Review: King Cock Strap on Harness

King Cock Strap on Harness with Dildo

Today, was my first time seeing the King Cock Strap on Harness and because I reviewed the king cock ejaculating dildo when it came in store I feel like I definitely need to review the harness! Now, I’m going to be completely honest, as tempting as it is and as awesome as it looks I won’t be purchasing it for myself for two reasons. Firstly, the King Cock Strap on Harness isn’t my style as it’s a thong strap harness and I’d prefer one that covers my bum. Secondly, as I told you in my Fun Factory Harness review I’m personally not a huge fan of realistic dildos, I want my dildo to look the least penis like as possible! I won’t lie though, my first thought was, if I ever wanted to experience a penis this would be absolutely perfect as it’s soft, has realistic veins and the head is spot on. I’ll probably end up giving the King Cock Strap on Harness a shot in the near future and if I do, you’ll definitely get to read about my experience.

The King Cock Strap on Harness on caters for all, from the beginners up to the more experienced dildo users. In store at the moment we have three s to choose from, 6″, 7″ and 8″ but it comes with three different sized O rings (30, 40, 50mm) that you can change around easily with your velcro straps and that allows you to change around the dongs/vibratos you’d like to fit in your harness which I find amazing, this saves you money! You won’t have to buy a new harness for a long time, especially if you’re a beginner you’ll be able to use this harness throughout the whole process of you up-sizing your dongs.

 

King Cock Strap on Harness with Dildo
Sex Toy: King Cock Strap on Harness

 

The King Cock Strap on Harness is fully adjustable, it will fit someone up to 52 inches in the waist so if you have a partner who isn’t exactly the same size as you there’s no need to worry about buying a harness each because this one should fit most sizes. Once you’ve adjusted it with your velcro straps and it fits you comfortably you shouldn’t have any problems with the harness moving around and making your dildo flop around like a fish out of water, it’s a sturdy harness and will stay attached in any position you decide to go in.

You have two options with your King Cock Strap on Harness, you can either use it as a strap on or you can use your dildo for single use as it has a suction cup at the bottom that should stick to any flat surface and it is waterproof so you do have the option of using it in the shower! (please be careful! Sure it’s all fun and games till someone slips and ends up with a dildo in their eye!)

I absolutely love pipedream as they always include a small bottle of lubricant and toy cleaner with their sex toys. I always recommend toy cleaner when I sell any toy and a lot of my customers turn around and say “Gosh, I didn’t even think about that” so I really like that they promote and remind their buyers that toy cleaner exists and should be used every time before and after you use a toy, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU’RE SHARING!! But what they’ve included won’t last more than two uses so i definitely recommend purchasing a bottle of water based lubricant and toy cleaner with it because lets be honest we all get a little bit lazy sometimes and if you don’t walk into an adult shop on a regular basis you probably won’t want to drive down and grab another one  once you’ve run out, it also saves you a bit of money on petrol if you just grab it all at the same time. I recommend wet stuff as there’s plenty of different water based lubricants to choose from and their toy cleaner allows you to leave it on the toy when you’re not using it.

All in all I think it looks like a fantastic harness and would definitely be worth giving a try!

Enjoy and be safe my friends

Extra information

  • Latex free
  • Phthalate-free PVC dildo
  • Vinyl Harness
  • Made in the USA

By Elliana a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre

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Urethral Sounding For Women

Cock Plug

Until yesterday I had no idea that women used urethral sounds. Sounding, in case you don’t know, is the stimulation of the urethra with a probe. It is done medically to remove obstructions. The urethra is extremely sensitive and sounding is popular among  people seeking a different kind of erotic sensation.The object for men is usually to stimulate the prostate (an erogenous area for a lot of men). Prostate massage more often takes place from the other side,from within the anus and it is interesting to have the sensation from the other side.  What then, could a woman possibly get from this practice, being as she doesn’t have a prostate. As soon as I looked it up it made sense. As some of us  know, the clitoris is not just the small bump on the outside of our body, it is like an iceberg, most of it is under the surface, Therefore, sounding has the same possibilities for women as it does for men, stimulating erogenous zones from a different angle.

Women say that sounding while masturbating can produce  orgasms that are incredibly intense and seem to originate from a different part of the body. Letting someone else do it to you can be an incredible act of surrender and trust. that is why it is popular in the BDSM scene.

