Dildos and Dongs

The terms "dildo" and "dong" are often used interchangeably, but there is a subtle difference. A dildo is typically a non-realistic or stylized sex toy designed for penetration, and it may come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors. Dildos can be made from various materials and may include features like suction bases or vibrating functions. A dong, on the other hand, usually refers to a more realistic, lifelike sex toy that resembles a penis in both shape and texture. Dongs often have realistic details like veins and a defined head for those seeking a more natural feel during use.

Dildos and dongs are made from a variety of materials, including silicone, PVC, rubber, glass, and stainless steel. Silicone is considered the best material for its softness, flexibility, and body-safe properties—it's hypoallergenic, non-porous, and easy to clean. Glass and stainless steel dildos offer a firmer, smoother feel and can be heated or cooled for temperature play. PVC and rubber options are more affordable but can be porous, so it's important to check that they are phthalate-free and use condoms with them if needed. Silicone is typically recommended for its safety, durability, and comfort.

There is a wide variety of dildos and dongs, including realistic dildos, which closely mimic the look and feel of a penis, and non-realistic dildos, which come in abstract shapes and colors. Vibrating dildos offer extra stimulation with built-in motors, while double-ended dildos are designed for shared use between partners or for deeper penetration. Suction-cup dildos can be attached to flat surfaces for hands-free play, and strap-on compatible dildos are designed for use with harnesses. Textured dildos may feature ridges or bumps to add extra sensation during penetration.

Choosing the right size dildo or dong depends on your comfort level and experience. Beginners should start with smaller dildos, typically between 4 to 5 inches in insertable length and 1 to 1.5 inches in diameter, to ease into penetration. More experienced users may prefer larger options, with lengths over 6 inches and wider girths for a fuller sensation. If you're unsure, consider purchasing a set with multiple sizes or a dildo with a tapered design that allows you to gradually adjust to larger sizes.

Yes, dildos and dongs are safe to use when made from body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel. It’s important to choose non-porous, hypoallergenic materials to prevent the buildup of bacteria. Always use plenty of water-based lubricant for comfortable insertion, especially with larger or firmer toys. Clean your toy before and after each use to maintain hygiene, and follow the manufacturer’s guidelines for care and cleaning. If you experience discomfort, discontinue use and try a smaller or softer toy.

Yes, dildos and dongs can be great for partnered play. They can be used during foreplay, oral sex, or in conjunction with penetrative sex to enhance pleasure. Strap-on dildos are specifically designed for use with a harness, allowing one partner to penetrate the other. Double-ended dildos allow both partners to be stimulated simultaneously. Many people enjoy using dildos in combination with other toys, like vibrators, to enhance sexual experiences with a partner.

The best way to clean a dildo or dong depends on the material. Silicone, glass, and stainless steel dildos are non-porous and can be cleaned with warm water and mild soap or a specialized toy cleaner. Some silicone and glass dildos can also be boiled or placed in the dishwasher for deep sterilization. PVC and rubber dildos should be cleaned carefully with soap and water, but avoid submerging electrical components if the toy is vibrating. Always dry your toy completely before storing it in a cool, dry place.

A suction-cup dildo or dong features a base that can be attached to smooth, flat surfaces like walls, floors, or shower tiles, allowing for hands-free use. This type of toy is ideal for those who prefer to experiment with different positions or want to enjoy penetration without using their hands. Suction-cup dildos are also harness-compatible, making them versatile for solo or partnered play. The suction base provides stability and can be adjusted to match your desired angle of penetration.

Yes, it’s recommended to use plenty of lubricant with dildos and dongs for a more comfortable and pleasurable experience. Water-based lubes are the best choice for silicone dildos, as they won’t degrade the material. Silicone-based lubes can be used with glass or metal toys but should be avoided with silicone dildos, as they can break down the surface. Lubricant reduces friction and makes penetration smoother, enhancing overall comfort and enjoyment.

Yes, vibrating dildos have built-in motors that provide additional stimulation through vibrations. These vibrations can range from gentle to intense, adding extra pleasure to the penetrative experience. Regular dildos don’t have this feature and rely solely on manual movement for stimulation. Vibrating dildos often come with multiple settings, allowing users to adjust the intensity and pattern of the vibrations to their liking. They’re popular for those who want both penetration and clitoral or internal stimulation.