Experts Tips In Breaking The Fear Bubble In Trying Anal Sex For The First Time

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Whenever sex topics are talked about, almost everyone is willing to share their first time in bed. However, take in mind that most people often refer to vagina and penis penetration. For some, anal play or anal sex is still taboo, and only a few individuals are open with their anal play engagement.


But did you know that heterosexual anal intercourse is not an uncommon sexual activity? Women and men with ages ranging from 25-44 had experienced anal intercourse. In numbers, 35% of women and 44% of men engage with the said activity.


Yet, even with the numbers are increasing over recent years, some are still afraid of trying anal play for the first time. A lot of speculation and fears lead them to overthink how the entire experience will go. If you’re reading this, you might be interested in anal sex. Read on and let the experts clear your thoughts about anal sex. Maybe, after reading the article, you might find yourself relieved and excited to try it out with your partner.

Anal Sex Is For All

Contrary to what you hear or think, anal sex is definitely for everyone. Whatever gender orientation you have, you can enjoy anal sex with your partner. And one good thing with anal play is everyone has anuses, so you can either receive or get one, depending on your heart’s content.


You might be wondering how a woman can treat her partner (women to women or women to men scenario) during an anal play. You might be thinking that it’s kind of impossible before. However, these days, it’s easier than ever.


Thanks to many types of sex toys, it can now be done. Popularly referred to as pegging,  women can now treat their partners, either men or women, with an anal play through this sexual activity. Women can wear a strap-on dildo and penetrate the anus of their partners.


What’s even better is that the entire anal play can be improvised to add intensity to the experience using other sex toys. Moreover, couples can also share stimulation by using a strapless dildo. With this, the female partner can have her clit stimulated while pouncing her partner through their anus.


But all of these strange yet sexy sexual repertoire might come off a bit awkward for beginners, and we would like to break that awkwardness. Now, let’s read on what sex and relationship experts have to say about how a couple or an individual can break through the fear of anal sex.

Read What Experts About To Say…

According to sex educator and CannaSexual founder, Ashley Manta, our anus, made up of the sphincter and the rectum, are teeming with nerve-endings that, when stretched and filled in, give off a fantastic feeling. Feeling ecstatic yet? Hold on for a while. As per Luna Matatas, a sex and pleasure educator, you can’t directly dive into the whole anal play right away. Foreplay is a must.


That’s why treating your partner with a pleasure oral sex stimulator and other sex toys can be a great way to heat things up. It’s best to go slow and steady first. However, if you and your partner are already utilizing sex toys during intercourse, it can be a good start to introduce sex toys designed for anal play.


Certified sex therapist and a licensed psychologist, Rachel Needle, Psy.D  advise couples to always communicate with their partner. If your partner is having fears and doubt with anal sex, try to take things slowly. If you’re on the side of the relationship who does have more experience, discuss this new sexual activity and make sure both of you are on the same page.


Use lubricant as more lubrication means better and enjoyable anal sex. Remember that unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t produce its lubrication. That’s why many women are naturally scared of what’s getting in there. You can also use water or silicone-based condoms.


Don’t hesitate to use anal sex toys. It’s highly suggested, and you don’t necessarily need to insert it to your anus right away. A little vibration can add a lot of new stimulation in the area. It can help you get acquainted with the new and strange sensation, as per sexologist Jill McDevitt.


Like masturbation, you can also introduce anal play on your own. This is best advised for individuals interested in trying new things on their own before trying it with someone else. It gives an individual a sense of freedom-, the liberty to experiment with new things on your body.  According to Alicia Sinclair, a sex expert and the woman behind b-Vibe,  that’s not a bad thing to do. It’s only natural that you want to explore the intricacies of your body by yourself.


Learn your most comfortable position. Whatever you read on any sex magazines or hear advice from friends, you always need to learn what position you and your partner are most comfortable with. If you are on the receiving end, it’s easiest to be on your back or stomach. Take it from Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, an NYU professor of human sexuality and also a LELO sexpert. However, comfort differs from one person to another, so take the time to figure out your most preferred position.


