Using Penis Plugs Safely!

Penis Plug Safety

Surfing the Net For Urethral Inserts

Browsing through internet sites for urethral plugs you will come across a multitude of styles, lengths and diameters and it can be quite daunting trying choose one – especially if you are a newbie.  Is it best to get a solid plug or a  hollow one that will allow you to pee thru it or cum whilst wearing it.  Perhaps the desired result is the exact opposite and you want a cum stopper plug that will impede the ability to ejaculate.  Each man is going to desire a different sensation and there is a insert that will help in achieving it.


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A tiny scratch or metal shard could have devastating effects when inserted into the urethra.  Start at the tip which is the first portion that will be inserted and work your way fully along the whole insertable shaft.  Take your time and do this each time you use them, it really is important.

When used correctly these providers of urethral sensations can give you great joy and sexual satisfaction but when used incorrectly can also provide extreme pain and suffering.  I know which one I choose so before using any Penis Plug, you should take time and read through some penis plug resource and information sites. This is very important especially because you will understand what should and shouldn’t be done. You should take this seriously especially if it is the first time you are using the device.

When you read these guides a lot of it will be common sense but trust me, you want to make sure that there is nothing you have missed out on about how to use them, how to care for them and what you may expect to experience.   The last thing you want is make a dramatic trip to the Emergency Room instead of experiencing the fabled ‘inside out’ cumming experience.

Cumming Inside Out Penis Plug Experience

So you have read up on how to use the plug and what to expect.  Next thing on the agenda is to sterilize it.  As it is going into the Urethra the plug must be completely free of any germs or bacteria and the best way to do this is place it in a pot of boiling water for 3-5 minutes.  This will ensure that your plug will come out squeaky clean.  Allow it to cool down and before use add some antibacterial personal lubricant.

If you do not happen to have a pot of boiling water available antibacterial sex toy wipes should do the trick or a liquid sterilizer like Methylated Spirit will suffice.  DO NOT use bleach or other cleanser that will cause you paid or discomfort.  Remember the urethra will absorb liquids and, seriously, you don’t want bleach going into your system.

After sterilization of your plug penis, it is recommended that the plug is wiped with alcohol swabs. Note that alcohol swabs alone might not guarantee the highest level of sterilization. You should not only pay attention to the plug, but also the penis. Using water and an anti-bacterial soap, wash your penis and hands. For extra caution, you may want to use gloves just to safeguard yourself. Don’t be in a rush, take your time and be cautious because it is very important.

To protect your organ from any injuries, use a sterile lubricant to smooth the walls so that the plug penis can slide in smoothly. While the lubricant helps in ensuring that the plug slides into place with ease and comfort, there a sterile formula ensures that you are guarded from any germs during this process. Be warned that non sterile lubricants should never be used, neither should you use saliva. It is just a matter of caution and ensuring that you don’t mess up your moment of joy by picking up an infection.

Finally, after use the penis plug, take time to sterilize the plug before storage. Keep it in a locked cabinet, free from children access. Resist the temptation of using the plug without having to sterilize it in future, assuming that they are still safe for use. Finally, don’t ever share a penis plug with anyone unless you are ready to share the infections as well.

So hopefully this has helped you out in your urethral sex toy journey!




Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena's and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

True Beginners Guide to Penis Plugs!

First Time Penis Plug User


Choosing a penis plug  can be a bit daunting the first time but what is even more intimidating is when you take it home and you are ready to use it the first time.  A mixed wave of emotions comes over you as you anticipate in your mind what it is going to feel like that your bodies natural defense gives you phantom sensations.  Do I go through with it or was it just a silly idea?  One dreamed up by some marketer who knows nothing about the urethral joy you want to experience and is only interested in selling you a $30 or $40 piece of metal.

Well let us go a little way to allay those fear and go through a step by step tutorial on how to insert a penis plug that very first time.  First up, a penis plug or wand or medical sound in most cases is a piece of surgical steel that is inserted into the urethra that may, or may not, result in sexual stimulation and play.

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Choosing a Plug

Lets start off with saying your first attempt should be with a smooth, perhaps slightly tapered plug of no more than 100mm in length.  Do not listen to those that say it should be the slimmest size as this may cause a piercing that will be very painful and may require medical assistance.  A good safe thickness should be 4-8mm to start.  Now, for gods sake, purchase one from a reputable shop – do not look around the house for a knitting needle or screw or something else to insert into your urethra.  Look after your urethra, it is a very sensitive part of the body and if you do the things I am going to divulge to you now, it may also derive you great pleasures.

