Finding The Grafenberg Spot (G-Spot)

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26 years on this earth and it was this year that I managed to find my own G-spot *snaps for Bree*. After purchasing countless vibrators and using fingers in a hook-like shape over the years, the one tool that managed to hit my spot was in fact the humble dildo. But why is it so difficult to locate this hidden gem? I am going to aim upward in this quest and investigate the mystery further and hopefully give all the ladies out there some extra thought to this conundrum.

Using a Doc Johnson Purple Ballsy Cock with suction cup who I’ve affectionately named Sherlock, I hit the sweet spot, the serenity button and it was glorious. It took me about 15-20 minutes and I found lying down on a bed, lounge, table, or any other surface, in a half sitting up/lying down position tilting slightly was the recipe or success which pretty much fits the description of almost every reliable source I came across when researching this topic.


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Be prepared though, if you try this method it is physically intensive so make sure you are prepared for possible wank cramp and I will know this works for you if I start seeing some Popeye arms around! That beautiful moment though when the orgasm hits, like getting to the top of the roller coaster before the big drop, the build-up, the anticipation, it was one of the greatest moments (and achievements) of my life to date.

Once I had the first taste of success, repeatedly I managed to locate it with the above method in mind. Now this may not work for every woman out there but certainly worth trying it if you have never experienced successful G-spot stimulation while following the guidelines that claim to lead us to orgasm and even in some cases, female ejaculation included.

The “G-spot” is an abbreviation of the “Grafenberg spot” named after the man (yes man) who first discovered it. Dr. Grafenberg, a German Gynaecologist, discovered this particularly sensitive location in the woman’s vagina in 1950.

In Grafenberg’s discovery, he has documented that the G-spot is a bean-shaped gland that shows physical links to the clitoris, it is located about 2 inches inside the vagina and is comparable to the male prostate in function and purpose. It is widely suggested that using your fingers to roughly the second joint and of course pointing up (as if you were doing a “come here” motion, literally) toward the belly button is how to locate and arouse the G-spot.

Where the G-Spot is Located
Diagram: The G-Spot


However, you cannot directly touch your G-spot, but when aroused it fills with fluid and swells making it quite sensitive to stimulation. When locating it, there should be a spot that is a little rougher to the touch than the surrounding area under the pubic bone. Some sources have described it as feeling like the roof of your mouth.

The glands associated with the coveted G-spot orgasm are called “Skene Glands” they are made up of the peri-urethral (urethral tissues) and para-urethral (adjacent to the urethra) glands. All glands are on the anterior wall of the vagina, around the lower end of the urethra.

The Female Prostate and Skene glands are anatomically and functionally distinct and separate from one another. The Skene glands are surrounded by tissue (which includes part of the Clitoris), this area during sexual arousal, becomes flush with blood and fills with a Prostatic fluid. The Prostatic fluid is generally a white colour and made up of a similar composition to that of the fluid generated in males by the male Prostate gland, containing biochemical markers of sexual function like Human Urinary Protein, and the enzyme PDE5.


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Diagram: Female prostate and ejaculatory glands


Female ejaculation isn’t always present, in some women it is completely absent which may explain why many women believe female ejaculation doesn’t exist all together. With some women not having this ability, this would certainly alter the outcome of an orgasm.

The only way to set off the G-spot and all the contributing tissues and glands is once you’re aroused, unfortunately it’s not just a quick press like a button… If only it were that simple!

But like many women, we must prep the area with some love before we get to the climax point, so nothing out of the ordinary for most of us! As for our partners, sorry, can’t get out of this one that easily… foreplay is a definite when it comes to caressing Dr. Grafenberg’s discovery.


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As well as using fingers, it has been claimed by some lucky ladies out there that men can also stimulate this area very well with their Penis particularly in positions where the man, or woman using a strap-on or dong is behind the woman (e.g. Doggy-style) and by making shallow thrusts against the front of the vaginal wall. If the penis or toy is curved upwards, you can also reach the area easily in Missionary position.

You could say finding the G-spot is essentially a rite of passage for some of us as a women’s vaginal wall becomes thinner with age and therefore the G-spot becomes more pronounced and easier to stimulate as the woman gets older and is believed this is one of the reasons why most women reach their sexual peak between 30-40 years of age.

In summary, The G-spot is made up of different areas of the vagina, both external and internal areas, tissues, glands, and fluids. Once all are synchronized and aroused simultaneously this can attribute to a feeling of ecstasy, that mystical G-spot orgasm takes flight and if you’re anatomically bestowed to ejaculate during G-spot stimulation and eventual orgasm, the moment could prove to be a little messy! But all for fun!

