Glass Dildos Changed My Life

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Let me first start off by saying I like so many others am a huge enthusiast of anything sex toy related that is capable of bringing immense pleasure with very little risk or down side in return. With this being said, the truth being known and a tiny amount of unwarranted paranoia too I decided to do some homework on adult glass products particularly dildos, and get to the bottom of just why this particular material is hailed by so many as a more luxurious and an all around safe option.

How Do You Keep Glass Dildos Clean?

Personally, one of the main attractions to a glass sex toy has got to be hygiene. Glass sex toys have a major advantage on silicone or any other material as far as their level of cleanliness goes. They are extremely simple to sterilise and you can do so by washing them in boiling hot water, using a detergent or a proper glass sex toy cleaner. Being the most hypoallergenic material glass is able to be used by people with all types of skin even extra sensitive etc.

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Is A Glass Dildo 100% Shatter Proof?

To answer this question and put your mind completely to rest (perhaps mine at the same time too), YES! Providing your glass sex toy is one made up of borosilicate glass you will be guaranteed maximum safety with use. Borosilicate is not like your ordinary glass, in fact it is built to withstand heat, bumps, and even a certain amount of dropping depending on the height. It is also able to hold hot and cold temperatures for an extra-long amount of time. Changing the temperature of your glass dildo can and will change the whole sensation you get from the sex toy making you experience two different types of pleasure from two different elements.

The Best And Safest Way To Heat A Glass Dildo

There’s a few different theories on how you correctly heat an adult glass toy, however this is an act simply done by using hot water straight from the tap. There’s no gimmicks or act to it just hold or safely place your toy on a small tray or plate and run hot water evenly over it for a couple minutes. Never ever use a microwave, even though it won’t break the sex toy it will unevenly distribute the heat leaving your toy with some dangerous hot spots. If you wish to make your toy cold to give off a different sensation then do the same act of running it under water but make it cold of course. Do not be tempted to freeze your glass sex toy as it will stick to you once attempting to use it.

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You Can Use A Glass Dildo For Life

Another massive added bonus is the fact that glass toys never ever perish. Yes, you read that right. A good borosilicate glass sex toy will be your friend for life. Unlike rival sex toy materials glass cannot be effected by outside aspects such as lubricants or body fluids. It’s even made to withstand a certain amount of accidental drops and bounces.

Do Your Homework On Glass Dildo Brands

Just like any good or reputable brand glass sex toys are not totally exempt to knock offs. Yes, there are in fact better grades of glass just like there are silicone. The greatest grade being low expansion borosilicate. This glass is guaranteed maximum safety and is in fact the hardest, most durable porous glass out there to date. It is more expensive but as we all know you undoubtedly pay for quality. There are thousands of glass sex toys out there on the market and the majority of them go under the label of Pyrex, however this is not always the case so it is extremely important you keep diligent and go for glass sex toys that are either fully clear or have colour embedded deep within them instead of painted externally, this will ensure you have a quality product that is not a knock off.

Now, with all of this in mind let’s take you to the last and final point of just why glass sex toys, particularly dildos, are such an incredible option and just why you need to add one into your adult toy collection today!

One of the most recommended product ranges of glass dildos is designed by Pipedream Products and is named Icicles. They are made with incredible textures for all experience levels . They are a good place to start. You really can’t go past their products especially if you are a beginner or intermediate user.

Why Does A Glass Dildo Offer More Pleasure When Compared To Other Sex Toys?

There a couple of different reasons why I feel glass gives a more unique pleasure. In fact, a ribbed glass sex toy can offer you one of the most delicious orgasms when used correctly. Glass has a feel which is solid enough to justify security but light enough to hold with comfort. A ribbed glass sex toy makes every single motion intensified giving you a full feeling but is also vagina friendly at the same time. There are so many beautiful variations of shapes or types of glass sex toys from twisted, curved, bumped, etc. They are crafted to cater to anyone and everyone. You can achieve incredible climaxing through simple thrusting motions or you can get creative. Being so durable you’re safe to explore your limits and embed yourself in total pleasure. I recommend a nice hot bath with some pretty candles, to relax and soften your muscles before you play. This will also create a temperature contrast with yourself and the toy.

