Today, was my first time seeing the King Cock Strap on Harness and because I reviewed the king cock ejaculating dildo when it came instore I feel like I definitely need to review the harness! Now, I’m going to be completely honest, as tempting as it is and as awesome as it looks I won’t be purchasing it for myself for two reasons. Firstly, the King Cock Strap on Harness isn’t my style as it’s a thong strap harness and I’d prefer one that covers my bum. Secondly, as I told you in my Fun Factory Harness review I’m personally not a huge fan of realistic dildos, I want my dildo to look the least penis like as possible! I won’t lie though, my first thought was, if I ever wanted to experience a penis this would be absolutely perfect as it’s soft, has realistic veins and the head is spot on. I’ll probably end up giving the King Cock Strap on Harness a shot in the near future and if I do, you’ll definitely get to read about my experience.
The King Cock Strap on Harness on caters for all, from the beginners up to the more experienced dildo users. In store at the moment we have three sizes to choose from, 6″, 7″ and 8″ but it comes with three different sized O rings (30, 40, 50mm) that you can change around easily with your velcro straps and that allows you to change around the dongs/vibratos you’d like to fit in your harness which I find amazing, this saves you money! You won’t have to buy a new harness for a long time, especially if you’re a beginner you’ll be able to use this harness throughout the whole process of you up-sizing your dongs.
Sex Toy: King Cock Strap on Harness
The King Cock Strap on Harness is fully adjustable, it will fit someone up to 52 inches in the waist so if you have a partner who isn’t exactly the same size as you there’s no need to worry about buying a harness each because this one should fit most sizes. Once you’ve adjusted it with your velcro straps and it fits you comfortably you shouldn’t have any problems with the harness moving around and making your dildo flop around like a fish out of water, it’s a sturdy harness and will stay attached in any position you decide to go in.
You have two options with your King Cock Strap on Harness, you can either use it as a strap-on or you can use your dildo for single use as it has a suction cup at the bottom that should stick to any flat surface and it is waterproof so you do have the option of using it in the shower! (please be careful! Sure it’s all fun and games till someone slips and ends up with a dildo in their eye!)
I absolutely love Pipedream as they always include a small bottle of lubricant and toy cleaner with their sex toys. I always recommend toy cleaner when I sell any toy and a lot of my customers turn around and say “Gosh, I didn’t even think about that” so I really like that they promote and remind their buyers that toy cleaner exists and should be used every time before and after you use a toy, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU’RE SHARING!! But what they’ve included won’t last more than two uses so I definitely recommend purchasing a bottle of water-based lubricant and toy cleaner with it because lets be honest we all get a little bit lazy sometimes and if you don’t walk into an adult shop on a regular basis you probably won’t want to drive down and grab another one once you’ve run out, it also saves you a bit of money on petrol if you just grab it all at the same time. I recommend wet stuff as there’s plenty of different water-based lubricants to choose from and their toy cleaner allows you to leave it on the toy when you’re not using it.
All in all, I think it looks like a fantastic harness and would definitely be worth giving a try!
Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!
Some people who come visit Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre’s may have never used sex toys and some people have used many sex toys before. Though, when someone comes in asking for a dildo, I find that no matter their skill level, they normally have a box of criteria that they would like to be met. In this article, I would like to talk about the two top dildos that I would show to these types of people. My first choice dildo is an all-rounder sex toy that I believe anyone who would like the natural feel of a penis may absolutely love called “Pipedream Real Feel Deluxe“. My second choice dildo, I feel is a good product for someone with a tighter budget, it is called “Best Performer Realistic Penis”. It is more for someone who would like to experiment with a dildo and may like to see what using a dildo is all about.
The Real Feel Deluxe By PipeDream 7″
My first choice dildo is the Real Feel Deluxe by PipeDream 7″ that is 18 cm long. This dildo is of a much higher quality than most dildo’s I have looked at. I had a look at some dildo’s with our customer’s and I found that this one tick’s most people’s dildo criteria list.
The texture of the dildo has lifelike ridges and veining for subtle pleasure. The ridges or veining is not too much, nor too little, it really is just enough for the right amount of pleasure and doesn’t look overly stimulating.
