How To Tell If Your Husband is Gay!

Coming Out Gay

The difference between a straight man and a gay man is that a gay man feels interested in other men sexually but often will accept a woman whilst the straight man feels interested in women only. But sometimes it is seen that the man who claims to be a straight man is actually closeting his true sexuality and  may turn to other men some day. This has happened mainly because of homophobia, companies, friends or family not accepting the gay lifestyle. Due to the past discrimination people have felt that they could progress in companies by having a conservative family with two kids, a dog or cat and a loving wife and husband as it showed “commitment”. Gay people have also protected themselves from being assaulted, abused or looked down on due to their lifestyle choices but this has led to gay people getting married to women. Although sometimes, gay people don’t realise they are gay, until it is to late to change their wedding vows. Thankfully, we now have an open society that is built upon respect of society and cultural understanding of other people’s sexual lifestyle choices.

Inexplicably, they become true to themselves and come out that they are in fact gay and do not feel any interest in women any more having led a life’s lie. This often occurs with middle aged men who are married and then leave their wives and kids. They do not have a happy sexual life with their wife and are unfulfilled. They fail to fulfill the sexual want of their wives or themselves. It is actually a huge problem for the woman if her husband suddenly comes out gay man as for many years she has been misled and participated in an untrue life. The men do not mean to hurt their wives, they have just realised rather late what their sexual orientation is.

 

Coming Out of Closet Gay Rainbow

A gay man often has little sexual interest in the body of a woman but they can think like and also like the mind of woman. But married life needs the combination of mind as well as sex. So in any case when a supposed straight man comes out as a gay man, the wife of that man will feel the ultimate betrayal and deception.

If you are a married woman or a young girl and if feel that your husband or your boyfriend suddenly is acting strangely or making excuses to be apart from you then try to understand him and talk to him. Do not force him to love you as this is not the answer and will never work. It will make him feel trapped and disappointed and he may leave you sooner without giving it a chance. Never give him that chance if you want to get him back. Try to motivate him to open up to you slowly giving him the memories of your most lovely moments together. Give him enough time to understand that there is no turning back and slowly try to see that the life of a gay man can never be the same as with you. You can also try to bring the romance back into your relationship by going out for a romantic walk or both of you can watch romantic movies together.

If he is truly gay he will leave anyway and you are better off without him than living with someone and being with someone who is always fantasizing about someone of the opposite sex. Even so if a gay man and a straight woman sleep in  the same room the whole night, there is no guarantee that nothing will happen between them. So there cannot be any kinds of sexual relationship between a gay man and a woman and only accept the relationship being of the friendship. But if your own loving person suddenly comes out gay because of hormonal imbalance or any other reason then you must take the necessary steps to either try to salvage the relationship quickly or end it permanently. The faster you can take that necessary step, the chances of his and your recovery will be increased. So do not delay if you notice any kind of gay characteristics or different interest in your male partner!

 

Get Joy N’More Every Single Day!

The Joy N’ More Collection are coveted pieces that are up there in terms of quality with some of the top line designer toys.  They are fully water submersible which means they are 100% waterproof. It is exceptionally difficult to find full submersible toys, this means you can use them in the bath, in a powerful spa or in the shower without being scared that they will break!  They are made from a pure silky smooth silicone. Most Joy N’ More sex toys come with a wireless remote control versions. So you or your sexual partner can control the various speeds and functions with a click of the button which will help increase your intimacy. The Joy N’ More Collection is rechargeable, seamless, FDA approved using medical grade silicone with very powerful, strong silent motors and an astonishing 8 wild vibration modes. Just think of the most gorgeous, fully innovative sex toy using the latest technology! It will definitely heighten your sexual experience and provide a way to reach many orgasms over your lifetime.

