Sexy Pregnant Ideas!

pregnant woman dressed in white

If you are thinking about having sex whilst you are pregnant, you simply have two options; you either enjoy it and will do it or don’t and won’t. Change of hormonal levels in a woman’s body means that some women end up being put off completely with even the idea of sex while others can not ever get enough. When I was pregnant two years ago, I was very scared of having sexual intercourse with my hubby and I used to get sex toys online and give myself a treat. But down the line, I realized that were some ways that I could still enjoy sex during my pregnancy with my partner. During pregnancy, the sensitivity of women to have multiple orgasms tends to increase and areas become more sensitive especially around the vagina and nipple.

Pregnant woman enjoying the nature

Putting your partner week after week can be frustrating for both of you and lets face it, it is not the time for some oiled up naked Twister.  Because of the estrogen and progesterone levels rising they cause changes in your body that will either heighten or lower your passions. Estrogen specifically, which serves such pregnancy-related as increasing blood flow to the uterus (and to your whole pelvis), additionally increases your bodies vaginal wetness and makes your blossoms and nipples swell.

Carrying a baby can make one feel tired and drawn but this still is not an excuse as you can always have some lazy sex.  This will help you elevate from the rut you are in.  Months 4-6 I especially found difficult and found the new found awkwardness and ever expanding tummy difficult to deal with however I made an effort to keep my sex drive up, often with the use of external personal massagers when penetration did not feel quite right.

In most cases it is safe to have sex whilst pregnant.  No you cannot hurt the baby and I think the closeness of my partner helped when making love.  And it is also regular after having sex to have spotting.  Your uterus and vagina are streaming with blood and the vessels in the cervix are swollen so it is natural and generally nothing to stress over.  However how many couples have you heard have not had sex during the entire pregnancy because of spotting.?  I know a few.

If you have any doubts see your gynecologist or obstetrician. They will confirm that the amniotic fluids surrounding your precious cargo are there to protect it, and unless your man is bigger than John Holmes he is not even going to get near it.   But mix it up!  Sure you cannot do position 18-101 in the 101 Sexual Positions book but how about rewarding your devoted hubby with a blow-job.

During pregnancy things will turn you on that ordinarily do no.  You will have cravings for food you would not have even thought of eating before.  One strange thing I experienced that really turned me on was getting my husband to blow air up my vagina.  Discovering it when he was going down on me it became part of our foreplay during pregnancy that I show not interest in after child-birth.  We spoke to our Doctor about it and this is a rather common thing (not commonly spoken about).  Apparently this cools down and soothes the veins and arteries that are bulging and working overtime keeping your baby fed.  On a side note, on a few occasions I actually climaxed whilst he was doing it and it was different to any orgasms I had or have ever experienced.

My favorite sexual positions during pregnancy was –

Arm Chair Sex Position
Sex Position Chair

The Arm Chair – One of the more creative positions, the Armchair is hours of fun once you can get the rhythm down. To get into this position, the giver sits up with his legs straight while their partner sits on top of them with legs on the giver’s shoulders and arms being used for support. Unfortunately, it takes quite a bit of strength on behalf of the receiver to perform this position, so you may need to train before you can enjoy all of its glory.

Spooning – where the woman lies on side to her man and guides the penis gently to find its way into the vagina and then takes control. The penetration continues until the woman comes. This is a pleasant and comfortable position for both of you to enjoy. By combing this great sex positions with a female vibrator you will be gland to know that pregnancy doesn’t have to come between you and your sex life.

The Saddle: If you want to try something new with your sex positions, sideways sex is a great place to start! He lies down with his knees bent and legs apart, and you sort of slot in the middle at right angles to his body. With one hand on his chest, and the other on his lower leg, rock back and forth until he’s hitting the right spot. It’s all about you and you can wiggle around until it feels just right.

The one position I could not handle at all whilst pregnant was doggie style.  It felt awkward and my belly was uncomfortable.  I guess the main thing I want to get across is not to go without, because nine months is a long time for both you and your lover.



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