The female urethra is incredibly fragile and it is much shorter and tighter than a man’s so this is not the kind of play you can just try out with out using the correct tools for the purpose.  You have to use objects specifically designed for the purpose and you start off small. The goal for most is usually to stretch the urethra so that larger objects and different sensations can be felt.

 

Vagina Labelled Diagram
Diagram: Vagina Anatomy

 

Some people aim to insert a little finger so that the clitoris can be masturbated in unison. Some want to accommodate a Princess Albertina piercing. (the equivalent of the male Prince Albert) The Princess Albertina passes through the urethra and exits at the top of the vagina. Whatever the aim. start with the smallest probe you can. It should be completely smooth with a rounded end, the wall of the urethra is extremely fragile. Many sounds have small  ridges  to prevent over insertion. This is not so much of a problem for women as it is for men, as the female urethra gets very narrow when you have gone as far as you should and pressure can be felt as the bladder is approached. There isn’t any reason to ever try to  push further as there is no improved sensation and there  is a  chance you may end up puncturing the  bladder. It really isn’t worth the risk.

Absolutely  everything you use must be meticulously sterilized. Lots of lube is needed and it should only be medical grade, like surgilube. It is better still if you can get it in individual packets. If this isn’t possible always drip a little of the lube from the tube in case the top has been contaminated. It is so easy to get a urinary tract infection from unwanted bacteria up there. and infections can quickly spread to the kidneys which can end up being really serious. If you have stretched wide enough to accommodate a little finger then you need to file your nails smooth and clean clean and clean some more. Have anti bacterial sprays or wipes for the sounds during play.

Never stretch further than you are ready.  The urethral opening looks tiny but it is larger than you would think. It opens up more when aroused so to get the best results from sounding it is best to be near to orgasm but not quite. The chances of experiencing orgasm the first time are slim. the sensations take some getting used to, and stretching is a slow process. It might feel like you want to pee, it is best if you urinate before the start of play  and afterwards too if you can, not only to empty your bladder, but to flush out your urethra. It is actually good practice to urinate after any sex for the same reason.

Never put anything in your urethra that hasn’t been designed for the purpose. Always use a sound that is long enough not to get lost in there. If you like it, you can always get the Princess Albertina I mentioned, the piercing massages the many sensitive spots inside the urethra and can be very arousing if you gently tug the jewelry or rub your clitoris.

 

By Emily a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre

Sexual Response Cycle & Head-Space

Sexual activity is a physical expression. This might seem obvious but have you ever stopped and considered the different types of sexual activity that you have experienced throughout your life? This article aims to unpack some of these concepts in an attempt to understand desire, lust and the concept of people’s mind frames or their head space within sex. We will quickly discover in just a few sentences the complexity of sex and that’s even without acknowledging the diversity of sexuality. We often think of sex as just sex, but have we considered breaking it down into facets.

If we break down sex into facets we must look at the level of passion we approach sexual activity whether it’s from primal instinct, desire, lust or passion. The type of sexual activity whether it’s sex, intimacy or the importance of combining sex and intimacy together. Then we look at the length of sexual activity whether it’s a quick-y in a car or a long drawn out sensual love making. The love making session that may begin in the bathroom which progresses to the hallway and finishes in the bedroom. How did the sexual desire come about? Was it through being spontaneous or responsive to your environment and social cues.  There are gender differences in sexual activity including the activeness of the penis, the perceived passivity of the vagina or anus, masculinity with male sexuality, femininity with female sexuality and the gender division or contrast between these thoughts.

 

Maculine vs Feminine Sexual Standards
Photo: Masculine vs Feminine

 

Research once reinforced the clichéd notion that a man’s desire and sexual response was always in an active state. In comparison to the woman that had to be ‘in the mood’ to engage with a sexual response which was said to be in an inactive state. According to Esther Perel in her article “Men’s Sexual Desires vs Women” published in Psychologies, the research towards sexual response in women was seven times higher than studies conducted on the male sexual responses. The research reinforced the idea that men were always in the mood. This study placed men under greater pressure to perform in the bedroom.