 Joy N' More Sex Toys
Sex Toy: Joy N’ More Collection
  1. Rechargeable:  The rechargeable feature extends the run time and saves you money on batteries.  Most importantly it is environmentally friendly by keeping batteries out of industrial dumps.  The lithium batteries can last up to 6 hours per charge ensuring that you will never be left high and dry. 6 hours of battery life will last you so many sexual sessions you will be crying with joy! Having no batteries means that you have to interchange means that your device will not leak battery fluid and it will be much more quiet then any other sex toy on the market today.
  2. Waterproof: The self sealing recharge point make Joy N’ More vibrators virtually seamless and 100% waterproof.  In a bath or a shower explore the unique sensual contours and shapes and it also makes it a breeze to clean.  No more worrying about nasty bacteria hidden in seams. You can take the sex toys almost anywhere and not be scared of getting them damaged.
  3. Silicone:  100% Medical Grade Soft Silicone, phthalate free ensures it is safe to insert into the human body, making it a healthy and sexy life style piece. Medical grade silicone does not absorb bacteria, and due to the nature of the material, bacteria cannot breed on it’s surface. Meaning that with a simple clean and wipe with low grade soap that the surface of the toy will be pristine and clean. Take care of your toy and your toy will take care of you.
  4. Strong and Quiet:  Each Joy N’ More vibrator comes with a powerful and quiet vibration motor designed to be nearly inaudible.  Make sure you make your play private – with no annoying and embarrassing buzzing sounds. This is partly due to the quality of the motor, and partly due to the thickness of the silicone and its softness. No one will be able to hear your sex toys so you can have private sessions all to yourself!
  5. Vibration Modes:  For those that want to experience and unique playtime each time and designed to cater for your mood at the time there are 8 ‘wild’ vibrations modes easily switched and controlled with a single button. Let your partner control the buttons to, for some seriously passionate fun.
  6. Elegant Packaging: All Joy N’ More are presented in a special gift box for those wishing to spoil their partner/s with the ultimate present.  Each luxuriously designed gift box contains a travel pouch, charging base and cords, user manual and catalogue. The collection will contain everything you need to get it up and working. Place your sex toy back in its travel pouch to keep it free from rubbing against other products.

It is important to check out the Joy N’ More Collection of products as their are several in the range all with different functions and focuses. There are several within the Joy N’ More range which range from insertables, eggs, and remote control toys. The product line is one of our most loved collections. Joy N’ More provides a quality range that is highly affordable and takes almost everyone of your wants into account. Make sure you store your sex toys safely, clean them with anti-bacterial spray and use a water-based lubricant to protect your sex toys from degrading.

 

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The Good Girl

Women in Bed

Looking through the morning light, peeking through the curtains with the pleasurable sensation of being fully serviced by his lover.  Increasing pressures at the office, there was no better way than with her mouth engulfing his growing cock.  She loved it this way and often woke herself up before him, to play with her sex toys and then to explore his manhood orally and for him much better than an alarm.  She was such a good girl to him and he treasured her so.

Throatily he groaned, signalling his imminent ejaculation, she moved up to let him finger her wet cunt.  Oh she got so wet, he loved finger fucking her with one, then two, finally three fingers, and when she was totally involved in the moment fisting her.  She moaned over his thickening shaft, swirling her tongue around it as took him deeper and deeper until managing to deep throat him, gagging as it went deep past the gag reflex.  She devoured his cock polishing with her tongue her saliva dribbling down the shaft and then she would deep-throat him again, sucking up all the excess juices and starting all over again.

He thought to himself how lucky am I to have such a good girl like this.   His cock was now throbbing and the pressure to ejaculate was starting to grow in his balls.   He moaned deeply and said, I’m about to cum.”

 

Couple in Bed Photo
Photo: Couple in Bed

 

She smiled and nodded encouragement stroking his strong erect cock vigorously as he started to spurt. She placed her cock just above his mouth catching his jism in and around that glorious mouth.  He was in the throws of gushing semen all over her face and it was dribbling down her chin and dropping onto her breast.  When he had finished she set about wiping up all his thick white cum an like a child getting the spoon mother had just made cake with ceremoniously, looking him in the eye gobbled it all up.

When she was done she asked him whether he was all spent and he let her know he was just getting started.

Moving his fingers inside her wetness, her twisted his hand so he could thumb her swollen clit, four fingers inside and one manipulating that beautiful hooded clitoris she had,  She moaned and he smiled thinking what a good girl she was as she was always turned on and it took nothing to make her cum.  Often she would cum whilst giving him a blow-job but as he manipulated her pussy the wetness became a flow and she began to start spurting her cum.  He loved this and as often he did, he put his face toward her gushing cunt.  He knew this drover her crazy and her gush became an ocean as she blew all over his face.