So let’s weigh it up, not only are glass dildos aesthetically appealing (They almost remind me of a princess sex toy with their ultra-femininity) but they require very little maintenance and after care, provide incredible pleasure and complete safety. Oh and let’s not forget the fact that you do indeed have them for life.

I think it’s safe to say if you haven’t yet explored the world of glass play after reading this today you may just have a change of mind. Glass dildos have an amazing array of benefits that can not be missed!

Channelle xo

Author: Channelle is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Sex Toy Shop Like A Pro

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People are usually embarrassed to talk about their sex lives even though it is one of the biggest problems that almost everybody faces. People prefer to keep it a secret and confined within their bedroom walls. It is recommended to talk to a health professional like a doctor who may advise you to use sex toys to relieve your built up sexual tension.

Using sex toys is one of the easiest ways to fulfill sexual needs and desires if it is lacking in a person’s daily life. If sex toys are used in a relationship, they are used to enhance the amount of pleasure which is experienced during sex which can lead to an effortless orgasm. Sex toys can provide various types of pleasure depending on the functions that it is. For example, some sex toys vibrate, others rotate and some even pulsate in a natural thrusting movement.

There are sex toys which are available for both men and women. Women can buy products like vibrators for g-spot or clitoris stimulation and Kegel balls to perform pelvic floor muscle exercises. Men are able to buy masturbators which have realistic and non-realistic designs and prostate massagers for anal play. There are also couples sex toy which are available that include strap-on dildos, couples vibrators, strapless vibrators, cock rings and much more.

What Are The Advantages Of Online Sex Toy Shopping?

Most people are open minded about using sex toys and can easily visit a store. But if you are new to the experience and are shy in nature, there are online sex toy stores where you can easily make a purchase without having to worry about leaving the comfort of your home.  There are some advantages of buying sex toys online which include:

  1. You do not have to buy the Sex Toy in a public store and hence no one will see you making a purchase.
  2. Online sex toy companies deliver their products in closed boxes which do not disclose any information about the contents of what’s inside your box or where it is from. Your neighbours will not have a clue about what’s inside the box from just seeing it.
  3. You can save some money by buying sex toys online, this is because you are not paying for the price of the store manager or consultant.
  4. You can easily read up on the sex toy’s warranty by reading the product description most products will be replaced if they have a manufacturing or design fault.
  5. Online sex toy stores have refund policies where you are able to return them if they are faulty, not as described or damaged.
  6. Online sex toy store you do not have to worry about shipping costs as most offer free delivery services.
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How Do I Find An Authentic Sex Toy Shop?

To begin shopping you need to find an authentic store that has a proven track record of happy shoppers. You will need to be careful, sadly there are fake companies out there who may take your money without sending you a product. In order to weed out the fake companies you are able to compare the customer reviews of various stores to find out which ones have the highest and lowest amount of trust. You can also ask your friend on what stores that they recommend. I recommend shopping at Adultsmart as it is highly rated on Trustpilot with over 185 reviews. They have an extremely high rating which means that they have customer services staff who offer high quality services and that the products that they sell are 100% authentic.

Have A Look At Honest Sex Toy Reviews

Once you have found a trusted sex toy store, it is then recommended to find websites and blogs that provide honest product reviews. They will talk about the quality of the product and the best ways to use the product. They will tell you the good, the bad and the ugly. This way you are able to make a purchase that is not only based upon knowledge about the product but also on what other people have experienced when they have tested the product.

When Shopping Keep In Mind Whether You Have Any Allergies

Before purchasing a product, you should ask yourself “Am I allergic to sex toy materials?“.  Many people forget or do not bother to check the type of material before they make a purchase, ensure that you check whether you are allergic to the material that it is made out of.

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10 Tips When Choosing A Vibrator!

