BDSM And Augmented Reality – What You Can Expect

Virtual Bondage

AR porn has been growing recently and there is now a choice of different apps out there to try. Soon enough, we’ll see some hot niche-focused AR porn such as BDSM go into development.

If you’ve tried virtual reality BDSM, you’ll probably agree that it’s a great way to experience what it’s like to be the guy getting punished by the mistress. You can see what its like having a domme have you under her control while you lay there helplessly.

 

VR BDSM is a big leap up from watching the action unfold with some other guy on a screen. Just like with other VR porn, you do become the guy in the scene. You can enjoy your fetishes from the first-person view and become the slave in the video.

With AR porn, you can also experience the action from your point of view. This opens a whole new load of opportunities for experiencing BDSM. Imagine having a virtual mistress in your bedroom. She can carry out her punishments on you while you lie helplessly on your bed. Augmented reality means you can know what its like having the mistress of your choice in your home every single night but without the high cost of a real mistress.

We spoke with Tim Green over at http://arporntube.com/ about the subject. Tim said:

“Of course you want to get the physical interaction that comes with real-life physical BDSM, but maybe that’s not your thing anyway and you just prefer the fantasy of it rather than the physical pain. That’s what makes augmented reality so perfect for it. You can see, hear and experience BDSM in your home with some of the hottest dommes in the world without paying $200 an hour.”

If you’re not yet familiar with augmented reality porn, it is a technology that allows users to interact with hot virtual holograms using a compatible AR device. Headsets like Microsoft’s Hololens, Holokit, and soon to be released Nreal Light allows users to experience erotic experiences with life-sized virtual models in your own home. It does this by projecting the model into the user’s physical environment which can only be seen through the lenses of the AR device. With the help of platforms like ARKit and ARcore which enable for surface recognition and other technologies, the model can be positioned in front of you and put on a performance that appears almost as realistic as though a real girl was stood right there giving you the show of your life. The tech is very sophisticated and still in its development stages but adult companies are becoming ever-more aware of its potential and starting to bring AR porn to the masses.

I love the idea of augmented reality BDSM. The work of a mistress has always been an intriguing porn niche for me. It’s not like other forms of porn where the main goal is to have sex or to put on a solo masturbation show. BDSM offers so much more than that. It’s a combination of sex, power, dominance, and pain, but also care, appreciation and building a relationship on love and trust. There are many layers to BDSM which can be broken down in to three categories. bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism.

For first-person point of view, dominance/submission will dominate (excuse the pun), simply because you can lay back while a malevolent mistress surrounds you and dominates your very being. But one of the negatives of AR BDSM, when compared to real-life BDSM, is that you can’t be tied up or have someone inflict pain on you. Therefore, bondage/discipline and sadism/masochism will be less prominent for first-person viewing experiences. But that doesn’t mean you won’t be able to have a life-sized session taking place right in the middle of your living room while you sit back and enjoy the pleasure of somebody else getting punished. You will be able to watch a weak slave being whipped within an inch of his life on your sofa, or watch somebody get tied up,  restrained, gagged and fucked. And best of all, AR allows you to project any scene you want into your physical environment. It’s not like real-life when you’re kinda stuck with whoever’s willing to put on a show for you at the time, AR allows you to browse through any scene you want and have it playing in your living room within seconds. You can have multiple sadistic shows lined up ready to please you any time and any day!

There are clear advantages to BDSM in augmented reality when compared to real-life BDSM, and it definitely stands well above a traditional video. But what about compared to virtual reality BDSM? These two technologies both offer different things that can be seen as a benefit or a disadvantage. Obviously, in augmented reality your body is your own, meaning you are literally the dude in the scene being punished by the goddess in latex. But VR has the benefits of being inside a dungeon and being surrounded with the fetish theme which can enlight more of a fantasy feel to the scene.

It’s early days for augmented reality and it’ll be a little while before BDSM in AR becomes a thing. But when it does, it’ll be one hell of an experience.

Kink and Couples Cuckold Play with Sir James

Today we’d like to continue our exploration of kink and fetish, and we’re proud to present Sir James from Fetish House in Melbourne. Without giving too much away he has been describes as massive, strong and rugged with piercing brown eyes. Sir James speciality interests include dominance, bondage, manhandling, heavy impact play and BDSM couples coaching.

Sir James At Fetish House

Hi Sir James, thanks for looking at this interview – I have to start at the beginning.

How did your kink journey start for you?

Well Stephen, for me I don’t know exactly what was my first kinky thought, or even that I consider myself kinky. I just love exploring sex and giving catharsis to those who also enjoy trying new sexual or intimate pleasures. If I had to pick a moment that kicked it all off I would say it was reading erotic literature as a teen, imagining what could be done with rope and handcuffs. Luckily for me the stories I read were quite inspired and included healthy consensual BDSM which lead me here.

You work at Fetish House in Melbourne (Australia). Melbourne is one of the few places around with several Kink and Fetish establishments – With Fetish House being on the Melbourne scene for a while now – what makes it different?

Fetish House has a ‘Learning First’ mentality, which I think comes through in the quality of our Service Providers. We have many years of experience to draw on, and many house slaves willing to be used as consenting teaching tools. That sort of atmosphere can only create excellence. I love knowing that if I want to improve my knowledge of needle play or extreme suspension I will be able to watch some masters at work, and if anyone wants to learn from my years of wrestling experience to improve their physical confidence and manhandling I will gladly take them under my wing.

