8 Types of Sexual Massages

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There are many different types of massages and most importantly there are sexual massages. Sexual massages are aimed to release built up tension and stress with in the body which can help increase the receivers well being. Sexual massages do not necessarily have the end goal to orgasm or ejaculate but can also help people to focus on the pleasurable sensations during the experience. If you are in a relationship, these types of massages can bring couples closer together as you explore each others bodies. Massages can also relieve sexual pains from health issues, help release your sexual muscles for sexual penetration or orgasm, release of daily anxieties, assists in relaxing someone for sleep and soothe headache pain.

Duo or Four Hands Massage: The Duo or Four Hands Massage consists of two people spending luxurious amounts of time giving the receivers whole body a massage. The masseuse rubs massage oil on the receivers body as well as their own. This type of massage can normally lead to a body to body massage. The Duo Massage can be an overwhelming visual experience for the receiver as they view two people massage their body.

Nuru or Body to Body Massage: The Nuru or Body to Body Massage begins with a masseuse taking off all of his or her clothes. They place massage oil over the customers and their own body. The massage oil that is used has no taste without any odour. The masseuse then begins to rub his or her body onto the customer. Nuru means “slippery” in Japanese. The Nuru Massage can sometimes lead to sexual intercourse depending on the person.

Lingam or Penis Massage: The Lingam or Penis Massage is a word that means “Wand of Light”. The wand of light refers to the male penis. The Lingam Massage consists of the masseuse honoring the natural sensations and stimulation of the penis through a massage. The massage includes the shaft, testicles, perineum and external prostate. With this type of massage the goal is enjoy the full effects of a genital massage, you do not need to ejaculate but if it does happen, they do not mind. The man receiving the massage will learn how to receive pleasure.

 

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Yoni or Vagina Massage: Yoni or Vagina Massage stems from honouring, loving and respecting the natural stimulating sensations of the vagina through massage. The term Yoni means Sacred Space or Temple. When you begin a Yoni Massage be in a space of full relaxation which will help you to feel and accept the pleasure you are receiving. This type of massage is also about the giver enjoying the massage to help build respect and trust within a relationship. Some women use this type of massage to help release sexual health issues like anorgasmia or sexual pain. Like the Lingam Massage the Yoni Massage does not have the goal to make the receive have an orgasm but rather for them to enjoy the process.

Tantric Massage: The Tantric Massage stems from an Indian background which include yoga and sex therapy. Tantra is often called the “science of ecstasy” which involves the concentration of sexual awareness and spirituality between the giver and the receiver. The receiver just focuses purely on the experiences and their personal well-being needs being met. Tantra is about following the feelings of relaxation and does not expect the receive to orgasm.

Prostate Massage: The Prostate Massage stimulates the man’s prostate gland. Tantra expresses that the prostate is known as the emotional, sexual and sacred spot of a man. When a person’s stimulates the prostate it releases physical and psychological pressure. The Prostate Massage can start slowly by an external prostate massage of the perineum, it will then lead to the gentle stretching of the anus. If you have a lover or are in a relationship, if you massage the prostate it is said to be a strong experience. The Prostate Massage is often accompenied by a Lingam Massage for additional pleasure.

Soapy Massage: The Soapy Massage is when two people or more stand in a shower. One person or all the people are naked. The giver lathers soap within their hands or rubs the soap onto the person’s body giving them a massage. A Soapy Massage cleans them for further massaging or sex purposes.

Happy Ending Massage: A Happy Ending Massage is the direct stimulation of the male penis, with the final goal of ejaculation. A Happy Ending is commonly known as a hand job and can go for varying lengths of time.If you are receiving a Happy Ending from a Erotic Massage Parlour it is recommended to ask how long the massage will go for, how many times can you ejaculate and how much skill level is involved.

Other types of regular massages that are not necessarily sexual include:

  • Oil massage
  • Foot massage
  • Relaxation massage
  • Sports massage
  • Swedish massage
  • Back/shoulder massage
  • Chakra Massage
  • Chinese massage
  • Chocolate massage
  • Dynamic massage
  • Thai massage
  • Energetic massage
  • Holistic massage
  • Hot Stone Massage

 

 

 

59 Fun Sex Questions to Ask Your Lover

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Asking a good sex question, can really open up a conversation with someone to learn something about them. that can lead to funny moments. Questions help us define problems, change our expectations, understanding of our limits and providing us time for a deeper awareness of ourselves and others. When you meet someone new or you have been with your lover for a while there are some interesting questions which will tickle your funny bone and help you connect with each other in a new way. They can also help your partner to ask you questions in return as well as letting you know what can fulfill their sexual needs.