So, what are you waiting for ladies? You can even class it as some practical research all in the name of Science!

Love yourself, get know your body more intimately and find that fucking G-spot!



About the author: Bree is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres








Sex Toys Fit For A Queen!

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When I saw the JOPEN Callie display, my immediate thought was that these vibrators are fit for a queen. Sleek, classic and beautiful, they are the epitome of royalty. Now imagining the actual Queen of England using a vibrator is quite the challenge and I don’t think I actually want to let my mind go there. Nonetheless, I believe that she would vouch for these vibrators. I also believe that for such an affordable price, the taxpayers would be more than happy to chip in!

The history of the vibrator is an interesting (and hilarious) story that shows how far we have come, not just with the technology of sex toys but also with our awareness and acceptance of female pleasure in society. The first vibrator was created in the late 19th century to be used by medical doctors to treat Victorian women with hysteria (Hysteria itself is worthy of an article…more on that another time!!)-to put it simply, it was used to give exhausted doctors a break from making hysterical women orgasm all day long with their hands!! Vibrators have changed so drastically in a relatively short period of time with the choice of products we have today a far cry from the early day choices. I, along with plenty of other women I’m sure, am tremendously grateful for the modern equivalents of these terrifying looking contraptions. The thought of these going near my nether regions is enough to turn me celibate!!

The JOPEN Callie range are incredible sex toys, an end result of the tireless effort that has been invested into vibrator technology over the last 100+ years. The best part is you don’t even have to be diagnosed with an outdated mental disorder to get your hands on these products (Or visit a doctor for an orgasm for that matter).

JOPEN is a sex toy company based in California, United States of America, with a key emphasis on creating sex toys for women and couples. The company is run by a predominantly female staff and prides itself on having one of the best warranty programs for sex products.

The Callie range includes 4 styles of vibrators, each made from silky white, premium silicone with a gold base and diamond style button. The vibrators are 100% waterproof making them easy to clean and perfect for those who love to take their toys in the bath or shower. These toys, like the majority of high quality vibrators, are rechargeable with a USB outlet. Simply unscrew the base and plug in. Just be sure that it is correctly screwed on before submerging in water to prevent water damage. The JOPEN Callie vibrators come with a one year warranty which as mentioned above, is one of the best warranty programs available.

The vibrations of all products in the Callie range are deep, powerful and extremely pleasurable. For such an affordable toy, I was surprised with the quality of the vibrations. They each come with 7 vibrating functions, with the single diamante button pressed to control these rhythms. There are toys on the market that have a greater variety of vibration patterns and different levels of intensity which for someone who wants a really low vibrating intensity is a downfall. However I believe that for most people the 7 functions should suffice.

All the toys in the Callie range are elegantly packaged in a reusable sturdy box.

The Dual Massager

This toy is a rabbit style vibrator with a long shaft for penetration and a smaller extension for clitoral stimulation. The combination of vaginal thrusting and clitoral stimulation with this vibrator is extremely intense and pleasurable, perfect to be used solo or with a partner. These style of wands can also be safely used as an anal dildo, making them a great choice for those who like to be able to mix it up


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Sex Toy: Callie Vibrating Dual Massager

The Wand

This straight vibrator features a long and slightly curved shaft that becomes girthier towards the end. This is a perfect vibrator for someone who wants a thick but not huge dildo vibrator. Used with an anal stopper, would also make a great butt toy.


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Sex Toy: Callie Vibrating Wand

Mini Wand

This vibrator is the smaller equivalent of the wand, a bullet style vibrator that is great for clitoral stimulation. It is a perfect size to be used during sex as it’s not too big that it will get in the way but big enough that it’s easy to handle. Also great for traveling as it is small and discreet looking.


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Mini Massager

This toy is a slightly long tear drop shaped small vibe with a cord attached to the control. The cord measures approximately 60cm’s making it perfect to be controlled by you or your partner whilst being used.

There are some really amazing choices in the JOPEN Callie range, with shapes and sizes to suit a wide variety of needs. These toys are available online at Adultsmart and in the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres in 4 locations across Sydney. Get in quick before they all run out!!

About the author: Sophie is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle CentresSave




My Body Glides With Pjur!

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God I love my job!! As well as having the privilege of having people open up to me about such an intimate area of their lives, I get the opportunity to test products intended to enhance pleasure. What’s not to love?! I was super grateful to receive a couple of bottles of Pjur Lubricant to test and review and I honestly only have good things to say about these incredible products!!!


