How to make masturbation even better

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Let’s not even try to pretend that we aren’t all sitting at home and masturbating our quarantine loneliness away. Admittedly, this is a great way to pass the time, especially if you’re single and alone at home right now, but what if you could make self-pleasure even better? Here we have collected a few ways on how to increase your pleasure through various means, from getting virtually realistic with VRporn to improving your techniques with online sex courses.

 

Try some new toys

 

When you masturbate, do you keep doing the same movements over and over because you know they work and you never bother to experiment? That’s a common theme, but you never know what you might like until you actually try it! 

 

Sex toys have been a blessing in the modern world, but there are so many to choose from that it can get a little overwhelming so we just stick to that one vibrator we’ve had for the last 10 years and never try anything new. 

 

If that’s the case, you’ve really been missing out! Maybe you’re the type of person who can only orgasm vaginally but never actually used a dildo, or what if you can feel 10x more if you combine anal play with your clitoral vibrator but you’ve never even thought of trying that? So why not browse for some new toys and have a little fun, it won’t hurt to try (unless you want it to, of course!). 

 

Get realistic with VR porn

 

Porn is a great way to get yourself in the mood for masturbation and now during lockdown, visits to porn websites have increased substantially! Now we’re sure you’ve seen it all before, but have you ever tried virtual reality porn

 

Yes, you do need a gadget in order to watch VR porn, but you can get really cheap ones like the Google Cardboard and trust us, it’s really worth the investment! Have you ever been on a virtual reality roller coaster ride? Even though you know you’re not actually moving, you still feel like you are and it really gives you an adrenaline rush because your brain can’t tell the difference. Same with VR porn, it will feel like you’re actually there and with the help of some sex toys, this is as close to real sex as it gets right now and it’s highly interactive. 

 

Explore your sexuality and improve your skills

 

You certainly don’t need a partner to experience sexual pleasure, so don’t hold back! Explore your own sexuality in any way you like, without fear or judgement. If you don’t know what you like and don’t like, then how is your partner supposed to know? Often we just expect the other person to do all the work, but it’s time to take your sexuality into your own hands (literally!). 

 

Not sure where to start? There are lots of amazing sex classes that can help you, whether online or in-person. Many people live a life disconnected from their sex organs. This disconnect results in numbness, which is one of the main reasons why people don’t feel pleasure and don’t feel satisfied with their sex life. The majority of people simply don’t know how to change their situation, and so they end up giving up on their pleasure altogether. By getting some guidance, you can reconnect with yourself as well as discover some new techniques that you may not have considered before. What you discover may also help you in your future relationships too, and not just in solo-play.

 

Change the mood

 

Why not treat yourself? Set aside 1-2 hours of self-pleasure time one evening and become present with yourself. Turn off your phone and just dedicate this time to self-pleasure. If you’ve never done this before, it can really be a game-changer. Dim the lights, light some candles, put on your favourite music and dive deep into slow and sensual pleasure. 

 

Not in a romantic mood? Then take out your black light, throw on some neon colours and do a sexy striptease for yourself in the mirror! Don’t forget to turn your camera on…

 

Or get some rope and tie yourself up to the bed. Why keep all the good stuff for when you’re having sex with your partner when you can do it all on your own too?

 

Involve other people

 

Masturbation doesn’t mean you have to be alone. If you have a partner, try involving them. You may both get a lot of pleasure either from participating in the action or just observing from a distance. 

 

Are you in a long-distance relationship? Try guiding each other over the phone or via video chat. Give them something to look forward to when you next see them!

Why You Shouldn’t Let Erectile Dysfunction Ruin Your Confidence

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If there is one thing that can make a man uneasy, it’s confronting a slump in performance.

 

No, not work performance, although that’s also difficult! I’m talking about performance in the bedroom.

 

If anything isn’t perfect about his performance, a guy will immediately panic, even if he hides it well. Performance anxiety can be a troubling time for a man, and he may become less confident as a result of even the slightest concerns in the bedroom.There are even guys who withhold sex from their partners because they think they aren’t good enough.

 

I’m here to tell you that this isn’t necessary!

 

Trust me, just because you’re not getting as hard as you want or lasting as long as you want, your woman (or women) does NOT want to bail on sex altogether.

 

And, she doesn’t care about these imperfections nearly as much as you think. It is so hard to convince guys of this, so you really need to listen in!

One Of The Biggest Mistakes Men Make That Sabotages Sexual Performance (And It’s Totally Avoidable)

One of the biggest mistakes men make is allowing struggles in the bedroom to consume their minds and start to change who they are. We’re all human, and we all go through phases and struggles.The key is not to allow ONE small aspect of a relationship to collapse the whole thing.

