Adult Dating & Sex Apps

There are certain times in our life when all we seek is a little adventure. We want to explore the world, ourselves, and everything else life has to offer. And our ticket to doing just that lies in the golden years of our youth. When young we are able. When young we are brimming with opportunities. Youth allows us the chance to do more than we are capable of; to spread our wings and set ourselves free into the infinite sky of possibilities. I’m not saying that these things are deprived to us the moment we reach a more mature age but we have to understand that the temples our souls rest in are temporal. Our bodies age faster than our minds. We can be young at heart but dwindling in life energy at the same time. Sooner or later, you will see youth itself outrunning you, outsoaring you. Such is the reality of life that we must accept.

So, if there’s anything reckless you want to do, now is the time to do it – I kid you not (read more). This goes for dating as well. If you can’t find it in your heart to go down the conventional route, then go crazy. No one is stopping you. If you want to explore your sexuality and try to live more in the moment, then do it. Your body is your own agency. In this world where right and wrong is separated by but a fine line and where there seems to be an infinite number of rules about life, love, and relationships – make your own. Learn to tread your own path and find love in the most natural way you know how. And if that is in constantly searching, constantly giving unlimited number of people unlimited chances, then why not? Some people don’t always take the bottom-up approach; other times they brave life top-down.

To answer the question: Are adult dating and sex apps right for you? I believe only one person gets to decide that for you – and that’s you. Not your mother, father, sibling, or friend. The only person who can decide what’s good and what’s not is you. Why? In the end, you are the sole person responsible for your own actions. If you’re right, it’s your victory. If you’re wrong, it’s your responsibility. If that is the case, then why bother listening to what everybody else thinks? To be honest, thinking too much into this stuff will only get you a headache, not an answer. Either way, you will be praised or blamed for your own actions so might as well do everything that you truly think is worth the shot.

Anyway, adult dating isn’t all thick thorns and fiery danger. In fact, this life is so random that you will never know where your luck lies. If you don’t explore, then how on earth are you going to find it? Here I think are some of the perks of adult dating whether it be successful or not:

Meet New People

I think meeting new faces and personalities is already a perk all and by itself. It doesn’t matter if you meet good, bad, boring, sinister, crazy, neurotic, humble, or enigmatic types of people. Bottom line is that you are giving yourself the chance to get to know and learn from them. I think that kind of experience alone is enough to justify your decision to try online dating. By being with these people, you learn more about yourself. You explore sexuality; you explore what it means to “like” and “dislike” something. At the end of the day, you may find yourselves going back to square one, acting like complete strangers even after experiencing a connection with each other. Still, that encounter will definitely affect you in one way or another. Even if it’s something subtle or miniscule, it will undoubtedly propel your change into being a better, wiser person – this brings me to my second point.

Gain New Experiences That Will Make You Wiser

There is always beauty in making connections with other people. It may end badly- miserably even – but the time you spent with them and the exchanges you shared are without doubt, precious. That’s right. All experiences, be it good or bad, are precious. They shape who you are; they teach you to outgrow the “you” that existed yesterday and as a result, you grow better, stronger, and wiser by the day. You should embrace all sorts of experiences and allow it to shape the very fibers of your being. If you experience something good, let it breed positivity inside you. If you experience something bad, learn something from it. There are no such things as chance encounters. Every person that comes and goes in our life drop by for a reason. And it’s probably to help us become the versions of ourselves and not the other way around. Maybe adult dating websites like hookupwebsites holds that kind of experience for you.

Summon Courage To Gamble Your Heart Even In Uncertainty

Love will always be a gamble – no matter where you meet your partner. You can meet them at work, school, at a bar, in church or a mobile dating website. Still, the dangers will be the same. You will still be putting your heart at high stakes. You will risk it, gamble it; throw it into the world of uncertainty. Even so, you have to do it if you are to find the right person in a sea of wrongs. Adult dating may not be the most ideal training ground but it will definitely strengthen your heart. You will experience joy, sorrow, pleasure, disappointment, and all sorts of other emotions. This will definitely teach you to brave life fearlessly and to love limitlessly. A true heart that loves, after all, is not afraid of loving again even after experiencing the most horrid pain. It will do anything to seek love out; to feel that certain throb in the chest that is unlike any other.

