Host The Best Gay Sex Party!

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Ever thought a night out with your gay partner is not going to be great? You can be proven wrong. Why not go to a  gay sexy party as it is one of the best parties you will ever attend and have fun to the max. Appreciating who we are (gays) and what makes us come together, organize events and parties that make us feel good about ourselves and out sexuality. I managed to host a gay sex party last year and believe me; it was one of the wildest and best parties I have ever had the pleasure of being at. I realized there are a number of things that you need to incorporate or do in a gay sex party for it to be great. The following are some of the most important things I thought to consider before my hosting or going to a gay sex party.

Last year’s party was my first gay sex party and the fact that it was held in my place, I came to realize that a gay party is actually better when there are a good number of participants. It felt great to see friends and acquaintances from all over the my college having fun. Choice of music and the drinks was important to create the right mood. There were almost fifty people and thank God my back-yard was big enough to accommodate such a number. We did organize everything early enough before the party to not get stressed, everything was set right including the drinks.  We hired a Dj from our local gay club who kept the music rocking throughout the party night plus finger food and decorations.

 

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You can’t invite people if you do not know them as you want to ensure that all the guest will be safe and nothing will be damaged or stolen. The people that attended my gay sex party which I hosted are actually people I had met with earlier in gay clubs around town, some friends from social networking sites like facebook, twitter and of course my college friends. Through the continuous interaction in the clubs and social media I did establish some great connections making sure first that they were interested in attending my gay sex party that eventually resulted in me hosting this fabulous party.

There were a few of my gay close friends in town that I know and  that I usually spend most of my free time with that attended but others did not as they were not into or did not want to participate in such a scene. The theme of the party was ‘bring a friend’  as my total number of people that had accepted my invite was 30 and I wanted it to be a big bash.  They all were really helpful and understanding though when it came to organizing the party and most did bring a friend which made it all the more interesting as there was some fresh meat there and we also got to meet new like minded individuals. We managed to successfully invite gay guys from a cross section of professions and communities and even from other towns mostly by communicating through facebook, posting ads on Reddit, gay.com, gaycupids.com and personally one-on-one and through a series of phone calls to groups around our neighborhood.

I was mindful to ensure that if there was a gay partnership or marriage that they both knew about the party and that it was OK for them to attend a gay sex party as I certainly did not want to be the one responsible for the break up of a long term gay relationship.  A gay sex party isn’t a party without music and drinks.  For all the gay parties that I have attended, there are three things that are always there that make a good time great time; drinks, music and dancing. Sometimes there is something a little heavier than a drink to perk me up but these three items are essential.

If you want to have real fun at a gay sex party then you need to have some alcoholic drinks and good music and a cleared out place for you to dance with the meat that is there. We did spoil ourselves with all kinds of alcoholic drinks at my first gay sex party and the vodka, whiskey and beer flowed freely as we danced to the sweet music played by the amazing DJ on stage.  I must confess that I did take a magic pill as well that made me sway to the music all the more and find that most of the men attending looked like studs.  Generally we had fun throughout the night and there were no bad incidents to talk about. We had soft drinks set aside for those who did not fancy getting smashed as we didn’t want to disappoint anybody; everyone was having fun with or without alcoholic drinks.

We didn’t just start with the drinking; we did a bit of an introduction of everyone and then swiftly moved in to the real party mode as planned.  I was glad to meet so many of my new gay friends some of whom I had only seen on facebook or heard about from other friends and it was really a great interacting with them. Everyone was getting along splendidly as and once the music started we danced, some of us began to kiss each other whilst swinging  long with the music.  It wasn’t long before some of the guests brought out poppers.  I had never tried poppers before and one of the guests explained to me that I had to inhale it through my nose.  A warm fuzzy feeling came over me and the beat of the music penetrated my whole body that had become relaxed and felt sexy and sweaty.

I noticed that a gay couple had exited the dance area and gone behind some bushes in my garden.  Slowly walking over I was surprised to see that one man was giving the other a blow job.  It was a delightful moment indeed and the mood of the party swung becoming more erotic as some kissed while others were getting  down to the business of the day and theme of the party in various states of undress. It was at that time that I realized that this was going to be a great first gay sex party.