Material
The material that it is made out of is called Fanta Flesh. Fanta Flesh is a material made to mimic the feeling of soft skin which is only made by the PipeDream company. This dildo has a touch of hardness on the inside due to the vibration technology, when you press on it it is mildly soft and when you lightly touch it you can feel the softness of the Fanta Flesh. The balls are extra soft compared to the shaft, so if you were to ride it, you would safely know where to stop moving. All these feelings add up for it to feel like a real penis.
Suction Cup
The dildo has wall banging, suction cup technology which is good for quite rough sex. If you move the dildo from side to side, it will not want to budge. The suction cup isn’t obtrusive so when you are masturbating or riding it, you won’t notice it there as you’ll be distracted by the sexual experience. Since there is a suction cup, you can use this dildo in the shower, on the floor, or even on a wall.
Harness Compatible
The dildo is recommended to be used with a fetish fantasy range of harnesses which is a product of the PipeDream company.
Penetration Type
The dildo can be used for anal sex or vaginal sex. Both males and females can use it.
Vibration
The motor delivers lovely medium feeling vibrations that are surprisingly not very noisy.
Waterproof
Twist the base until you feel slight friction. It should be closed hard enough to ensure the batteries remain waterproof inside the dildo. When you are storing the vibrator, remove the batteries to ensure they don’t leak inside the sex toy.
Power Supply
The dildo requires 2 x double A batteries to run.
Colour
You can get a vanilla toned or a chocolate-toned dildo.
Price Vs Quality
The dildo has a great price point. The dildo is a higher quality dildo than most regular dildos and is only around $20 more when compared to them. It is not super expensive but it is in an affordable price bracket.
Best Performer Realistic Penis
My second choice is the Best Performer Realistic Penis with the catchphrase:
“Where the fun begins”
It is a waterproof, multi-speed, 6″ long dong with strong veins. The dildo is not too soft and not too hard just like a real penis. There is a piece of material you can feel on the packaging, that you can push and touch to see if you like the material before you even open up the package. It needs two AAA batteries to run. The Best Performer Realistic Penis comes with a vibrator instruction manual. There is one mode that vibrates at a very gentle speed. It is a perfect sex toy for g-spot stimulation.
Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!
Anal sex is often perceived as the ultimate type of gay love making, it’s even more important when you need Tips for First Time GayAnal Sex. Everyone has to start from somewhere, but it’s the best if you have the knowledge before you progress into anal sex, so you know what is going to happen! Anal sex surprise can hurt at first, it will be a surprise to your organism, and might well be termed as something uncomfortable at the beginning. If you want to try it though, here are some tips on how to begin and how to experience it. You might think that if you’re not doing it correctly, or think negative thoughts like
“you are not normal”.
Even though many gay men have loving relationships and excellent sex life’s even if they don’t engage in anal sex. You will find yourself asking the questions:
“Is gay anal sex really for me?”
It is important for you to spend time on discovering your anus before having sex with others. Have a relaxing bath and stay naked. Go to your bedroom and put some lube on a finger, work it around the outer side of your anus, while relaxing, and start pushing it in. Sometimes watching a porn video, is the perfectsex education.
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The sensations at the start might already be quite intense but relax. If you want, use your other hand to masturbate and remind yourself some feelings which you’re familiar. Allow yourself to enjoy all the feelings. Relax and feel free to fantasize anything you want. Explore the new experience and get a sense of the muscle inside you. Make sure your fingernails are trimmed if you are using fingers and that all anal sex toys don’t have any sharp edges on them especially when using metal butt plugs or dildos. Then, when you’re comfortable, try inserting a second finger. Rest assured that your anus can certainly receive 2 fingers. When you withdraw your fingers you might feel uncomfortable and that you want to go to the toilet. This is normal as it is just a reflex reaction.
You might also want to experiment with something more life size. If so, use a proper dildo and not homemade products or a cucumber. You don’t want to scratch the thing membrane of your anus or have something nasty break off in there. When using the dildo, begin again with your fingers and use a lot of lube. Silicone based lubricants is the best for anal play as water based lubricants are absorbed into the body through the rectum so I advise not using them. As soon as you bring silicone anal toys into the equation you will have to stick with Superslyde as most silicone lubricant’s will deteriorate silicone toys due to chemical interaction.