There are a multitude of different plugs in the market but you do not want to start with a silicone one, or a wavy one, or a dominating sound of over 200mm in length.  Lets keep it simple for the first time.  So we have adequately covered the basics, so lets get into the nitty gritty.

Coming From The Inside Out

You have heard all the wonderful things about cock plugs and the fabled ‘cumming from the inside out’ and your curiosity now has the better of you and it is time for you to experience this ‘holy grail’.  Well settle down a bit mister, a bit more work goes into it than purchasing the first plug you see and stuffing it down your cock that will make you reach your new sexual nirvana.  See perhaps you did not realize this but  those that have experienced this majestic sexual enlightenment are/were not newbies.  They took the time and effort to learn how to carry out their cock-stuffing in a safe and enjoyable manner first, and you must do too.  There are no short-cuts.

To achieve the incredible ‘cumming from the inside out’ you need to possess a hollow or cum thru or pee thru plug.  All three are the same thing but those are the most common names for it.  To cum you have to have a hollow tubed cock plug so that your semen can pass through.  The inside out feeling is created because the flow of semen whilst ejaculated is hindered by the narrow channel and so as you climax a small amount dribbles through the opening and the remaining backs up into your urethral canal.  The more you ejaculate, the more semen goes up your urethra, creating that inside out feeling.

BUT, unfortunately for you newbies it is my humble suggestion that you use a solid plug first.  The solid plug should have a stopper, safe bend or flare at the end to make sure that you do not put the whole thing up your urethra and then have to rush to the medical center to have it removed.  I have a couple of recommendations for beginners plugs but the Ask Men Starter Penis Plug I feel is the perfect starter and you can pick it up for a measly $20AUD.  The link is from adultsmart but you can try and find it online somewhere else if you wish.

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Beginners Penis Plug

This plug is safe, especially for a newbie.  You will notice that the tip is rounded, no sharp edges and the plug is slightly tapered. The end is curved so you will never have a problem with it going all the way in.   The handle gives you greater control for bringing it in and out.  This to me is the perfect training plug as it cannot be inserted to deeply or to shallow.

So you have taken my advice and gone out online or to your local shop and purchased the Ask Men Starter Penis Plug and have unwrapped it, looking it and asking what now?  Don’t worry my friend I am not going to leave you in the lurch.  As promised here goes my step by step guide –


When you receive your product have a look at it, feel it to ensure that it is smooth, there are no irregularities or sharp bits on it.  Trust me you must do this as most penis plugs are hand-made and although it has never happened to me I have heard of someone inserting a penis plug and slicing their urinary tract.  You don’t want to explain that one to the doctor.  This step should be followed each and every time you use a plug (even one you have already used) as it may have dropped and a dint or ridge may also cause damage.



Once you have made sure that the plug is safe to use give it a wash using an antibacterial toy cleaner or placing the plug in boiling water.  This will be going inside you so it is essential to make sure it is sterile.

Say NO to Urinary Tract Infections!


If you placed it in boiling water let it cool down, although many people prefer to slip the penis plug in whilst it is still warm.


Bring out the lubricant.  Many urethral insert enthusiasts carry on about getting a Surgilube, or only use water based lubricant.  These are great lubricants don’t get me wrong but if you like extended play the urethra actually absorbs water so you will be regularly having to re-lube.  I personally use Superslyde which is a silicon lubricant, however many say that using silicon lubricant may cause a UTI.  It has not with me but it may with others, so I will allow you to make your judicious decision on that one.  However, to start with use the water based ones.


This to me is as important for a newbie as step one.  Put on some of your favorite beats, relax, do some gentle breathing, relax some more, have happy thoughts as you put some lube on, and if you can in the eye of your penis.  DO NOT FORCE IT.  If it does not go comfortably…relax, do some gentle breathing, relax some more, have happy thoughts….  Once your are lubed up lube up the insertible shaft of your plug…


Take it slow…. Did you hear me??? SLOWLY!!!! Slowly slide it down the eye of your pee hole.  If you have relaxed enough and you are doing it slowly it should slide in with no resistance and little or no discomfort. If you force it I almost guarantee you will never do it again and you will think that all of us that love this male sex toy play are nuts.  I got news for you, we are not nuts, and you are a chump for not following these steps that will addict you to this fantastic fetish.  I cannot stress this enough, if you experience resistance or it is feeling very uncomfortable STOP and .relax, do some gentle breathing, relax some more, have happy thoughts….

I liken this step is a bit like breaking your virginity and if you do it right the first time you will enjoy it and every time after that will be better and you can begin your urethral explorations.


