A Lesbians Guide to Making Strap-Ons More Fun

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Strap-ons are one of my absolute favourite things to use during sex! It’s been a long road of learning what straps make me feel most comfortable and what style of dildos I like using and which ones make me feel good when I spot myself in the mirror. Dildo choices have come a long way over the last few years, so many new brands have come out with toys that don’t look like penises but still have a great range of different shapes, sizes and colours. Then there’s the brands that have come out with revolutionary dildos that look and feel ultra-realistic, some get erect and some even ejaculate.
Then there’s share dildos…. 3 years ago I admitted that I couldn’t hold one in… this is still the case, so today I’ll be giving you my updated list of toys that makes using straps a little bit more exciting for the wearer.
We Vibe Chorus 

We Vibe update their couple’s vibrator every few years, this year they released the chorus and it’s stronger and better than ever. This toy is my personal favourite to combine with my straps. It gives you both internal and external stimulation whilst being a completely hands-free toy. If you insert the bigger motor, the smaller motor sits nicely flat in the front where the strapon dildo sits and you can feel the vibrations through the dildo, making it a little more fun for your partner as well. You’ll definitely need the remote to control the toy once inserted and then it’s up to you who gets to be in control.

 
We Vibe Jive 
If you’re a beginner with toys or you’re the kind of person that gets over stimulated if too much is going on at the same time then the We Vibe Jive is a better toy start off with. For me personally I find the Jive to be a little weak, but for someone who can’t handle a lot of vibration, this is perfect. It has a longer body than most standard eggs and it has a curve to it so when you’re using it with straps it would move with your body when you’re thrusting. On the tip of the tail you’ll find your control button.
Romp Wave 
Let me just start with, this toy won’t work with all types of straps, it will need support to stay in place. Boxer short harnesses or any harness that has 2 straps running underneath your bits should do the job. The Romp Wave is an external vibrator that has a larger body and motor then just your standard bullet. It should sit nicely under your bits, massaging different areas while you’re thrusting up against it. It’s quite a thin toy and it’s covered in soft silicone so it will be nice and comfy.

Here’s How You Can Spice up Your Sex Life with the Right Bedroom Practices

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We all need a bit of fun and playfulness in the bedroom, and the less uncomfortable we feel about discussing it, the more stimulating and pleasurable it can get. Of course, communication is key, being able to tell your partner what you want to try out and what your kinks are is in fact quite liberating and can lead to a great and fulfilled sex life. Sex toys and roleplaying are a great part of this conversation as they can help you explore your own sexuality as well as that of our partner. With that in mind, let’s browse through this article together and see what you might find interesting.

Choosing the perfect bedroom aids

If you lack experience when it comes to choosing the right toys for your bedroom activities, you can always do a bit more research as to which one does what. There is a wind range of offers from those suitable for her or his pleasure only to those that can stimulate both partners at the same time. On the other hand, if you are quite clear regarding your preferences, it will be much easier to make a choice. And in case you don’t have a willing partner to participate in this exploration, you can always find someone with a similar proclivity by browsing through strapon personals or similar niched options so as to fulfill your specific bedroom needs. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable regarding the use of certain aids and that you can relax and just enjoy the ride.

Introducing some drama into your bedroom

No no, not the negative connotation of this phrase. More like some actual theatre.  Roleplaying can be a powerful aid when it comes to unleashing your innermost desires. This is mostly because we feel freer doing certain things as someone else. So, by opting for some quality role-playing, we get to explore both our own sexuality and that of our partner guilt-free, and more importantly, shame-free. Feeling shame over some things that we want to try in the bedroom is not a good sign. It means that we are suppressing our true desires, and with role-playing, we can get over that feeling and simply make our character do or say exactly what we need at that particular moment. Now, you can always go a step further and introduce fun and interesting costumes to help you and your partner get into character even more.

Change the location

Yes, it can be as simple as that. Breaking the routine of always making love in the bedroom can do wonders for your sex life. For starters, explore different locations within your home, just make sure you are all alone, and no guests are expected. Shower or bathtub can always be a fun alternative, and the water can be quite stimulative. Another option is the kitchen and various surfaces there, this can also lead to some interesting position changes that you both might enjoy. The next step is completely leaving your home and finding an alternative spot, a hotel room, perhaps. This option can be great if a bit of roleplaying is added. You can also explore the great outdoors if you feel comfortable with it. Remember, feeling relaxed and comfortable is essential for this change of pace to work.

Enrich your movie selection

This can be an interesting option, not only as a way to spice up your sex life but also as a window into your partner’s specific interests. Yet again, you need to feel assured that your partner won’t judge your particular interest when it comes to pornography, and you shouldn’t judge theirs either. Instead, discover what it is that has that stimulating effect on you when it comes to a selected genre of movies. This way you might discover more about each other’s needs and by doing so enrich your sex life. So, start by discussing what your interests are when it comes to pornography and then select movies that can combine some or all of your listed preferences. Then, just relax and enjoy the rest of the intimate evening in each other’s company.

 

This guide should give you something to consider when it comes to spicing up your sex life. The options are limitless, all you need to do is feel comfortable, first with your own desires and wishes and then with those of your partner. That way you can explore everything together, trying out different things and simply enjoying each other to the fullest. Remember, the truth will set you free in this case, so be open as honest as you possibly can and you will reap the benefits of such a relationship, both in bed and in life.

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