Modern studies examined the mental state of both men and women in regards to sexual responses. They more accurately examined a male’s sexual desire, not in comparison, but with, the sexual desire of women. Male sexual performance is often tied into their relationship with their sense of masculinity. Previous ideologies would centre on the notion that an erection would indicate sexual readiness, sexual desire. When in fact, a males physical arousal is not the same as a sexual desire. This is supported by the idea that a man can obtain an erection whilst being raped or when a male sex worker who does not need sexual desire to maintain an erection or the natural occurring erections in young boys.

There is new research with a relatively new concept labelled “Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire” which is changing how we think about male and female sexuality. There is still a long way to go to dispelling notions regarding the relationship between spontaneous and responsive desire. Below is a table from The Dirty Normal that shows the difference between Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire.

 

Spontaneous Desire Responsive Desire
  • Sexual desire feels like it appears “spontaneously” out of the blue
  • Totally normal and healthy
  • Culturally sanctioned as the “expected” desire style
  • May include more frequent desire for sex .
  • May include desire in a wider range of contexts
  • May feel like “too much” desire, in a negative context
  • Sexual desire emerges only in an erotic context, after sexy things start happening.
  • Totally normal and healthy
  • Culturally medicalized as “low” desire.
  •  May include less frequent desire for sex – less than once a week in most contexts
  • May include more context-sensitive desire, preferring things to be “just right”
  • May feel like “no desire,” in a context that hits the brakes

 

There is still a long way to go to dispelling notions regarding the relationship between spontaneous and responsive desire with general practitioners prescribe medication for anyone with low desire. There has also been a push in the health market for a female version of Viagra. There are a multitude of companies offering pills, potions and remedies to increase sexual desire.

This leads to two questions: What is a sexual desire? Why is it considered to be so important? The idea heralded as ‘successful sexual activity’ is gaining physical arousal through penetrative sex that leads ultimately to an orgasm. This idea has little to no thought in regards to mental arousal through intimacy and trust which can lead to the highest level of emotional and passionate sex. Both forms of arousal can produce a physiological responses including an erection, swelling of the nipples, clitoris and vulva. For both sexes, there is an increase in heartbeat, blood pressure and rapid breathing. Does this indicate that sex is being in the moment though?

The BDSM scene has had an insight into this with the idea of that being in an “head space” is imperative to a scene. What being in a head space entails is an altered psychological state which is induced by adrenaline and endorphin spikes that often occur during a scene. Often the scene manifests into specific actions, feelings and thought processes which may or may not normally exist outside that scene. The practice often prepares the body for the activity that is occurring, or about to occur depending on the scene. The ‘head space’ is a crucial aspect to the enjoyment of a scene and immersing one’s self into the activity taking place. This is known as being “in the zone” or being in the “in the moment”. Surely such an ideology can transcend into sexual practices? If each individual has a different head space that they use when they experience sex, it can lead to them experiencing a different type of sex. If we consider it, this would explain the idea of emotional sex, passionate sex, lustful sex, primal sex and the variety of different activities that occur. It could also explain the idea of masturbatory regret. For example, masturbatory regret is the idea that an individual feels shame and embarrassment at the type of sexual stimulation that they were using in the quest to achieve sexual climax. In BDSM and fetishes head space is something that can occur with any of the individuals within a specific scene. Head space is often labelled by their role in the scene. For example, subspace, top space, dom space, pony space and puppy space.

Porn has disrupted the idea of being in a head space by demonstrating specific actions and verbal cues as ‘common’ pornographic behaviour. A person involved in a particular head space during sexual activity may unconsciously growl, moan, drool, provide aggressive physical stimulation such as slapping. These types of have become associated with standardised porn behaviour many people will force behaviour rather than being in an head-space thus never accomplishing a truly immersive experience into the sexual activity. Think of the common porn scenario which results in one of the partners being aggressively slapped in an effort to spur on and demonstrate sexual arousal. Whilst one person may never do this outside of sexual activity, during a heightened state of sexual arousal they may become inclined to physically manifest that desire in a primal-like expression.