Now you have inserted the plug into your urogenital canal, sounded professional I did then (pat on back whilst LOL).  You will be feeling aroused but probably have not got a full erection.  Starting very slowly begin to pull the plug out (if you have the Ask Men with the handle) and insert again slowly.  Do this, you can slowly pick up the pace, but being a first time user not too fast – you will have plenty of time to experiment at a later date.  Ensure that you are comfortable and experience no pain – for a novice user I would limit it to a maximum of 5 minutes.

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Remove the plug, check your pee-hole, if you can, go to the toilet and urinate.  The first time you do some cock-stuffing there may be some spotting in your urine.  This is common so do not stress as long as there is no pain or discomfort.   Clean and sterilize your plug.

Now That Wasn’t So Bad Was It?

Whilst you were stroking the plug inside your urethra you will probably have achieved a full erection.  You would have felt extremely pleasurable and different sensations to normal sex.  After you have urinated you will probably want to jerk off as it has turned you on.  All those things are fine but you must give yourself at least 24 hours before you try more penis plug play – this is for your safety.

The next day you can try 7 minutes, and the next 9.  Slowly work yourself up to the level that you are most comfortable and enjoy the most.  My advice is not to expand your penis plug range for at least a few weeks and more prudently a month.  Then it is time for the fun to begin.

Try the different penis plugs, cock wands, medical sounds until you find the style that best suits you.  You may enjoy masturbating whilst a sound is inside your urethra, or getting a hollow plug with a glans ring that you can cum thru (inside out), some men like to wear them whilst they are having sex and other wear them for extended periods.   This fetish is very adaptable to you and your needs. there are heaps of different penis plugs on the market.  There are solid ones, cum-thru, smooth, corkscrew, tapered, double ended, stepped and more for you to discover.

So there you have it.  Always remember cost is not always everything with these type of intimate products and buy from a reputable store.  Saving yourself $10 or $15 and ending up at the local hospital is no saving at all.

Be safe and be well!







Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena's and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

My Erections Last Longer When Wearing A Penis Plug!

Albert Plug

When I married my wife three years ago, my expectations were similar to what other men anticipate; a lovely, lively, and unrivaled sexual experience. Everything appeared to be on course until the end of the first year when my wife started accusing of me of under-performance. Everything slid from bad to worse as I became unable to sustain an erection. For a period of one year, I passed through what I would refer to as hell until I discovered The Prince Albert Penis Plug with Glans Ring. This is my favorite male sex toy because it has rejuvenated my relationship completely.

The toy is a steel rod of 110 mm length and a ring of 35 mm. The toy requires you to slide the entire length into the urethra canal to generate utmost medical sex play. While the mere sliding and special feeling always leaves men feeling uneasy about trying this toy, I can attest to its effectiveness. Though I was equally skeptical, I gave it a trial and I have never regretted. When I got used to the insert able stainless steel in the urethra, it gave me a magical sensation that I have never gotten elsewhere. Here is the reason I hold to this toy so dearly.

First, the toy has helped me to have a longer lasting and more effective erection. While men usually have a single climax during an intercourse, women are generally wild and can experience multiple climaxes. If you fail to deliver this, chances are that you might be headed for trouble. The toy helped me to be able to hold an erection for a long time. After getting used to it, my wife was wondering what happened because I could blow her off her feet with multiple climaxes. Because of this, having sex has become explosive and mind blowing. She makes sure to prepare herself properly and have adequate interplay because I can give her multiple climaxes when the penis is still hard enough for more.


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When the penis plug is inserted into the penis, it helps to draw attention of the entire body to the penis. Like many sex therapists indicate, sexual satisfaction is a game of the mind. The design of my favorite male sex toy is unique because it creates special cohesion especially of the penile muscles and entire pelvic system. This focus and concentration creates even greater harmony with other parts of the body. After using the plug my wife indicates that I feel like a monster and hard like a rock. In her words, she points that it is this sense of inferiority that she was looking for in our marriage.

Even though many people often find it difficult to convince their spouses to adopt toys, I found The Prince Albert Penis Plug with Glans Ring easy. Though this was driven by my relationship at the beginning which appeared headed to the rocks, I hold a different opinion. My ring could have worked even if my relationship was still okay. The toy helps a man perfect the art of keeping the penis hard and delivering great play. Whether you have just gotten your first girlfriend or you are married for many years, think of this toy and you will never regret it. Your woman will cling to you because the sexual experience she will get is immeasurable. Listed below are three things The Prince Albert Penis Plug brings to the table:

  • Style:

Penis Plugs act as a piece of jewelry for the penis. They are beautifying fittings. Penis fittings can emulate the look and style of having a punctured penis, they can offer a portion of the same advantages that men find when they do get penetrated. The great piece of fittings, in any case, is that they can be evacuated rather than left for all time.