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Image: Funny Meme on Lubricant


Lubricant is one of the most popular items we sell in the best selling adult shops and is a perfect accompaniment to sexual experiences. Before working here, I was only ever exposed to the water-based lubricants you buy from the supermarket which I never used because, quite frankly, this awful stuff does more harm than good. I have since discovered that there are so many quality lubricants available on the market that lead to greater and more fulfilling sexual experiences.



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Image: Robots Lubricant Joke


Lubricant can lead to greater comfort when engaging in penile-vaginal sex, when masturbating and is particularly important for anal intercourse due to a lack of natural lubrication. A study completed on 2453 American women in 2010* assessed their experiences with lubricant when used for sexual purposes. It indicated that the use of lubricant was associated with increased pleasure and lead to greater sexual satisfaction during partnered or solo sexual experiences. A woman’s vagina produces its very own lubrication when aroused however there are many factors that can lead to this process being disrupted. Certain medications and medical procedures, as well as ageing and generally low libido, can all have adverse effects on natural lubrication in a woman. In a large majority of women, menopause can lead to decreased vaginal lubrication, reduction in the elasticity of the walls of the vagina and vaginal irritation. I have had several men coming into the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres recently, stating that their wives are going through menopause which has resulted in pain during sexual intercourse. Although there exist many aspects to address, introducing a good quality lubricant is a great place to start.

When choosing a lubricant for yourself or your partner it is important to remember that every person’s body is different and will have a unique reaction to different ingredients in lubricants. Some people love the feeling of silicone lubricants but their bodies have a negative reaction to the ingredients. Others may find that water based lubricants don’t agree with their body. I recommend to people unsure of what suits them or their partner to give both a try and see what works best for them.

Pjur is a company founded in Germany by Alexander Giebel, creating personal lubricants of the highest quality. It’s taken me till today to find out that Pjur is pronounced “Pure”. After working in the Oh Zone stores for over 6 months, this is just a little bit embarrassing, I now can’t even remember what I’ve actually been saying this entire time but I’m sure it was awful!! Pjur specialises in high-quality silicone and water based lubricants, with additional products such as anal relaxing serum’s and delay sprays also available in the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres and at Adultsmart.

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Pjur Original Body Glide is a super concentrated and fragrance-free silicone lubricant. I find silicone lubricants to be the most comfortable lubricants, appropriate to use during sex, massage and with glass & steel sex toys. The ingredients of Pjur Original include cyclopentasiloxane, dimethicone & dimethiconol which, unlike the ingredients of water-based lubricants, are not absorbed by the body. This means that stickiness and discomfort that can be associated with some lubricants is not a concern with Pjur Original. It has a really smooth and silky glide, with a slightly thick consistency compared with some other silicone lubricants. This means that a little bit of Pjur Original goes a long way so you really get your money worth. The frustrating thing about Pjur Original and all silicone lubricants for that matter is that they are not suitable to be used with silicone sex toys. The silicone lubricant causes the silicone of the toy to disintegrate ultimately destroying the toy and making it a harbour for nasty bacteria. Water-based lubricant is the best option for use with silicone toys which lucky for us, Pjur has a great range of.

After being given a bottle of Pjur Woman Nude Water-Based lubricant, I am now a proud convert to their water-based range. This is by far my favourite water-based lubricant to date, with a silky glide that compares with no other lubricant in this category. Pjur Woman Nude is free of glycerines, parabens and preservatives, making it perfect for those women who are sensitive to these chemicals. A woman’s vaginal pH normally sits between 3.5 to 4.5, with certain ingredients potentially causing disruption to this balance which can lead to developing uncomfortable symptoms. I am one of these sensitive women and have encountered no issues with this lubricant after several weeks of use. I find this lubricant not greasy or sticky, with a smooth moisturising quality using only a small amount. Just because I get asked this all the time by men buying this for their female partners, the Pjur Woman range is 100% safe to be used on men!!

The Pjur lubricants come in a screw top firm plastic bottle that doesn’t leak which makes it perfect to travel with. Depending on the size, these lubricants range in price. I see many customers not wanting to spend money on lubricant, settling for the cheaper options and I see it as my duty to inform them that by spending a bit more initially, they will end up using less plus will reap the benefits of high-quality lubricant. A good quality lubricant is the best thing you can introduce to the bedroom, with the Oh Zone staff more than happy to point you in the direction of the one perfect for you.