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Masturbation used to be a taboo discussion among the community, especially when it comes to women. Due to sex technology development within the sex toy industry, people have opened up to the idea of masturbation with sex toys and now even introduce the use of vibrators into their sexual relationships with people. Sex toys enhance the pleasurable sensations and often intensifies the orgasm. Vibrators nowadays come in various shapes and color. Most often, however, these sex toys are quite trendy in design and are quite affordable. Nevertheless, there are still a some women who don’t know how to use vibrators and are shy to ask for fear of being made fun of.  Some of these vibrators do not come with any manual by the way.

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To guide all those women and even men, who wish to make full use of a vibrator, here are some tips to help you get started.

  1. First of all, if you’re buying the vibrator from online market, you should inspect it upon receipt so that you can return it right away if you see any obvious defects to it. Broken handles, exposed wiring or dents that should not be there should be closely inspected and reported to the seller. If the defect is something beyond remedy, you should send it back before the warranty period is over. If you can see some defects, you should return it since you’re the one paying for it.
  2. Vibrators usually are battery operated, and it would be appropriate for you to test the product to ascertain if it operates smoothly whether the batteries be insertable or rechargeable. Check for the appropriate batteries to use but ensure that you have turned off the vibrator before you insert the batteries. You don’t want to be caught red handed when the thing will automatically vibrate and surprise you with its humming and buzzing.  If it is rechargeable charge it and then test to see that it operates correctly.
  3. Now, run some tests and start with the lowest level of intensity to ascertain if it works, then scroll through to a higher intensity until you reach the maximum setting. Alternate switching the sex toy to high, then medium, low to high and vice versa to determine its capacity.  If it has vibration modes run the same test with those.  You would be using it in the same way anyway, so it would be better to test its capabilities before you use it. You don’t want it suddenly stopping just when you’re in the throes of passion, do you? So, better check it out so that you will know  its limit before use. Check for any grip, or dent or some indentations which might cause harm when using it.
  4. Upon complete inspection for any physical defects of the unit and if you’re assured that everything is in order, it would be highly recommended to then wash and disinfect the vibrator and store it in a secure yet roomy drawer. You would not want anyone to mistake it for a toy or worse; children might play with it while you have visitors and it would be an unwelcome source of embarrassment.
  5. You should always remove the batteries when you’re not using the vibrator. Accidental switch on might cause you some alarm and embarrassment from other family members.  If you have not used it for quite some time there may be some battery leakage to making the toy unusable.
  6. When using the vibrator, and there are some family members nearby, you can use a blanket to cover it and muffle the sound. You would not want to embarrass yourself with them trying to locate the source of that weird whirring sound from somewhere in the house.
  7. Many vibrators are made for clitoral stimulation and there are some which you can insert into your vagina. You must ensure however that there is no broken area, detachable part or pointed part of it which might bring you harm. It pays to be vigilant about these things and check every time before use.
  8. When it comes to vibrators, the material can make all of the difference. It can be smooth or textured in the same way as a real penis. There are also others that come with unique textures and grooves for her ultimate pleasure. These are supposed to hit the G-Spot, and though each woman is different, they can help in other ways. If you end up buying a vibrator, a little lube can help here as well.
  9. Why not find a vibrator that’s waterproof and has a lot of speed settings. Waterproof comes in handy because it can be used in pools and bathtubs. And who wouldn’t like a little pick me up in the morning shower? Or for the ultimate private experience, use the (waterproof models only!) vibrator in the tub—it’s ultra quiet and discreet. Speed settings help to control the pleasure of the experience, plus the vibrator can then be used on the clitoris as well. With a little lube and a good vibrator, the woman can feel waves of orgasms—repeated over and over. Yes, multiple orgasms are possible—, especially with a good vibrator. And when the man has picked out a great vibrator for himself or his partner, they’re going to be thanked in a unique ways.  So if it says it is waterproof – test it – that way if or when you decide to have some fun in the tub you can.
  10. Looking for a present for someone else? One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that their partner, boyfriend, husband, whatever bought them the biggest vibrator or dildo that they had ever seen. And while the prevailing thought is that bigger is better, but this isn’t always the case for every woman. Some women aren’t designed for that kind of capacity, so you’re going to need to think a little more compact, perhaps. A lot of people believe size matters. Shoving something big into something that is small isn’t pleasurable in the least bit. And the sad part is that a lot of the women won’t even say anything because they don’t want to offend your choice. Why make these poor ladies suffer? Be sensible about size unless you know she can take it! For some us, bigger is indeed better… Look at yourself. Yes, unzip your pants and look at what your woman is already accustomed to feeling inside her. Be honest, this isn’t the time to start bragging about the size, length, whatever, no one is looking but you. That’s the size that you want to choose for a vibrator for your woman. Slightly bigger is okay too, but don’t go for the foot in diameter version. Her eyes may widen when she sees it, but that’s in fear, not anticipation.

