The Fetish Walls

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Occasionally walking into an adult store near you and being met with such a large choice of kink gear can be overwhelming. Below we have broken our selections down into sub-types to help you begin to navigate our range of fetish and kink gear. Our sales team are well educated to help you in-store with any questions that you might have.
Have fun!

Blindfolds.

Blindfolds compliment all restraints, sensory and general play. By removing your sense of sight, other senses are heightened. the suspense of not knowing what’s happening, what will be coming next to increase Adrenalin and anticipation. In-store we have a variety of satin, leather, masks and blindfolds to add to your pleasure.

Spanking.

A classic BDSM practice, using your hand or chosen implement to slap, hit or spank a person’s body; their bottom, hands, thighs or feet for example. You can choose to be silly, fun, serious and oh so sexy, intimate and delicious. the bottom is a great place for beginners to try spanking and impact play due to the shape of the surface and padding. Different implements will have varying impacts, feels and if you consent, marks. Leather, silicone, wooden, plastic or canes will have varying sensations such as a “thuddy” feel, stinging, “full feeling which will meet individual preferences.

Whipping ties into spanking, using implements such as our leather floggers, single tails, whips and riding crops. these can be used for impact, creating a deeper sting, a louder kind of kiss against the skin or a more intense biting feel or with a gentler hand, create sensations up and down the spine and the skin. Coupled with a blindfold the limit is the sky.

Restraints.

It’s up to your personal preference, your type of play and fun when it comes to restraints and we intend to cater to your tastes. From metal and leather cuffs that can be used to restrain movement from your wrists, your ankles, legs and more. cuff them together, or attach them to the bed, or using our Under-bed loops to create a variety of new positions. Restrains heighten pleasure in a number of ways, controlling the movement of a person, for providing support for a person to hold on to, to denying a person their sense of touch. Our fetish wall also boasts bondage tape, silicone cuffs and a variety of rope.

adding to restraints include items such as spreader bars, fetish swings and poles.

we have a variety of gags to be used during restraints. A variety of gags are used for different preference and also for people who have not been gagged before. Training sets include varying sizes to start experimenting with and training the mouth to be held open at varying sizes.l Several gags also include rings that maintain the mouth to be kept open for oral play.

When using gags always remember to utilise a system for the person gagged top communicate. Clickers, bells or hand signals are good to make sure that at any point, the person who is gagged can signal they need the gag removed.

Nipple Play.

For many, nipples are an erogenous zone, are sensitive and a great area for foreplay, or to be incorporated in sexual activities. Squeezing, tweaking, light vibrations, tickling, licking, sucking make this sensual approach worth exploring. On our walls, we have a variety of adjustable and fixed nipple clamps both decorative and functional. Suckers add an element of stimulation and simulating oral arousal.

Heat Play

ever enjoyed the deep sensation of wax play? Melting candles of various temperatures and burning time and dripping the wax on parts of the body can illicit a new level to sensory play. Candles burn at different temperatures depending on what wax they are made at and any additional chemicals that are used.

Massage candles are the lowest burning temperature and a good place to start if new to temperature play.

Soy candles burn at roughly 45C and cool quickly on the skin.

Paraffin candles burn hotter between 45C and 65C and require more care when used.

Bees Wax candles burn hotter still between 65C and 90C

Wax will feel hotter the closer to the skin it is dripped on. 30cm away from the body is a good starting point.

Electro Stimulation

Electro Stim play is using shocks of electricity through various implements to cause tingling sensations and pleasurable pain. Electricity is conducted through mediums such as perspex and steel and can be placed on erogenous parts of the body or along the skin for sensory stimulation. We have a range of Electro stim toys on our back wall or in our cases.

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Slap, Tickle and SPANK!

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Spank class!

Spanking has had a bad rap in recent times, you’re no longer allowed to spank children or the elderly to keep them in line. However, there was a time when people were spanking all over town. All jokes aside, I’ll admit it, I love to be spanked. Pre-sex, during sex, and a good ol’ after sex smack on the ass, a gesture that I put on a great show. While some people find this kink a little odd, there are thousands of people who enjoy erotic spanking. Why am I sharing this with you? Because I think everyone deserves a good spanking and I am going to share how to give and receive a good ol’ sexual spanking spank.

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History of spanking

Spanking is not a new trend, the first recorded image or depiction of sexual spanking in Tomba della Fustigazione, or the Tomb of Whipping and actually backdates to 490 BC. Spanking is depicted through Greek and Egyptian cultures as well as mention in Karma Sutra in the Indian culture. Spanking moved through the Renaissance and Victorian eras with a common underground culture of sexual spanking found in Victorian history. Fast forward to more modern times, we’ve become more kink friendly and accepting of people’s sexual fetishes and it is less taboo to tell people about your spanking desires. There you go, your spank lesson over!

Firstly, and most importantly: Permission is important!

Consent is a fickle thing isn’t it? Look, I really shouldn’t need to say this, however, I am saying it anyway. Never ever spank anyone without their consent, like – ever. Adding to that you should ask before you spank not after. You’ll be sorry when someone punches you in the nose because you gave an unwelcomed smack. After someone has given you permission to spank them you should try implementing safe words or systems. The traffic light system is a good start: green is obviously means keep going, yellow is when you are pushing limits and need to dial it down and red for stop, as in stop immediately. Under no circumstances should you ever continue to spank someone if they have said they’ve had enough.

Why do people like spanking?

Short answer is: science. The long answer is that the neurotransmitters in your brain that help control your brains pleasure and rewards centre is also activated when it comes to pain. That is where that old saying comes into play, there is a fine line between pleasure and pain. So, that is why many people find spanking a turn on. Also, after 50 Shades of Grey came out everybody is much more kink friendly than ever before.

Bare basics… get it? BARE.

Spanking at its simplest form can be performed on a bare bum with bare hands. However, there are various implements you can use on your partner. Although, if you’ve never been spanked it’s a good idea to start slow, while you’re in doggy style ask your partner to spank you. Establish how much force is going to be used and how frequently the spanks are going to be. If you find you don’t enjoy it, simply ask your partner to stop. If you find you enjoy ask your partner to spank you more or with more force.  At this point you could start massaging the area before spanking it again, this will stimulate those neurons in the brain between pain and pleasure.

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Once you’ve started down you will inevitably move to more intense spanks, often with the use of: whips, chains, floggers, nine tails etc. The force used will dependent on what you and your partner are comfortable with. Personally, I’ve been left bruised from the spanking sessions I have received from previous partners. However, that level of intensity isn’t for everyone and that is okay. Some people like to be restrained while being spanked without sex, while others like to use it as a form of foreplay or enjoy spanking during sex. Some use spanking as part of their regular sexual repertoire, others only experiment perhaps during role-play for example a naughty school student much in need of a spanking from their principle. Sex is very subjective and some prefer light spanking while others go a bit harder.

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Class dismissed

As my spank lesson comes to an end I’d like to summarise my key points. Remember to ask before you spank people, or you will go to jail. It’s okay to not like spanking or to like being beaten mercilessly – as long as you’re consenting. Everyone’s sexuality is their own and you can’t force your sexual kinks onto your partner if they aren’t into it. Start off gentle and easy, light spanks during sex is a good place to start, level up slowly! Start with bare bums and bare hands before buying a flogger or paddle, start off with light smacks rather than a brutal beat down. That’s a sure what your partner will never let you do it again, and no one wants that!

Homework

Your homework is to go out and start exploring you spanking fetishes with your partners, enjoy yourselves and happy humping!