Sharing is Caring with Strap Ons

I’m pretty damn embarrassed to admit to this but today is the day I finally do. So here it goes, my name is Elliana and I can’t hold in a share dildo for the life of me. Yes I know I’m a shocking excuse for a lesbian and I need to purchase some kegel balls ASAP.

I’ve been sleeping with someone for the past few months and lately she’s been asking me to bring out the Fun Factory Sharevibe I’ve had just sitting in my toy drawer for months, she’s been wanting to feel more connected to me and noticed I’ve never even glanced at it when she’s asked me to surprise her with a new toy to use. Honestly, I just hate the way it feels when I’m the dom and being the one having to hold it in, usually I have to wear my Fun Factory Harness with it because my body basically just rejects it every time I slip it in. For a woman with good pelvic floor muscles, the vagina should feel like it’s giving the toy a hug, but see mine doesn’t want anything to do with it, it just pushes it as far away as possible. So every time we’ve tried to have sex with it I’ve had to stop and push it back in about 10 times and it is the most frustrating thing to happen when you’re in the moment, also super embarrassing! We end up giving up every time and I just swap it with a standard dildo. BORING!

So now to the point of my article today. What other options do girls like me have when we can’t hold a share toy in but still want to have some sort of stimulation whilst using a standard strap on?

We-Vibe Sync Couples Sex Toy Image
Sex Toy: We-Vibe Sync
  1. We-Vibe Sync 

The reason I’ve specified the newest We-Bibe couples toy is because of the adjustments they’ve added into the Sync, all of the older versions don’t have the option of being able to push both sides together and have it stay that way once you’ve inserted it, just like share toys you have to be able to hold the toy in yourself and so the Sync is perfect because it does that job for you no matter what position you get in. The bonus of the We-Vibe Sync is obviously that you get both g-spot and clitoral stimulation, that your partner can be in control of the toy and also this depends on the position that you’re in but sometimes you can get the clitoral side of the toy to push up against the bottom of your dildo so that your partner can get a feel of the vibrations you’re experiencing. See our We-Vibe Sync Review.

 

L'Amourose Rosa Rouge Massager
Sex Toy: L’Amourose Rosa Rouge Massager
  1. L’amourose Rosa 

Another fantastic toy that will stimulate both your g-spot and clitoris or could be used for anal stimulation is the L’amourose Rosa. Because the toy is longer and curved at the top it is much easier to keep in, the curve pretty much holds it in for you and because it has a flat surface it makes it really easy to move around once inserted. So if you’re a woman who knows it takes a little more length and strong direct vibrations to make your g-spot really sing then I’d definitely recommend using this toy over the We-vibe. See our L’amourose Rosa Review.

 

B-Vibe Vibrators Photo
Photo: B-Vibe Range

 

  1. B-Vibe 

More of a backdoor kind of gal? B-Vibe has a fantastic range of vibrating butt plugs to choose from whether you’re a beginner or a pro. The reason I’ve chosen this brand is because you have a wireless remote just like you do with the We-vibe, so again your partner can be in control of what vibrations you’ll be feeling so you’ll still feel connected.

Ever had all 3 spots stimulated at the same time? If you haven’t I definitely recommend giving it a go and you can make that happen by combining this toy with the We-Vibe then hand both remotes to your partner and prepare for the fun to begin! See our B-Vibe Review.

Vibrating Pleasure Panties
Sex Toy: Nu Sensuelle Pleasure Panty
  1. NU Sensuelle Pleasure Panties 

Maybe you don’t like the share strap ons because you just don’t like insertable toys? Well that’s not a problem because Oh Zone has something for everybody. The Nu Sensuelle pleasure panties are a fantastic and affordable strong and rechargeable bullet set with a remote (also rechargeable). All you have to do is throw those undies on underneath your straps and place your bullet in the under pocket to get the fun started. If you are a person who enjoys butt play as well you could mix this product with the B-Vibe for double stimulation. See our NU Sensuelle Pleasure Panties Review .

I own 3 out of the 4 products I’ve recommended today and enjoyed using all of them with my strap on, so I hope your experience is as great as mine was and you and your partner have some new shared fun

About the author: Elliana is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

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