Be young, stupid, curious and adventurous. This time of your life is never going to pass you twice. Make mistakes, break your heart, and get back up again. You don’t have all the time in the world.

You just have NOW.

The Future of Porn!

With the technology moving forward so is the way people are watching porn.

People’s taste and requirements for watching porn has definitely changed over the past decade. Let’s be realistic here. Watching porn on your laptop or PC or mobile phone can be extremely repetitive and boring. Plus, it can also be not that comfortable either.

Lately, a revolutionary way of watching porn has been taking over the market and that is Virtual Reality porn or simply known as VR porn.

Virtual Reality was initially developed for classroom learning, travel, tourism, online shopping and hardcore video game players who spend hours and hours playing their favorite games, however the technology has been quickly applied into porn and with excellent results. Ever since the first VR porn video came out, it drew a lot of attention from a lot of people and today all the major porn producers shoot content in VR with the top pornstars. Top talent like Riley Reid, Nicole Aniston, Aletta Ocean, Mia Malkova and others are often hired to perform in scenes for Virtual Reality. VR porn videos are all over the internet; some are high quality big budget production that will blow your mind, while others will make you wonder why they exist.

With VR Porn, you’re often right in the middle of the action. You aren’t watching it happen, you’re involved. This makes a huge difference in terms of enjoyment, and also means that you aren’t really a spectator. Immersion is a key element of VR and porn is absolutely no exception. It takes everything that you already enjoy about traditional forms of video pornography and adds an element to make it even better.

In many ways, VR porn is the next logical step when it comes to video content, and it’s expanding rapidly. In just two years we’ve seen the market absolutely explode with new content, and it doesn’t look like that will be slowing down anytime soon.

Watching VR porn requires consumers to own a VR headset and plenty of them are available to purchase online from a low price of $70 all the way up to $800. Be aware that the cheap ones such as Google CardBoard or Homido or even the Gear VR won’t do the job, as a matter of fact many strongly recommend avoiding them. The streaming quality is very low and they also tend to break down very fast and easily. The expensive headsets of $450+such as the HTC Vive, PSVR, Oculus Rift and others, are great and they are mostly designed for savvy and heavy video game players.

If you are looking for a great headset that won’t put a dent on your bank account and that is designed and produced strictly for porn, then the IRIS VR headset is the best option. This amazing headset is sold by PVRmall, it has a superior optical system with crystal clear resolution that doesn’t fall behind the leading VR headsets, it has a 3 hours battery life, it’s extremely light (1 pound) and it also has a beautiful all white design. The headset is priced at 280 AUD and people who purchase this headset, would also get free VR videos through their partner site PVR fun which is huge catalog of VR porn videos from the major VR porn studios. This is actually a big advantage considering the fact that VR porn subscription cost about $50 a month.

It’s good to know this because if you are thinking you can enjoy free VR videos on Pornhub, Xvideos or some other free site then you will have a big surprise. Those free sites don’t have the technology to back up Virtual Reality, therefore the quality of the movies is really bad and it won’t be enjoyable. is currently running a promotion where you can order your headset today, try it out and if you don’t feel satisfied you can always return it. Therefore,there’s nothing to lose.

In conclusion VR porn is expanding a lot these days and it’s in command on all porn searches on the internet. For people who never tried VR porn or want to keep up with today’s technology or want to simply try something new in porn, then the IRIS VR Headset will satisfy their needs. It provides such great entertainment that if you are a single guy or a single woman you will spend a lot of time using it. Plenty of VR videos are also shot with a woman point of view so it’s basically for both sexes. If you are married, that’s a different story, you need to hide the device from your husband or wife and if you get caught don’t blame this article for it, I warned you in advance.


You’ll be fine J

Tips For Erotic Dancing!