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Host Your First Gay Sex Party

Orgy Party for Gay People

If you have been dreaming of participating in gay group sex with lots of pleasure, amusement and fun, then you should consider attending the ultimate gay sex party. This is not something new as it has been existed for years and intensely men not individual enjoy participating in group sex but some feel the urge to watch men having sex. Irrefutable it is a fantasy like no other that has been promoted today by gay exchange programs that make it perhaps for department gay partner prestige the totality to feel at home wherever place guidance the earth he travels. If you are desire having an orgy, you realize that it can be a lot of hassle to hold a successful gay sex party. Get ready to send out the invites to the persons who will put value to the whole party and at the same time nail down the rest of the guests. Although some parties are spontaneous, the specific ones are staged completely with a guest list, a flow of events and some rules that guests have to stick to.

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The earlier you get the advice out that you are planning to fling a gay sex party and today, thanks to the internet, this can be the easiest pattern of the preparation. Use the media, put up some posts on any gay group site on Face book and in a few hours consummate for as much as many confirmations to start your preparations. Make it clear what you are looking for as if you need only men that are turned on in group sex. You should post your ad on Craig lists, Google, Yahoo Classified, gay blogs and differential websites you feel can make your party complete.

If you get various invites, you should insist on a photo with every confirmation. Even though you can keep talented potential guests from coming to the party, you will have the chance of seeing the guests of the party before coming. Ensure that you resolve comprehensive and uttered descriptions from the guests and what they would be expecting from the party, in fact, make it known that you will not hesitate to cast out anyone who shows with a fake description. It is a gay sex party and not a business meeting.

You should choose the guests based entirely on your and theirs desires and expectations from the party and their ages. If you can, find some racial and ethnic blend so that you will have the chance to carry out the diversity. Pulling this one can be a bit tricky unless you reside in a really diversified city, otherwise, don’t try it. If you want to make sure that you get the best from a gay exchange program with its many members, don’t tell out the venue from the initial communication you have with them. This will keep gay basher out from your party.

Gay Sex Party Food

An important thing that makes a gay sex party successful is food. With all of the sweating and various other fluid explosions, you lose a lot of important fluids over the course of an orgy, and food that is high in salt is necessary, and also deliciousness. You shouldn’t worry too much about food though. The inexperienced gay sex party enthusiast never decides to host a party, so if someone is bold enough to host a gay sex party, you can assume they have been around this process before and they know what they are doing. Any self respecting guys that host these kind of parties will probably have all the essentials already on hand.

What is important for a gay sex party, the question is

“What should I bring with me?”

Gay sex parties aren’t like weddings. They are simple to cook for and when preparing for most events, you don’t have to consider everyone’s dietary needs. You don’t need to keep in mind, the people who don’t eat meat, who only eat healthy foods, or who is allergic to fish. At an orgy everyone is swallowing whatever they can find into their body. Blindly and happily swallowing things is what an orgy is all about. You can’t go wrong with it, so relax and have a little fun. Some fun food name suggestions are the following:

  • Meat Testicles
  • Crab Cakes
  • Shrimp Cocktails
  • Mc Gang Bang Sausages
  • Cheese Sizzling Nach-hoes
  • Double Penetrated Burgers

Gay Sex Party Dress Code:

Most of the time you will be naked. Nudity is both the best and worst thing about a gay sex party. It’s great because, everyone can see your balls, but it’s also bad because it tends to lead to a lot of confusion. When you go to a standard party, you’ll meet a variety of people who you can distinguish by the way they dress. You get those same people standing naked in a room together and it’s not quite as easy to tell them apart because, naked people, all basically look alike. The problem, since it’s too difficult to distinguish your genitals apart from some other guy’s genitals, is that other gay sex party attendees might forget and lose track of who they have been intimate with. Some men may see your testicles or your penis and mistakenly conclude that he has already slept with you when, in fact, it was another guy he’s slept with. Now you’ll never get your turn with him.

If you want to make sure you get your turn with everyone at your gay sex party, you are going to need to wear something that separates you from the other men. Most gay parties these days are colour coded, so you wear a particular colour and it already identifies you between the other boys. Where each colour symbolizes your role and what you are into. If you show up and the party has already started, do not feel the need to just jump right into it. It’s really dependent on the atmosphere of the party and what everyone else is doing.  Start out simple with the following things – especially if you’re shy. They don’t immediately throw you into the action, but they get you close to it.

