How to have a MMF without including another Male

Fantasies can be tricky subjects especially with something like How to have a MMF when you have a long term partner who might not be as sexually inclined as what you would be. Sometimes if they are not as sexually experienced or sexually mature, your requests to try not so common things can come off as either an attack or something that might be ‘weird’ or ‘unusual’ to your partner. This tends to be a common theme when women ask their partners (most of the time they struggle to muster up the courage because they don’t want their partner to think that they want to cheat on him) to have a threesome that includes another male joining her and her male partner, making it a Male Male Female (MMF) threesome. This idea also plays on the sexual fantasy of Double Penetration which is a female being penetrated both vaginally and anally simultaneously. But how do you fulfil this fantasy when your partner doesn’t want to invite another male into the bedroom? There are a few things you can do to actually substitute the additional male out (although it won’t be the actual fantasy, this solution is a lot better than nothing at all). By substituting another person for multiple different positions and toys, you can actually have more fun for yourself and your partner. So here are a few steps you can take and/or do to get you close to fulfilling the fantasy without another man marching all up on your partner’s masculine territory.

COMMUNICATION

First things first, you have to communicate to your partner about your fantasy. This might be a tough conversation depending on who you choose to lay with. If you have experienced issues in the past when it comes to being open and communicating, then it might be best to really consider if this is the right person for you (Why do you want to be with someone who won’t even hear you out?). However, if you are with someone who is open to listening to you communicate then the first option would be to sit down and express to them what your fantasy is. It is super important in this conversation that you reassure him that it’s not about emotionally involving another man into the equation but rather the physical aspect. Explain that he is more than enough and that this has just always been a one off fantasy. By reassuring your partner that he is more than enough and he provides you with all the pleasure you need, this will heap him hopefully come to a decision to consider inviting another male into the bedroom. Also if he isn’t so comfortable with the idea and says he isn’t interested in doing it, he doesn’t walk away with a bitter taste in his mouth thinking that he isn’t good enough. In the case of the later option, this is where you can bring in a whole bunch of toys to substitute and fulfil.

As we all know, toys are a comrade for men rather than a competitor. They are designed to help increase pleasure for both partners and often help women reach climax. So what type of toys can you introduce to give you that MMF feeling? Well there are 2 different options that I would recommend.

DOUBLE PENETRATION

A double penetration dildo (Please see image for visual recognition). This toy is great for the exact same rhythm that the penis is doing when it comes to anal penetration. How it works is, it is held in place by 2 rings (One goes around the testicles and the other goes around the shaft of the penis). The dildo actually sits comfortably between the shaft of the penis and the testicles. It will move with your body when you thrust, giving the exact same motion of when you insert your penis. There are a vast amount of different positions you can use this toy with including the usual missionary, cowgirl and doggy. To really add pleasure to the experience, have a clitoral stimulator working the clitoris at the same time.

Suction cup dildo’s have always been an amazing addition to any single or couples toy collection. Reason being is that they are the closest toy that can simulate the real thing, especially when you’re using it on walls for doggy or on chairs for cow girl. How can you include it for your MMF experience? By using it on the glass you can either give the dildo oral whilst your partner pounds from behind, you can use the dildo anally whilst your partner is holding you up thrusting from the front vaginally. Switching up the different variants are very fun when it comes to involving both the dildo and your partner.

GANG BANG

These 2 options are fantastic if your partner does not want to include another Male. However, they can also be used if you’ve wanted to experience a multi-person gang bang also. Make sure to always look for ways to increase your pleasure. Have fun!

AJ is a consultant at the Oh Zone Adult Stores

6 Dating Apps to Fulfill Your Threesome Dream

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The advancement in technology has made it possible for users to have mobile applications for anything they want. No matter, it is finding a soul mate for marriage or looking for a threesome partner, everything is available on the internet.

We often receive requests from our viewers about which apps are the perfect choice for finding the right partner to enjoy a threesome. To help those readers, our team has researched and identified the top 6 dating apps to fulfill your threesome dream in detail. Let’s go through each option and install the one you like most on your phone!

  1. 3rder

It is one of the most exceptional dating apps for couples or singles looking for a threesome. 3rder is a fun application that can be installed on both iOS and Android devices. It is a special tool for open-minded individuals who are interested in doing something different. While visiting this site, you will find it is a playground for love where things begin with an awesome threesome sex chat.

