Damaging Sex Worker Myths

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Earlier this week I saw a photo graph that contained some incredible harmful stigmas surrounding sex work and since I am an online sex worker myself I have a huge connection to the whole community and only want the best for us. Unfortunately, there is still a huge amount of stigma and prejudice around sex workers as a whole, especially full service sex workers (and this includes from people within our own industry!), it’d be nice to live in a world where this isn’t the case, but for now all I can do is put the word out there and hope to make the work a slightly easier place to exist in as a sex worker. So I’m going to take this week to debunk some myths. Let’s go.

 

All Sex Workers are mentally ill:


This right here is the one that set me off to begin with, the graphic I saw was called “Sad But True Facts about Sex Workers in the USA” which stated “100% of cam girls have mental problems and 96% of them have drug or alcohol addiction” putting aside the terrible grammar, this just isn’t correct, there is no studies you can find to show these statistics, and it’s just harmful. The closest study you can find that can even be compared to this is a study on Full Service Sex Workers (FSSW) in Cambodia, and even then only 50% actually had mental health issues… It just baffles me that people can push out these kinds of things, and not even think of how that effects a whole community of people. This is a myth.

 

All Sex Workers Were Coerced or Trafficked:


While there is a major problem with people being sex trafficked and coerced into sex work there is also a huge amount of people who do it on their own accord, whether it’s because the money is great, or because they just genuinely enjoy the job and decided they may as well monetise on it, it doesn’t matter, there are so many out there who do it as a choice. I am an online sex worker and while the extra money is amazing, I also just love having people pay me because they find me that hot, it’s amazing for self confidence and for the wallet. As I stated there is still a large problem with sex trafficking and we do need to fight that and focus on trying to end it, we also need to focus on letting women who choose to be in it live in peace and do their jobs, while not being judged or bullied for it.

 

Sex Workers are Diseased:


Now, I do just want to mention I am in NSW Australia where prostitution is legalised for the most part, but here within legal brothels all Full Service Sex Workers do need to undergo STD testing, they MUST use condoms for literally everything including genitals, and they do check every client’s genitals for obvious signs of disease and infection before they engage in any act. So with that being said Full Service Sex Workers are probably cleaner and more regularly tested than your standard Tinder hookup. Of course, people love to use the dirty card regardless, because apparently if you exchange money for services suddenly you catch everything… That being said, this is STILL a myth.

 

Sex Workers ruin marriages:


So, this is probably one of the ones that gets me riled up the most. Married men, engaged men, and men in relationships are the ones that need to be respecting their relationship’s boundaries, I do not care whether a stripper offered them a dance while they were in a strip club, I do not care if an Onlyfans girl offered them a pay per view video made custom for them, and I especially do not care if a Full Service Sex Worker offered them services while they were in the brothel. These men shouldn’t be in strip clubs, they shouldn’t be on Onlyfans, and they shouldn’t be in strip clubs if their partner isn’t comfortable with it. You wouldn’t get mad at the TAB for allowing him to bet on the horses if he was a gambling addict, and you wouldn’t be mad at a pub for servicing him if he was an alcholic. Stop being mad at women for simply doing their jobs, be mad at your partners for disrespecting your boundaries and your relationships, it’s so simple.

Put simply sex workers may offer a service like bdsm that their client just cannot get at home.

 

While these probably don’t seem like a huge problem to people who work regular 9-5 jobs in an office, they are a huge deal for those of us who work in the industry. Imagine if we treated tradies the same way, calling them dirty, useless, and of course my favourite “bludgers with no skills”. Imagine if we told office workers they  were degrading themselves for allowing their job to take over their whole lives, all while making a shitty wage and barely seeing their families.
Sex workers are out there making money, living their lives, and not judging anyone else. Leave them be and work on your mentality.

TPE or Silicone sex doll: A comprehensive guide!

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There are times when you decide to purchase a sex doll but are often confused which material is the best and going to give you feel like the real one. Isn’t it true? Of course! Be it missionary sex dolls or Doggy Style Sex Dolls they are mainly available in the market in two kinds of materials TPE and silicone. Sex doll makers have continuously been experimenting with different kinds of material in order to create the most realistic sex doll in order to ensure that you feel like having sex with your dream girl.

 

In this blog, you will come to know about the TPE vs. Silicone Sex Dolls: Which One is better? It has been seen that sex doll makers often use silicone material for manufacturing the sex doll because it ensures the long life of the sex dolls. You can easily buy both TPE as well as Silicone sex dolls from an online sex store

 

Before you decide what material your sex doll should be made of, it is important for you to first consider a few things like:

  • Are you going to use your sex doll only for having sex?
  • Are you going to take hot baths with your sex doll?
  • What is most imperative for you looks or kiss?
  • What is your budget for the sex doll?
  • Would like to dress up her in some nice & sexy clothes?
  • How much time you can spend with your doll when it comes to its maintenance?

 

The above-stated are some important questions that you need to consider before you decide which type of sex doll you need to buy.

 

What is TPE?

TPE is mainly called as thermoplastic rubber. It is often used for making different kinds of products because it can be easily precast as well as injected. This material is known to have a soft texture and can be easily stretched up to 5.5 times length. Due to its amazing properties, TPE is considered as one of the most affordable materials that are used for making realistic sex dolls.

 

TPE material is the perfect blend of plastic as well as rubber which regain its original shape after stretching. It is one of the most durable as well as long-lasting materials. TPE material is comparatively a new material which is utilized for making the dolls, while this is one of the materials that is also less expensive to produce due to which you might often found TPE dolls more because they are more affordable than the silicone dolls.

 

Some of the benefits of TPE material are:

  • The very first advantage of TPE material is that it is hypoallergenic which does not cause allergic reactions.
  • This material has a very soft texture.
  • TPE material is more elastic in nature which often makes the doll flexible due to which you can sex with it in different positions.
  • The material is cheaper and is known for retaining the warmth which makes sex time more pleasurable.

 

What is silicone?

 

The silicone material is widely utilized for making soft sex toys due to its amazing benefits such as enhanced durability, easy maintenance as well as non-degradation by petroleum-based lubricants. This material is a mixture of silicone polymer which is made using oxygen, carbon as well as hydrogen. From the past many years, the sex toy, as well as sex doll industry, is using silicone material for making sex dolls.

 

Sex dolls that are made using silicone material are very soft as well as firm. All the dolls that are made using silicone material have amazing hot resistance properties. You can easily clean the silicone sex dolls because they do not react with most of the contaminants.

 

When it comes to silicone sex dolls they are known to have most detailed as well as realistic vagina as well as anus.

 

Some of the outstanding pros of silicone sex dolls are:

  • Since the sex dolls do not retain humidity so it can be sterilized.
  • You can easily clean the silicone sex dolls.
  • The silicone sex dolls are known to look more like real.
  • These sex dolls can easily resist better to water as well as stains.
  • It is completely a non-porous material
  • The silicone sex dolls are known to retain warmth as they are less sensitive to heat.
  • Silicone sex dolls demand less maintenance as compared to TPE dolls
  • The silicone material is hypoallergenic.

 

Therefore, both the materials are good but when it comes to best sex dolls, TPE material is often preferred. Most of the sex doll fanatics often go for TPE sex dolls because it provides real like feel while having sex. TPE sex doll can be stretched in any way while it also comes back to its original size and shape automatically after using.