Its a sex party, get to the point. If someone is interested, they’ll let you know. If they’re not interested they’ll let you know too. Remember that just because you’re both there for sex, doesn’t mean that they will be interested in you. Be polite, but remember that no, means no.

  • If you hit it off, ask for a number or a date. Who knows, it could be the start of something refreshing, new and a long lasting relationship. Well, you still kind of met at a party, right?
  • Falling in love at gay sex party is a wrong move – not only have you barely met them but you need to take them on a date outside a sex party. Remember the difference between lust and love.  Don’t have illusions. Gay sex parties are the parties that gay people like you go to have fun and not to mess up emotionally with other people. They go there just to relax and have sex. Follow my advice and only have fun when you go to a gay sex party.

This article is intended to inform all newbies about gay sex parties. After a long battle with your sexual orientation, now that you have come out of the closet, you deserve to have fun. There are a lot of homophobic beliefs in the world today, but a gay sex party is the safest place to be. Relax, be yourself and have fun. Don’t ruin things by forcing things to happen the other way. Get down, suck some cock and please some men. You won’t regret it.

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The Ideal Gay Orgy!

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An orgy is a big fantasy for many, many people. The orgy room in bathhouses has been the location for many fantasies that ultimately come true. So you want to know how to plan for the ideal gay orgy sex party. The first thing you need to know about planning and hosting an orgy is that this is work and not a game. Yeah, you get a hard on from looking at those hot pictures you receive, but it takes a lot of time to coordinate this type of event. While some orgies do happen spontaneously, this article deals with staged orgies with a specific guest list, pre-arranged scenes, and some agreed upon rules for participants.

The first thing you need to do, it get the word out and make the orgy known to people. There are several options on how to make this happen. Firstly you can put an advertisement out in a local queer paper, or simply advertise in on the wall of your local club.  If you have an extensive and trusted friend network you can put the word out on them and get them to invite some people. Or, you can add it on Facebook and create an event and limit who can and can’t come to your orgy.

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It is during this initial posting of messages that you must have a clear idea of the type of men you wish to attract. One of the reasons for a private orgy, as opposed to a group scene in a public sex club, is that you can narrow the criteria and choose specific types of men. Maybe you only want men who are into the bear back scene. Maybe you want water sports enthusiasts or bondage lovers and fetishists. If you are like me, what you want is fit in shape guys between 18 and 35. I find the specific age range to be a success. The older men lust after the young guys, but it is almost always the older men who have the experience and the balls, to keep a scene of going on. Young men are often very shy in a group setting and need a bit of a push to get going.

You need to learn to read between the lines when checking the several responses from men wanting to attend. Asking for photos can exclude men from coming to your orgy, but this is sometimes the appropriate thing to do and is actually not uncommon for swingers parties and sex parties. Ask for a photo and for a complete description. If a person is vague about something, assume they are hiding something. You need to be straight in responding and observing incomplete descriptions. After all, the advantage of communicating via email is that you or the person responding does not need to write back if they choose. It is routine for guys who don’t fit your criteria to make an attempt to get into the party. Make it clear to everyone and do not hesitate to turn anyone away at the door who has presented a fake identity.

It is an important step to complete your guest list properly. It is crucial that you select a balanced group of men both by age and desires. Another major factor is the various kinks and fetishes a person is into. To put it simply, make sure you have enough tops to please your bottoms and vica versa. It is nice if you can arrange your list in order to have some racial and ethnic diversity. Many men find people of other colors and backgrounds to be highly erotic.

Ensure that you provide some directions and put in place some rules. It is important to put some written rules before guests come. If someone doesn’t like the rules, they can simply decline to come. A well though-out list of rules can help make it clear that you take this party seriously. This helps you because then your guests take your invitation more seriously. Rules can include safe sex only, that a simple no means no, and to respect not only yourself, but others within the environment as well.