He loved the feeling of her gushing over his face. His erection, now so hard and erect was throbbing once again, and after she stopped spurting rose and she took it orally in a slow, deliberate, sensual way…teasing and pleasing  him.  Never did she remove her mouth from him, just as she had had the last spasm of female jism.  His lover might open her mouth and lick his shaft, slide down and lick or suck his balls, but never would she stop.

He sighed ‘God you are such a good girl’.

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Guide to a Gay Orgy Party

Safety at Gay Orgy Events

Most of us find out about sex parties or orgies by speaking to someone who has already been to one. Though luckily, we have written you a Guide to a Gay Orgy Party to take away some of your anxious thoughts. When you think gay orgy party, you think of all the hot men from your wildest dreams. You might be personally invited or added to an email list. Some online sex sites have sections devoted to helping organize sex parties. Parties can be located in someone’s house or apartment, hotel rooms or a bathhouse. Events that take place in a private residence might include dinner and conversation to start the evening, or maybe even some lounging around the pool. Private orgy parties, truly need to have large amounts of arranging and planning. There might be introductions, ice breakers to get people comfortable, and a discussion of ground rules. Depending on the size of the event, there might be multiple rooms, each differently themed. There may also be non-sexual areas if you want to take a break.

If your new to orgy parties, the sheer amount of individuals in the room can be excessive if people are trying to gain access to the same individual, though it is extremely fun. Logistics makes the event unusual. It will be a cluster of scattered couples blended in with a periodic trio or foursome. Anything greater than that has a tendency to wind up a clutter of “Alright, is it okay on the off chance that I put my foot here? Who am I inclining toward? I can’t see what I’m doing…”  You need to consider for space, pads and covers, you need to watch your toys and things to ensure everything’s perfect and don’t discover their way into the couple alongside you. It’s by and large best to let everybody bring their own sex-toys, they can even bring their own bondage equipment. If your nervous, try to focus to incline toward littler, more close parties. In the event that you have one accomplice, you can concentrate on them and have a fantastic time. Remember to clean your own equipment if you are using it on a new sexual partner.

Some events are ‘safer sex only’ parties. Where normally the host of the party asks all people who are going to the party to bring a recent medical certificate that confirms they do not have underlying transmittable medical condition or std. Others events may leave it up to you to decide. There are bareback parties where guys engage in unprotected anal sex which is also known as raw anal sex. Check with the host in advance to know what type of party you’re going to and what you should bring with you to make the experience more comfortable and fun. You can even think about wearing your own type of lingerie so people know who you are.

 

Safety Tips for Gay Orgy
Photo: Guide to a Gay Orgy Party

 

Sometimes, you can find yourself at a party with bareback sex. Bareback sex is sexual engagement, with sexual infiltration, without the utilization of a condom. A slang term, bareback sex originates from the equestrian term bareback, which alludes to the act of riding a steed without a seat. It in this way has the implication of being adventurous, risky, and fun. Bare-backing generally alludes to the choice and planned decision to not wear condoms during sex. If you arrive at a bareback party but weren’t expecting it to be one, don’t feel pressured to participate. If you’re going to a bareback party, check it out  for more information and be sure that your health checks are up to date, and do not feel pressured to have unprotected sex with anyone that you do not wish to. At the end of the day, it would be far better to get kicked out of a party than to risk your health and well-being.

Some of us like to have one-on-one sex, some of us like to have orgy group sex, and some of us like to have sex in front of other people. You can choose to keep your self safer if you choose to only participate with individuals you know. Sometimes there is also a lack of somebody you scarcely know; especially if it is your first time.

Sex parties can be a lot of fun but can also present particular risks. It can be difficult to keep track of what is going on when there’s a group of guys having sex around you. If you’re a top, make sure to change the condom with each different person that you fuck. If you’re the bottom, please be aware that you should ensure that the person you are engaging with sexual relations with also has changed their condom to a new one when they are with you as some people are not aware that they need to. Periodically check, with your hand, to make sure that guys are using condoms. When you are ejaculating it may be a good idea to pull out to lower the risk of spillage. After pulling out when your ejaculating, it is important to put on another new condom. Additionally, if the condom cracks or tears or breaks, change your condom straight away to a new one. If you’re having oral sex (sucking cock) with a lot of guys, avoid deep throating as this increases your risk of getting certain STD’s – like gonorrhea and chlamydia. Alternatively, feel free to bring along some flavoured condoms so you can give head safely.

