist has in him… or herself.
As they showcase their work to the work either during Halloween or in conventions their confidence grows and the appreciation is very satisfying.
A boost in self-esteem is well deserved especially by those who had little self confidence in their abilities.

 

A bonding experience with friends and family

There are a lot of families that are going through a tough time like a divorce or financial problems. Just in case the stress of everything that is happening is driving everyone apart try cosplay.  The good thing about cosplay is that there is no age limit. Whether you are fifty or sixteen there is a character that you adored growing up. You can make or buy (if you don’t know how to make one) costumes for the entire family with every one wearing their favorite superhero or anime character and make it fun and enjoyable.  At the same time you can invite friends to join in the fun and before you know it you have your own little community of cosplayers. Nothing makes memories better than costume play.

 

Cures Depression

Just like with social anxiety, Costume play has proven to cure depression. Due to the fact that most people suffer from depression even without knowing it, there are certain symptoms that indicate you’re going through depression like;
•Thinking about the same thing over and over again
•Poor appetite
•Suicide thoughts
•Social isolation
•Irritability
•Restlessness
•Weight shifts
•Mood swings
•insomnia
•Loss of interest or pleasure in activities

Once you have the above signs and symptoms then you are suffering from depression. Cosplay involves a group of people having fun with no judgment whatsoever.  No one expects you to act or look a certain ways. Things that matter to people do not apply to costume play which is amazing by the way. You can be the stupidest character and be praised for it.  Since social isolation is one of the signs of depression when one is convinced to try out cosplay and agrees to it, they find that it is so much fun and probably make it a hobby. A really fun hobby, and before they know it all suicide thoughts and bitterness disappears.

 

Expressing yourself

People express themselves through their costumes. When you can see how many people appreciate your hard work you feel contented and that is a motivation to keep doing more.  There are so many people in the industry that do the same thing. They meet and share each other’s creation which shows unity and love for the art.  Each cosplayer has a reason for choosing a certain character. Whether the character makes them feel superior, loyal, funny, happy or royal that is what they showcase to the world. If I’m dressed like wonder woman I want to feel superior and in control.  It is pretty amazing to see young adults being free and telling the world ou cannot be serious all the time it is great let lose once in a while’. Just stop and let your costume do the talking. Not literally though, we all know they can’t.

 

Freedom

When you look at cosplay you think freedom. The freedom to wear whatever you want at any given time is what costume play is about. People choose whatever costume they want. They play with it and do it their own way.
Unlike fashion you get to choose what to wear and no one will be like, “that’s outdated or that does not fit you right, it’s not cool” and such like comments.
You play your favorite character and have a whole lot of fun doing it. Costume play gives everyone regardless of the age, size or gender comfortable and appreciated. Once you’re in a costume there is no turning back and no one can tell you otherwise. In a superhero movie you are a new different human being or alien in any case but you’re free from critics and judgment and that’s all you need.

 

Self-acceptance

There are so many people in the world who are not comfortable in their own skin. Appreciating how they were created is not something they do. Cosplay has been very welcoming to every single person in the world.  As I said earlier there are no critics but fun. Most people play dress up to feel more comfortable in their own skin.  When they feel accepted that leads them to accepting themselves for who they are and anyway the best version of yourself is you so there is no one in the world who can be you. You are the only you. That is exactly what costume play does for you.

 

Creativity and great possibilities.

Cosplay is a world of creativity and great possibilities. You can create your own superhero and before you know it your famous. Expressing your great idea to the world can lead to great achievements. There are a lot of people in the film industry that appreciate superheros and villains. Fiction is very rewarding and taking costume play as a career is something to consider.In this time and age there are a few people who care about careers our parents kept telling us that we should do in college like engineering and accounting. I mean we can’t all be engineers.The things that no one thought could be careers are the ones controlling the world like fashion, modeling and acting. You can trust me when I tell you that costumes have made millionaires. There is a door for you to create your own characters or use the characters available to make your costumes to express yourself because that is a talent.

 

Happiness

Every one finds happiness once they play their favorite fiction character.
The joy that you get once someone in a convention runs to you with a really big smile on their face to ask you for a picture or the joy that you get from just having fun with your friends and family.  Happiness is something that we all seek and it doesn’t matter how you achieve true happiness just as long as you find it. There are people who do cosplay since it’s their passion. They enjoy it and love it. There are those nerds who love to hide behind the costume. But you know what it doesn’t matter as long as they are happy at that particular time it’s worth it.

 

Cosplay Convention

Do not be afraid to express yourself. This being the only life that you have you should explore the world and be adventurous. There is nothing more satisfying than living a life that is stress free.  Be someone else for a day and see how that feels.  There are no boundaries, be a superhero or a furry, whatever is your fantasy!!!