 

Think it over: are you making a bigger deal out of this than it is?

 

Something a lot of men don’t realize is that if a woman really likes you, she will accommodate you.

 

Plus, it is so easy to make a woman happy without even getting hard. You have fingers and tongue in your favor. And hopefully, you’ve got some toys on hand too.

This Is More Common Than You Probably Realize

Another thing most men don’t realize is that pretty much all guys struggle with performance. I’m even tempted to say every man does, at some point, have trouble getting or staying hard.

 

Does it ruin a relationship? No!

 

Some guys will go crazy, and that’s a significant turnoff to women. The reaction from men is usually worse than the actual “problem.”

 

And performance issues are totally a thing for women too, so don’t underestimate their ability to sympathize.A good partner will not be upset by this but will rather become creative with you to continue to have crazy sexy times in the bedroom.

 

So instead of drowning in despair like so many men are prone to do, take action!

3 Popular Methods to Get Your Boners & Libido Back to Full-Speed

There are so many things you can do to support your sexual vitality, from natural methods to pharmaceuticals. You may want to consider different male enhancement options.

 

Viagra is a popular option among men seeking a boost in performance.

 

A lot of men find success with this pharmaceutical option, but it’s not necessarily a guarantee. Medications work differently for different people, so be sure to talk with your doctor before making any decisions.

 

If you want to go the natural route, macapowder is a great option. Maca is a root found in Peru and has long been used to help balance hormones. It also has a host of other health benefits, so you can’t really go wrong with this one! You can put it in a smoothie every day, or even make pancakes with it.

 

You might also want to check out Dehydroepiandrosterone (DHEA), which mimics a natural steroid in your body. If this natural steroid is in decline, supplementing might be a great option for you.

Your Lifestyle Could Be Contributing to Performance Issues

Are you getting enough exercise? Sleeping or eating well?

 

You’ll find more often than not adopting healthier routines (regular exercise, a good night’s sleep, etc.) is a great solution to performance issues. It could even be as simple as adopting a sexual performance diet.

 

You should also touch base with your partner.

 

Sometimes if tensions build, they manifest in physical problems. Maybe there is a conversation you need to have. Or maybe you need to find a different partner.

 

It’s key to remember that trouble in the bedroom does not need to bring you down.Be smart and take the actions you can. Be communicative with your partner, and find creative ways to give each other pleasure if your penis just isn’t perking up.

 

This is no excuse to be lazy! A woman is often just as happy with other kinds of physical attention. Maybe you buy her a new toy?In time, you will get to know your body better and better.

 

Cover your bases. Revamp your lifestyle if you need to. Keep on that sexy, confident demeanor that women adore about you and enjoy the great variety of pleasures available in your life.

Is It Wrong To Use Penis Extenders?

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Absolutely not – is what I’d like to say but we all know how the world can be so judgemental. This is especially true among the male race. Your bros are quick to turn on you and call you names as soon as they find out you’ve been “cheating” on this area. But trust me. What you’re thinking of doing? They considered doing it too. They just never found the courage to act on it. So to answer your question: It’s not wrong to use penis extenders as long as you have the balls to do it (I’m definitely meaning this as a metaphor).

Anyway, self-improvement is something we all yearn for. We work towards becoming our best selves on a daily basis. This means improving on all aspects of our being – physical, mental, and hey, even sexual. Humans are sexual creatures, after all. To be viewed as someone desirable is definitely something we all work towards. It helps us view ourselves in a better light. Again, it’s not because we’re egotistical maniacs or narcissistic bastards. It’s because we’re human and humans are designed to be sexual creatures.

So instead of worrying about what people might say if they find out you’re using penis enhancement products, you should really look forward to the day when you can tell them off for not doing the same (read more). The means really is nothing compared to the end result. If they realize that what you’re doing is effective, I’m pretty sure that they’d hop on the bandwagon and do the same. They just need someone to show some initiative because, well, they don’t have the balls to go against status quo. They’re basically cowards who’d rather wait for someone else to initiate rather than do it first. Never mind them.

Now, I’m going on and on about how you should be using penis extenders but you may not even be clear as to what they really are. Well, let me briefly explain this revolutionary product.

What Are Penis Extenders?

Penis extenders are products that purport to improve sexual performance and satisfaction by increasing the size of a man’s penis. This usually leads to a perceived or actual enlargement or elongation of the male genitalia. While some users claim that it really does extend their man stick, others say that it simply helps them get their game on or become more “sex ready” when the time comes.