And to give you peace of mind, anal sex won’t stretch you out. If this factor scares you, don’t be. As per assistant clinical professor, Alyssa Dweck, MD at Mount Sinai School of Medicine, your anus will bounce back to normal after it accommodates a penis or sex toy entry. Thus, don’t worry about incontinence and enjoy the experience.


Anal sex or anal play has become a trendy sexual repertoire, so it’s not surprising that individuals and couples engaging with the activity are increasing. However, there are still individuals who are afraid of doing it. However, proper research, preparation, and communication with your partner can lead to enjoyable anal sex. These experts’ advice and tips can significantly help anyone interested in exploring their behind and enjoy the experience.


Author’s bio:

Belinda is a 42-year-old married mother of three who lives in Naples, Florida. While staying at home to raise her children, she began to write articles and blogs for various outlets. She was raised in a strict, Christian home, but has since found more peace with a more spiritual approach to life and health. A strong believer in natural and alternative medicine, energy healing, and total wellness, she stumbled on the health benefits of the female orgasm quite by accident. Since then, she has often written pieces that help inform others about the benefits she discovered. Belinda also enjoys taking care of her home and family, and often jokes that she is a bit of a Stepford wife… with a wild side. In her free time, she loves to spend time at the beach with her family, host parties and BBQ’s, and work outside in one of her many flower gardens.

Taboo Family GangBang!

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My name is Marge and I am thin with reasonable complexion, light chestnut wavy shoulder length hair, green eyes, 34B bosoms and a pleasant firm ass. I’m pretty much have an ideal body that males masturbate to. I’m glad for my body as I am able to frequently wear short skirts, low tops and have a tendency to go without underwear, particularly in the late spring when it gets to hot. I cherish sex, all types of sex and have an unequivocal bizarre sexually side to me that I find hard to explain sometimes. I adore all types of filthy talk amid sex, particularly having a gentleman call me names like prostitute, skank, and even bitch. But these are some basic facts about me, this is really a story about the tale of my taboo family affair. Since you can now comprehend who I am and what type of things I’m interested in, how about we get on with the story?

A couple of years back, I was in a genuine relationship with a kindhearted fellow named Willis. He was several years older than me, attractive, 6’5 with a solid body and a dick that was 9″ long and 2 ½” thick dick that swelled to 11 1/2″ long and 3 1/2″ thick when erect. He was the youngest of five siblings, all who had comparable bodies to him. Each week, Will, his four brothers and their dad would assemble in our rumpus room to play poker and have a couple of lagers. One night while they were playing cards, Willis shouted to me, I was in the lounge room, and requested that I bring them a few glasses of Coopers brewskies. When I was setting the lagers down, I bent over, my skirt raised up, accidentally giving Willis’s sibling Jim a look of my pleasantly exposed ass. This is the type of ass you see on the swimming suit comps that everyone wants to look at it.

Willis saw that James was checking me out and said, “Jim, why not push her skirt up and improve the look?”

James smiled and pushed my skirt up to my waist, exposing my ass and newly waxed pussy to everybody. It was evident that they loved what they saw, as their shorts started to get tight as their cocks sprang to attention.


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What I did next brought a smile to the majority of their countenances. I ventured back and took my skirt off before taking off my shirt, leaving me in only my most loved silver stiletto shoes. I moved adjacent to James and bent over, unfastening his shorts and hauling out his huge cock . Before he could say anything, I took him in my mouth and began sucking him off. After a few minutes, he expressed divine satisfaction by kicking his hips up and pushing his cock down my throat. He didn’t keep going long and I was soon gulping the strips of his cum as they spurted down my throat. When he completed cumming I took a sip of his brew before looking around the table.

I looked at them all and said, “Who’s next?”

Their dad, Aiden, quickly undid his shorts and hauled his thick dick out – now I could see where Willis and James got their massive cocks from.  I adjusted the table like it was some piece of sex furniture and took him in my mouth. He got my head and began fucking my face, pushing his tremendous cock down my throat. After a few minutes, he came and I gulped his cum eagerly. After taking a sip of his brew, I moved onward to Willis’s sibling Shane. After Shane, the ball was in Curtis’ court, then Blade, lastly Willis. My belly was full of their cum, I had become the family cum-bucket

When I was done with Willis, James and Aiden were standing up with huge erections ready to go again.  This family sure has some horny buggers in it.  As opposed to giving them head, however, I sat down on the table before James, spread my legs and let him know that he was going to fuck me – and I made sure he knew hard.

