How Sex Furniture Increases Sexual Pleasure in Relationships

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With the rise of modern technologies and various other incredible achievements throughout the world, all aspects of our lives have significantly changed for the better. Some people might say these new inventions have changed their love life as well – and they’re right!

Since manufacturers all around the world implement new technologies in all kinds of products, designing new sex toys and other arousing items is the next step of technological advancement. The evolution of these gadgets through history see here.

Some of these items may seem kinky and strange but take note that humans are known as incredibly sensual and passionate creatures. Therefore, people have always been looking for new ways to improve their fantasies and making their experiences much better.

Today, you can find many available options on how to improve and spice up your lovemaking experiences. The sex industry is on the rise, as many people use these products. It’s not a taboo yet one handy, satisfying way to work on your relationship.

Importance of Building up Your Relationship

 

After some time, every relationship gets stuck in a routine. Once in a while, you have to do something to keep it on the right path. Without being consistently inventive, your love life may suffer. That’s the reason why people tend to spice up their bed adventures with new ideas and creativity.

The reason why people like to use toys and other items while make love is that they may help them get a profound experience and pleasure. As the market grows, everything else does as well. The sex toy industry and the use of its products are booming in recent years.

Unlike traditional gadgets, there are plenty of other, unusual options for people with more selective tastes and desires. If you’re eager to work on your love life, you shouldn’t miss out on some of the incredible things like sex furniture.

The Variations of Sex Furniture

 

Furniture for making love is not a new thing, but it’s becoming a hype. At first glance, as seen on https://www.anastasiasextoys.com/best-sex-furniture/, these pieces look like any ordinary modern furniture. But if you look better, all those curves and backrests have their purposes.

This equipment will allow you to achieve new experiences. It’ll help you get out of your comfort zone and enjoy sex on a whole new level. All this will undoubtedly help you and your partner get the most out of your current relationship.

Some of these things exist for a long time, but they weren’t in mass production like they are today. Unique beds designed for BDSM are one of the examples. They exist for many years, but you couldn’t find them at your local furniture store.

Lovemaking Equipment at Disposal

 

By popular demand, people can find various sex furniture pieces available in sex shops these days. Since mass production became a thing in recent years, you can buy all types of furniture in stores. Also, online sale is available for those who still think of making love as a taboo.

Besides bondage beds, there are many other incredible furniture options like benches, sofa, or chairs. You can buy ready-made furniture that can find a permanent place in your house. Or you can opt for inflatable models, which are easy to move.

Also, various accessories, like pillows of all shapes and extra support (ramps, swings), are available in the market as well. Support cushions are handy when you have to find the best angle during intercourse. They will make performing of some intense and demanding poses more comfortable, without getting hurt or tired.

 

 

The Details to Know

 

Some of sex furniture items are considered to be incredibly useful and a powerful tool to help people find their inner selves and connect on a whole new level. However, there is another group of people that don’t approve of the use of these products.

Some believe that they don’t need new things to help them keep their sex life in check. But those who are willing to experiment will eagerly use this equipment to help them break conventional boundaries in their love lives.

Check what you have to do to bring the fire back to your relationship or marriage with these sex tips. If you still don’t know if these items may be the best fit for you and your partner, you may want to perform thorough research and discover all the options. Implementing this kind of gadgets into your love life requires long talk and agreement of both partners.

 

Sure, all kinds of furniture can serve when you’re in the mood, but the one marked with ‘sex’ is not only intended to enrich your living space but also your love life. These accessories may allow you and your partner to enjoy your special time in somewhat different conditions than usual.

Looking at sexuality, ethics and intellectual disabilities!

When does consent not count?

In 2015, Conor Gallagher reported a story where a Dublin woman with Down syndrome was allegedly raped by a 34-year-Faisal Ellahi (Down syndrome woman ‘lacked capacity to consent to intercourse’). The man plead not guilty stating that the sex was in fact consensual, he also stated that he was unaware of her limited mental capacity. It is a common misconception that those people with Down syndrome or other forms of intellectual disabilities do not feel the need to explore their sexuality. However, the real is, that all people including those with intellectual disabilities have sexual needs, desires and feelings and these need to be addressed and explored. As a society we have made it difficult for people with disabilities to explore their sexuality but placing down laws that restrict this exploration by calling it protection.

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But what is an intellectual disability?

Down syndrome,  is a form of an intellectual disability characterised but not limited to: a deficit in at least two areas of adaptive behaviour which can be an inability to self-care, communicate, work or learn, a clear lack of social skills, purpose or direction; and an IQ of 70 or below (The Intellectual Disability Rights Service, n.d). A person with an intellectual disability, even a mild one would have little comprehension of what the legal process required of them without help. In Australia, one needs to seek ‘informed consent’ that is when a participant engaging in sexual relations lacks the capacity to consent, the participants should be informed of all relevant information before deciding if they wish to continue (National Health and Medical Research Council, 2017). It is also important to note that the capacity to consent is subject to change, a participant might agree to sexual activity and then say no once sexual conduct begins just like how consent works for everybody else.

Are you fucking kidding me?

Back in the Dublin courtroom, the court heard that the woman with Down syndrome lacked the ability to consent to sex (Gallagher, 2015). This was due to the fact that the woman could not independently protect herself, the court also heard that she had a trusting nature because life had not taught her to be cautious of others. This is not the man’s fault that she was not given the adequate tools or information to make an informed decision – the woman consented to an act she thought she was prepared but perhaps was not. There is a lack of education and sexual discourse as it is somewhat of a taboo to think that people with intellectual disabilities are engaging in sex. The court also heard that people with intellectual disabilities in fact have sexual desires and have the right to express them (Gallagher, 2015). There is a real contradiction here where we have started to address that people with intellectual disabilities are sexual beings but we are still limiting their sexual conduct and discourses. To help provide a healthy sexual experience for people with intellectual disabilities there must be more education around sex, consent and sexual practices but we are creating legal barriers that effectively halt sexual expression. That is like telling your child it is okay to paint with whatever colour they like and with whoever like, finding out your child was painting with your neighbour’s child and then reprimanding the neighbour’s child.

The sexual revolution comes in education – that is liberation!

I am not so naive to think that a sexual liberation for people with intellectual disabilities is upon us, and of course these laws and rules and stigmas stem from the vulnerability that abuse is much more likely to happen to someone who cannot comprehend sexual discourses. However, it is my claim that this is part of the problem is if someone is unaware of sex, their sexuality and consent they cannot agree or disagree to a notion that they can’t comprehend. By educating the intellectual disabled with age appropriate information they will be able to comprehend, process and consent or reject sexual advances. Being able to understand and process someone’s sexual advances and in turn giving them agency to decide if they want to do with their bodies. This course of action can also be seen as a tool of protection rather than the current model of action we take which is clearly not working.

Personal morals vs sexual ethics:

Are your beliefs clouding your judgement?

The most problematic part of this debate is how someone feels towards this issue will be dependent on their moral fiber, each person will bring a slightly different opinion to the table. What you must do is look at this from an ethical standpoint, is it morally okay to sexually repress people with intellectual disabilities because the idea makes you uncomfortable? Or is this merely a praxis to eliminate possible sexual abuse against those most vulnerable? Is better education needed for families, partners, caregivers when helping someone explore their sexuality? Or is it only okay for an intellectually disabled person to engage in sexual acts with another intellectually disabled person? At the end of the day we understand that we are all sexual beings and until there is more tailored approaches for each person and better education we are not going to see any changes to this system that clearly isn’t working.