20 Sure Fire Tips To Make Your Relationship Sizzle Again!

Sex Is Better

It is important to keep a relationship alive and kicking.  Gone are the days when getting by is enough.  We want more from our partners and our relationship and an important part of that is enjoying and exploring our sexuality.  Here are 20 top ways to protect and spice up your relationship.

1  Role Play – Pretend it’s Your First Date:

Do you recall your first date with your partner?  How everything they said or did was just right.  The food tasted better, the stars were brighter and the electricity that generated when you touched and kissed was electric.  Take yourself back to that time and rediscover the sexiness that you both saw in each other.

2  Leave Your Partner Wanting More:

Give your partner a tender kiss.  Touch him or her in that spot you know always turns them on.  Caress them and cuddle them.  Talk dirty to them and then walk away leaving them wanting more.  Teasing them is going to increase theirs and your desire.  It is amazing what lust and desire will do to increase libido.

3  Be Spontaneous:

If you find yourself thinking about your partner in an erotic way let them know.  If you are at work send them a text message or ring them.  Your lover will appreciate that you desire them and it will get them thinking about you too.  Take it a step further and if you feel desire for your partner when you are together on a night out – do something about it – use the linen closet, even the back seat of the car like when you were teenagers.

4  Use Technology:

These days with Youtube, Skype, face time and a whole myriad of ways you can communicate with your partner, utilize them.  When you are out of town use skype for a bit of nice cyber-sexing.  It will turn your partner on no end and stop them from sneaking on those porn sites late at night as you will satisfy their lust for voyeurism.

5  Watch a Movie:

Try new things.  Buy an instructional movie of sexual positions or Kama Sutra for different ways to carry out your foreplay and lovemaking.   Not only will the DVD turn you on before bedroom play but will give you new ideas of how to satisfy your partner and get more fulfilling sex.

6  Prioritize:

Show your lover they mean everything to you.  Create a quiet ‘us time’ when you switch off the phones and computer and it is just you and your partner. Talk about your day, your feelings, your desires.  Even half an hour a day will recharge those batteries and bring you closer together.  It will stop the arguments because it is showing that you care and value each other.

7  Take Turns to Dominate:

Take turns in the bedroom and in bedroom play who is the dominant and who will be the submissive. When you are lovemaking you assume the top position.  Taken some silken ties and tie your lovers hands to the bedpost.  Use a bit of hot candle wax on their body.  But always let them know they are in a safe place.

8  Do Something Different:

Once a week do something to or with your partner that you have never done before.  Flash your lover from a public place, have phone sex with them, use a new sextoy, grab a different massage oil or use some erotic pheromones to enhance your lovemaking.  Little things like this will soon become a fun night and your partner or lover will anticipate these little things with joyful expectation.

9  Date Night:

Even if you have rugrats that are screaming around your feet most of the time and you are tired, at least once a week have a date night.  Date night does not even necessarily mean leaving your home – have a picnic after the kids have gone to bed in the living room, Cheese and crackers on the balcony.  Just something to re-connect and can be combined with ‘us time’ to really get things hot.

10   Tell Your Partner What You Want:

More than 90% of couples in a relationship have not been honest with their partner in what they want sexually in a relationship.  It doesn’t matter how bizarre of kinky your fantasy is unless you share it with your partner they will never know and you will always feel you are missing something.  Some things your lover may not be comfortable doing but if they know what your secret desires are they may come to some form of compromise where you both get what you want. If you are in a loving relationship your partner will want to please you as you wish to please them and if you don’t share fulfillment will never be reached. It is important to keep a relationship alive and kicking.  Gone are the days when getting by is enough.  We want more from our partners and our relationship and an important part of that is enjoying and exploring our sexuality.  Here are 20 top ways to protect and spice up your relationship.