Author: Stephanie Curtis- BA Nursing







Complete Guide On Nipple Stimulation

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Nipples are a sensitive topic for most but what is it that makes these parts of the body more sensitive than the rest? Nipples for both men and women are considered part of the erogenous zones. This means that nipples, once stimulated can encourage sexual arousal in both sexes and even assist and contribute to vaginal orgasms while being stimulated the same time that the G-spot is being aroused. And there’s no denying when you see a hard nipple in public it almost triggers a primal reaction, the sensation and feeling when nipples are erect makes me melt into a puddle. This is truly an area for the most  part untouched, as too often some of us want to just skip the foreplay and go straight to sex but if you focus on this area along with other sensitive parts of the body outside of the general erogenous zones, sex will be a different experience and far more rewarding.

Nipple stimulation is sometimes intense enough to elicit an orgasm in some women. Research has suggested the sensations are genital orgasms caused by nipple stimulation, and may also be directly linked to “the genital area of the brain”. In women, one study indicated that sensation from the nipples travels to the same part of the brain as sensations from the vagina, clitoris and cervix. Women’s sensitivity increases during and after puberty due to their hormonal fluctuations and increased chemicals in the body that develop for natural reproduction and female sexual maturity. Nipple stimulation may trigger uterine contractions, which then produce a sensation in the genital area of the brain. This could also be the case in men, from personal experience and research that men also indicate signs of arousal and pleasure induced by nipple stimulation, though with men being that their nerves are close together some find this area way to sensitive to play with and even touch during foreplay and sexual intercourse.


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Photo: Nipple Mens Facts


The nerves that make up the nipple are closer together in men and further apart in women. It is known in the piercing industry that nipple piercings for men are far more sensitive to pain than women who choose to pierce this area of the body. This is due to their nerve structure, however piercing this area depending on the person, can increase sensitivity which can also assist in sexual stimulation and it just feels fucking amazing. And in my opinion it is a very beautiful modification to the body for both visual and physical stimulation.

I decided yesterday to get my nipples pierced after many years of wanting them, I gave in and prepared myself for the whole experience. I wanted to feel the sensation some people talk about after they have had their nipples pierced. The sensitivity, the tingling I wanted to see what it was like and what it now meant to me being aroused in that area. Well firstly for me, it hurt. It was a tolerable pain nothing I haven’t felt before especially when it comes to sex. It was like a hard bite. I was surprisingly the least nervous for my nipple piercings than I had ever been before and I am heavily modified so it was a good surprise. Having someone touching your nipples to make them hard was interesting and I am very glad that it was a dear friend which made the whole scenario more comforting. Nipples really are a huge part of the erogenous zones because during the whole piercing time I could feel response below the belt. Almost like the pain sensation near my clitoris the same time my nipples felt pain which was really bizarre but very cool. I can definitely see why people do get their nipples pierced, they are much more sensitive now than ever before. It’s too early to say long term the benefits of this increased sensitivity but I will definitely find out soon! They look so pretty!

For those who can’t commit to permanent modification, there are so many other options out there. From bondage, fetish play, arousal oils, creams and gels to be applied topically which increase sensitivity or make them sensitive to touch. The possibilities and combinations are endless. I have decided to share some of my favourite toys and potions to enhance your experiences and show you the power and positives of stimulating the nipples!


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Sex Toy: Zumio


Zumio – A powerful point stimulator brilliant for nipples and the areola, when used with your favourite massage oils, warming or cooling lubricant, Zumio can certainly make a difference to your sensitive areas in a very big way. This rechargeable pen-like device is $199.99 and will make you scream with pleasure at the very touch.

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Sex Toy: Satisfyer Pro 2


Satisfyer Pro 2 – If there is one thing most people succumb to during foreplay it sucking on nipples, so why not use the Satisfyer Pro 2 and get you both in the mood with something different! Rechargeable and waterproof, the suction of the Satisfyer Pro 2 increases once submerged under water making this an incredibly fun and pleasurable addition to a wet and wild romp! This particular model I like for nipples as it has a larger more comfortable opening for the nipple to rest in and away it goes with that intensely amazing sucking motion!


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Photo: Mans Nipples


Nipple clamps, pumps and stretchers – We have some really nice nipple clamps which you can get in a variety of different clamp styles and colours that are joined by a simple, belled or jewelled chain. These clamps don’t have to be painful as most brands and styles are adjustable with soft coating around the vice of the clamps to prevent discomfort, Ouch!, Fetish Fantasy, Doc Johnson and Pipedream all produce a variety of nipple clamps, suction cups and nipple pumps, electro therapy stimulating clamps and BDSM clamps attached to metal cock rings and collars for the more daring and bold individuals among us.

