Becoming an OnlyFans Creator

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If you had of asked me two years ago if I’d be running an account where people pay $10 a month to see my body I would’ve laughed you into the next week. It’s not something I intended to go into being the young insecure and anxious girl that I was. But at this point I don’t think I’d be as empowered and confident as I am without it.

I started it after making a dumb decision to spend big money on lingerie and realising I needed to recoup some of the costs somehow… Well using the lingerie to make it back seemed as good a plan as any other. So I got to work and set up my onlyfans account, I had friends interested and word of mouth did a lot for my first month.

The good:

What I love most is the interaction between me and my fans, they’re the best hype team you could ask for, any ideas I put forward they’re always so fast to say “Hell yes!”, “I can’t wait to see what you do with this!” or my favourite recent “You’ve made my month with this!!”. It’s cool to have that little cheer squad even if you don’t love the content they usually will.   They’re also happy to just banter with you on your off days, I love it when my fans just pop in for a chat and ask how my days going or when they interact with my posts that are just a bit of fun for me.

Obviously the extra money does feel good to have whenever you decided to pull from your funds, the USD exchange rate just sweetens the deal that bit more. I really did not think I’d be making much money when I first started, I thought there was no possible way that people would pay money to see me but I was shocked when I made back the $700 lingerie purchase and then some within 2 weeks. It’s crazy to think, as someone who grew up with technology, that I had been doing this for free for the men out there this whole time when I could’ve been turning a pretty profit!

Being able to buy toys for yourself with no guilt because you know you’ll not only be able to use them for your own pleasure but you’ll definitely make the money back buy showing your fans the fun you have with the toys is amazing! I spent over $1k with no worries because I knew I could market all items towards each of my fans.

My favourite buys:

We-vibe Ditto: this vibrating plug isn’t just good for my enjoyment but being able to give my fans the control over the toy gives them extra incentive to spend big as they really are a part of the content I make tailored to them, as much as they want to see me having a good time they want to feel involved and have this whole thing personalised to them, which is why they choose to pay rather than just get free porn on the internet.

We-vibe Jive: this toy gives the same feeling of being involved as they can control this and really decide how the video goes!

Lingerie: there is nothing better than just a plain old sexy photo sometimes, as much as full nudity is amazing sometimes leaving a bit to the imagination for the boys really is what tips them over the edge into tipping to see you take it off.

Bondage equipment: the scandal line has some really solid pieces that are absolutely stunning to look at, their Breathable Ball Gag with Cuffs has this intricate red design on the outside with luxurious feeling soft material on the inside. They are also completely adjustable in all ways!

Maia Dongs: these suction based dildos are awesome for looking and feeling like the real thing (given that you don’t buy a bright purple one haha!), the ability to suction them anywhere and everywhere really does give you so many options on how to use them and how to market the content to your fans.

The bad:

I’d be lying if I said there were absolutely no downsides to working in this type of environment, it’s a great side hustle but can be downright exhausting.

There are days where I just don’t feel like my body is something to be posted or lusted over, I just don’t look in the mirror (or camera lens) and like what I see. But regardless of that you have fans that have paid to see you post, getting out of that funk and being able to still deliver can be extremely hard.

Not wanting to let people down on those days/weeks/months that your not feeling it is such a pressure to add on while you’re already feeling off and it does suck. At the end of the day you decide whether you feel like posting or not and fans will decide if it’s worth sticking it out to see you come back and start posting regularly like they love, it’s just part of the game.

Having to get over the idea of people you know finding you. As                 I said a lot of my original fanbase was people that I knew and that did make me nervous as some of these people had never seen me in that light before, but at the end of the day they wanted to pay and I wanted to make money, so I just put it to the back of my mind and saw them purely as customers and nothing more.

Dating, this is still super hard to get through. The amount of people who you will get along with as a person and enjoy the company of, that will completely abandon all romantic interest as soon as they find out you’re an online sex worker is crazy to me, but I totally understand because everyone has their own boundaries whether you agree with them or not. This is why I’m always very upfront and tend to bring it up quite early, just to give them the option of continuing things or not on their terms.

Tips:

If you’re considering going down this path think about if you can handle the bad, the possibility of content being leaked, of family or friends finding out, anything you could think of that could go wrong, because it may. I personally was never that fussed, if people find out and don’t accept how I make my money then that’s on them. But no everyone is like that, and you need to decide if you’re ready for that fall out.

Find your niche! With so many creators on OnlyFans now you really need to think of how you’re going to stand out, why should someone subscribe to you and not the next person? What makes you worth their $10+ per month? Would YOU subscribe to yourself?

Interact with your fans, that’s the main reason they’re on your account and not PornHub or some other site, they get to feel like they know you and have a connection. Help them with that fantasy!

Just be you, if you’re a giant goofball it’s so much easier to have fun with your content and enjoy making it if you’re allowing your personality to show through.   You’ll have the time of your life making your content and getting to know your subs, it can be such a fun job if you make it work for you!

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How the Anticipation of Sex is a Turn On

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The anticipation of sex is a turn on and can provide us with several lifestyle advantages including:

  • Higher levels of imagination and confidence.
  • Inspires people to try new sex positions and sexual experiences.
  • Helps people to understand their sexuality.
  • Provides people with unique fetishes, kinks or interests that help to shape their personal identity.
  • Encourages people with inspiration to seek solutions for personal sexual lifestyle issues through the imagination.
  • Encourages people to find new ways to experience higher levels of sexual pleasure.
  • Inspires people to explore outside of their sexual boundaries with adult lifestyle products.
  • Inspires people to find new ways to help fulfill their sexual companion’s needs.
  • Inspires re-connection within long term relationships.
  • Encourages people in relationships to fulfill each others sexual interests whilst developing stronger levels of trust.
  • Allows people to look forward to new sexual experiences on a daily basis.
  • Provides people with the opportunity to help develop stronger orgasms through mental and physical arousal.
  • Increases the body’s natural arousal and lubrication levels for effortless penetrative sex.
  • Introduces our sexual partner to new sensations, feelings and experiences that they otherwise may have not.

The anticipation of sex can help create a consistent sexual lifestyle. Just the thought of sex can be a strong turn on for most people. To help build the anticipation of sex, you can begin by thinking of a type of scenario you may want to find yourself in sexually. There are countless scenarios to choose from. Below is a list of a couple of scenarios you may wish to consider.

  • You are the captain of a pirate ship and one of your sailors is behaving badly.
  • You are lying back in a hammock talking to your crush underneath the night sky.
  • You are at home and brush pass your lover. You sneak a glimpse of their lingerie or hot body.
  • You are sitting in the back row of Event Cinemas with your lover and no one else is there.
  • You are a nurse and your patient has a medical problem that can only be fixed by undressing them.
  • You are a cop and you pull over someone who has been speeding but you want something more.

 

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Photo: Couple Kissing

 

The scenario does not have to be outrageously descriptive. It just needs to fit into your needs of what you would like to happen. To further develop your scenario, you can think about what you will need to have sex. You can make the scenario as arousing as possible. A great way to do this is by adding product’s to your fantasy like costumes or lingerie. To make thing’s even hotter you can try dirty talking.  Below are some effortless suggestions to help spice up your sexual lifestyle:

  • Do you have your heart set on a new deep throating experience? Maybe you need to keep some numbing deep throat spray nearby.
  • Would you like to put on a show? Try using a clear men’s masturbator or a sex toy during foreplay. If you would like you can allow your sexual companion complete control of the product.
  • Would you like to take control of a situation and provide them with a wild sexual encounter? Invest in a pair of handcuffs and a mask.
  • Would like to make your partner feel full? You can try some Viagra alongside a textured penis sleeve so you can feel the pleasure to or maybe a strap on dildo may take your fancy.
  • Would you like to give your partner a body to body massage? Begin in the shower and lather your bodies up to get clean. Arouse each other by using massage oil.
  • Would you like to feel sexy? Wear some lingerie that will make you feel wonderful.
  • Maybe they have been really naughty? Invest in a leather crop and a leather collar to give them the punishment they deserve.

All of these activities will help you to explore sex in new and exciting ways. The exploration of sex can be seen within the movie “Fifty Shades Darker”. It is one of the very first movies about BDSM to be praised by the media and the public. It has allowed people the ability to explore their kinks, desires and fetishes on a personal level. It has made the world of BDSM a normal type of sexual fetish that can excite any relationship.

To make the anticipation of sex as strong as possible make sure you take your partner out beforehand. If you find you and your partner are always busy, set a side personal time that you both agree to. Michael Castleman the author of Great Sex: A Man’s Guide to the Secret Principles of Total-Body Sex stated:

“Make a date for sex, don’t let it be an afterthought. Do whatever you like to do beforehand, go to a movie or dinner, take a walk, have a glass of wine by candlelight, whatever the couple likes to do as a couple. But set aside that time.”

Above all else, to help make things go as easily as possible ensure you have some lubrication nearby!

 

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