Want to know how to be a God in bed. So many men are worried that they will fall short of the mark – but here are some top tips that will have your lover begging for more!!!!
EDGING
You want to last longer in bed but have fallen into the category of a 2 minute wonder on a number of occasions? Well experiment with edging. Edging is masturbating until you are at the brink of orgasm and then stopping. Different from orgasm denial this technique will allow you to train your body (with will-power) to hold off on that orgasm.
When actually having sex you may have to pull out or slow down which may annoy your lover a small bit but use it as a way of ‘teasing’ – getting her to beg for more and delivering that knock out blow that will have her cumming back over and over again.
USE A SEX TOY
No, you are not admitting defeat by including a sex toy the next time you are going to bed your woman. Completely the opposite, she will be amazed at what an understanding new aged guy you are and that you take her pleasure seriously. Little does she know that bringing her to the brink and then slipping in your woody and both orgasming in delight is a sure fired way to get you both off.
If your gal has not used a toy before allowing her to use one first in private so she knows what to expect and how to please herself. Rest assured she will be more than happy to direct you to her pleasure spots when you are in charge.
GRAB SOME LUBE (OR MASSAGE OIL)
There is little worse than having dry sex. Most women are going to self-lubricate when they are turned on but there is nothing wrong with adding a bit of lubricant to ensure things run smoothly. Why not add a flavored one and enjoy some delightful cunnilingus. Double it as a massage oil – nothing relaxes and primes one for a sexual encounter than getting an erotic massage.
FOREPLAY IS KING (OR QUEEN)
Wham, bam thank you maa’m will not cut it in today’s society. In fact it never should – think of all the good times missed out on. Foreplay does not just have to include getting naked, treat your partner out to a great dinner, splurge on some expensive wine, give her a bunch of flowers – make her feel SPECIAL!!!
The rewards are there for the taking if you treat your lady like a Queen. She will give you the keys to her kingdom to do with as you please.
DIFFERENT POSITIONS
Missionary is just so – old hat. If the Joy of Sex and 365 Sexual Positions are not enough, discover the Kama Sutra or some Tantric Sex. People have been doing it since the dawn of man and in those thousands of years have discovered more ways of pleasuring than there are days of the year. Expand your sexual horizons and you will both benefit. Eventually, you will find what works best for you both and you will have that go to erotic position whilst continuing to explore new ones.
ROLE PLAY
Fetish fantasy or dress ups? Some vanilla bdsm or some real hardcore sado shit? There are so many fetishes and fantasies that there is literally a library written on how too. Orgasm denial, restraints, swings, medical play – wow – and we thought sex was easy. It really is, find what you like and explore it. As long as it is not illegal or hurts anyone, try it once. What have you got to lose?
GRATITUDE LIST
Send him (or her) a letter letting them know how much you mean to them. Make a list of the things that you like or love about them. Leave a cheeky note in their pocket or purse for them to find later in the day. Nothing and I mean nothing will make your partner happier than knowing that you care and are thinking about them. It is the little things that count!
There are so many more ways that will make you a king in bed and your partner respect you but these are just a few simple ones that will not cost the earth buy you will be rewarded in spades.
Meet Rick, Adultsmart’s owner with 35+ years in the adult industry. A sex blogger, advocate for gender and sexuality equality, offering a diverse product range.