 

  1. AdultFriendFinder

The next application we want to mention here is AdultFriendFinder having a pretty solid collection of swingers and sex lovers. None of the people will ever say something bad about this website thanks to its ability to make open sex enjoyable. Just try to stay away from scammers who make fake profiles on this platform.

 

  1. BiCupid

The main tagline of the BiCupid app is to let the users find bisexual and erotic people. They work for people who like to explore new things and fantasies to boost their pleasure levels. Stay honest with your needs on this platform while looking for a threesome, and we are pretty sure you will have a hell of a time.

 

  1. Get It On

Get It On is a very terrific app that gives plenty of group sex options in every city. Whether you are a couple or a single, this app gives liberty to explore new things hiding in your heart for a long time. Additionally, this app allows the users to post updates & stories just as Instagram.

 

  1. 3Somer

The fifth option we want to recommend to the users is 3Somer, specially made for those interested in threesomes. It is an easy-to-use application where making a profile doesn’t take much time. You will full liberty to give your preferences while looking for a partner on this mobile app.

 

  1. Fantasy Match

If you want to fulfill all your kinks & curiosities about sex, Fantasy Match is definitely a wonderful choice to make. The users get plenty of options while using this application that is exceptional for sure. Unlike boring mobile apps, it offers much more than just a threesome sex chat and makes sure you get the ideal partner for real sex.

Conclusion

These dating apps are very amazing options to transform your threesome fantasy into a reality. Whatever wish you have, we are pretty assured they will be very helpful for letting you move one step forward for an awesome pleasurable session.

Threesomes And More!

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Threesomes can be a scary word brought up within a relationship that the other partner can just instantly be put off with only saying the word. This day and age i have found a lot more singles and couples are more open to exploring there fetish/fantasies and threesomesis starting to become not as intimating as they use to be. Not all of them need to start with just a couple and adding an extra into them. Some can just be three single people wanting to adventure out and have a bit of fun. Some are just drunken nights that things got a little heated and ended with two different people lying beside you the next morning. Whatever your story is then I always say try something once and if its not your thing then at least you got out your comfort zone and experiment a new experience.
For the couples that are totally against having another person come anywhere near there partners then there is a fun cool way to create a threesome feel without another person being added in. Go to your local adult boutique and grab a masturbator and some lube. There is so many amazing designs of masturbators to choice from, whether its plain or vibrating figure out the one that suits your partner the most. For lesbian couples, go and grab a vibe or even a rabbit. With using these sex toys on your partners they will have the feel like a real life human and with you using it on them then they can relax and get into the mood without the hassle of having to do it themselves.
Some couples just do not know were to even begin to search for another person to join in. We are lucky that now a days we have social media and the internet to help this process. This can help open so many doors to finding someone suitable.
  • Apps – The main one that i can recommend is an app called Fetlife. Its an app that is open to every sort of sex fantasies and fetishes out there. You can make a profile up and anyone interest can get in contact with you. The is great for being able to see pictures of them and have little conversation to maybe take the nerves away if you have any. I have seen on just some of the basic dating websites, couples that have made a profile to invite a third person into there relationship for the night.
  • Advert boards in an adult store. Not all of them do this but some do and its an easy way to leave an advert about exactly what you are looking for and just leave your phone number. I was in Oh! Zone Penrith the other day and noticed they had one hanging near the main door full of adverts.
  • Hiring an escort or prostitute. This way you will have someone professional and experience in this department. This is a great help for beginners starting this way and they can take control and guide you through it. Most of them will make you feel relaxed and comfortable in case the nerves take over a bit.
  • Swingers clubs – There are some good few to pick from if you don’t mind traveling into the sydney city way. Before you go you and your partner need to talk and discuss between each other to find out what each others limits and boundaries are going to be so there is no confusion or arguments when you are there. At these clubs they are so respectful and lovely people to experiment with that will make you feel excited and relaxed at the same time. Everyone there has been a newbie at some point so there so welcoming and friendly with you and help ease you into trying something new. There is strike rules so your do not ever feel under pressure to do anything your not wanting to.  With the swingers clubs its not only about swapping partners, some couples go there to just have threesomes, so pretty much everything goes as long as the other people are up for it.
  • Friends – You might not even realize that someone very close to use would be up for adding themselves into your sex life for the night. Yes this one is probably going to be your riskiest one but it could also be a very comfortable one also. The risky side is that they regret it after and then it can become a little awkward between use all. Another is some feelings may happen to get involve. The more comfortable fact is there is no strings attached but you know this person and feel very relaxed around them, also will know there back story and whats going on in there life to add them into the threesome triangle.
I always recommend safe sex before trying any new adventures. Make sure you are using condoms or even dental dams for females. We can all get a bit caught up in the moment and maybe forget so please wrap up and do not be silly. But have fun, experiment and get out that comfort zone we all tend to be to scared to leave. Its 2020 and judgment with people is getting a lot lower.
This article was contributed by a conultant at the Oh Zone Adult Stores.