You should always wash your vibrator after every use and keep it where it’s secure. As always, remove the batteries when not using the gadget. Ensure that it is clean so as not to run the risk of any infection upon using it. And do I need to emphasize that you should not lend your gadget to just anyone? It can unknowingly transmit diseases.

 

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7 Tips To Successful Sex Toy Shopping

You are wanting to purchase sex toys, condoms, bondage material, sexy lingerie, lube, porn DVDs or anything else that may serve to change your sexual rut, but you aren’t sure about shopping online.  Why not head out to your local sex store where shopping is the thing you need to do. If you have never been inside a sex shop, then you may have dreams of S&M, scantily clad ladies or a shop that is dirty.  These days that could not be further from the truth as any good sex shop now resembles more a department store than a den on iniquities.

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So when you’re ready to head on down to your nearest shop to do some sex toy perusing, and maybe even make a purchase, here are a few things you may consider first.

1  Browse sex toys online beforehand:

It is important to explore and check out your options online before you head to a brick and mortar shop. Look at what sex toys the online shops bring to the table and, when you discover what you like, make a note of the item name and the brand. At that point head on down to the shop and make your query and by then you won’t need to wander around aimlessly and you will know what’s could be in the store.

2  Go with a lover:

Whether its your sweetheart or just a lover, they may help you feel more comfortable in this environment as you’ll have somebody to relate to with about the specialty items.  Choose your toys together and then enjoy them together.

3  Don’t judge:

When you stroll into the shop and the consultant says, “Hello,” respond to that welcome. This isn’t an cloak and dagger operation; there’s an interest for these shops, or else they wouldn’t exist. Also, don’t condemn different customers or the people that work there for what they are buying or doing; they may be newcomers or veterans and a sex shop customer is not a prostitute or a playboy, nor are you. Embrace the help, have the products demonstrated for you, it all goes to helping you make the right choice

4  Consult a sales person:

Thepeople who work at sex shops are acquainted with all the items in the store, so don’t be modest and request help. Sex toys can get costly, so you ought to be shown the product before you make any buy; I’m almost certain that in most cases there’s a limited return arrangement.

Act natural:

If you think something is funny, its OK to demonstrate to it. The first occasion when that I went to a sex shop, I chuckled a lot, yet I did this tactfully. Don’t stress; the sales representatives have seen it all before. Regardless of the possibility that you think you’ve seen everything, you haven’t.

6  Head there when its not too busy:

While there is no guarantee that there won’t be anybody there at any given time, weekends and night-times will generally receive a larger traffic flow than, say, early Tuesday morning. In case you’re shy about going to an adult shop, go there on a weekday with the goal that you can completely see how the operation works and be comfortable going there in the future, at any time.

7  Shop till you drop:

Go there with a positive attitude.  Look at all the wares.  If you are not confident purchasing on the first occassion make a note of what you like and come back, perhaps with your partner to make your final choices.  Sex toys improve your sexual health and wellness so why would you not want to shop for them?

Let it out, some of the time your hand simply does not leave you fulfilled, you need more. The best sex toys out there are often designed for for ladies. Reconsider gentlemen! There are male sex toys now that will make your head turn. For men searching for the most extraordinary, reasonable experience the Fleshlight pocket pussy may be the most pleasurable decision you could make. For other mind blowing impressions that will take your breath away, while leaving your completely fulfilled, examine the diverse masturbators, and cock sleeves accessible for men. Penis sleeves are ideal for any man who preferences needs to have the capacity to control the weight on his penis while sliding all through the sleeve. For men who like butt play, prostate massagers are accessible for an extreme experience. The best thing about mens sex toys is not just the extraordinary climaxes you will attain to, sex toys for men will likewise help enhance your stamina in the room. Male sex toys don’t get enough credit, they will give you will incredible incitement until climax, furthermore enhance your sexual coexistence!