Starting a new journey is always daunting, especially an out of the ordinary journey such as venturing out into the world of exotic dancing! I wouldn’t call myself a veteran dancer but after being in the industry for a while I’ve picked up quite a few tips and tricks along the way that I want to share with anyone starting out!


As cliché as it sounds, confidence will be the best and biggest gun in your arsenal. Putting yourself out there is hard let’s face it. However a dancer’s main objective is to sell a fantasy, this means transforming the way you talk, act and think to suit the client you’re with. This is the best part, you get to be a completely different person!! Whatever character you choose should be confident, confidence can be sensed by everyone in the room, it’s in the way you walk, it’s behind the eyes, it is everything. Nervous about the way you look? Don’t be! Every single person has a type, so don’t let ‘no’ discourage or dishearten you. For every ten no’s there will be one yes, just keep going!! Say it with me: Confidence is KEY!!



Your stage name is important as it becomes your fantasy identity whilst you work. Pick something short and sweet that isn’t too cliché and is easy to remember! No one ever believes the first name you tell them and will always press you for your “real name”, have at least 3 different back-ups for “real” names to give whenever that question is asked. Once you pick a name stick with it and create your character around the name. You may be shy or quiet but your new persona isn’t, she’s confident and mysterious. Remember it’s all an act and you’re playing a character.



You DO NOT have to be a professional dancer to become an exotic dancer. I’d never really danced much before I started but you pick up moves and tricks as you go along and as you start to get more comfortable. Everyone is different, twerking is a great move but if you don’t have a large rear it shouldn’t be your go-to show stopper. Work with what you have, the other dancers will always help a rookie out with some simple easy to do moves.


repeat it in your head anytime you’re dancing if you ever think you’re moving too fast, just slow it down. Pole dancing studios often offer free trial classes, this is a great way to learn simple moves on the pole as well as how to actually hold the pole with proper grip etc.



Another key to success in the erotic dancing industry is what you wear.  You don’t have to spend an arm and a leg in order to buy some nice lingerie. Pick an outfit that emphasises your assets, most clubs will have a dress code that you’ll have to follow, whereas some clubs will be quite lenient with what you can wear. One piece and three-piece sets are often the norm. Pick a colour that makes you stand out and suits your skin tone. For instance, if you’re very pale colours such as red and black will make your skin look very bright and vibrant, whereas blues and whites go well with darker or tan skin!! Pick an outfit that looks good, but makes you feel even better! Remember you’re selling a fantasy so wear something to drop jaws, but make sure it is also easy to get off when you’re on all fours.



Probably one of the most important tips is what to bring in your bag:

  • More than one outfit: ALWAYS bring at least two outfits, dancing is a workout and you will sweat, bring more than one for that reason alone but it’s always good to stand out too, if the club is full of girls wearing black and you have a backup red costume, you’re going to stand out.
  • Makeup: You’re going to be sweating your makeup off throughout the night or losing your lipstick on straws/glasses so bring makeup to do touch-ups with.
  • Baby Wipes: In almost every dancer’s bag, also known as a strippers shower. Dancing is a workout and as you’re are putting your body near clients faces it’s always a good idea to stay fresh.
  • Shoes: Invest in a pair of Pleasers, easiest shoes to dance in and some of the most comfortable heels you will ever wear in your life. Normal heels slip on stage or aren’t used to the hard labour dancers put their shoes through, invest in a pair specifically designed for exotic dancers.
  • Dry Shampoo: Another stripper shower, just for your hair this time. Keep your hair dry and fresh as opposed to wet and sweaty, which will definitely happen after an 8-hour shift.
  • Padlock: Most clubs will have lockers for you to stash your bags in, some dancers keep their earnings or tips in their bags and like anywhere there isn’t always decent and honest people around, play it safe and lock everything up and don’t go flashing cash or expensive items.
  • A smile: A smile can be worth a million bucks, and in this industry that saying is true. The more you smile the more approachable you appear, the more money you make!!


These are just a few tips to take into consideration, everyone is different, and every club is different. Work out your vibe and find a club to match and groove away. Good Luck!!