How To Keep Bisexuals Satisfied

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Perfect sex is the key element to make your home life happy with your partner or lover. If your partner is a bisexual person then he or she is really special, more so than many other people. As your partner is bisexual, you must know he or she has interest in people of both sexes. But the bisexual person does not like to cheat on their partner if they really love their partner, and if you are in  purely monogamous relationship. If you are able to make your bisexual lover happy and satisfied then there is the same guarantee that your bi partner will never leave you for another. Just give him or her the taste of your perfect love.

You may have seen that all type’s of relationships are frightening and troublesome. In any case, in the event that you are new to the scene and inquisitive about the future, here is a rundown of things you can hope to end up encountering once you trap the partner you have will adore for the rest of your life. Get ready to be always blasted. In your new relationship, you will feel euphorically cheerful and receive a flippant state of mind, which will make each day with your better half appear like a smaller than expected festival. To add to the stress there are a whole range of things you should never say to a bisexual person to.

When you’re infatuated, you’re invulnerable. Nothing can touch you. The world can go to hell fire in a hand crate; you share a pulse and that is the only thing that is in any way important. There’s nothing to stress over any longer – you’re sheltered. You’re warm. Ensured. You’ve made a home in each other’s arms and hearts and you’re confronting the future courageously, together, head-on. That is, obviously, until she finds a new message with one excessively numerous smiley faces in your inbox from some hot young lady. All of a sudden, you have a great deal of disclosing to do. Ignore what other people are doing, it is not about them it is about you and your partner. It is best to keep your partner satisfied in a happy healthy relationship.

 

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Sexual satisfaction can  be experienced in a lot of forms, it can be by masturbation, or touching or by oral sexual intercourse, even erectile fantasies and a wide range of other kinks. There will also be many solutions to increase your bi partners sexual pleasure and thereby increase yours. You can follow the way that feels right to you and your lover. You can do this by looking for the perfect moment to get right environment for the two of you, doing so will mean that you may remain monogamous with your perfect bi partner and not worry about them cheating. You have to just find the way, which forms of love give your partner the most pleasure. Try to always make sure your bi partner feels happy and fulfilled in your love. Give him or her a lovely hug when your meet them or they come home. You can also give a french or deep kiss to your bi partner when in more intimate surroundings. Always try to cover him or her with the feelings of love. Try to understand the feelings of your bisexual partner. You can also discuss personal matters with your bi partner and you should talk with him or her about their bisexuality as this will allow both of you to connect, realise what is wanted or desired in your relationship and open the floodgates of honesty and trust.

If you want to build a fantastic lovemaking relationship with your bi partner, then there is no option but to find out what your lover wants sexually, knowing how to express it in a relaxed manner, as well as never being forced to do anything you or your bi mate do not want to do. Having very good sex in your relationship is important and can promote entire sexual satisfaction.  This is the major factor to make your bisexual partner happy but it’s not really the only factor. The characteristics that usually help to make a big difference between a happy married life or an unhappy marriage may actually enhance lovemaking satisfaction for the both of you.

Give some extra love moments from your life to your special bisexual partner. Try to spend some friendly time with one another. Both of you can also go for a long drive, a night out or even a vacation together. It will boost your relationship. Your bisexual partner will feel happy to stay with you if they feel comfortable and happy with you. So give some extra effort to make your bisexual lover satisfied and be your best friend.