Now and again arriving at a climax amid sex is not generally that simple for a lady. Occasions such as these are when female sex toys are the answer. Female sex toys range from items like dildos, vibrators, twofold finished dildos, butt toys, climax balls, and then some! With such a mixture to browse, where do you begin? Female sex toys, for example, dildos and vibrators are not just incredible for vaginal or butt insertion, they likewise take into account G-spot incitement. By empowering your G-Spot your climax will strive for “Aaaahhh” to “OOOOO”! Double ended dildos and twin are incredible for any lady who needs twofold infiltration amid solo masturbation.

So there you go, now you are ready to go down to your nearest adult lifestyle outlet and do some sex store shopping.

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20 Benefits Of Sex Toys

If you have never experienced a mind-blowing orgasm at all or if you have but you still feel unsatisfied with your sex life, you will love using a sex toy. A sex toy is a device used as a sexual health aid to facilitate sexual pleasure. The first known sex toy was excavated from the ruins of Pompeii in Rome which was a hand-carved dildo. This means that sex toys have been used for well over 2 thousand years.

In the 19th century sex toys were used as a way to treat sexual health problems in women which was known as “female hysteria”. They were publicized in the Sears and Roebuck as a “woman’s guide for female issues”.

The popularisation of sex toys

Acceptance of sexual freedom sprang from the sexual revolution of the 60’s and 70’s and then in the 90’s one of the most infamous scenes on TV in the series Sex In The City had the character Charlotte being taken to a sex shop and purchasing her first Rabbit Vibrator.  Once she became acquainted with the toy she could not drag herself away from using it.

Over time sex toys have become extremely popular and are now available in various shapes, sizes, materials and colors. They are also recommended by medical health specialists like doctors, psychologists and sex therapists for people to achieve sexual wellness and maintain a healthy lifestyle.

A survey of 2056 women between the ages of 18 to 60 showed that 60% of them owned a sex toy.  The use of sex toys for solo masturbation and during couples play has now become socially acceptable with people openly discussing the topic in a sex positive manner.

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Benefits of using sex toys

Have you ever asked yourself the question:

“Why should I use sex toys?”

Using sex toys could be the next step to making your sexual lifestyle that much more pleasurable. In fact, sex toys have many benefits including:

Sex toys improve personal health

Scientists have proven that when a person orgasms hormones which are responsible for controlling mood like oxytocin and dopamine are released into the body. These hormones activate reward systems inside your brain.  Orgasming boosts the immune system, reduce pain, depression, tension, restlessness, lethargy and stress which all help to improve sleep and mood. In turn you will also experience a heightened mood, an improved sense of well-being and increased levels of sexual satisfaction. Not only is it fun and pleasurable but it is also healthy. When you feel relieved without any stress pulsing through your body, you can begin to relax and unwind after a stressful day, week or month.

Men can learn how to increase their sexual stamina

When a man uses a masturbator he can teach himself how to slowly increase his sexual stamina so he can last for longer periods of time during masturbation or sex. He will gain the confidence that he can make sex with his partner a more enjoyable experience and this will make him and his partner happier in the long run.

Women can learn how to have multiple orgasms

It is no secret that women can have multiple orgasms in a row in a short period of time. Women can use sex toys so they can get pleasurable stimulation for a higher chance of giving themselves multiple orgasms.

Women can build their pelvic floor muscles

There are also sex toys which are used a sexual health aids like Kegel Exercisers. Kegel Exercisers are used by women who need to build up their pelvic floor muscles. Some Kegel Exercisers also vibrate for added pleasure.

Sex toys help people achieve orgasms without the effort

Whether you purchase a sex toy which is battery operated or rechargeable, they will do almost all the work for you. Sit back and relax as you allow the stimulation of the sex toy to please you, with simple movements of your hand you will be in 7th Heaven. As you build up your orgasm you are able to increase the strength or change the modes so that it best suits what you need. You also don’t have to worry about finishing your sessions faster as the sex toy will help do most of the work for you.