Prostate Massagers for Beginners

The world of sex toys is truly one of the most fascinating things out there. And, if you think that sex toys are only an option for females, you’d be completely wrong. The male sex toy industry is also booming, and today we’re going to discuss something called a Prostate Massager. So, let’s get into everything a newbie would want to know about Prostate Massagers.

What is the Prostate?

The prostate is a walnut-shaped organ located inside the male anus. That’s right, it’s not a typo, it’s located in the male anus.  It’s located almost three inches inside, between the bladder and the penis. The sperm that men ejaculate passes through the prostate. But, the real information you need to know is that massaging the prostate can give you an orgasm more intense than what you’d get by stimulating the penis. That’s the big draw card of prostate play, better orgasams!  The prostate is also called the male P-Spot and if you’re a kinky fella that’s into anal play, prostate massagers are just what you’re looking for.

Is Using a Toy Necessary?

You might be wondering why you’ve never heard of massaging the prostate as a general activity. This is because many straight men have issues with sticking things up their butt.  Also, even though the finger can get the job done, using a prostate massager is much more comfortable and pleasurable. So, instead of dipping your finger in lube and reaching down there, the better option is a prostate massager.

Other than that, the second reason why Prostate Massagers are necessary is because they are specifically shaped to touch the prostate in the right way. That’s what sets these massagers apart from butt plugs. They look weird if you’ve never seen one before, but they know how to hit the right spots. If you tried to stimulate the prostate with a standard dildo or butt plug, it just doesn’t work as well.

How Can You Use a Prostate Massager?

The first step is to lubricate the massager. The type of lube mostly depends on the material of your massager. Most people prefer an anal-based water lubricant since it works well with silicone (common material used to make prostate massagers) and keeps your toy in a durable condition for a longer period of time.

The best position to use a prostate massager would be to lie down on your back and prop up your feet vertically. Another position is to lay on the side and tuck your feet into your stomach. These are just some positions that most men like. You can of course experiment on your own to see what feels most comfortable for you.

The next step is inserting the toy. If you’re new to anal play, we suggest going as slow as possible and buying a thin prostate massager. The toy might feel a bit overwhelming if you pop it right in, so just insert it gently. Once the toy is in there, start massaging it in a rubbing motion. Try to remember which areas feel nice and how much pressure you need to get going. This stuff is purely up to your liking, so there’s not much we can tell you to do here. If you need somewhere to start, just gently use the massager without putting too much external pressure onto it. You could also slowly increase the pressure as you get closer to climax.

There’s another way of using a prostate massager, but it requires way more expertise in the field. It’s sort of a hands on approach and once you master the technique, you could get an orgasm purely from clenching and releasing the muscles and move around to stimulate the prostate.

What I strongly recommend!

My recommendation is to purchase a vibrating prostate massager.  They’re specifically designed to hit the right spot for you without you having to do a great deal.  They’re absolutely the best option for beginners and even guys with lots of experience.  They’re more expensive but over the lifetime of the product the extra cost is tiny in comparison to the pleasure you’ll get.  You can check out my favorite prostate massagers here.

Aneros massager

Safety Precautions

Using a prostate massager might seem easy but it does have its fare share of risks as well. Here’s a few safety precautions you should know about using prostate massagers.

  • The toy should always have a handle or a base that prevents it from going completely inside. Prostate Massagers are small and losing them in your anus might seem funny, but it possible; and extremely dangerous.
  • Remember, Lube is your best friend. You need to use plenty of lube to ensure that there is no pain or discomfort after the anal session.
  • Prostate orgasms are a marathon, not a sprint; don’t rush too much.
  • If you have some sort of anal condition, then you should never use a prostate massager. You could be putting yourself at a risk of a serious medical problem.

Once A Year Clearance Sale – Up To 80% Off Regular Pricing

Be quick – with hundreds or products already discounted and more being added each day it is the once a year Adultsmart Clearance Sale.  Sale ends January 31 or until stocks last.   Already we have received a massive influx of orders so do not delay as we cannot guarantee products will be available even if you save them to your shopping cart.

The January clearance sale is on once again – Get vibrators from $4AUD shipped anywhere in the world CHEAP.  Novelties, sex toys and more up to 80% off our already cheap regular retail pricing.   When you view our product from the category page you will see the regular retail price but open up the product page and be amazed at the discounted price we are offering.  Nothing less than 50% off and up to 80% off.

We need to move the stock quick to make room for our new inventory and so you can take this advantage to improve your sex life cheaply.  But a toy for the wife or have a new intimate pleasuring option next time you need to do some solo play.  Whether you are in a relationship or not it is the perfect opportunity for you to stock up your sex toy cabinet cheaply.

If you are unsure of what to purchase this is the perfect opportunity to try multiple adult toy options without harming the bank balance – all products still come with their manufacturer warranties and guaranties.  Buy one for your friend and get in the very good books.

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