It looks like a belt of some sort with a mechanism that can be attached to the head of the male organ. It stretches the penis through “traction” and since the male genital part is practically pure muscle, stretching it out is very much possible. Men can wear the device whenever they’re at home relaxing or about to go to bed. Some can be worn overnight without the wearer experiencing discomfort. One study shows that the average length of penis extension users experienced after three months of use is 1.5 centimetres. Try telling that to your friends after you wag your front tail in front of them like a boss – or not. No, seriously. Don’t do this; it might creep them out.

Anyway, a penis extender is a non-invasive device. It helps you grow out your sex weapon naturally and comfortably with little to no known side effects. Compared to taking Viagra that only makes you feel manlier; a penis extender can actually improve your manhood. And the best part is that the effects don’t wear off after some time. They’re permanent so you don’t have to worry about your penis shrinking back to its original size anytime soon. Check out this study: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18990153.

Why Should You Be Using A Penis Extender

If you’re perfectly happy with your manly prowess as it is now, you don’t really have to use this penile enhancement device. No one is really forcing you to. However, if you feel like you definitely need some help in that area, then go on and try it. No shame in doing it whatsoever. You’ll be more than happy with the results; I just know it.

Here are some reasons why we think using a penile extender product is a good idea:

 

  1. Surprise The Missus

Let’s be real here. After a couple of years being married, the romance naturally dies down – but only if you let it. Although doing something to surprise your partner typically doesn’t work after marriage since you know each other all too well, I bet she’ll never see this surprise coming. After knowing you for so long, she should be familiar with every inch of you already. So what happens when you suddenly add some more inches? She’ll definitely be surprised, don’t you think? Well, I think that a hot and steamy night with your new and improved sex machine is a great present for your next anniversary.

  1. Attract A Mate

It is also possible that you’re not married yet. You may be young and looking to mingle with gorgeous women, hoping to score a night of fun and mayhem with them. In order to attract better and hotter mates, you have got to have something great to offer.

Manning up, or in this case “extending” your manhood before your next big date is definitely an idea you don’t want to pass up on. This way, your first night together will not be ridden by comments like “Oh, cute” and “You’re adorable.” Rather, you will be rained with hot praises that will make you want to do the deed over and over again. If you want to check out penis extender reviews before you buy one for yourself, then please go ahead.

  1. Beat Genetics

Some of us are genetically “un-gifted.” I know, the world is so unfair right? However, there’s really not much we can do if we keep on whining. So instead of standing down and just accepting your ill fate, why not fight back – aggressively? Penile extenders are cheap, safe, and effective. I don’t see why you shouldn’t try it. You’ve convinced yourself to go this far, why not go all the way? Show the world what modern science and willpower can do!

Hey babe, anal tonight?

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Anal is a really scary thought to some people. It’s seen as unnatural, dangerous, painful or weird to some, and that’s totally fine! But here’s my anal sex advice, don’t knock it till you try it! Once you’ve accomplished anal once or twice you’ll find yourself totally surrendered to it’s amazing feeling. Here are some tips and tricks to getting comfortable with this new move in your sex
arsenal.

Lube, lube, lube!

A lot of people forget that our butts aren’t naturally lubing like vaginas, so you can’t expect to slip on in right off the bat! You should take some time to research and buy some different anal formulated lubes, they tend to be thicker and longer lasting then regular water based lube which is a huge plus in the comfort list. Take it slow, really lube the area up well and then begin. Don’t
expect to be hardcore thrusting away (if at all), you need to give your partner plenty of time to get used to your size and adjust. If either of you feel like it isn’t gliding smoothly then add more lube. You can never use too much lube!

Warm that sucker up!

Make sure to take some time to get your partner relaxed and in the mood, it will make it much harder if one of you is still a bit tense! Start with a nice massage, some kissing and caressing and go from there. Try using some toys such as anal beads or plugs to get the area open and prepared for more. If your partner is more comfortable using fingers then go ahead with that, start at one and do your best to get comfortable with 3. If you feel like it’s not working,  take a deep breath, reevaluate, communicate and try again. Your partner will tell you when they’re ready.

Miss Independent

Sometimes it might ease your mind if you were to pre plan an anal date and spend some time alone at home getting yourself ready. If you’re an experienced analler you will already know about all these things, but to someone new this will be very helpful. Picture yourself at home with a nice glass of red, some background music, some luke warm water and a douche. Weird scene right? But it has a purpose, if you want total peace of mind in terms of cleanliness when doing anal then you’ll want to flush out your bowels an hour or two before hand. Usually you can get away with having done a number 2 not long before anal, but it’s all about knowing your body and what you’re comfortable with.

Next, would be to grab your anal lube and plug set and have a go at warming up that area yourself. It will help to start with the medium plug, and then the
largest plug. Once the largest plug is in leave it till your partner gets home so you’re still feeling comfortable and ready to go straight away.