  • Sensations:

Penis plugs and urethral sounds will take sensations to an all new level. Since these attachments deal with the nerve endings and make them more delicate, they work to blast away  run of the mill sexual experiences. Masturbation and oral sex while wearing a fitting will feel more prominent and much more fulfilling than they ordinarily do. These emotions alone are a reason that numerous individuals like to wear the fittings.

  • Sensation:

Since the fittings are empowering the nerve endings inside the penis, they elevate your sensations and yearnings.

Using penis plugs is an individual choice. When you have concluded this is something you want to attempt it is vital to locate the right one. You have a few alternatives including enhancing cock plugs and even those that incorporate male chastity devices.


Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena's and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

Penis Plug Your Urethra Will Love!

Massicho Vibrating Uretheral Sound 375mm x 10mm Sex Toy

Over the last 20 or so years penis plugs as a sex toy have really become easily accessible into the booming sex world.  There are a multitude of different penis plugs now available on the market with a size and shape to suit everyone.  Using a urethral plug is not for everyone but certainly those into tattooing, piercings and branding have embraced the use of them as the final piece of body art to their masterpiece. Most plugs are said to be made of medical grade surgical steel which is technically is 316L Stainless steel and it is used as surgical steel equipment or body pins and other implants.  Realistically most plugs are made of 316 Stainless Steel the only difference being that 316L has a lower carbon content.   Both are suitable materials for a penis plug and if cared for properly are hygienically safe.

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It is important to buy your plug from a reputable store.  Most penis plugs are handmade so slight differences will occur in sizing.  It is also essential that you check any plug purchased to ensure that there are no rough bits or shards as they may cause harm or injury and this includes checking it before and after every use. For the first time user, the use of a penis plug as a sex toy is not as intimidating as it sounds. For a novice user it may seem daunting but honestly there is no real pain in inserting the plug into the urethra.  Some first time users says it sort of stings a bit but there is no real pain.  Any pain experienced is over compensated by the gain in pleasures that can be experienced.

Before we start going through the many types of penis plugs available the first thing to explain is there are two types of plugs.  A solid plug or a hollow plug.  Plugs can also be referred to as wands or sounds but generally these are larger in length.

A solid plug is recommended for first time or casual users. As the name suggests the plug is solid but that does not limit the variety of different designs or sizes a solid penis club can have.

A hollow plug is generally for the more experienced users.  As the name suggests the hollow plug has a channel hollowed through the center of the plug.  This allows the wearer to keep it on for longer periods and also allows it to be worn during sex, masturbation or urination.  All three of these actions whilst wearing a hollow penis plug can excite and validate a penis plug being a sex toyThese types of penis plugs are fun to use, due to their difference

A penis plug also known as a cock plug is a piece of jewelry that is used as a male sex toy.  It is inserted through the head of the penis into the urethra and for me heighten arousal during masturbation and sex.  The plug is usually made out of medical grade stainless steel so that it will not rust and is easily to maintain its hygiene. Penis plugs come in all different sizes and colors – and these days may also come in different material but I believe medical grade steel remains the best.   When I started experimenting I started with a beginner’s or starters penis plug which was a shorter plug about 7mm in thickness with a small curved handle at the base.  This handle allowed easier control of maneuverability of the plug as well as giving confidence that it would not be inserted too far. Most penis plugs are 8-10mm wide and around the 70mm in insert-able length.  Anything larger than 100mm in length are known as a penis wand or medical sounds.  These days penis plugs come in all different styles and even materials – however I believe the medical grade steel ones are the best and most hygienic.

The natural reaction of urethral muscles when something is inserted is to try and expel it.  One method to keep the plug in the penis is to wear a glans ring.  I prefer to use a tapered cock plug that causes the urethral muscles to form around the plug rather than expel it.  When I first started using penis plugs as a sex toy I preferred solid ones.  After using them for some time now I have graduated to what is termed as a cum thru or hollow plug.  As the name suggests the plug is hollow in the center and it allows the wearer to ejaculate when having sex or masturbating whilst keeping the plug in.  This has the effect to me of restricting the semen during ejaculation which intensifies and lengthens the time I come.

The cum thru penis plug also allow you to wear it during the day for extended periods and go to the toilet and pee with it in place.

How would I describe the increased arousal and heightened sensations caused to the urethra when using a penis plug whilst masturbating?  Well to put it into a few words – it is like having sex inside out.  To explain that description when you have sex without a plug the most intense feeling you get are on the head and shaft of penis – when wearing  the penis plug as a sex toy the sensations is far more intense on the inside of the penis rather than outside.


Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena's and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.