Ways to Stay Safe by Sexting This Holiday Season

How is a sexual single who may have been more sexually active pre-pandemic to get their needs met in this scenario? Well, one sure bet is to stay safe by sexting at home.

We all need a lot more affection in our lives in the age of a pandemic. It’s been a trying time for everyone to find ways to feel human again. A sense of touch, smell, and sound of a sexual partner in crime has been taken away from those who are single and ready to mingle.  Scent of the perfume is harder to get a whiff of when farther away. Masks are worn in public, while adding a sense of mystery to one’s appearance, also muffle the sound of a sexy voice.

Stay Safe By Sexting 

This is about staying safe, being considerate of others but still finding alternative ways to get off. As it’s vital to stay isolated as much as possible it’s equally as vital to feel connected every day.

We are more sexually repressed now than we have ever been in decades past. Even when the world was more sexually inhibited in the 30s, 40s, and 50s there was no stay at home order in place in those eras. This is a very new thing for humankind to go through while still trying to have somewhat of a life. Especially a sexual one!

What Are Sexting Ice-Breakers?

Just like approaching a woman in a bar, it can be tricky for the naturally more shy/introverted man to think of the right things to say. With sexting, a lot of the stress of having a good conversation starter is off the table. There is no small talk necessary, you’re in a space where you get to focus on having your sexual desires met at a distance.

When you sext it’s about establishing what your kink factor is before anything else. Not asking someone “How was your day?”

Here are a few sexting icebreakers

Get the party started via your smartphone.

• Are you Vanilla/Hardcore?
• What are you wearing?
• Guess what I’m wearing right now…
• What’s your fetish?
• Do you like being bad/good?
• How wild are you on a scale of 1-10?
• Are you into group sex?

Finding out what your kinks/desires are is half the fun of sexting.

Other half of the fun is finding out what the women are on into the receiving end of these sext messages.  It’s the easiest conversation starter. To ask/tell a woman you are sexting with what you may be into/are open to knowing more about before hooking up.

Maybe you are more Vanilla but curious to know more about what a hardcore sexting exchange might be like. It’s good to mix things up. You will find sexting is really about uncovering what really drives you and turns you on.]

Where to Start? 

A long-standing, reputable, and fun place that caters to the sexting community is Arousr.

There’s no better place to start sexting than to do so anonymously. This way you don’t have to worry about saying the wrong thing to someone in your inner circle. That might lead to awkward social gatherings or gossip when things do eventually open again.

Discretion is key when it comes to sexting. When you are not required to reveal your identity it adds an extra little bit of freedom to go wild. You never have to worry about a chat host holding what you say against you. They are there to cater to your sexual needs and desires, whatever those may be.

Yes, you can always text people you know for free.

If the texting you do now led to hot steamy sexting you wouldn’t be here reading this blog. In life, we tend to get what we pay for. Sometimes the hottest woman you know may simply not be into sexting or actually be terrible at it.

When you use platforms tailored around feeding sexual desires you’ll find a lot less trouble, hassle, and headache, all while maintaining your anonymity. Feeling secure and safe in a sexual environment is what we all need to have an enjoyable experience.

Final Thoughts On Sexting

One thing we know is that if we want good things in life we must invest in them. That does not exclude our sex lives. Waiting for things to open to be flirty and reach sexual pleasure is not realistic nor is it healthy, both mentally and physically. It’s enough to make anyone go stir crazy being stuck inside with no place to safely go.

It’s very healthy to seek out ways to express yourself through the written word and can also be quite cathartic. Sexy, safe and it is a lot of fun when you have an open-minded woman on the other end to enjoy sexual banter with. Now is the best possible time to step outside of your comfort zones and try something new.

Sexting is safe, stimulating, and much more personal than streaming porn or Netflix all day. Its almost as good as satisfying virtual sex.

Acceptance of Sexuality for Women

For women, acceptance of sexuality involves embracing and acknowledging their own desires, preferences, and identities. Without societal or cultural constraints. It means feeling comfortable with their bodies, understanding and expressing their sexual needs. And rejecting societal norms that may impose unrealistic expectations.

Women’s sexual acceptance is about fostering a positive relationship with their own sexuality, free from judgment or shame.

Acceptance of Sexuality for Men

For men, acceptance of sexuality involves recognizing and celebrating the diversity of their desires, preferences, and identities. It means breaking away from traditional stereotypes that may limit authentic self-expression. And understanding that vulnerability and emotional connection are integral aspects of their sexual experiences.

Men’s sexual acceptance encourages a healthy and respectful approach to relationships, fostering open communication and mutual consent.

Acceptance of Sexuality for Others

For individuals who identify outside the traditional binary gender spectrum, acceptance of sexuality encompasses embracing. And honoring the unique intersections of their gender identity and sexual orientation. It involves challenging societal norms that may marginalize or invalidate their experiences.

It means creating spaces where diverse sexualities and gender expressions are celebrated, acknowledged, and respected. Fostering an inclusive and affirming environment for everyone.