 

By Stephen a consultant at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre

Review: Hot Octopuss Pulse II Duo

Pulse II Duo Couples Sex Toy

Pulse II Duo is a male pulsator sex toy made by the company Hot Octopuss. Hot Octopuss revolutionised how they wanted male sex toys to be used and perceived. There first vibrator was launched in September 2013 and was called the “Guybrator”. Hot Octopuss has won multiple Xbiz awards from 2014 to 2016 for the Guybrator. From making the Guybrator,  Hot Octopuss made the Pulse II Duo after  years of hard work to make a highly functional male sex toy which can be used for solo masturbation or during sex. Today, I will talk to you about the Hot Octopuss Pulse II Duo which is my personal favourite men’s sex toy.

Masturbation is not as easy as it seems, believe me. I am talking about male masturbation here. If you are having a solo session with your little boy, it is easier to make him happy. You should be knowing how to touch him, where to rub him; you have been living with him for years after all. Still, there may be times that you experience kind of erectile dysfunction or you may feel like you ran out of all tricky numbers you can do with your both hands to give him happy moments. On the other hand, a partner might be giving a companionship in your session, either a guy or gal, it can be a bit hard to handle though. Even sometimes you don’t know how to caress him properly, how would you expect that somebody else will do it satisfactorily? That’s why adult toys industry has manufactured lots of masturbators like Fleshlight, Tenga or some other pocket pussies. Each of them has different features; some are rotating around the shaft, some have air controller valve to suck you, some are vibrating etc. I really appreciate every design which have been made to fulfill a man’s desires.

I’ve met Pulse months ago. To be honest, it didn’t manage to get my attention, the idea was nice though. They wanted to produce a masturbator that you can even use hands-free by the help of its cuddling wings around penis; then, they added vibrations but different from usual methods, I’ll explain it to you later. Whilst vibrations were powerful enough, the material selection, and a few other things too, must have been thought again. So, they realised the need for improvement in their toy and worked hard on it. They launched the upgraded version of Pulse as Pulse II Solo and Duo at the same time and they used the slogan saying that “the World’s first Guybrator” while the previous Pulse had a slogan “with PulsePlate technology”.

Well, let’s start with pulse late technology. The most similar toy to Pulse in our shop is Cobra Libre by Fun Factory with its caressing body and powerful vibrations. However, it is known that high-amplitude oscillations instead of low-amplitude vibrations allow men to have powerful orgasms and Pulse applies this information to itself wisely since Hot Octopuss use medical knowledge in their toys. This is kind of similar to obtained feeling that you squeeze your shaft while rubbing on it or when you push the buttons on the masturbator if you use Tenga Flip hole. Preferably, you want your partner to contract their muscles while you are penetrating them, however, they cannot do it constantly, Pulse does.

Detailed Informed on Hot Octopuss Pulse
Diagram: Hot Octopuss Pulse
As you can see in the photo above, the toy itself fit into your palm easily. It is completely made of silicone material unlike the regular Pulse (The outer surface of the regular Pulse is made of ABS plastic while the inner surface is silicone) and controlled by the 3 buttons; 1 to turn the toy on/off on one side and other 2 is on the other side to increase/decrease the intensity of vibrations. Using the buttons is not the easiest thing in the world as they are a bit stiff to push, it is not a big deal though. On the other hand, the wings are flexible enough for easy insertion and also pretty firm to hold even the flaccid state of penis just in place. Speaking of wings and flaccid state, as I stated above that Hot Octopuss has benefited from medical knowledge, dealing with erectile dysfunction is another distinctive feature of Pulse 2 Duo. For further information you can visit the company’s website.
Hot Octopuss Pulse How To Use
Instructions: Hot Octopuss Pulse
The Pulse can be used like the way in the figure below in couple sessions as well. Most favourably, the wearer lies on his back and his partner can straddle his penis. Once you turn the toy on, it is easy to use as it has remote control which allows you to scroll through 3 different intensities of vibrations provided by the second motor near the outer surface. On the other hand, the inner motor provides you with 6 different patterns which are; constant vibrations, slow pulse, fast pulse, very fast pulse, three fast pulses and a long pulse and lastly light heartbeat pulse. As I told you before, the idea is brilliant, however I should say a few things about it. First of all, Pulse 2 is an upgraded version and they seem they fixed some bugs in the first generation of the toy which are weak vibrations on the outer surface and material selection of outer surface. However, putting the second motor in the toy makes it a bit heavier so the wings can be helpless to defy the gravity during missionary position. On the other hand, females who like pin-point clitoral stimulation may not enjoy the vibrations as they thought they would but the toy gives extended surface area stimulation which is perfect for labia and vulva.
Hot Octopuss Pulse Usage Instructions
Instructions: Hot Octopuss Pulse
When it comes to the other features of the toy; it is rechargeable (the remote control is battery operated) and waterproof which every toy has these features nowadays as we all know. It is easy to clean under running water with mild soap and then you can store it in its satin pouch. It is fully charged in 3 hours and gives you 1 hour play which is pretty efficient when you take into account its vibrations. Last but not least, the Pulse comes with 1 year of manufacturer’s warranty; warranty service is only applicable if the product was purchased from an authorised Hot Octopuss retailer; I can proudly say that Oh Zone Adult LifeStyle Centres in Sydney at four different locations which are Caringbah, Kogarah, Penrith and the city is one of those retailers.