He glanced over to Willis, who smiled and nodded letting them all know it was Okay to proceed. James remained up and pressed his long, thick cock right into my pussy. After a couple of tender pushes, I let him know to fuck me harder. James smiled and began beating his cock in me hard, after a few minutes he was ready to blow.

James looked over at Willis who said said, “Cum inside her. Fill my little sluts pussy up.” That was everything James needed to hear, and he came, sending several long spurts inside me.

When he was finished he took his cock out and Aiden immediately took his spot saying,  “Watch and learn boys.  This is how you fuck Willis’s cock sucking slut”.

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Aiden pulled me off of the table, turned me around, and bent me over it. I could feel James cum dribbling down my leg as my stomach hit the table, he pushed into me firm, covering his foot long, four inch thick dick all the way inside me. Before I had an opportunity to move around him, he began fucking me real hard, bottoming out against my cervix on every push and bringing a measure of pain that shockingly, had me cumming harder and more than I ever had in my life. I was cuming and gushing until the point when my pussy at long last loosened around him.  He then pulled out of my gaping pussy and pushed his cock hard into my ass – it hurt a little at first but I could already feel his cock pulsating and within moment I could feel the spurting streams on hot cum being delivered up my ass and into my guts.  The ejeaculation just kept going and it was a few moments that I began to assgasm too!

Cum was dribbling out my pussy and ass after Aiden pulled out, Shane lifted me off of the table and drove me over to the sofa. He sat down and let me get on top of him ride him. I jumped on top of him and we soon got into a beat that had us both groaning in raptures. While I was fucking Shane, Willis snatched a container of lube and passed it to Charles, who covered his dick with it – he needn’t have done as there was that much of his sons jism up there.  He moved behind me, and entered my ass with the entire length of his cock. The three of us went at it for some time before Shane came in my pussy with a moan. A couple of minutes after that, Charles lifted me off of Shane and bowed me over the love seat before pushing into my pussy and after a couple of pushes, came adding his semen to that of his siblings.

When he had pulled  his cock out, Blade laid me out on the floor and secured me with his body. He was slower and gentler than his siblings and dad, and to my joy, soon had me cumming once more. After he  had cum bucket loads inside me, he moved off my beaten and abused pussy so Willis could take a turn.

Willis let me know to get on all fours and fucked me like a beast, beating my ass in time to his pushes until it was splendid and red and felt like it was ablaze. Soon he was adding his cum to that of his siblings. When Willis completed, Aiden let him know to show the way, that he “needed to make the little skank shout”. He fucked me harder and quicker than anybody ever had before or since and soon had me crying and shouting in a mixture of joy and agony. Following a few minutes of the merciless pace, he came, adding his cum to his children’s and making me cum one last time. When he pulled his cock out it remained up but I could no longer move – I was physically spent.

James and Blade helped me up and Willis took a few pictures of me with their cum running down my legs and out my ass. They moved me into different positions and I had no strength left to resist.  Eventually they set me back on the lounge and thanked me for the best family gang bang they had ever had.  They cleaned themselves up and left.

After they were gone a while and my strength returned, I cleaned up and to relieve my hurting body and stinging pussy washed the cum off in a long hot shower.  Willis straightened up the house and ordered home delivery. I could hardly walk but I rejoined Willis and we consumed a late supper before going to bed.  I was exhausted and spent. I was sore for the following couple of days due to some minor inward wounds, particularly on my cervix yet when the fellows approached me for a repeat of this adventure the following week I immediately agreed and had a ball, even more than I did the first run through!

Willis and I are no longer together and I have lost contact with every one of them, however on account of those nights, I’ve created a love for being gang banged, in the middle of the pack of lustful and forceful men.  I participate in orgies and gang bangs a couple of times a year thanks to the taboo family affair.