Sex toys build your personal autonomy

Sex toys can help both men and women achieve orgasm through solo masturbation without the help of another person. Learning the how your body work and the best way to orgasm can give you confidence. Sex toys are a powerful way of achieving orgasm and can easily match the pleasurable experience of a real sexual partner.

There are lots of situations where one person may ‘want to’ have sex but the other person ‘cannot’ or ‘does not’. In these circumstances the sex toys can be used for solo masturbation.

Sex toys help people gain the self confidence to experiment

When a person understands how their body functions they are more likely to experiment. If you find that your lover could use a little bit of self-confidence consider buying him or her a sex toy as a perfect gift.

Sex toys help to increases sexual arousal

Watching your lover use a sex toy and seeing their sexual desire grow is a major turn on for a lot of people. A survey conducted by the Cosmopolitan magazine states that most men love to use female vibrators on their female counterparts. They find it hot and kinky. Using sex toy’s on their sexual partner can be super exciting especially if the sex toy is sending heightened amounts of stimulation. Sex toys will build up the ultimate type of climax which will be visually appealing towards their partner. There are concerns that sex toys have a desensitizing affect on women. Again, this isn’t true. Think of sex toys as a tool to use to improve your orgasms.

Sex toys make sex amazing

The act of sex is about as old as time and a part of human nature. It goes under many names including “making love” and “hooking up” . Sex is no longer considered only an act for mating and reproduction but is also seen as something fun and exciting. What couple doesn’t want to experience amazing sex? If you are having amazing sex, you will probably end up having more sex to which means you are gaining something no matter which way you choose to look at it! Stacy Rybchin of My Secret Luxury said:

“Everybody could have more sex — it really is great!”

Sex toys are great to add to sexual intercourse and can be used in different sexual positions. Although some people worry that their partner will find sex toys threatening and may feel inadequate when they compare themselves to the sex to. It doesn’t have to be the case if you don’t allow it. Make the sex toy a tool that the both of you can share and use in your sexual experiences. They can actually help couples enjoy an adventurous sex life and enhance pleasure to levels you never thought possible.

These days, you are also able to purchase sex toys specifically made for use during penetrative sex. One of the most famous couple’s vibrator available is made by adult lifestyle company Standard Innovation Corporation who produce a product known as the We-Vibe Sync. The We-Vibe is worn during penetrative sex by the woman, it allows the man to freely penetrate the vagina as it delivers different strengths and patterns of vibration.

You can also use a men’s masturbator during foreplay. Allow your lover to take complete control of the men’s masturbator so they are in charge of the pleasure. Stacy Rybchin said:

“Male sex toys will help a man or couples to flavour things up and have an assortment of intimate encounters in the bedroom.”

Likewise, you can also purchase vibrators for women too!

Sex toys bring new experiences to the bedroom

Sex toys will enhance your sexual lifestyle and allow you to try something new. Having a great sex life means being open to the idea on trying new things. Even great sex can get boring if you stay in a repetitive routine. Using sex toys in the bedroom is one way to spice up your sex life, they will add a sense of adventure and excitement. Sex toys are an excellent option because they enable us to explore our sexuality on new levels and find new ways to experience pleasure. Naturally new experiences with a lover will strengthen the relationship to become much stronger.

You don’t have to use sex toys every time you have sex but doing so it can excite your imagination and make things better. Sex toys can do things that body parts can’t do. For example, if you get a dildo with a harness, you can penetrate your lover and at the same time use your hands on other parts of her or his body.

With experimentation there is not a wrong way to learn, you just have to give it your best and see how it goes. You can not fail when you are experimenting. You are just learning how things work and how things don’t work which will improve your sexual techniques over time.

Sex toys don’t run out of breath

It doesn’t matter how many times you orgasms your sex toy won’t run out of breath. It also doesn’t matter if you are tired or orgasms quickly, you can use a sex toy on a lover during foreplay which will make sex last for a long period of time. Use the sex toy to take frequent breaks so that you are able to relax, prevent fatigue, prevent cramping and delay orgasms.