11  Be Naught and Talk Dirty:There is nothing more endearing and welcoming to a woman (or Mans) ears than to be told how sexually attractive we are.  When you see your partner dressing compliment them on how great their bum looks, or how you love their legs.  When they are in front of the mirror stand behind them and tell them what you like physically about their body.  This is a sure turn on and don’t be surprised if these little naughty compliments will lead to seduction.lingerie woman

12  Put on a Show: Everyone loves a show.  Why not put on a special show for your lover.  Do a naughty strip-tease, even if you are a little shy or lack rhythm rest assured these little nuances or mistakes will make it even more provocative and sexual.  Knowing that you have not done this before to another is going to excite and titillate your partner.  Maybe even throw in a bit of BDSM play.  Ultimately it will make you both happy so why not give it a try.

13  Get a Naught Toy: These days the stigma about sex toys is all but gone.  Go to an adult store together or shop online for a toy that will enhance your lovemaking.  There are so many great pleasure devices that are designed for couples that can be worn and the sensations experienced by both whilst making love.  The world famous We-Vibe or other couples toys not put out by JoyNMore, Lelo and SWAN or even with some cock rings. Or take it one step further and buy a remote controlled toy for your partner to wear next time you go out for dinner.  BUT you hold the remote control.  Watch your lover squirm with delight over dinner when you decide that you will activate the vibrations on the toy – and no-one in the diner will know except the both of you.

14  Create the Mood: Next time you have a quiet night in grab some nice scented candles.  Chill that bottle of Champagne, have the strawberries and massage oil ready.  Slip into that sexy silken garment.  Give the room a spray with pheromone ambience to create a sensual mood.  You  might not get to the strawberries as your partner is sure to delight in such a sensual atmosphere but will surely remember the night.

15  Read some poetry or erotic fiction: Rather than sitting or laying down watching late night movies why not spend a few minutes together reading a chapter from an erotic book or some erotic poetry.  This will get you in a romantic mood and also give you ideas –may even result in role play.  Classic choices are writings from Abu Amr Jamil or Khalil Gibram or erotic fiction like 50 Shades of Grey.

16  Give Him What He Wants: It’s not always about you.  Why not treat him for a change to his ultimate dream date.  Put on his favorite teams jersey and little shorts, put the tv on sports channel and watch the game live with him.  Have the icebox full of his favourite brew and serve it to him with some munchies.  Let  him watch the entire game without talking and then afterwards relive some of the better moments of the game with him. You will score so many brownie points that he will probably put the garbage out and clean up without you having to even ask.

17  Tease with a show: Let your lover know what you want to and are going to do to them.  Ring them at work and tell them when they get home you are going to …. To them.   Or you are dressed in a see-through negligee and waiting on the bed for them to come home and take advantage of you.  The only drawback may be they feint sickness to come home straight away as they will be so turned on.

18  This is a NO Rule: Agree that there are some things that you will not do or that have to be done.  Things like – We agree never to make love in the same position more than twice in a week.  We will not make love without foreplay.  We will not have bedroom fun unless flowers are given once a week.

19  Make Light of It: Have a dare, make a bet but always deliver.  Have a game of cards and the loser will give a one hour sensual massage.  Have a game of pool and the loser will have to orally please the other.  This can be done for all sorts of games or events and can be lots of fun.  It certainly will bring out the competitiveness in you both in a positive way.

20  Celebrate New Year with a Bang: Instead of going out to drunken parties with people slobbering all over you wishing you a New Year.  Hire out an expensive suite at a 5 Star Hotel where the bedroom overlooks a view where fireworks will go off.  Have some champers and nice spa and then 15 minutes before midnight start have some great sex.  Be careful to last it out and time your orgasms at the stroke of midnight when the fireworks start.

Can you think of a better way to start the New Year?




How to Gay Daddy Date

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Gay daddy dating is probably a term you have never heard before, but if you are in the gay community, it is sure that you have witnessed a difference between the ages of partners in most gay relationships. It’s becoming more and more common for young gay men to form mutually beneficial relationships with older gay men and wealthier gay daddies. If you have not noticed this concept today, it has already become famous about online gay daddy dating. Gay daddies seeking young gay men have always tried for a long time to find safe, and secure ways to create no strings attached relationships, which is part of the reason why rich gay men. These days you can find dating applications and websites like Grindr and Tinder to find people quickly in their areas. I have chosen this discreet and highly controversial way of meeting and arranging gay daddy relationships.

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How can I find a gay daddy?

If you’re a young, entry level professional and sexy gay man, you should already know that there is more than just the financial benefit to dating older and wiser men. As internet and technology is becoming the main way for communicating with the world today, I have discovered that arranging dates with successful and older men lets a better taste in the mouth and a wiser choice than after a quick booty call.

Unlike normal gay men dating sites that seem more like selling meat in the market and not close to places that promise true love, a gay daddy dating site has a professional, warm, sincere and honest look on this concept. Perhaps the fact that older and wealthy gay daddies are looking for more than just sex or the reason is because they are interested in helping to grow young men into successful adults, these are just examples of why these types of sites give a sense of class not seen elsewhere in the internet.

Why date rich older gay men?

Most of the young gay men on gay daddy dating sites are between 18 to 25 years old. They are fighting to pay their rent, college fees and most have a desire to explore the world. They want to live a full life without having to worry about not having enough money to spend. The reality is, this concept has been going on throughout the ages. You can read about the ancient Greeks or more about the present day American relationships between an older gay male benefactor and a younger same sex lover that have found a common way without ties to get ahead.

You will have many benefits from dating a gay daddy. He can pay you the rent, buy you presents, you can explore the world and even buy anything you desire. He gives you the freedom and the money. The only thing that you need to make sure when dating is to be nice with older men. Be nice, kind with them and sincere, offer them great sex and enjoy all the benefits that come with this concept. You are still young and this is a fun way to explore life.

What are the Gay Daddy Dating Rules:

Gay Daddies should make it clear how he will treat you whether it’s with extravagant suppers, endowments and give him proficient direction, or whether sex was on or off the table. Some gay daddies enjoy coaching young gay men to teach them about their long histories or provide them with helpful advice that would make their gay lifestyle easier or happier.  Sometimes gay daddies would like their young gay man to continue to keep up their professional sexual appearance and spend time with them. You will need to define with him how readily available you’ll be through the week, whether he will permanently always see you once a week or more than that to spend quality time together.  Gay daddies sometimes choose what clothes or style of hair cut you will have if that is the type of person they are. There are many gay dating rules that differ between individual relationships. It is important that these rules are made clear right from the beginning so your relationship will be as successful as possible.



Choosing And Using A Penis Extender

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Choosing a Penis Extender is not a small job for the novice guy as there will be several issues he may encounter. After taking home the penis extender, he will commonly overuse it by overstretching his penis or by using too much pressure resulting in a penis injury. This article will help novices to resolve these issues mentioned.

Choosing a Penis Extender

Choosing a Penis Extender

When choosing a penis extender, it is critical to choose one that has a good design. There are three things to keep in mind regarding penis extender design.

  1. There are spring loaded tension screws for precise traction.
  2. The extension rods that can be inserted into the extender to increase it’s length.
  3. Another important feature for a penis extender is that it is offered with a comfort strap. Many penis extenders on the market today can cut off blood circulation to the penis as well as cause pain. Several of the new penis extenders are designed with a comfort strap or pads that lengthen the penis by pulling on a larger area on the penis, which puts less stress on the penis. A penis extender will work only if it is worn for a long duration of about 8 hours.

While using a penis extender device

Certain men get so excited when they buy a penis extender that they end up overusing them and causing damage to the penis. To be safe, you should always gradually lengthen the length of time of each session to allow your penis to get used to the device. It is advised that a novice follows a break in plan.