 

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  1. What was your first kiss like?
  2. What was your first one night stand like?
  3. What have you done sexually that you will never do again?
  4. What is the funniest sexual experience you have ever had?
  5. What is the most memorable sexual experience you have ever had?
  6. What is the most interesting porn you have masturbated to?
  7. What have you always wanted to do in the bedroom that you’ve never done before?
  8. What are your sex dreams about?
  9. What is the oddest sex dream you have ever had?
  10. What is your favourite sex toy?
  11. What is your favourite sex position?
  12. What is the most effort you have placed into creating the most sexually enticing environment?
  13. What are of the body can I touch that will make you feel tingly?
  14. What are your favourite fantasies that you masturbate to regularly?
  15. What do you say when you dirty talk?
  16. What are you intimated to do in the bedroom or what make you most nervous during sex?
  17. What’s the funniest thing you have heard someone say to you when they were talking dirty?
  18. What’s the funniest object that you have ever masturbated with?
  19. What make you feel really horny quickly?
  20. What type of underwear do you prefer to wear?
  21. What personality traits really turn you on?
  22. What are your favourite parts of my body?
  23. Do you prefer breasts or bums?
  24. Do you prefer hair or hairless?
  25. Do you prefer being controlling in the bedroom or submissive?
  26. Do you prefer a long sex session or a quickie?
  27. Do you enjoy use sex toys and products in the bedroom with your partner?
  28. Do you have any sexual feelings for any ex partners?
  29. Does pain make you feel pleasure?
  30. Do you believe opposites attract?
  31. Where is your favourite place to have sex?
  32. Wheres the funniest place you have ever placed your vibrator to see if it would feel good?
  33. Would you choose someone’s personality over their looks when you choose a sexual partner?
  34. Would you ever go to a nude resort or sauna?
  35. When you are in the heat of sex, have you ever said someone else’s name? How did your lover respond?
  36. Who are your favourite porn stars?
  37. Would you ever have sex with someone who had almost the exact same personality as you?
  38. What are your favourite porn movies and categories?
  39. Have you had sex in a public place?
  40. Have you ever had sex with someone and not felt a connection?
  41. Have you ever had anal sex? If you have had anal sex, how did it feel?
  42. Have you ever done a sex position and instantly regretted it? What was the sex position?
  43. Have you ever worn socks to bed?
  44. Have you ever had someone try to perform oral on you or jerk you off or rub one out but it felt really horrible? What where they doing? How did it feel like?
  45. Have you ever put together a sexy costume that you thought was sexy but wasn’t?
  46. Would you ever try using Viagra? Or what was it like when you first used Viagra?
  47. Has someone ever walked in on you when you were masturbating or having sex?
  48. How long can you have sex for?
  49. How many times have you orgasmed or ejaculated in a day?
  50. How did you learn about the birds and the bees?
  51. How many people have you had sex with?
  52. How do you feel about using a penis or urethral wand?
  53. How do you feel about using a chastity device and giving the key to someone?
  54. How do you feel about allowing someone to bondage you in shibari rope or handcuffs?
  55. How long would you wait to have sex with someone you were dating?
  56. Can you orgasm when you are asleep?
  57. Before you started dating who did you imagine would be your perfect lover? Compare their answer, to who would be their perfect lover now.
  58. If you could pick a costume or lingerie outfit for your lover? What would it be and why would it turn you on?
  59. Some people say that sneezing is the same feeling of an orgasm. When you sneeze do you feel that your orgasm is similar to it?

Review: Screaming O Orbit & Orbit Plus

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Looking through our wide range of vibrating cock rings yesterday I found what I think are some cute and very affordable toys for the for the sexy science fiction geek in your life – The Screaming O Orbit & Orbit Plus cock rings.