Sex toys take away the pressure to perform

Did you know that around 75 percent of women can’t achieve climax through penetrative sex and almost 50 percent of women have faked an orgasm? Men are said to have higher levels of sexual satisfaction when compared with women. These statistics are quite shocking and are one of the very reasons why sex can become so stressful. Let’s face it, the best type of sex ends in a wonderful and blissful orgasm. Stacy Rybchin said:

“In the event that you utilize sex toys, your odds of achieving a climax increment significantly. Most ladies need clitoral incitement to climax. That is the reason sex toys (vibrators particularly) are a brilliant approach to help you peak.”

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Sex toys assist in long distance relationships

Sex toys are great for experiencing phone or internet sex. You may be far away from your girlfriend but you want her to feel your touch. You can talk over the phone or through the internet and the same time share a fantasy with each other. Use the sex toys to feel the touches and imagine that she is touching you.

Sex toys assist people with disabilities

Sex toys are often used as a sexual health aid by people who have a disability. They help to improve a person’s quality of life

Sex toys make masturbation easier as they are designed to find your erogenous zones

Sex toys are ergonomically designed to find the pinpoint location of your erogenous zones. For example, if you buy a g-spot vibrator or a prostate massager it will be curved to find that precise location so that you don’t have to spend too much time fumbling around looking for it yourself.

Sex toys can help you achieve different types of orgasms

It you can easily experience multiple orgasms (if you use them creatively). You can achieve almost any type of orgasm available. Sex toys are able to help you to know you more about your inner self! You may not know your real sexual power until you explore your body for yourself.

Sex toys assist people with sexual dysfunction

Sex toys are a temporary tool to support sexually dysfunctional ladies attain climax.

Sex toys are easily transportable

There are sex toys that are travel sized and lockable so they don’t accidentally turn on when they are in your bag. You can take sex toys when you are on holidays, traveling on a business trip or going over to someones house.

Sex toys help your lover explore your body

If you allow your lover to use a sex toy on your body, it gives them the time to find out what really turns you on. Some people learn faster when they have practical experience and can see visually what turns their lover on. You can also show your lover the best ways to use the sex toy, he/she will be able to replicate the experience in no time, causing you to moan in pleasure. On the other hand, when you choose to experiment together, you might discover new ways on how to use the sex toy to experience even more pleasure.

You can find affordable and high end sex toys

There is a massive range of selection of sex toys that have different qualities and functionalities.

How do I choose a sex toy?

There are so many sex toys out there, choosing the best product for you can be a challenging task. Here are some questions you will need to ask yourself so that you are able to find a sex toy which suits your personal needs:

  • What erogenous zone/s would you like to stimulate? There are sex toys designed to stimulate different erogenous zones like the prostate, perineum, penis, g-spot, a-spot and u-spot. Your very first step is to determine what erogenous zones you would like the sex toy to stimulate.
  • Who will you use the sex toy with? There are sex toys which are made for solo masturbation or for couples play.
  • Would you like it to look realistic? There are sex toys which are designed to look like realistic body parts and sex toys which are ergonomically designed to look like a modern product.
  • What is your budget?  You should choose a budget that you would like to spend on a sex toy.
  • What functions would you like the sex toy to have? Would you like your sex toy to vibrate, pulsate or rotate. Other functions include warming, massage beads, dual stimulation, suction cups and whether it is battery operated or rechargeable.
  • What brand would you prefer to own? Do thorough research on the top selling sex toy brands and read product reviews before placing your order. Some popular brands include LELO, Fun Factory, JimmyJane, We-Vibe and Fleshlight.
  • What’s your size preferences and skill set: For some sex toys like butt plugs you will need to define what size sex toy you would be most comfortable with. To do this you can compare the sizes of the current sex toys you use or if you are a beginner you can use smaller sized sex toys and work your way up to bigger sized sex toys.
  • What material would you like your sex toy made with? When you are choosing your sex toy ensure that you choose a product that is body safe and does not contain toxic chemicals. When choosing your sex toy’s material you will need to also consider whether you have any allergies.

