Products to Help Anorgasmia

Anorgasmia is a medical sexual dysfunction which prevents orgasms in people. It is more commonly associated with women, and in particular menopausal women. With the average female achieving orgasm in around 15-20 minutes and half that for men – it can sometimes be difficult to distinguish between anorgasmia or partner dissatisfaction. Anorgasmia is generally separated into three categories:

  • Primary – Where an individual has never had an orgasm.
  • Secondary – Where an individual has had orgasms before but something (menopause, stress, anxiety, depression, surgery, hormonal imbalances, MS), has impacted on one’s ability to achieve orgasm.
  • Situational – Where an individual can only achieve orgasm under specific conditions or a certain type of stimulation.

There are adult products available in online sex shops which are aimed to support people who have anorgasmia. Some sex products which will help women who are effected by anorgasmia include Arousal Gel ON for Her, Body Wands and Kegel Balls.

Arousal Gel ON for Her: Arousal gels create stimulation on the clitoris. Studies have shown that clitoral stimulation is the most effective way to induce orgasm, although some women do respond well to G spot stimulation. The arousal Gel for Her is one of the most popular clitoral gels on the market. It is popular for several reasons:

  • It has one of the highest rates of effectiveness primarily because it uses entirely natural ingredients consisting of almond oil, cinnamon, rosemary oil and various other herbal extracts.
  • Just a small drop of this liquid is placed onto the clitoris and within minutes will create a warming tingling effect.
  • This effect increases blood flow and activates the various nerve endings within the genital region.
  • This stimulation can last up to 45 minutes (with a single drop) which is well and truly enough time to provide other forms of stimulation to hopefully bring you to an orgasmic bliss.
  • This product comes in three different intensity levels ranging from lite, original and ultra.
  • When the gel stimulates the clitoris with a hot sensation the body will naturally try to lubricate itself to.


Clitoral Arousal Gel
Best Arousal Gel: ON for Her


Body Wand: The body wand, smart wands and hitachi vibrators are one of the most powerful vibrators on the market. Direct clitoral stimulation with one of these powerful motors can quickly bring on incredibly intense and powerful orgasm. Since the clitoris may be numb to certain sensations, you might need to use a stronger sex toy to combat the effect. For some the vibrations can prove to be too much but there are other options available in this category. If the vibrator is to powerful, you can lower the setting or place a piece of cloth between your clitoris and the vibrator to make it softer.

Kegal Balls: Kegal balls are a device that strengthen, tone and tighten the pelvic floor muscles. By tightening and toning these muscles, you can improve blood flow, bladder control and achieve more powerful orgasms. By increasing blood flow (much like how the penis works) you’re activating the nerve endings which become more sensitive and aroused. The better the blood flow, the more nerves that are ‘switched on’. Females can also benefit from ‘vacuum devices’ such as vaginal pumps which are also known as pussy pumps and clitoral pumps – both of which increase blood flow and can successfully enhance sensitivity and feelings of pleasure. Often this method is prescribed by Doctors and counsellors as it is non-invasive and does not require the administration of medicines or herbs. This method is termed ‘clitoral rejuvenation’ with the use of vacuum devices.

As mentioned previously, these ideas can be considered individually or used as a combination. Remember that sex and pleasure should be a relaxed endeavor. If you’re stressed, or in a situation where you’re not comfortable then this could impact on your ability to orgasm and you need to talk to your partner about your feelings and work together on ways to overcome what you’re feeling. It could be as simple as improving the level of intimacy and desire, or incorporating some fun and exciting sex toys into the bedroom. The most important thing to remember and consider, is that it is unlikely to be a failing of sexual ability and there are more often than not underlying causes. It’s important not to place or even take blame on the partner – as this could lead to relationship issues. For further advice, visit one of your local Adult Lifestyle Centres where any of our staff will be happy to assist you or provide different recommendations based on your unique circumstances.


By Stephen Smith – Consultant Adult Lifestyle Centre

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