If you are not familiar with vibrating cock rings, this is the low down. If you or your partner (or both of you) have a dick, vibrating cock rings are one of the most fun – not to mention easiest to use – sex toys. They are brilliant to use together or alone and you can find them in a wide range of prices, from around $15 to around $200, depending on how fancy and durable you would like your toy to be. Cheaper, battery-powered versions are very popular for couples on a budget.

A cock ring is a ring worn around the base of the penis or around both the balls and penis, close to the body as possible. They work by constricting the blood flow to keep an erection harder, larger, and delay orgasm, so when it happens orgasm is stronger and more intense.

They can be made of various materials but the most common, especially for beginner users, is a stretchy silicone. They can also be made from other materials such as steel or leather, but stretchy materials are easier to use for most as they easily fit many sized penises quite comfortably while still constricting enough to stay in place and work effectively. For steel rings, it’s necessary to measure the penis and find the correct fit for the toy to be usable. So stretchy is much more convenient. But there can also be a wide range of levels of stretching even among stretchy rings. So I think it’s always a good idea to test how stretchy the material is before purchasing. Stretch and size combined will help you decide what is the right ring for you or your partner.

 

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Sex Toy: Screaming O Orbit Plus

 

The Screaming O Orbit & Orbit Plus cock rings are made from a white stretchy silicone material with a fairly high level of stretch. They are also highly reminiscent of sci-fi space ships in their design and packaging, thus the name ‘Orbit’. The packaging pushes the space theme hard in fact and it works rather well. “Three warp speeds and Pulsar Vibration,” it boasts, and it’s also waterproof, just in case it needs to make an emergency landing on an aquatic habitat for sexy times with space mermaids, one presumes.

Now vibrating cock rings differ from regular cock rings in that they also provide stimulation for the wearer and the wearer’s partner by way of a small vibrator, often a ‘bullet’ either inserted into or made as part of the ring. In the case of the orbit the bullet is vertical so if the wearer’s partner has a high clitoris, for example, this will have no problem reaching the right spot. For clitoral stimulation, the idea is to have the ring turned so that the vibrating bullet is sitting on the top side of the penis, close to the body, so that while thrusting and grinding, her clitoris gets lots of hands-free stimulation. Many couples wedge a separate bullet in between them to attempt to achieve this but it can be very easy for the bullet to fall out-of-place and leave everyone frustrated. With a vibrating cock ring you don’t have that problem and also the guy gets a lot more of the vibration on his penis, as the vibrations travel through the ring as well. Now the shape and size of the vibrator on a vibrating cock ring is purely a matter of personal preference and most people will find many shapes work well for them but some do have a distinct preference so it’s something to take into account.

The Orbit has one vibrating bullet, but the Orbit Plus has two. One for her, one for him, as it were. As well as one sitting on top of the base of the penis, another is on the opposite side so it will vibrate against his balls or perineum, depending on how he is wearing the ring. Many guys really love these sensations! If he doesn’t, you always have the option of turning the vibrations on one side off. Versatility is always a good thing in a couples toy, I think.

The Screaming O Orbit & Orbit Plus cock rings are battery-powered toys and you first set come included with the sex toy. These are ag13 (also known as watch batteries), small round batteries that many smaller vibrating toys run off. To change the batteries, you will need to peel back the silicone from the bullet/s, and undo the battery compartment, replace batteries, and then place the bullet back in the silicone covering, rolling/stretching the silicone back into place. This gets quick and easy with practice.

I think Screaming O Orbit & Orbit Plus sex toys are really super cute and light-hearted and should be really popular.

About the Author: Jade is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

11 Tips on How to Choose a Vibrator

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Masturbation used to be a taboo discussion among the community, especially when it comes to women. Due to sex technology development within the sex toy industry, people have opened up to the idea of masturbation with sex toys and now even introduce the use of vibrators into their sexual relationships with people. Sex toys enhance the pleasurable sensations and often intensifies the orgasm. Vibrators nowadays come in various shapes and color. Most often, however, these gadgets are quite trendy in design and are quite affordable. Nevertheless, there are still a lot of women who don’t know how to use vibrators and are shy to ask for fear of being made fun of. Most of these vibrators do not come with any manual by the way.

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Sex Toy: Lelo Ina 2



To guide all those women and even men, who wish to make full use of a vibrator, here are some tips to help you get started.