Another important thing is to greet your guests at the door. This is essential if you want to make certain and confirm that your guests are only those invited. You will also have the chance to leave out people who have lied about their body, age or some other thing. The down side to greeting is that you lose your anonymity. This can be most unfortunate because men may turn to you as a host when you would rather be the guy receiving the pleasure. Another idea if you prefer is hiring someone you trust to work as bouncer and do the face control. Make sure you have a very specific time in which people may arrive. Allow 30 minutes for people to come after the designated hour and inform your guests and the guy at the door that the door is locked after that certain time. This ensures that the mood and atmosphere isn’t disrupted by the late arrival of a guest.

Setting up the orgy is important too. You get a room full of horny men in your house and very often the first moments can make the party really uncomfortable. It is good to ask two or more guests who have expressed particular enthusiasm to arrive earlier before the announced time. These guys can come to the party and strip down and get into sex before others. When others arrive at the designated time, you will already have men fucking each other and this will make your guests feel a little more comfortable and ease into the swing of things

Other things to do in advance are to provide soft drinks, alcohol, lots of hand towels in each room and ample amounts of lubricants and condoms. Take care that the lighting isn’t too bright as people will feel more comfortable in the dark. Rent several porn movies and cover all the chairs and sofas with sheets. Make sure room temperature is set to normal because things will get hot too fast. Provide paper bags or a room for your guests to store their clothing.

Finally, after the party is taking a fire, move from being the host to being a participant. Lay back and enjoy your gay orgy party. This is the party of a lifetime.

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10 Secret Tips To Host A Top Gay Sex Party!

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10 Secrets For A Great Sex Party!

Hosting a successful gay sex party for you and your guests can often be difficult.  However we are here to help and set out below are some secrets that will make your party great –

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  1. Theme:    First of all you need to pick a party theme. Creating a successful theme means generating some interest and attracting more people. You should consider creating a masquerade party, an underwear exchange party or even a sexy slumber party. By choosing a theme helps you in restricting your guest list. You should be honest with your guests and inform them of what they are going to get and what kind of peoples are going to attend your gay sex party.
  2. Guest List:  Building a guest list will be inevitably difficult. I always recommend you start with your own connections. You can choose top men or bottom men, or a combination of both. Generally be cautious though because bottoms can be really greedy in sex. Therefore, make a clear list of what type of people you want to attend to your party. You can make it simple just by restricting age, kind of people, types or anything else. It is best to always ask for a photo of each person attending to your party and a confirmation of attendance. Email is the easiest way to send invites and provide phone numbers or get photos. In all your interactions with guests you will want to do but be sure to be polite. Posting stuff like, No fatties will piss off some people. Therefore pissing them off can make your party their target for their wrecking behavior. Your gay sex party should reflect the sexual experience you want to offer.
  3. Planning:  The most important thing is planning your space for your gay sex party. If the party takes place at your home, decide where guests will and will not have access. The entire party must be explained in detail to your guests. Don’t just give an address, but let them know about the place they can park their cars, whether there’s a security standing in front of the door or door code, whether to knock or enter straight on, etc.
  4. Designating Areas:  Explaining the interior of the area that the party takes place is important too. Tell them if there’s a bottom area that accept loads from multiple tops that stop by over a period of time. You should have a space where the tops can clean-up and put back on their clothes. Have a place for guests to disrobe, store clothing safely and dress later. Parties usually need three spaces; a dressing room, a play space and a clean up space. Designating off limits spaces. It is important to post signs for spaces like your office or other rooms that guests should not enter. Also consider posting signs directing guests to the location of food and drinks.
  5. Security:  Security is a must in all parties. First of all you can send an invitation stating a designated time. If the time passes the entrance will be locked. No new admissions should be accepted after this time. The second way to make a more secure gay sex party is to have someone or some people to monitor the door. You can do this by hiring a security guy and another person that can protect the clothing room. You can then make people aware that there will be persons protecting them and their belongings.
  6. Supplies:   Purchase supplies you will need. You should always purchase small bottles of lube, especially those that can be carried in the pocket. Also consider purchasing cheap hand towels while leaving them throughout the house, especially on any flat surface and in any room you think sex will happen. You should also provide condoms to promote safe sex.x
  7. Recreational Accessories:  Usually gay sex parties can be the concentration of drugs like ecstasy and marijuana. While you may allow them, this can make your party a target for law enforcement. I would personally avoid such things.
  8. Timing:  The best time to have a gay sex party is during the weekend or holidays. Depending on the theme, the later the better.
  9. Boundaries:  It is best to designate roles and rules if you are making a gay sex party. You can inform your guests of designated top or bottom men choose the places for orgies or even tell to your guests that everyone is allowed to touch everyone else. If you don’t want people jerking off while they watch, kindly ask them to participate in the party. Another important thing is asking a guest to leave politely. In many gay sex parties you will find people trying to sneak in just to watch the fun while not participating. For some people this isn’t a problem, while for some of your guests this could be a serious issue. If you prefer people to participate, you should inform your guests that people should be there to play and if something isn’t right the host can ask them to leave.
  10. Finances:  Asking for money is a big deal but if it is done properly and kindly it can work out. First of all you should make people feel that their money worth the purpose. You can suggest people to chip in for security or other things, but an actual admission or cover starts making it more like a club so avoid that one.