HORROR Sex Stories!

It appears you guys enjoyed the Horror Sex Toy Stories a lot so here are some sex stories that you may also enjoy.  Have you ever been caught out or put yourself in a position that was uncomfortable, to say the least, whilst having or about to have sex. Yes, we all have experienced them and here are a few kinky ones to enjoy.


The drinks were flowing and the bullshit was working one night at the Cheers Bar on George St, Sydney.  An ebony princess and I were feeling an intimate connection and it was not long before she excused herself from her friends and we connected with a view of partying together.  Walking together back to my apartment we ventured down a deserted alley.  Her toned and muscular legs were accentuated by the short black skirt she wore.

Sitting proudly in the alley was a shiny new motorbike with soft leather seats and mirror finish handlebars.  The bike looked so sexy and so did she as I pushed her backwards onto the seat, and our lips engaged in sensual kissing.  The moment was too much for both of us as she spread her legs, I ripped off her panties as she fumbled with my fly – I was thankful I had decided to free ball it that night.

As she lay further back I entered her and we began to have passionate sex.  This was an awesome bit of exhibitionism and I could see that she was getting turned on by it as well.  Needless to say, we switched positions on this bike, backwards, forwards, sideways and because of the drinks and the situations this was no two-minute wonder job, we were at it for more than 20 minutes, sweating and panting like wild animals, until finally, I came.

We both got off the bike and started to try to make ourselves respectable – when I noticed that there was a car directly behind the bike with two male occupants in it.  The passenger then got out of the car – he was big and full of tatts, telling me that the bike was his and he had only purchased it a few days ago.  That initially he was going to stop us but that once we got the show going he was more than happy to watch it till the end, that he could think of no better way to christen his new motor-bike.

After shaking my hand, I left with my ebony princess, both of us slightly embarrassed but also giggling like kids at what had just occurred as we continued on to my apartment.


Another time I was flying overseas and asked a girl I was seeing if she wanted to travel with me.  It was a ten-day business trip and figured I could use the company so arranged to meet her at the airport.  The only stipulation of the trip I told her was that she had to wear a short skirt with no underwear on.  (Sure any male customs officers would enjoy that).

Me being quite a tall man I had no interest in joining the ‘mile high club’ by firstly trying to get two people to fit into a closet-sized toilet and second on most flights the toilets are disgusting.  I have never been able to understand why people would want to have sex in a stinky toilet on a plane.

So we boarded our plane and took off on our 11-hour flight.  We had managed to get the window to aisle seats with a spare one imbetween – so a row of three seats to ourselves.  This was a real bonus so was rewarded with both a bit of voyeurism as she lay with her head on a pillow against the aisle arm-rest with a blanket over her skirt laying across with me sitting in the window seat.  Lifting the blanket gave me a private show – and can I say it was pretty decent.

After a while, it was pretty difficult for me not ‘to help’ masturbating this stunning woman to climax – so being the gentleman I was, did so.  However, this caused a bit of a problem for me as I was now extremely horny with a steel pipe in my pants that needed relief.  So we managed to manoeuvre ourselves so that my back was against the rear of the three chairs and she lay in front of me so in effect I was spooning her.

The blanket was covering her skirt area and my jeans as I unzipped my fly and entered her.  Obviously, we could not get into the throes of passion with passengers sitting across the aisle on the right but the effect of being deep inside her – with the planes motions was sufficient to keep us both suitably aroused to keep going.  The turbulence motions intensified, and the effect was quite stunning until you guessed it -‘ding’ as the announcement came over, “Everybody to your seats and put your seat belts on.  We are going to experience extreme turbulence”.

As I managed to exit her with my rod still not spent the stewardess came to me, standing over me and in a stern voice said, ‘Sir, the seat belt light is on.  Please put your seat belt on.”

Without knowing what to do or say I simply said, ‘Sure can you please give us a bit of privacy for a minute or so and we will put our seat belts on.”

She looked bewildered and then the light came on as she realised what had been going on, shook her head and walked to the galley.

Strangely after the turbulence was over she came to us many times offering us drinks, being super friendly.  I think it may have bemused her and that was how I joined the mile high club…


HORROR Sex Toy Stories!

These days almost everyone above the age of 18 years either owns, has played with or had someone play with themselves with a sex toy.  Adult toys have become so much a part of individual and couples intimate play and are available easily online or at your local adult store.  Billions of people across the world have experience joyful bliss with the use of these sex aids…

But what about when it all goes wrong?


Both men and women alike love butt toys.  The puckering sphincter is hungry for something to tease and tantalize those delicious nerve endings.  However butt plugs generally are a missile shape with a flanged ending.  The flanged ending is important as it ensures that this amazing sex toy will not be swallowed up into your rectum.

Many novices and even experienced sex toy users have played with that erogenous zone with a bullet or small vibe which is all well and good.  However, caution should be exercised.  So what happens if my butt devours it?

There are really only two options.  The first is to leave it there until you have your next bowel movement.  This can be annoying especially if you have some long-life batteries and your little pocket rocket vibrates through the night.  Some laxatives may help the process along the way.

The second is an embarrassing go to the local ER.  These doctors have seen all kinds of things shoved up that exit hole from gerbils to mobile phones.  So as embarrassing as this may seem, those Emergency doctors have seen it all and sometimes more.


Sometimes after the heat of passion, cleaning up is the furthest thing from the mind of a couple.  Sex toy and lube left by the bedside or next to the lounge to be discovered by innocent eyes and hands with the question ‘What is this’?

It happened to me recently when my 9-year-old came up to me and said ‘I found this next to the couch.  What is it daddy?’  as he handed me a clit massager.  As I quickly took it from him and said, ‘Not sure mate that’s mummies’ and hastily handed it to his mother.

But what happens when an innocent grabs it and takes it to show and tell at school or delivers it in front of you with a roomful of guests.  When they discover that it vibrates and when put on the table will spin and wiggle, becoming their ‘new favourite toy’?


Ahhh, our friendly customs.  There are many times that a vibrator without travel lock has begun to vibrate when going through customs causing a reaction that the owner certainly does not desire.    Or going through a bag produces a 12-inch realistic dong.  But what about when the find is broadcast in front of customs as well as passengers.

Many years ago when in LA my ex-wife bought a case (12) of anal eaze bottles.  We had been experimenting with anal sex and there was not much available in Australia at that time for desensitizing the sphincter.  So being who she was rather than buying one bottle had to buy a case which was put in our luggage.  At that time customs x-rayed your bags – with you in attendance before it was allowed to enter onto the baggage carousel.

The moment I dreaded came as her bag came to the x-ray machine and stopped.  The one customs officer that was checking it turned into 2, then 3 then half a dozen as they asked, ‘Who does this bag belong to?” To which my then-wife replied, ‘Mine.’  By this stage the bag had been singled out, the box opened, all the officers were giggling and the first bottle lifted out.  As the customs officer showed this to my wife with the 40+ passengers behind us all having clear view he asked, ‘What is this maa’m?’  She replied without hesitation, ‘What does it look like – have you seen the size of him? ‘ (pointing at me).  If I had a hole to crawl into I would have and all eyes were on me as the offices said, ‘No problems maa’m’,  and packed the anal eaze back into her bag for our return trip to Sydney.


If you have children of any age, or you are a teenager with over anxious parents you know that there is no privacy. It does not matter if you are on the toilet or in your bedroom someone can walk in on you at any times.  Especially when there is a ‘we don’t have locked doors in this house’ rule.

So whether you are a male wanting to experience a bit of added sensation with a male masturbator,  a woman wanting a bit of relief with her vibrator or a couple adding a sex toy to their bedroom action it is good to have the ‘Please knock on the door if it is closed’ rule.  However, how many of us have been caught out mid-action?  And it is funny how those easy to use controls become oh so hard to handle when trying to switch off your sex toy.  Anyone above the age of 12 or 13 will know what that buzzing sound is?

Hope you enjoyed some of these horror sex stories.  There are so many more.