B-Vibe training kit

The B Vibe anal kit is by far the most educational and revolutionary anal kit. It comes with a complete plug set (small, medium vibrating, large weighted size), anal training and sex guide, anal douche and lubricant launcher. It also has a cute little bag to store everything in. It’s your go to for anything anal. It’s also a great way to try their products. B-Vibe has a wide range of anal products including weighted plugs, vibrating plugs and beads, and their very popular
rimming plugs. The best part about the B-Vibe kit is the guide that comes with it. It’s an in depth, step by step guide on how to have conversations  surrounding anal, what to do and what not to do and simple tricks to make it more fun.

All in all, anal is fun. Getting the right products is only half of the work, communication is another. Your partner will love it and so will you! Like I said, don’t knock it till you try it and relax. It’s a great way to instantly bring a new spark to the relationship and spice things up. Just ensure you have the right products made from 100% silicone, lube and toy cleaner and you’re well on your way to anal paradise!

If you are still unsure or want some further tips and tricks why not speak with one of our consultants at the Adult Lifestyle Center closest to you!

8 Things to Discuss with Your Partner before Engaging in Strap-on Sex

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This probably isn’t your first time having sex with your partner. But it is your first time talking about strap-on sex. It’s great that you’re interested in exploring different sexual activities, but it’s also important to talk to your partner beforehand. Not everyone likes surprises, and when it comes to sex, those surprises won’t necessarily end well. Talking to your partner before trying out a new activity in the bedroom will give them time to process and decide if it’s something they’d like to do. Sitting down for a strapon chat is crucial, but what are you going to talk about? Here are eight topics to discuss with your partner before having strap-on sex.

 

Have they tried it before?

Unless you ask, you don’t know. Maybe your partner has already tried strap-on sex before. If so, ask them how they felt about it and their experience. Their past experience has a lot to do with how they feel about strap-on sex in general. If they had a negative experience, then they may not be up to try it again. Knowing their history with strap-on sex will give you a better idea of how to approach the subject.

 

Do they want to try strap-on sex?

Before you even think about anything else, you need to get their consent. Is your partner even interested in strap-on sex? Though you may want to give it a try, it doesn’t mean they share the same interests. Before ordering your strap-on kit, sit down with your partner, and see how they feel about this. Enthusiastic consent is essential. If they’re not excited to try it, then don’t push the subject further.

 

Their thoughts about it

You need to know how they honestly feel about trying it out. Your partner deserves a chance to express their feelings. Yes, you brought it up, which is courageous, but if this is an equal relationship, then they need to be able to speak their mind. Who knows how they feel; perhaps they’re curious to give it a try, but they’re scared. Or, they could be entirely on board with the idea.

 

What are their boundaries?

Remember, sex is different for everyone. Though you may be more open about strap-on sex, your partner may not share the same feelings. If they’ve agreed to give strap-on sex a try, then the next step is discussing the boundaries. Since they’ve never tried strap-on sex before, their boundaries may not be solidified. But, there may be some acts which are off-limits for them. Regardless, a safeword should be picked beforehand; giving both people an out if one of you reaches a discomfort.

 

Why you want to try it

There are many reasons why people want to try strap-on sex. Some are curious, others are interested in a role reversal, and others want to try a sexual taboo. It doesn’t matter why you want to explore strap-on sex, but you should explain your reason to your partner. It’s very easy for people to assume the reason their partner wants to try strap-on sex has something to do with their lack of sexual performance. Make sure your partner knows exactly why you want to give strap-on sex a try.

 

Talk about the fears involved

Up until now, strap-on sex was seen as a taboo. This is because there are a lot of myths surrounding it. For example, men who enjoy strap-on sex are gay, strap-on sex is really painful, if a woman likes it she’s secretly a lesbian, and so on. So, your partner may be curious to try strap-on sex, but these myths may be preventing them from trying it out. By talking about these fears and discussing them with your partner, you’ll put these fears to rest.

 

The importance of communication

Even though you’re excited about trying strap-on sex, you’re probably a little nervous as well. And this is completely normal when trying something new. However, the difference between a positive and negative experience is communication. If your partner is interested in giving it a try, then you two need to agree on communicating during the experience. If you’re not expressing what’s feeling good or bad, it can ruin future experiences.

 

Respect their boundaries

If your partner isn’t into strap-on sex, you need to respect their decision. Sometimes people just need space to think it over, in that case, give them the space they need. Strap-on sex could be overwhelming for them as well, try to start off with small sex toys such as butt plugs or your finger to let them test it out.

 

Strap-on sex can be a great sexual experience, but only if your partner is interested. This is why it’s crucial you sit down with your partner and talk about it. No one said the conversation was going to be an easy one. But regardless of the answer, you’ll be able to learn more about your partner, and vice versa.