  1. First of all, if you’re buying the vibrator from online market, you should inspect it upon receipt so that you can return it right away if you see any obvious defects to it. Broken handles exposed wirings or dents that should not be there should be closely inspected and reported to the seller. If the defect is something beyond remedy within your capacity, you should send it back before it lapses the warranty period. If you can see some defects, you should return it since you’re paying for it.
  2. Vibrators usually are battery operated, and it would be appropriate for you to test the product to ascertain if it operates smoothly. Check for the appropriate batteries to use but ensure that you have turned off the gadget before you insert the batteries. You don’t want to be caught red handed when the thing will automatically vibrate and surprise you with its humming and buzzing.
  3. Now, tests run the gadget and start with the lowest level of intensity to ascertain if it works. After some minutes, you can then switch it to a higher intensity until you reach the maximum setting. Alternate switching the gadget to high, then medium, low to high and vice versa to determine its capacity. You would be using it in the same way anyway, so it would be better to test its capabilities while you’re at it. You don’t want it suddenly stopping just when you’re in the throes of passion, do you? So, better check it out and let it ran in its full capacity to know its limit. Check for any grip, or dent or some indentations which might cause you some harm when using it.
  4. Upon complete inspection for any physical defects of the unit and if you’re assured that everything is in order, it would be highly recommended if you will wash the vibrator and keep it in a secure yet roomy drawer. You would not want anyone to mistake it for a toy or worse; children might play with it while you have visitors and it would be a good source of an embarrassment.
  5. You should always remove the batteries when you’re not using the vibrator. Accidental switch on of such might cause you some alarm and embarrassment from other family members.
  6. When using the vibrator, and there are some family members nearby, you can use a blanket to cover it to muffle the sound. You would not want to embarrass yourself or them, trying to locate the source of that weird whirring sound from somewhere in the house.
  7. Most vibrators are made for clitoral stimulation. However, there are some which you can insert into your vagina. You must ensure however that there is no broken area, detachable part or pointed part of the gadget which might bring you harm. It pays to be vigilant about these things.
  8. When it comes to vibrators, the material can make all of the difference. It can be smooth or textured in the same way as a real penis. There are also others that come with unique textures and grooves for her ultimate pleasure. These are supposed to hit the G-Spot, and though each woman is different, they can help in other ways. If you end up buying a vibrator, a little lube can help here as well.
  9. Why not find a vibrator that’s waterproof and has a lot of speed settings. Waterproof comes in handy because it can be used in pools and bathtubs. And who wouldn’t like a little pick me up in the morning shower? Or for the ultimate private experience, use the (waterproof models only!) vibrator in the tub—it’s ultra quiet and discreet. Speed settings help to control the pleasure of the experience, plus the vibrator can then be used on the clitoris as well. With a little lube and a good vibrator, the woman can feel waves of orgasms—repeated over and over. Yes, multiple orgasms are possible—, especially with a good vibrator. And when the man has picked out a great vibrator for himself or his partner, they’re going to be thanked in a unique ways.
  10. You should always wash your vibrator after every use and keep it where it’s secure. As always, remove the batteries when not using the gadget. Ensure that it is clean so as not to run the risk of any infection upon using it. And do I need to emphasize that you should not lend your gadget to just anyone? It can unknowingly transmit diseases.
  11. Looking for someone else? One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that their partner, boyfriend, husband, whatever bought them the biggest vibrator or dildo that they had ever seen. And while the prevailing thought is that bigger is better, but this isn’t always the case for every woman. Some women aren’t designed for that kind of load capacity, so you’re going to need to think a little more compact, perhaps. A lot of people believe size matters. Shoving something big into something that is small isn’t pleasurable in the least bit. And the sad part is that a lot of the women won’t even say anything because they don’t want to offend your choice. Why make these poor ladies suffer? Be sensible about size unless you know she can take it! For some us, bigger is indeed better… Look at yourself. Yes, unzip your pants and look at what your woman is already accustomed to feeling inside her. Be honest, this isn’t the time to start bragging about the size, length, whatever, no one is looking but you. That’s the size that you want to choose for a vibrator for your woman. Slightly bigger is okay too, but don’t go for the foot in diameter version. Her eyes may widen when she sees it, but that’s in fear, not anticipation.