 

Sir James preparing for an impact play scene
The Profile Photo of Sir James

Working at Fetish House – what goes into the preparation for a clients scene?

More often than not there is a short email exchange, to allow us to get a broad understanding of our clients desires and mentally prepare for what is to come. Often if a client wants ball busting, or extreme bondage there is a process of mental preparation where we have to find the right mind set to engage.

After that of course the rooms are cleaned and prepared, stocked with all the gear and more so there is no hesitation. Lastly comes an in person interview before the session, obviously we like to ensure everyone knows their safe words, the expected protocol, safety practices and hard limits and this talk is best done in person.

One of the things that you specialise in is couples coaching – in your experience what’s some of the common things that couples are most interested in when they come to you?

Often couples need to learn how to balance making a scene last so that a bottom can reach a heightened sexual, physical or mental arousal. This means the question couples really end up asking is “how do I take these few tools and sculpt a scene that lasts two hours but felt like ten minutes?” What I end up teaching them is how to build up anticipation, how to correctly bind someone so they can be in place for extended lengths of time, how to edge (delay orgasm), how to spank/paddle/cane for longer. Secretly that’s what every one wants to know.

As a fetish couples coach – what do people frequently get wrong when it comes to kink and fetish play, and how can they correct it?

Most Tops go to quickly for the end goal, they go too hard too early or they don’t tease enough. Inversely most Bottoms have preconceived ideas about what should happen, rather than enjoying themselves. Both of these can be fixed the same way which is to slow down, always taking an extra moment before speaking or acting. All BDSM practitioners either Tops or Bottoms should take their time and think twice before acting.

What’s your go to comfort food?

I personally love a good protein shake with berries at the end of the day. I engage very physically with my visitors and that coupled with my regular training can leave me very drained.

Fetish House is a place where you’ll sometimes work with other staff to create a session such as Cuckolding and Sissy Play Tag Team Scenes. For those that don’t know, what are these two styles of play and what do they mean to you?

These are very different sessions from my perspective. Cuckolding is more intimate, which makes it more thrilling for the client. That savage eye contact which a Mistress can make directed towards a cuckold as I’m entering her is what often will make their fantasy real. It’s important that when we as Bull and Mistress are talking to (or ignoring) the client it is with the express purpose of making sure they feel a certain way. For some it is happy that the Mistress is getting what she wants in the form of greater sexual pleasure, for others it’s the feeling of betrayal (in a controlled setting) which brings out a primal urge which can be very potent.

Sissy Play is more an emasculation. The taboo of being proven to be a lesser man, especially in front of a larger and stronger male, is a massive turn on for many men. Similar to how many clients enjoy being bound because it frees them, I feel ‘sissy boy’ play is similar because you can revel in being controlled by a personification of what you are leaving behind. This means when we talk or act around those clients it is more expressly about taking away pride and forcing them to do what they wont, or can’t, do by themselves.

These types of play often leave clients in a near hypnotic and hyper-sensual state, and the smiles I see on these types of people afterwards is wonderful.

Sir James Engaging with Kink and Rope Bondage
Sir James with Rope Bondage

What’s some of the elements of cuckolding that you enjoy?

Well obviously I enjoy being able to use my strength and power to bring pleasure to people. I enjoy being a person who you do not need to pretend or roleplay with, since often (at a clients request before a session) I will wrestle them into a submissive position and then bind them with rope or chains. This aspect of using my gifts of strength and size to make people feel even more engaged in their fantasy makes me feel very satisfied as a service provider.

On top of this I love seeing people happy. Being involved as a fetish provider is not about your own specific Fetish desires, but instead you have to be able to enjoy seeing others happy enjoying their specific taboo. Luckily for me that is my pleasure, and getting happy emails after every session talking about how much they love what I did to them just makes it all worthwhile.

What’s the most difficult thing when it comes to doing cuckholding scenes?

Watching everything is the hardest part. When you are a Dominant or a Top you must always be keenly aware of the entire room. The safety and the mental state of your bottom is your responsibility and obviously if you are engaged in sex with another provider you must keep yourself pleasuring them and keeping your bottom under observation. Luckily this is no problem for me with my experience, but for those at home I suggest always making sure you are cognisant of everything, which becomes easier over time.

For those interested in exploring cuckoldry – what are three tips they need to know?

1:Go slow, there is always time for going further in the future, and it never hurts to have more places to explore. This applies to all BDSM; from the size of your new buttplug to the difficulty of the rope binds you are using.

2:Talk about expectations and limits before and after. Unless your kink is being cruel and your partner is ok with that, then you should know what your partner finds arousing and what your mutual goals are. Do they want to watch? do they want to listen? do they want to be involved? If you don’t know you are missing out on opportunities.

3: Be safe. Always use protection, find a neutral place to play like a hotel, use fake names. Things rarely go wrong but it does not hurt to be safe, and it can make it more fun and exciting.

Sir James at Scarlet Blue

What’s the best bit about the work that you do that you just couldn’t give up?

The people and their reactions. I am the luckiest guy in the world because people who come to me want something, and I can give them exactly what they want. That is rare, and the grateful nature people have after we are done is perfect.

That said, I can’t lie, when people come to see me I tell them what I expect them to wear and how I expect them to act. This expectation means they put on a show for you. Seeing people in their best make up and clothes, then getting the strip them down and see them naked and aroused as they wait for your touch is the best feeling in the world.

 

Thanks Sir James, i’d like to thank you so much for your time and patience in helping us navigate through this.