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Rules for Gay Threesomes!

Three Gay Males

Internet and social media have been expanding day by day. There are several meeting apps such as blendr and grindr among others have finally led people to have a gay exchange meeting or fast instant sexual gratification from a random guy. These applications are very famous within the gay community as it allows gay people to simply find a sex partner that’s nearby without the hassle of meetings up, drinks, leaving the house or going to a crowded bar. Using the internet and dating apps you can too, when approached in the right way, allow you to have a threesome as well.

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The most important thing in every relationship is communication and you’ll need to discuss this matter with your partner first, unless you’re the only looking to third wheel it which in some ways makes it much easier. If you have a partner you will find that although threesomes can be unique and highly erotic, they can bring insecurities as well jealousy and tension to the relationship. You may need to discuss these insecurities with your partner and tell each other why you’d like to have threesomes. Be ready to answer their questions. It’s not necessarily about you or your partner, but it may simply be about being open minded and a curiosity to try new things, new people and to learn new stuff. Trust me, everyone fucks differently, and we have learned many new things about each other simply by being with others.

I would strongly suggest that most gays’ sex life may be a lot more improved after a threesome experience. I will also say though that the threesome experience is not for everyone and it takes strong individuals and a strong relationship to handle it. Your will have to find someone that is attracted to both of you. This is sometimes harder than it seems. Use the applications, put up a photo of you and your partner and talk to people that you both find attractive. Once you’ve found someone you both agree on, it’s up to you whether you want to talk to them, or get right to the point.

Some people think that it is better to know them, their likes and dislikes and eventually their sexual likes and dislikes so that you can determine their compatibility with you.  There’s no right or wrong answer to this, but talking to them beforehand saves the embarrassment of any expectations they or you may have had prior to the sex. Many gay men are new to threesomes so it is best to organize a night out with you, your partner and him to a local public bar and have a couple of drinks and discuss about everything. The ice should get broken pretty quickly and you will finally see if you are all going along well. Finally relax and let things flow smoothly. You will be surprised to see when the other guy will propose you to go for a threesome before you even mention it.

Make sure you communicate totally so you are both on the same page andOK for the threesome. If your having multiple threesomes, some people like to make rules about the number of threesomes you can experience per week, how you would have safe sex and whether anybody can use sex medications during the threesome. Some other topics you can think about when making rules includes whether you would like oral sex performed or who is on top, in the middle or on the bottom. The thought here is to set down standard procedures so that both individuals in the relationship feel great when the time comes for the third person to enter the equation. Do some background to find out who your visitor really will be. Will it be a hook-up over the internet, a pick up whilst cruising or someone you both like and know.

One of the huge issues that can happen amid trios is that some individual feels that he is not quite a part of it or overlooked. This happens if the visitor is more into one individual in the couple over another. One approach to minimize issues here is to converse with the individual you are considering welcoming ahead of time and telling them the significance of equal consideration. This would likewise be a great time to share the guidelines that you and your partner have made. While not a guaranteed approach, this can go far in making the experience more agreeable.

By following my advice you can have the threesome you always wanted in your gay sex experiences. Use blendr, grindr or another online dating app for your Gay Exchange experiences are ready to go.

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