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Is Female Masturbation Normal?

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Saucing the Taco, Tripping The Switch, Finger Painting, Diddling The Skittle, Polishing The Pearl…I never knew female masturbation had so many different terms (some less graceful than others I must say). In this post I will be discussing the mysterious act that is self pleasuring with the hope that I may shine light on a usually taboo and rarely discussed topic. I am a passionate advocate of women reclaiming their pleasure and power, and I feel that in order to be empowered with one’s sexuality, young women need to be informed about ways to claim their sexuality as their own. From this empowered place, healthy choices regarding sexual relationships can be made. Call it wishful thinking but my hope is  that one day, (sooner rather than later) having a normal and open conversation about female masturbation is commonplace, and with this, the shame and guilt associated with masturbation can be eradicated.

I have a brief recollection of the sex education I received in high school and it basically consisted of how sex can lead to pregnancy and/or  sexually transmitted diseases and that men sometimes masturbate and may experience wet dreams. Not once did I hear anyone discuss female masturbation. My parents did not discuss the topic either and I don’t know how well that would have been received if they had tried. The information I  read about masturbation was through a popular teen magazine, where young girls would write in and claim something along the lines of how mortified they were  trying it or how they had injured themselves using pens or other foreign objects. Ouch!!!!  I had an innocent curiosity as to what all the fuss was about so gave it a try one night. The best feeling I had ever experienced in my life was quickly followed by immense shame and guilt. I felt  dirty and disgusting as if there was something wrong with exploring my body. The desire to experience solo sexual pleasure exceeded the associated negative emotions, however looking back I am upset that I had to experience shame and guilt following self pleasuring in the first place.

Curiosity led me to research whether I was in a minority group that did not receive education regarding masturbation and so I had thought, it is not taught or discussed in the Australian education system. In fact it seems that the negative emphasis on sex and sexuality is the norm with sex education. A study completed by La Trobe University in 2011 indicated that “The pleasure of sexual behaviour/activity” was taught by less than 50% of teachers completing sex education in secondary schools. “This suggests that Australian Sex Education programs focus more strongly on negative outcomes of sexual behaviour.” A complete lack of emphasis on the pleasurable and positive aspects of sexual experiences only adds to the belief that sexuality is a negative and shameful part of oneself.

 

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It is well documented that masturbation is a safe and healthy practice for all women, whether in a relationship or not. Some of the benefits include:

Physical Benefits

  • Female masturbation helps prevent cervical infections and relieves urinary tract infections.
  • Masturbation is associated with improved cardiovascular health and lower risk of type-2 diabetes.
  • Masturbation can help prevent insomnia naturally through hormonal and tension release
  • Orgasm increases pelvic floor strength.

Psychological and Emotional Benefits

  • Improves your mood.
  • Relieves stress.
  • Strengthens your relationship with yourself and your body
  • Strengthens sexual relationship with your partner
  • Helpful in treating sexual dysfunctions for couples.
  • Can be helpful in creating positive views and beliefs regarding sex and sexuality in individuals

Masturbation is so important for women to experience, not only for the many health benefits listed above but also so that the reliance on someone else to fulfill their sexual desires is minimised. With this, empowered choices regarding who to engage sexually with can be made. I also believe that in order to  communicate effectively to a sexual partner about what you desire and what feels good to your body, it is important to know yourself what your body likes and doesn’t.

There are countless ways for women to approach masturbation, and could involve using hands, toys and/or vibrators. The wonderful staff at the Oh Zone Stores are very knowledgeable with all the latest products and gadgets that can lead to more pleasurable and exciting experiences solo or with a partner. My personal favourite brands we have in stores and online include Je Joue, Fun Factory and Rianne S. Their products are all excellent quality and come in such unique functions and designs suited to every body.

Every woman is different and what feels amazing to one person could be unpleasant for the next. I recommend approaching masturbation with a great sense of curiosity and erotic exploration…it’s amazing to get to know your body and to discover the pleasure you’re capable of experiencing.

I hope I have highlighted plenty of reasons  why “entering the mosque”  is an extremely healthy and enjoyable experience for women…get to it ladies!!

 

Author: Stephanie Curtis- BA Nursing

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