Other products you may need with your purchase

  • Personal Lubricant: You will need to find a sex toy friendly lubricant. Water-based lubricant can be used with almost all sex toys whereas other products like Silicone-based lubricant may deteriorate sex toys that are made with silicone.
  • Antibacterial Sex Toy Cleaner: A lot of people may rush to buy a sex toy but it also needs to be properly taken care of. After you have used your sex toy you will need to clean it. Antibacterial sex toy cleaner is a safe option to use on your products to keep them hygienic especially if you are using sex toys that are made with materials that are considered to be porous like cyberskin, rubber and jelly.
  • Mild Antibacterial Soap: Some people may choose to use mild antibacterial soap and some luke warm water to clean their sex toys. After you use the soap and water, ensure that their is no residue left behind on the sex toy from the soap. This will prevent any irritation to your body during use or damage to the sex toy’s material.
  • Condoms: If for some reason you do buy a toxic sex toy it is recommended to use a condom on the sex toy to prevent any harmful chemicals getting in contact with your skin.
  • Arousal And Excite Sprays, Creams And Ointments: If you need some help becoming aroused or would like some extra stimulation investing in arousal and excite products can help build your levels of sexual arousal naturally.
  • Adult DVDs: If you are a person is more likely to orgasm through visual stimulation or by listening to dirty talk or sounds you can invest in an Adult DVD.

Where do I purchase sex toys?

Sex toys can be purchased online or at online sex toy stores or at physical sex toy stores like at an Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre.

Online sex toy stores and privacy

The big concern for sex toy shopping is privacy. Most people don’t feel comfortable buying sex toys in front of other people. To overcome this situation, online shopping would be one of the best options for them. Shopping  online allows you to browse their products in complete confidentiality, no one will know that you are looking at, except for you. You are able to read the descriptions of the products and the features that they offer, this way you can pick something which is best suited to fit you personally or your relationship.

Purchasing them is a simple process, when you are ready add the products to your shopping cart. Fill out your details and process the payment. Your order will then be sent to a warehouse, packaged and sent out through their shipping services like DHL or Australia Post.

Physical sex toy stores

You can travel to a  physical sex toy store which is nearby to where you live. Adult stores are no longer located in dark alleys but they are found on main streets and even located in glitzy shopping malls. Most places have a sign or banner outside which let you know that it is a sex toy store and a staircase which leads up to the shop itself, this way the public cannot see who and what is inside. You are then able to freely shop and ask the consultant any questions about the products that you come across.

How do I introduce sex toys to a relationship?

Having a conversation about intimacy and sexual performance is almost always a sensitive topic especially when people’s egos can be quite fragile. Many people are scared that sex toys will replace them during mutual masturbation or sex. This however is not true, sex toys enhance people’s sexual lifestyle making the act more enjoyable, they also assist both lovers to reach climax and orgasm.

It most likely will probably not be an easy chat but when two lovers engage in an honest and thoughtful conversation the chances of improving your sex life and the quality of your relationship will increase. If you are planning on introducing a sex toy into a relationship, April Masini a relationship specialist who is also the founder of AskApril recommended:

“In the event that you think your accomplice will be anxious or reject your proposal of utilizing a sex toy, don’t pop it out of a container after you’ve both stripped. Begin discussing it little by little in non-sexual situations, as over espresso in a café. What’s more, don’t present it as a win big or bust suggestion. There is nothing that feels more like sexual weight than an accomplice who says, ‘alright, this is what we’re doing next.’ For instance, when your accomplice is in a decent state of mind or cheerful about something you’ve been liberal about, remind him or her that you’d truly get a kick out of the chance to attempt a specific thing.”

Talk with your lover and decide on what types of sex toys you both would like to introduce into the relationship. Find sex toys that you both agree on and feel comfortable with. When two of you decide to buy sex toy, it will be good to start with something simple. For example, if you are a woman you can use a vibrator or if you are a man you can use a masturbator. Using something without to many functionalities will help you to discover and explore each others bodies.  Start slowly with sex toys to give you an idea of what you like and how far you want to go with them.

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