‘Anal is amazing; I like it up the butt’ – said a few. We often hear couples disagreeing over anal sex. They find it pleasurable for men & unpleasant for women,
You always have two types of opinions for anal sex – Yes from the people who like it & No from the ones who dislike it. Someone will rarely share the middle opinion.
Do you know? Most people who haven’t experienced anal yet will also say ‘it hurts.’ It’s all because of the taboo we’ve believed for centuries. What reality is – Anal sex is quite common & its orgasm rates are quite higher when anal play is your legit erotic repertoire.
A glance at Anal Sex with an Example
Let’s understand this scenario in someone’s opinion that’s quite weird yet factual:
“You know when you really have to poop, and you’re in a public place, and there’s no place for you to go, so you have to wait, and you’re really, really uncomfortable? Like, you almost don’t even want to breathe or sneeze because you’re afraid of what might happen, and you’re just this huge ball of unhappiness and tension? You can’t enjoy anything in the world, and you can’t concentrate?”
Oh! Don’t feel pity.
By the time you finish this read, you’ll see that anal sex can be enjoyable. It need not always be bad, weird, or dirty at all.
We’re sharing some incredible hacks for you to have a look & enhance your sex life.
For having healthy and pleasurable sexual activity
8 Hacks to Feel More Pleasure & Less Pain with Anal Sex
Take it slow
People getting into anal sex for the first time are likely to feel more uncomfortable than those who’ve been banged a couple of times. Let’s be frank here. You don’t need to choke it all in at once. Talk with your partner and tell them that you know they’re quite uncomfortable. So should be your actions like your dialogue. Know your breathing & moments of anxiety. Also, make your partner easy by inserting that pinky finger before sliding your anal sex toy or bigger object.
A gradual size increase is all you need for a less painful anal experience.
Be a Solo Experimenter
You’re dreaming of anal sex day & night with your partner. How about giving a try on yourself? No, we aren’t talking about putting something hard in your hole. But, you can always try touching your butt just like you would do with your partner. Try it with lubricants on your hands & feel the sensations. This is how you can make it better & better. When you’re finally up for anal play, you’ve got some magic tricks to make her feel heaven with your butt-touch moves.
Isn’t it erotic?
Don’t think about Penetration, you’ve got more to feel
Sex, be it Anal or vaginal, it’s beyond putting your tool in & penetrating. You’ve got many untapped aspects to discover. Sometimes, all you do is making her feel like she wants you by touching, sucking, kissing, giving massages, and making love to her body. Once you take anal penetration off the menu, you’ll enjoy her thoroughly. It’s an amazing sex therapy that subtracts anal sex stress & adds pleasure to make things a lot better.
Enjoy everything. Anal sex is more than an ass hole.
Focusing too much on her butt & ass hole rubbing can spoil things & bring a painful end. Do it as you would do with romance & excitement. Get indulged in sizzling foreplay & allow both of you to feel the sensations you’ve been carrying within. Double your pleasure by servicing her clitoris & ass hole together with both your hands & feel the extreme joy. Also, use your cock for producing arousal patterns & get hornier.
Learn how it feels in there
Don’t be a dumbass who just wants to stroke the penis in her ass hole. Understand how it works & what does it make her feel. The most exciting thing about anal sex is almost all age people can enjoy it, regardless of gender. We all have butts! When we know how things work, it helps us be less apprehensive about it — and breathing and relaxing are major hacks when it comes to anal sex.
Get some toys for Anal play
You’ve read almost all the major hacks for anal sex & you’re here. It’s time to upgrade your anal play like a pro with some toys. It’s great to start enjoying the penetration with sex toys & make yourself comfortable to the penis later. Grab the anal trainer kit with different penis sizes. Begin with the smallest one & hold it completely to feel how your body responds to it. Also, let your muscles relax & get familiar with the toys before you get the hard cock in.
Try something different than Doggy style
When it comes to anal sex, it doesn’t have to be Doggy-style always! The spooning position & missionary position are the hottest favorites for anal sex. Pick the desired position depending on the penetration depth you want to feel. Get deeper in her hole & make her want more with such alternate positions as awesome as Doggy style.
Get a new course for your sexual menu with shelve penetration techniques. It’s nothing but holding off for as long as you can until you choke her like a pro. Do this at the point when your arousal is at its peak. Once you’re holding your erection, keep practicing your tried-and-tested anal techniques & have extended fun.
As discussed above, anal sex isn’t for everyone. Some enjoy it like heaven while some hate it like hell, but if you enjoy it, then this read must be useful.
Try these hacks & tell us what you think about it!
That’s all, folks!
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