Harness Dildos

A harness dildo is a sex toy designed to be used with a strap-on harness, allowing one partner to wear the dildo and penetrate the other. The dildo fits into the harness, which is secured around the wearer’s waist and thighs, providing hands-free control. Harness dildos can be used by people of any gender and are often used for penetrative sex, pegging, or role reversal. The harness keeps the dildo securely in place, making it easier for the wearer to engage in various sexual positions.

A dildo suitable for a harness typically has a flared base or suction cup that allows it to be securely fastened into the harness’s O-ring or attachment point. The flared base keeps the dildo in place during use, preventing it from slipping out of the harness. Some harness-compatible dildos are designed specifically for strap-on play and may come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and textures. Flexibility and a comfortable fit are also important, as they help make the dildo easy to use for both partners.

Harness dildos are commonly made from materials like silicone, TPE (thermoplastic elastomer), PVC, and rubber. Silicone is often considered the best material because it is body-safe, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean. It is also non-porous, meaning it doesn’t harbor bacteria, making it ideal for repeated use. TPE and PVC options are softer and more flexible but porous, so they require more careful cleaning. Silicone is generally preferred for its durability, comfort, and hygienic properties.

Choosing the right size harness dildo depends on the preferences and comfort levels of both partners. Beginners may want to start with a smaller, slimmer dildo—around 4 to 6 inches in length and 1 to 1.5 inches in diameter—for easier insertion and control. More experienced users may prefer larger or thicker dildos that provide a fuller sensation. It’s important to consider both the wearer’s comfort in handling the dildo and the receiving partner’s comfort during penetration. Some harnesses are compatible with different sizes of dildos, allowing for flexibility.

Yes, harness dildos can be used for both vaginal and anal penetration, depending on the size and shape of the dildo. For anal play, it’s important to choose a dildo with a flared base to prevent over-insertion, and you may want to opt for a slimmer model for easier insertion. Always use plenty of lubricant for both types of penetration to ensure comfort and safety. Some harnesses even come with dual attachments, allowing for simultaneous vaginal and anal play if desired.

Yes, harness dildos are available in both realistic and non-realistic designs. Realistic harness dildos are shaped to mimic the look and feel of a real penis, often featuring veins, a defined head, and lifelike textures. Non-realistic dildos come in abstract shapes, vibrant colors, or creative designs and may have additional features like ridges, curves, or bumps for added sensation. Both types are compatible with harnesses, so the choice depends on your aesthetic and sensory preferences.

The type of harness you use depends on your comfort and the type of play you prefer. Adjustable strap-on harnesses are popular because they can be easily resized to fit different body types and offer a secure fit. Jockstrap-style harnesses provide more comfort and stability, while thong-style harnesses offer minimal coverage. Some harnesses come with interchangeable O-rings, allowing you to use dildos of different sizes. If you plan to use the harness for pegging or more vigorous play, choose a sturdy harness with secure buckles or straps for extra control.

To attach a harness dildo to a strap-on harness, ensure the dildo has a flared base or suction cup that fits into the O-ring or attachment point on the harness. Most harnesses feature an O-ring at the front, where the base of the dildo is inserted and held securely. If the harness has adjustable O-rings, choose the right size to fit your dildo. Slip the dildo into the ring and adjust the straps of the harness to ensure a snug, comfortable fit before engaging in play.

Yes, it’s recommended to use plenty of lubricant with a harness dildo to enhance comfort and reduce friction during penetration. Water-based lubricants are the best option, especially for silicone dildos, as they won’t damage the material. Silicone-based lubricants can be used with dildos made from materials like TPE, PVC, or glass, but they should be avoided with silicone dildos, as they can degrade the toy over time. Always clean the dildo after use to remove any lubricant residue.

To clean a harness dildo, first, check the material. Silicone dildos can be washed with warm water and mild soap or a specialized toy cleaner. Some silicone dildos can also be boiled or placed in the dishwasher for thorough sterilization. TPE and PVC dildos should be cleaned with soap and water, but extra care should be taken to ensure they are fully dried. Always follow the manufacturer's instructions for cleaning, and store the dildo separately from the harness to prevent material wear. Clean your harness regularly, especially the O-ring area, to maintain hygiene.