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Image: Wildfire Arousal Oils


Warming and Cooling stimulating gels and arousal oils – We have high quality, all natural arousal oils and gels from Wildfire and Sensuva to heighten sensitivity and give that boost to really feel sensations from the nipples to the areolas and breasts getting you in the mood and getting you ready for a fun night for sure!


About the author: Bree is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres





My Smart Wand Is Magic For My Sex Life!

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Among our various ranges of wands in our Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres, I’d say the Lelo Smart Wand is the best looking one! The shape, beautiful materials and colours make Lelo the best wand designer if you ask me.

It comes in a classic yet elegant white packaging with an image that shows the different positions to use the toy as a body massager but not as an intimate massager… of course, as soon as you see this toy, you know that this is a wand which can be used in a sexual way, I guess that they didn’t want to be too explicit to keep it classy.

In the box, you’ll also find a satin pouch, the charger, the user guide and a nice gold brooch (which is useless by the way but it is still nice though). The smart wands are available in 3 colours: black, white and purple. I tested the black one (A classic colour but was the only one left).

The black (and gold) Lelo smart wand is 30 cm long with a head diameter of about 6 cm. It’s made of silicone and ABS Plastic. Its silicone is frankly exceptional. Indeed, it’s very soft and once you touch it, you’ll know immediately that it’s a superior quality. I am not surprised after all, we are talking about Lelo! The silicone is perfectly adjusted, the toy has a great design, the finishes are excellent (glossy/matte), moreover, it doesn’t attract much dust.

The rechargeable smart wand is not the lightest wand I’ve ever held, it weights 395g but it doesn’t matter, even more, its better. Why? For the wands, the bigger they are, the more effective they can be! (Especially when used as a body massager). I mean, obviously… if it’s bigger you can cover more parts of your body. Moreover, the vibrations are more powerful than the lighter ones. But for ones that worry too much about the weight/seize, Lelo resolved this issue a long time ago: They offer 2 different sizes (medium and large). I didn’t have the possibility to try the other sizes but could have been happy with the medium size.

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Once, the cordless wand was charged enough, I finally tested it on my shoulders first. It’s honestly amazing. As a massage lover, this toy gives me amazing sensations and I realize how good it is to have the wand made of silicone. A plastic or similar head could have been painful after using it for a while. Plus, it makes the smart wand 100% waterproof!

Make sure to charge the toy as indicated (2 hours charging for 2 hours user time) because once you start using it, you won’t stop… Oh and don’t worry about the fact that the charger doesn’t go all the way in to the charging port, at first you might think that the charger or port is broken but it’s not. That’s the only little thing I could complain about.

It has a 3 button interface and 8 vibration modes to play with, rising and falling vibrations, rumbling vibrations and slow and fast vibrations. It also features Sense Touch technology which, once the vibrator is switched on, stops it when there is no pressure on its head and restarts it as soon as the head is pressed on a part of the body. It is possible to configure it in travel mode to prevent it from operating when not expected (happened to me once with a vibrator but was lucky it happened around my friends, otherwise you can imagine the embarrassment!)

The interface is simple: There is a ‘+’ button, a ‘-‘ button and a ‘()’ button. The ‘+’ and ‘-‘ buttons are used to adjust the vibration intensities, the ‘()’ button allows you to change the vibration modes. The buttons are easily accessible and put in the best place they could have been.

Surprisingly, when you start the Smart Wand, it’s immediately on the most powerful intensity when you touch the skin (thanks to the Sense Touch), so you must decrease the power with the ‘-‘ button. I love the different vibrations and the intensity can be powerful or weak if wanted.

When it comes to use it as an intimate massager, it can only be used as an external massager because of its shape. I don’t doubt a minute that this wand would give me the best clitoral orgasms if used! Nevertheless, I wonder how I could use the large wand at the same time as being with my partner or using a vaginal toy. This size might be a big issue and you should maybe reconsider downsizing if you are into a double stimulation. Other than that, the sound is great. It’s not completely quiet but I have had noisier wands than this one.

When it comes to the cleaning, it can’t become easier since the Smart Wand is 100% waterproof. Just pass it under warm water with a mild soap and make sure it’s completely dry before charging again.

I’d recommend without hesitation the smart wand as I really appreciated this toy. It is not only one of the best-looking toys I’ve seen but also, a powerful one and made of great materials. The smart wand comes with the usual year warranty and ten years guarantee offered by Lelo.


About the author: Aissata is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres



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