By Goki a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Review: Aphrodisia Frisky Flex

Aphrodisia Frisky Flex Vibrator

The Frisky Flex Vibrator by Aphrodisia is a small, battery powered, multipurpose sex toy. Being a multipurpose sex toy, it is suitable to be used for both anal play and g-spot stimulation. It is value for money and allows for the possibility of sexual exploration. Anything inserted into the anus should be cleaned thoroughly before it is inserted into the vagina because bacteria from the anus can cause vaginal infections. Using the sex toy first in your vagina than using it on your anus is not as risky. A easy way to avoid cross contamination is to place a condom over the sex toy when used it in the butt than remove or change the condom if you are subsequently using it in the vagina. This goes for whether the sex toy is being used on multiple people or on just one. Cleanliness is not for aesthetic reasons.

Frisky Flex is good for both p-spot and g-spot play because the size and curve is designed so that it will hit their either spots, as both spots have similarity in where they are found. Manual stimulation of the spots is usually achieved by inserting one or more fingers and curving them towards the front of the body, stroking in a ‘come hither’ motion. This vibrator is roughly the same size and curved shape as those fingers. It also has a nice wide base, which is the most important feature in a butt toy, as this will prevent the toy from being ‘sucked up’ unexpectedly by the sphincter muscles, which is an experience you most definitely wish to avoid. Your local emergency room most certainly hopes you avoid it too. As the name suggests, this is not a rigid sex toy, there is definitely a flexibility to the shaft which is very appealing to a lot of people and means it can suit lots of different bodies. Frisky Flex also features a shaft which somewhat resembles anal beads and these bumps are particularly pleasurable when you are removing the sex toy during butt play.

Aphrodisia Frisky Flex Vibrator
Sex Toy: Aphrodisia Frisky Flex

Body safe silicone is what the toy is made from and this has a lovely velvety finish with minimum drag, such as is found in the high end vibrators. Keep in mind, most silicone lubrication should not be used with this toy as it can damage the material. Silicone likes to merge with silicone and this can result in a weirdly melted effect which will be permanent and rather ruin your lovely sex toy. If you normally use a silicone lubricant for butt play though don’t stress, you can still use Superslyde, or a quality water-based lubricant designed for anal like Pjur‘s Back Door Water Anal Glide.

This is a battery powered toy, it needs one AAA battery to operate, which is really quite decent as far as battery toys go. One pack of AAAs should last you a while with the Frisky Flex, it doesn’t need a lot of juice and yet is still powerful enough. AAAs are easy to find and inexpensive to purchase.  Below the wide base on the toy you will find there is a short stem with a cap, simply twist off the cap to insert the battery, then put the cap back on and you’re good to go. This toy has one operation button, which is located on the very bottom of the toy, on the cap that keeps the battery in. Push it once to turn the toy on, then subsequent pushes will take you through each of the seven functions boasted by the Frisky Flex. Additionally, this toy is waterproof and therefore suitable for bathroom play and for those who love watersports. The sexy kind, I mean. It’s also really portable, small and discreet and very quiet too, which makes it good to use in a variety of settings and easy to take on holidays.

All these great features and at an affordable price make this toy hard to walk past, it’s a great way too add a little fun to your sex life.The sex toy is available in either two cute and popular colours including pink and purple, both fairly bright and not wishy-washy colours.

 

By Jade a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres