Sex Toys That You Will Want For Christmas

Xmas sex

With Christmas just around the corner, you may be looking for some presents for your partner, whilst jewellery or the latest games console are good fall back presents, what if you want something to help with your intimacy?

In any case, sex toys are a sure fire way to bring a bit more fun or spice into your sex life, then sex toys are the way to go.

As a generation, we are much more open to talking about sex than every before, and sex shops are no longer called ‘private shops’ they are well known brands, with store fronts on most high streets.

However, sex toys remain something that many people are embarrassed about, so let’s go through some tips on buying the right sex toy for you and your partner.

 

Talk To Your Partner

The best thing you can do when thinking about adding sex toys into your life, is to have an open conversation with your partner about what you both like, and what you’d be open to.

This doesn’t have to be an in-depth, therapist type conversation, but it should be as open as you can be, with some discussion about what you both would like.

Sure, it can feel a little embarrassing, but the more you talk about it, the less embarrassed you will be, and you will find yourself enjoying sex even more – if that’s possible!

 

Solo Toys For Women

You may want to start looking at some solo toys to give to your partner, for the times that they are alone, and want to have some fun.

There are so many different types of toys out there that it can be a little confusing.

Some of the more well known toys are the rabbit type vibrators, which are penetration devices, with different vibration speeds and those well known rabbit ears for clitoral stimulation. These toys are the classic ones, and were probably the first sex toy to become fashionable and start people having more honest conversations about sex.

The massager wand type is another classic, beloved by many women around the world. This toy however, is not suited to everyone, as it can be a bit more on the forceful side, so choose the model with care.

There are so many newer types on the market now, including some which even claim to imitate oral sex, the Lelo Ora 3 review gives a good overview on this highly praised toy.

There are different types of clitoral stimulators available that work in different ways, such as the bullet types, some of which come in waterproof varieties.

 

Solo Toys For Men

If you are looking for a solo toy to give to that special man in your life, there are many options too for them.

The most well known solo male toy is probably the fleshlight. These toys have played their part in  making male sex toys less taboo, but they are falling out of fashion now, in their place are the far more discreet and just as pleasurable newer designs of mastrubation sleeves.

Cock rings are available in many different varieties. These can be used solo, to provide extra vibration, or when with a partner, as they are bound to enjoy the vibrations too!

Prostate massagers are also very popular these days, and many come with a remote control to allow you to fully enjoy a solo experience.

Butt plugs are another classic, and much safer than inserting a non-sex toy into this are – always use a flared base! Butt plugs have also expanded their varieties. The bog standard ones are still available of course – everyone loves a classic. But, newer vibrating designs are available, some with a remote control to make everything a lot easier.

 

Toys For Couples

Many of the toys we have already gone through can also be used with your chosen partner, or partners, but there are some toys that are specifically geared towards couples.

We have already discussed vibrating cock rings, that give pleasure to both parties.There are also some toys that can be used whilst giving or reciveing a oral sex, such as the BlowYo which is a silicone ring that covers the bottom portion of the penis, that makes oral sex feel much more, well, orgasmic.

The WeVibe, and it’s imitators, is a toy beloved by couples. One end rests against the clitoris, whilst the other inserts into the vagina providing G-spot stimulation, as well as vibrating against the penis shaft.

If you are away from your partner, there are even toys that can be controlled via an app, so that you can come together even when you’re apart.

Whichever toy you decide to go for, remember to be safe and enjoy yourself, and always discuss consent.

Pregnancy and Sex!

sex toys pregnancy

Before falling pregnant I heard a lot of things like “wait till your pregnant you will want SEX 24/7”. And “omg it’s so much better when you are pregnant”. Now let me tell you this was not the case for me at all pregnancy at the most of times is hard balancing work and studies in-between you almost forget the time your meant to make for yourself. My sex life went from a 20/10 to a 1/10 if that.

There became a time at month 3 that I decided to give up on sex completely as I wasn’t feeling it, it became a chore more then something that I wanted or craved. It’s funny how much the brain plays a part of sex, smells, touch, heat/cold your brain decides all of that. So something that may have felt tingly and amazing before now feels over sensitive or uncomfortable.

It’s a really hard thing to come to terms with because you don’t realize how much good sex makes you happy until you stop it and no I don’t just mean orgasming its so much more than that when you form that connection with someone should I say that constant lust for attention and touch a simple kiss on the neck can be the most amazing feeling you feel every hair on your body stand up. A hot shower running down your back and having your partner wrapped around you pressed against you …… these are all the things that stop when sex stops because there is so much tension on you both that’s the last thing you want to do.

The funniest part for me is how hard it is to change that, something that came so natural before is now so strange and foreign. That’s until ……..

I found the mighty sex wand and yes I’m talking about that thing everyone says “omg that looks like a microphone”. Now let me tell you that microphone in a space of 40 seconds if that brought on a frenzy of emotion and feelings back to my life and I don’t know how I haven’t brought this into my life earlier I will discuss this later in my blog. The sensation this toy gives you solo or with a partner in my case this was the saviour of my relationship 2 months on from the “end of my relationship if you want to call it that” this toy has simply fixed so much it has filled that gap of feeling unwanted and loved I now get to have the sex life I had and even more. I couldn’t recommend this enough to pregnant or not pregnant women that just are not “feeling it” in the bed room. And for women that are thinking they cant enjoy it and they haven’t I can only tell you my personal experience and this is it.

It’s a great way to allow you to take control of your body and not relying on him to try and do something that isn’t humanly possible we put so much pressure on males from things we have watched from porn and say that they cannot do there “job right” which leads to no communication and then your relationship forms around the thought of him doing his job wrong. But ladies its your job to make you feel good as well and to aid him with the information that feels good for you every female body is different. sometimes we forget that and we accept that we do not need pleasure and that as long as he’s happy that’s all that matters I believed this for 8 years with my ex until I had enough and took control. Yes that’s 8 years without an orgasm with a partner. So the current partner I have I just simply took control and figured out what I wanted and liked and once I figured that out I seen sex in such a different light.

The mighty wand has been the highlight of my sex toy experience I have owned many many toys and this for me just made my brain scramble when I used it its funny I bought it thinking “oh it’s a vibrator cool” pffftttt was I wrong the first experience I had with this amazing toy was a midnight just finished work and really just wanted a hot shower I wasn’t expecting much from this toy at all oh boy did it prove me wrong.

I started using it in the shower solo until my partner realized what I had gotten up to and decided to join me he stepped into the shower and kissed my neck from behind this is the first time I had butterflies since being pregnant I had Goosebumps all over my body a sensation I can’t explain he entered me from behind and my god my body started going crazy with the combination of this powerful wand and the thrusts of his penis deep inside me sent me over the edge with in 40 seconds making me unable to stand, he continued to thrust while holding me up pushing me against the cold glass making my nipples hard and sensitive he continued to fuck me while pulling my hair until I started gushing which lead to him Cumming instantly. It was the most sensitive and eye rolling orgasm I have had in 8 months. And I thank the wand for this and now when I talk about pregnant sex or sex in general with anyone this toy definitely gets a mention and comes under my must buy list. Doggy is a must with this toy hits all the spots perfectly and its also waterproof which makes it fun for those cold nights when you want a hot bath or shower and also want to have fun. It also doubles as an awesome massager so I don’t know what else you could ask for!!!!!!!!

 

Tiarni is a consultant at the Oh Zone Adult Shops……

JimmyJane Gave Me The Advantage!

Blue Wave Vibration

Most of us need to have foreplay before having sex. Arousing your partner by massage, kissing, teasing and tempting are some of the basic things we do to turn out partners on that will lead to a more rewarding and fulfilling sexual experience.   Massaging both the body and stroking each others erogenous zones is a sure fire way to heat up the action but often it can be tiring.  But not anymore!!!  JimmyJane has given me the advantage and now I am a better lover because of the sensational foreplay that I deliver. This fantastic sex toy is designed with couples in mind (although it could be used for solo play) with multi speed vibrators that attach to your fingers making them sex gods!

Vibrators are simply tiny engines that vibrate at different levels.  Surprisingly the vibrators in the JimmyJane Hello Touch range are quite strong and deliver amazing sensations. The materials that house the vibrator impact on the strength  and generally speaking the thicker the housing the lower the intensity of the vibrations delivered.  Using a JimmyJane finger vibrator will help your cause in the sexual satisfaction department as the vibration is dispersed with your fingers and your fingers will be the material that is used to send the vibrations out to the clitoris or other part of the body you would like to stimulate. This small toy will help in doing things which you couldn’t ordinarily do with your fingers. It is designed to be worn on two fingers and optimized for both internal and external stimulation. The toy delivers an ultra compact vibration in pods enclosed within a silicone finger pad. The dimensions have been minimized so that it can fit on your fingertip and deliver sensations wherever your hand moves. The vibrators are just like your fingers and can stroke surround and squeeze unlike other vibrators.

Hello Touch Massager
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If you are well acquainted with the world of adult toys, you will attest to the fact that Hello Touch is one of the most flexible and versatile sex toys that you can ever use. It’s true that you might already be used to the compact finger vibrators and the like, but this wearable vibrator is even stronger, even smaller and as you would expect it, sexier compared to its predecessors. You have all the reason why you shouldn’t think twice about using it and say hello to new sensations. Finger vibrators are quite minimal and non-threatening especially to a sex toy newbie and the sensations delivered are an amazing improvement on trying to do the same things just with your hands and fingers.  The classic design, which guarantees you full control over these vibrators allow you to enjoy an intense intimate experience together with your partner or even during solo action. This is a perfect pick and Jimmy Jane has worked hard to ensure that fingers are brought back into the sex equation while trying to get more sex kicks.

JimmyJane Hello Touch has a light wristband that is also very comfortable when worn. To make things even more sensation, the whole unity is also waterproof and you can use it safely in as many ways as you can possibly imagine. It allows you to use your fingers for teasing, tickling and tantalizing your senses before you move to other more intense sensations and pleasures. You also have the option of wearing the toy on two different fingers for dual stimulation. What makes it a bestselling sex toy is its small size which guarantees that the user enjoys the vibrations exclusively. Touch pads are less invasive which assures you of a more vibration centric and delicate experience.

JimmyJane Hello Touch is the smallest fingertip vibrator available, and the only one optimized for both internal and clitoral stimulation. This intuitive design features a pair of ultra-compact Vibration Pods, each enclosed in a supple silicone finger-pad. We’ve minimized every dimension so you can deliver powerful sensations anywhere hands may roam, without limitation. The Vibration Pods are as mobile and versatile as your fingers – Hello touch can stroke, squeeze and surround in sensation, unlike any other vibrator.

Just wear them on your fingers and surprise your partner while indulging in foreplay. Use them and see what wonders it does to her. Show her your new found talent and surprise with the things you can do with your fingers. Spice up your sex and provide her with natural sexual arousal with the finger vibrator. This toy can be used to stimulate clitoris, nipples, G-spot, Labia and other places which arouse her. It is water proof so you can even use it while having a shower together or while in a pool. The materials used are safe for the body and the vibrations are silent but strong enough to give her full satisfaction.

Features Of The JimmyJane Hello Touch

  • Great for Couples – Enhance your natural touch, perfect for both foreplay and sex
  • Compact Power – Over three times the power in one third the size of most fingertip vibrators
  • Versatile – Stimulate the clitoris, labia, G-spot, nipples and other erogenous zones
  • Dual motors – One in each Vibration Pod
  • Quiet – Strong-yet-silent vibrations
  • Body-Safe and Phthalate-Free – Supple, medical-grade, platinum silicone
  • Waterproof – Shower-ready and washable
  • Intuitive Controls – Easy on and off
  • Batteries Included – Runs up to 6 hours on two AAAA batteries
  • Dimensions – Each Fingerpad is 0.7″x0.9″x0.3″, Dock is 1.0″x2.1″x0.6″
  • Three Year Limited Warranty – Our commitment to quality

How To Use The JimmyJane Hello Touch

  • Front of fingertips: This allows you to contact and vibrate the body with the Vibration Pods directly using natural strokes and massage techniques. Unlike most dual-motored vibrators, HELLO TOUCH allows you to move each motor independently. Try this for both internal and external vibration with one or with two fingers.
  • Back of fingertips. This vibrates the fingers themselves, which in turn can touch and stimulate the body. The sensations from the vibrations will be different, and you’ll be able to feel and locate with your fingertips, as they’re exposed.
  • Thumb & Forefinger: Stroke, grasp and squeeze as you normally would with these fingers. It’s also possible to insert the forefinger for internal stimulation while using the thumb for external (e.g. clitoral) stimulation. (Note – this is easier to do for your partner than to do to yourself.)
  • Front of Mid-Fingers: Stroke with an open hand (e.g. run your hands across your partner’s body or your own). Also good for stimulating the penis by positioning your hand so that the two vibrators contact and rub against the sensitive underside of the shaft, just beneath the head.
  • Choose your own adventure: HELLO TOUCH was designed with adaptability in mind.

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