 

 

 

 

How To Gay Cruise

Friendship Group

How gay men approach online dating ranges from a past time to a eight-hour-a-day obsession. Manhunt and Gaydar chatroom’s have replaced Perez Hilton, bigdickdaddy.com even  Kylie Club sites in queer bookmarks on web browsers.  Time spent online could be better utilized  in the real world. Gay men are losing their natural instincts to cruise. Living through our avatars – wellhung9, thickpound4U and other alphanumeric gems – we have lost touch with the ability to pull a man out of the frozen peas aisle of Cole’s and into our beds. Here are some hints on How To Gay Cruise the real world:

The Man Scan

Put your eyes to work by scanning for trade within your line of sight. While looking ahead set your gaydar to stun and see what possible trade is around. Keep it subtle and use that peripheral vision. You don’t want to scare away the trade.

The Crossover

The moment when a man who has set your gay scanner off and meets your eye. That fleeting exchange of eye contact is crucial so keep it brief, sexy and confident. The wrong look may suggest you are a whore looking for a fast fuck.

The Look Back

The look back should be carried out while you’re still in motion. Discreetly turn around to see if you made an impact. When the look back is there slow down until you come to a halt and slowly ease against the nearest pole, wall or other fixed object.  Continue the eye contact.

The Southern Cross

While looking and leaning, move your hand slowly and casually towards your pockets and sensually re-adjust your package. If you’re a hit, this move says it all. If your gaydar was wrong, then you can get out of an embarrassing situation with the ‘I’m hanging a little to the left and need a slight adjustment’ defence that all straight men understand. If you’re on target and the Southern Cross has been well received, proceed to the next phase.

The Kill

It’s make-or-break time so prepare to move in. While you may have been sporting a poker face up until now, it’s important to initiate some positive facial expression as you begin your descent. A slight smile reinforces your interest and confirms you’re not crippled by Botox. Smile fleetingly, not longingly; you’re not completely out of Mormon territory yet. At five metres from target give a small nod; at three metres draw attention to your mouth by wetting your lips; and at zero metres say, “Hey, what’s up?” If the response is “One guess” then it’s fair to assume you will be having sex within the next 15 minutes. If the response moves to the weather, re-align the conversation by repeating the Southern Cross move at this close distance until you have re positioned your target to your bedroom.

Getting Gays Online
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The internet has changed how young and mature gay men date. Hooking up in gay chat rooms, posting ads on gay websites, watching VOD for free, or being part of interactive free live webcam shows. Has made it easy for Gay Cruising Online. Phone clubs are available to join where you can listen to messages, leave messages, and talk live with other men. The anonymity of both the internet and phone lines often allows all of us to explore freely sexual fantasies without fear of being seen or found out. Sexual exploration (not exploitation) is healthy and fun; however, sexual exploration without proper knowledge can be challenging. For example, some guys might advertise that they’re into PnP (P&P or party and play). If you’re exploring other types of sex play, make sure you know what you’re getting yourself into and what potential risks there might be before you engage in these
activities.

Here are some tips to keep in mind when cruising on-line or on the phone lines to make your gay cruising online more enjoyable and safe:

  • Keep a record of where you are going when going over to someone’s place.
  • Avoid giving out your phone number and address too freely to strangers.
  • If you’re inviting someone home and you live in an apartment, meet them at the entrance lobby. This way you avoid giving out your entry code and apartment number. It’s also easier to turn someone down if they’re not already in your apartment.
  • Don’t assume the person you’re hooking up with knows how to protect themselves from HIV transmission. Sometimes cruising from the comfort of your home might give you a false sense of safety. Just because you’re inviting people back to your place, or going over to other people’s homes, doesn’t mean you’re at lesser risk for HIV transmission.
  • The internet and the phone lines can sometimes de-humanize the cruising situation. Remember, you’re interacting with another person. Don’t be rude. Be aware of the language you use when responding.
  • It’s easier for other people to lie about themselves when you aren’t actually meeting them for the first time face-to-face. You can’t control this. Think in advance about what you would do if someone you cruised is not what he made himself out to be.
  • It can be easy to isolate yourself from the real world when you cruise online or over the phone. Look out for the following signs: you aren’t going out as much, or no longer hanging out with your usual friends. Make sure to keep your social interactions with others – be it friends, family or co-workers.

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Hope you enjoyed this step by step guide on how to gay cruise.

Author: Ben is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres