6 Steamy Sex Positions For Threesome Success

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If regular sex isn’t as bright as it was, the easiest way out is to invite one more partner to it. Despite their jealousy, most girls don’t mind sharing the bed with two lovers at the same time. Besides, according to statistics, half of them perceive other ladies to be used as sexual objects like a sex toy. That’s why it’s not that hard to persuade your girlfriend to spice up your sex life with a threesome.

Looking For A Third Partner

Usually, it’s the guys who come up with the idea to expand the number of sex partners in the bed. So the responsibility for finding the third party lies on them. And then the question arises – where to look for this partner? The easiest (and the dumbest) option is to ask one of your friends. This idea is dumb because friendship will most likely end with this experiment. Someone you barely know fits best in this case. This person will simply disappear from your life in the morning. But there will be a new problem – you and your partner will experience the psychological consequences of experiencing a threesome. Therefore, if the idea of having a threesome comes to your mind, it’s necessary to discuss it with your soul mate in detail. Of course, the third partner should suit both of you. And in no case should you try to solve relationships problems with the help of a threesome.

How To Make A Threesome Work

When it comes to a threesome, you need to keep a few basic rules in mind, and the first is foreplay. It should ease the tension between all partners, so the first stage is kissing and touching each other. It should last until there’s no shyness between you.

If sex is spontaneous, then you can skip this stage. If it’s FMF sex (two females and a male), you should pay attention to both partners equally; otherwise, one of the girls may become jealous. If there are two men for one woman, a competition in skills will take you nowhere. You need to please the partner equally, too. The second rule is protection. In the case of FMF threesome, you’re going to need a lot of protection. When switching between partners, you must always change the condom.

If the ladies are ready to experiment not only with you but with each other, everything gets simpler: while the girls make love to each other, you admire them and take part in action from time to time. But it’s unlikely that two girls in your bed will suddenly go bisexual. So you’ll have to work twice as hard. Starting a threesome, get ready for at least two acts, twenty minutes each.

Here’s one more thing: oral sex is an obligatory attribute of a threesome. Don’t be afraid to overdo it – the more you give, the more you get.

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The Best Threesome Sex Positions

Here are the best threesome positions for those, who have never tried sex with two partners before.

Classic Sex + 1

One of the simplest and most common positions for an FMF threesome is classic missionary sex with one girl lying next to the other. With your free hand, you caress the second partner. Kiss her breasts and neck. You must keep all your weight on your knees and supporting forearm.

One Is On Top And One Is Behind

Sit between the legs of a half-sitting girl A, and place the girl B on top of you in the traditional rider’s position. For such an exercise, you need to have strong thigh muscles and a healthy low back because controlling the movements of the partner B will be a bit difficult.

Oral Sex In A Rider’s Position

Perhaps, this position can be called “a camel”. Combining oral sex and classic sex is possible. Both girls sit on top of you. With your hands and hips, you try to control the amplitude of the second partner’s movements. Meanwhile, the first girl enjoys oral sex in your performance.

Doggy Style + 1

Girl A lies on her stomach and you’re behind. The second partner lies next to her so that you can reach her with your hand. Stimulation of the clitoris is the best choice in this case; the second partner may reach orgasm even faster than the first, as a clitoral orgasm is much easier to achieve.

Doggy Style And Two Partners

If you love the sight of a woman’s back, then a double doggy style is for you. Moving from girl to girl who are kneeling side by side, don’t forget to keep stimulating the one who is waiting for her turn. Caressing her buttocks, running your fingers along the intimate areas, you’ll keep her “interested” in the process. It’s better not to have sex with one partner for more than five or six minutes.

Petting And A Threesome

This position is the best if you need a pause to catch your breath. It also allows all three partners to get a bit closer. You, too, can relax a little, not forgetting to stimulate both girls with your fingers at the same time. There’s also a chance that your partners (or at least one of them) will suddenly come up with the idea of having oral sex with you. Although, if none of them wants, don’t ask them to do it: the girls may just be embarrassed to do this in front of each other.

Remember, what you do isn’t a perversion, and, according to surveys, 90% of men would gladly be in your place now.

The Do’s and Don’ts Of Group Sex

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Sexual fantasies involving multiple people are one of the most common fantasies for both men and women, it is also one of the reasons why people watch porn. I used to believe that only few people ever ventured into group sex territory and that it was a thing that happened behind closed doors at the end of a dark alley way guarded by vicious werewolves.  I am now a little older and wiser, my mind since expanding as to what is possible when it comes to participating in sexual experiences with multiple people all at the same time. I now realise it can occur in so many different ways and is extremely common. Just to paint a picture of the extent of group sex, here’s a few fun facts:

  • Cuckholding is defined as a man seeing his partner/wife having sex with another man. It is the second most commonly searched heterosexual internet porn categories worldwide.
  • An estimated 15 million Americans engaged in swinging in 2011 (That’s 4% of the population!!).
  • In Japan, Bukkake parties, where multiple men masturbate and ejaculate onto a woman, are held regularly, with establishments openly advertising these parties in very public places.

Through my experiences, I’ve realised that group sex can be challenging to negotiate either as a single person or when in a relationship. It is for this reason I am sharing some advice for group sex newbies and people looking to open to this wonderful and exciting field of possibilities.

Communication

If this is not present then challenging issues may arise. Communication needs to be open throughout any sexual experience and with more then two people involved, it is especially important that everyone involved feels comfortable communicating. If you can’t communicate with one partner, you’re going to struggle with more so I recommend having this down pat before experimenting with multiple people at once. There are some really important things to discuss prior to engaging in a group sexcapade that will mean a healthy and fulfilling experience.

  • Boundaries: What is not ok, what behaviours are you not willing to engage in, what are your limits? When this information is known, the people you are engaging with can feel more at ease knowing your limits and what is ok to do. Obviously, things can change throughout the experience and it is important that all people involved are empowered to speak up throughout.
  • Desires: Speaking your desires and voicing what turns you on can be a really juicy way of letting everyone involved know how best to pleasure you. It means that you get to receive exactly what turns you on

Sexual Health

Taking the right precautions to stay physically healthy is crucial and having more sexual partner’s means you’re at a greater risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections. In order to make sure that you’re safe when engaging in group sex, condoms are a must. This also means using a different condom for each partner. Getting tested for STI’s is important in order to keep everyone safe.

 

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Eliminate Expectations For It To Go A Certain Way

Like any sexual experience, trying to stick to a plan is a libido destroyer. Adult movies demonstrate threesomes, foursomes and moresomes in a way that is intended to entertain the viewer-it is not for educational purposes. So don’t be concerned if your experience doesn’t look the way you thought it might. Group sex, like any other sexual experience, can be messy and awkward at times. I mean, for a start, an extra set of limbs is guaranteed to make for some logistical concerns! I find that approaching group sex with a sense of playfulness without trying to get it “right” is a sure way of making it a memorable experience for all the right reasons.

Must Be An Authentic Mutual Desire Of All People Involved

No matter if it involves 3, 4 or 10 people, having all people on the same page is vital in order for the group experience to be enjoyable. If you are going along to fulfill your partners desires and they are not your own, issues are sure to arise. I can’t stress this enough, only partake if it is your own desire to do so!

Jealousy Is A Normal Emotion

Speaking to friends about polyamory and sex with multiple partners, I hear the same thing “I couldn’t do that, I would get too jealous.” Now maybe I am wrong here but I believe that no matter what kind of relationship you are in or what kind of experiences you partake in, jealousy is probably going to come up! It may be that you’re jealous because your boyfriend has an attractive work friend who he spends time with. Or it could be that you get jealous when you saw your girlfriend checking out the cute bartender. In fact you may experience either emotional jealousy or sexual jealousy, or maybe you’ll experience both at the same time. Often the stories we create to justify why we feel jealous are unfounded however it is a strong emotion that brings out very intense feelings which is why people avoid situations where it may be felt. My advice to you is to openly discuss these feelings and fears with your partner without projecting it on them or blaming them for your feelings. If facing is jealousy is completely out of the question then maybe group sex is not your cup of tea. However if you can see it for what it is-an emotion that will pass-and you’re prepared to possibly feel it then group sex may be the best thing that’s ever happened to you.

Have Fun!!

I think the main point to remember when participating in group sex is that it should be an overall fun, pleasurable and playful experience that allows you to connect with different people. I have spoken to many people who swear that opening their relationship was the best thing they did. I understand it is not for everyone but any shame surrounding a mutual desire to participate in group sex in the context of a relationship needs to be eradicated. Also any single people looking to explore with multiple people should be proud of their willingness to explore the possibilities of this awesome activity

Author: Stephanie Curtis- BA NursingSave

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