Goddess Kitty is a professional Dominatrix who enjoys enjoy all forms of BDSM and fetish play. Having worked in this field for over 10 years throughout America, Goddess Kitty has attained a wealth of experience which will bring you to your knees with power, control and pleasure. Her specialties include rope bondage, role play, whipping, corporal punishment, hypnotism, disciplinarian, CBT and so much more. Her wise range of skills allows clients to explore their deepest desires and fantasies by relinquishing both their bodies and souls to her. She has her own personal dungeon full of BDSM gear including a slave cage, metal rack bed, paddles and whips. Visit The Goddess Kitty Website for more information on how to contact her and a detailed list of what services she will provide. She was kind enough to do an interview with the Adultsmart Blog.
Tell me about yourself
I go by Goddess Kitty. My website is www.GoddessKitty.com. I own a medical office in Florida as well as being an active professional Domme. I am from Latin descent, I was born in Florida and I am Cuban/Colombian. I call it the Pitbull/Shakira effect. You can see that I’m more sensual in my style but just as fierce.
When, why and how did you realized you wanted to be a Mistress?
I was 6 years old and my mother burst into my room at 10 in the evening, admonishing me watching Benny Hill. I loved it but it stayed with me that I was different and that I liked to have the power that those women possessed over Benny Hill. Hew was a true submissive, appreciating the sex of women of wishing that he could worship them. He was obsessed in their essence.
What inspires you?
The mold was broken when I was created, I’ve never really met anyone to think the way I do, or at least be so verbal about it. I believe in the religion of Humanity. There is a passion for mankind and a need to care about everyone; to know their pain and their prejudices. I feel bigger than life, I know I am a Goddess because I care about my fellow man. I practice my personal religion by helping those that cross my path by showing compassion, love and generosity in my time and energy. I will stand up for those who cant and I will bless those who can.
Marquis de Sade, Anne Rice, Clive Barker, Dean Koontz, The Conquering of Sleeping Beauty – Book , The Story of O – Book, Elvira Mistress of the Dark, Cher, Barbie (Ken was such a sub), Wonder Woman (I had the underdogs, bike, shoes, doll, and socks branded), are some of the inspirations that cemented who I am.
I have a passion for the arts, I love museums, from sculptures to photography, I love to lose myself in the art. It feels as if a reset button has been pushed.
What do you love about being a Mistress? What are the perks?
I love everything about being me. I can’t separate the two, it’s who I am and my identity. Denying my existence would be depressing my soul. I cannot and will not be untrue to myself.
Wine, Champagne, Clothing, Roses, Gardenias, perfume, restaurants, operas, shoes, purses, exotic trips, interesting eclectic and/or eccentric people, interesting adventurous situations, videos, photographs, and fans are all some of the perks that I personally receive as a Dominatrix. Its not the same for everyone.
I’ve received many gifts and I’ve never met the senders.
What personal characteristics do you need to be a Mistress?
I wouldn’t want to generalize or assume that certain characteristics are needed to dominate. If you truly are dedicated, you learn the characteristics that you need, you can’t help but change in your personal life as well as in your professional life. Even if you feel like a meek, virginal girl; if you have the desire to become a Dominatrix you will find yourself developing into the woman that you want to become.
You don’t need a characteristic, you need the desire.
Why did you choose Goddess Kitty as your name?
My Name is Cathy and my friends and family call me Cat. I thought it was a natural progression, besides I there’s only one Goddess Kitty.
What services do you provide?
I teach couples how to have adventurous sex, I teach women how to dominate, I dominate submissives in a variety of methods from sissy training to golden nectar drinking. I dominate couples, ladies and males.
Why do people enjoy surrendering, obeying, serving, pleasing and amusing a Mistress?
I take my submissives to a
“play space”
where they are safe and no longer themselves. All of my submissives do well in their lives and need to release that control. I can easily take it from them, as a matter of fact I can see it on them. When a submissive walks through my door I can see their fear, it’s a trained response from years of dominating. I take them to their subjective ecstasy, and the addiction begins.
Why do some people like being financially dominated?
Money is a funny thing. Some people enjoy being financially dominated because they feel guilty for something that they have done and they feel that they need to be punished. Some people enjoying helping their Goddess, it’s a tithe. Some like to be threatened with being revealed to family members as submissives that give away their money needlessly. Some people feed off the feeling of living on the edge and enjoy being restricted monetarily, it’s a huge turn on for them. The psyche for financial domination is not a set one, its ever changing as technology.
What fetishes do you find most people have?
I find that most fetishes are: foot worship and variations, sissy play, spanking, whipping, queening, humiliation including small penis (especially if it isn’t), CBT-Cock and Ball Torture, Nipple Torture, Electro-Torture, to name a few are the favs amongst submissives.
What does it feel like to be in complete control of another person?
Being in complete control of another person is absolutely a sexual, orgasmic high. I am extremely turned on every time I am dominating and even after, the power exchange alone rushes through my body piercing me with hot temperatures getting my endorphins and adrenaline pumping. I become an absolute beast and I absolutely love it.
Once again thank you Goddess Kitty for allowing us to interview you and providing such honest and detailed information that the readers of our blog I am sure are going to love.
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