Relaxation is key to anything anal, the fact that something going into an area that society says
“NO THIS IS WHERE THINGS COME OUT OF”
can be a bit daunting but once you’re past that you will be fine and dandy, the stigma alone attached to anal play can be enough not to relax someone, but research and relaxation are the only things that will calm you down. You need to find a relaxed position and relax the muscles of your anus. Sitting with your ass to one side can work well. Try laying on your left side and bring your right knee up to your chest and keep your left leg straight it will make it a lot easier for a toy or penis or anything like that to slip into the anus. If you’re standing, make sure your legs remain relaxed. If they tense, the sphincter will tense too. Push it in slowly and let it slide.
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When you feel resistance, pause and relax. If you push your anus towards the dildo, as if you were pushing faces out, you might find you open more easily. Still, however gently you go, you can expect a discomfort. There might be a moment of pain. After this, the rest will probably slip in a lot more easily and everything will be better. The sensation from anal sex can feel intense, as if every part in your body and brain just started firing. Your instinct might be immediately to masturbate and cum in a way more exciting than you ever have before. Enjoy the experience of gay anal sex, it is a comforting and mature gay experience.
With anal toys I tend to lean towards more intermediate toys over beginners anal sex toys because unless they only pass stools like a rabbit they have the ability to easily take more than a small finger sized toy. Some people might disagree with my stance on going to intermediate rather than Beginner anal toys but my reasoning is solid, start with fingers, warm up to it then move onto bigger and better items. For instance, I started on the Rocks Off  “Naughty Boy” 7 Speed prostate stimulator. I thought this was the bees knees when beginning and now I’m already up to our UR3 Straps and Hoodlums!
If you are using a dildo, move the dildo slowly and give yourself time to get used to it. It might be that’s enough for the moment, or it might be that you want to experience a faster pace and for as long as it would take you to cum. If it’s the second you want, be careful. The dildo can go as fast and as hard as you make it and experience no pain of its own. In other words, a dildo does not feel the same as a penis. Also, the loose skin around the shaft of a penis will lessen the friction on the anus. The feelings may become intense and surely unique. You might start groaning, moaning and change facial faces. There comes a point when it is as if there is a barrier to cross. The feeling of being about to explode might make you stop. Or you can cross that barrier to find a further degree of elation.
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Finally, there is the point where you finish out. It is as if a plateau has been attained and no further level is possible. You might want to stay there a little while, as it were to admire the view, then pause and prepare for the final excitement, which is when you withdraw. It is possible you might make a mess. In order not to feel anxious about this, have a towel down or do it over a toilet or an easily cleaned surface. Keep in mind thought that, after the high, there is a downside. After using a dildo, just as after having sex, your anus might take time to close. You might need to spend time sitting on the toilet relaxing and calming down. Also, the mess you might make risks leading to feelings of shame and humiliation. Mentally, you might feel unfocused and ‘spaced’ for hours to follow.
Especially when you first have anal sex be prepared to make further discovery. On the one hand, if you’re the bottom, you are showing somethingintimateabout yourself. You are experiencing ecstatic sensations and making those noises and faces again with your partner watching you. And you have to want him to do that. On the other hand, you’ll be seeing someone else working his way towards orgasm differently from what you’ll have seen and shared when masturbating or giving and receiving head.
If you are going to have anal sex with a lover, there is a massive array or douches and enema kits available and you want to clean out as much fecal matter as you possibly can, not only does this make anal play feel a lot better it will clean you out and remove the fear of poo or anything like that coming out Be prepared for the feeling of passivity if you are having anal sex with a lover. If you resist being passive and wanting him to do it to you, perhaps thinking that makes you less of a man, then, no matter your preparation, you’ll be in for a bad time. But if you accept all the feelings involved in having gay anal sex, then it can be something unique.  Exploring each others body is a personal and very sensual thing and anal is fantastic when it comes to bringing that next level of intensity to a relationship, you will feel closer not only physically but emotionally. So choose the right toys, the right partner, the right time and anal will be a blast.
I hope you enjoyed this article series. Now you are ready to experience gay orgasms the way it’s meant to be.
About the author: Nick is a sales consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres
PJ Weir was employed at the Gay Exchange for over a decade and was a regular contributor to the blog. He is a gay activist and an advocate for same sex marriage. PJ is proud of his aboriginal descent and has remained in a long term relationship with his partner Darren.
PJ left work in late 2014 as his mother fell ill. He has moved to Queensland where he has become her full time carer.
Unfortunately the iconic Gay Exchange, Sydney’s first all gay adult store closed down in June of 2017 as the building was taken over by the State Transit Authority to build the new rail.