If regular sex isn’t as bright as it was, the easiest way out is to invite one more partner to it. Despite their jealousy, most girls don’t mind sharing the bed with two lovers at the same time. Besides, according to statistics, half of them perceive other ladies to be used as sexual objects like a sex toy. That’s why it’s not that hard to persuade your girlfriend to spice up your sex life with a threesome.
Looking For A Third Partner
Usually, it’s the guys who come up with the idea to expand the number of sex partners in the bed. So the responsibility for finding the third party lies on them. And then the question arises – where to look for this partner? The easiest (and the dumbest) option is to ask one of your friends. This idea is dumb because friendship will most likely end with this experiment. Someone you barely know fits best in this case. This person will simply disappear from your life in the morning. But there will be a new problem – you and your partner will experience the psychological consequences of experiencing a threesome. Therefore, if the idea of having a threesome comes to your mind, it’s necessary to discuss it with your soul mate in detail. Of course, the third partner should suit both of you. And in no case should you try to solve relationships problems with the help of a threesome.
When it comes to a threesome, you need to keep a few basic rules in mind, and the first is foreplay. It should ease the tension between all partners, so the first stage is kissing and touching each other. It should last until there’s no shyness between you.
If sex is spontaneous, then you can skip this stage. If it’s FMF sex (two females and a male), you should pay attention to both partners equally; otherwise, one of the girls may become jealous. If there are two men for one woman, a competition in skills will take you nowhere. You need to please the partner equally, too. The second rule is protection. In the case of FMF threesome, you’re going to need a lot of protection. When switching between partners, you must always change the condom.
If the ladies are ready to experiment not only with you but with each other, everything gets simpler: while the girls make love to each other, you admire them and take part in action from time to time. But it’s unlikely that two girls in your bed will suddenly go bisexual. So you’ll have to work twice as hard. Starting a threesome, get ready for at least two acts, twenty minutes each.
Here’s one more thing: oral sex is an obligatory attribute of a threesome. Don’t be afraid to overdo it – the more you give, the more you get.
The Best Threesome Sex Positions
Here are the best threesome positions for those, who have never tried sex with two partners before.
Classic Sex + 1
One of the simplest and most common positions for an FMF threesome is classic missionary sex with one girl lying next to the other. With your free hand, you caress the second partner. Kiss her breasts and neck. You must keep all your weight on your knees and supporting forearm.
One Is On Top And One Is Behind
Sit between the legs of a half-sitting girl A, and place the girl B on top of you in the traditional rider’s position. For such an exercise, you need to have strong thigh muscles and a healthy low back because controlling the movements of the partner B will be a bit difficult.
Oral Sex In A Rider’s Position
Perhaps, this position can be called “a camel”. Combining oral sex and classic sex is possible. Both girls sit on top of you. With your hands and hips, you try to control the amplitude of the second partner’s movements. Meanwhile, the first girl enjoys oral sex in your performance.
Doggy Style + 1
Girl A lies on her stomach and you’re behind. The second partner lies next to her so that you can reach her with your hand. Stimulation of the clitoris is the best choice in this case; the second partner may reach orgasm even faster than the first, as a clitoral orgasm is much easier to achieve.
Doggy Style And Two Partners
If you love the sight of a woman’s back, then a double doggy style is for you. Moving from girl to girl who are kneeling side by side, don’t forget to keep stimulating the one who is waiting for her turn. Caressing her buttocks, running your fingers along the intimate areas, you’ll keep her “interested” in the process. It’s better not to have sex with one partner for more than five or six minutes.
Petting And A Threesome
This position is the best if you need a pause to catch your breath. It also allows all three partners to get a bit closer. You, too, can relax a little, not forgetting to stimulate both girls with your fingers at the same time. There’s also a chance that your partners (or at least one of them) will suddenly come up with the idea of having oral sex with you. Although, if none of them wants, don’t ask them to do it: the girls may just be embarrassed to do this in front of each other.
Remember, what you do isn’t a perversion, and, according to surveys, 90% of men would gladly be in your place now.
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