On the other hand, there are men that do not use the penis extender sufficiently to maximize it’s benefits. Following the break-in plan described above, you really need to try to stretch gradually in order to see any long term length increase. However, when aiming to stretch, be on constant look out for signs of pain or discomfort. The penis is a delicate tool that can easily get injured. Don’t be impatient in making it bigger.

If you ever feel pain or discomfort from the use of a penis extender, take the device off immediately and do not use it until the pain or discomfort disappears. If the issues do not go away, seek the help of your physician by telling him what you have done to result in the problem. Do not procrastinate until it’s too late to undo the damage. You only have one penis after all. Even if you never feel pain or discomfort, it is still vital to take some breaks once in a while. You need to take some days off every few days in order to let your penis to recover from the stress. The penis needs to recover and heal its cells so that it can get bigger. A good plan is to wear the extender regularly to achieve small growth and take frequent small break off the device.

Penis Extenders have been in the market for many years and real world testing has now proven that they do offer results without any possible risk. This is great news for men who have been searching for any penis enlargement method without the need to visit a doctor or undergo a surgery for penis enlargement. With the success of penis extenders, more men have taken the chance and have invested in a penis extender system. The most basic tip in maximizing the results is to ensure that the penis extender undergoes proper maintenance and hygiene.

What is a Penis Extender

Today there are two types of existing support pieces for the basic penis extenders; the flat strap and the comfort pad system. The older flat strap system retains moisture and as such proper maintenance and hygiene must be taken in order to avoid serious bacterial infection.

The penis extender to work needs to be worn daily, up to 8 hours a day. Due to this extensive use of the penis extender and the fact that it is worn in a sensitive part of the body it is advised that the penis extender device be cleaned frequently after each use. The sweat or the fluids coming off the penis during penis extension exercises can remain on the device causing bacteria on the device to grow up to 72 hours after contact with skin. In order to correctly clean your penis extender device a cleaning formula must be used. You can simply wipe down the penis extender with a cloth or even use a toothbrush dipped in this formula.

Cleaning formula:

  • A cup of water
  • ¼ ounce of alcohol
  • ¼ ounce liquid hand soap

How to remove and store your penis extender after it’s use?

  • Before removing the device from your body, wash your hands thoroughly or use a hand sanitiser.
  • Remove the penis extender and place it on a clean surface
  • Remove any glans support or remove all the comfort pads and the silicone straps so each part remains separate.
  • Use a clean cloth or a toothbrush and dip it into your cleaning formula. Do not leave the cloth or toothbrush in the formula for too long to the point of dripping.
  • Gently scrub the device thoroughly and make sure to wipe down the silicone tubes, comfort pads, glans support, aluminum rods and the plastic penis extender base.
  • Wait for about 5 minutes to allow the penis extender device to air dry.
  • Once the device has dried repeat the process with a clean cloth dipped only in water.
  • Finally, store the device in a cool, dry room safe from the hands of children, until next use.

By following the above steps you are reducing the chances of any potential complications related to hygiene. You are also ensuring a safe and healthy penis extender that will help you see results without interruptions. Penis extender devices should never be neglected.


Host Your First Gay Sex Party

Orgy Party for Gay People

If you have been dreaming of participating in gay group sex with lots of pleasure, amusement and fun, then you should consider attending the ultimate gay sex party. This is not something new as it has been existed for years and intensely men not individual enjoy participating in group sex but some feel the urge to watch men having sex. Irrefutable it is a fantasy like no other that has been promoted today by gay exchange programs that make it perhaps for department gay partner prestige the totality to feel at home wherever place guidance the earth he travels. If you are desire having an orgy, you realize that it can be a lot of hassle to hold a successful gay sex party. Get ready to send out the invites to the persons who will put value to the whole party and at the same time nail down the rest of the guests. Although some parties are spontaneous, the specific ones are staged completely with a guest list, a flow of events and some rules that guests have to stick to.

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The earlier you get the advice out that you are planning to fling a gay sex party and today, thanks to the internet, this can be the easiest pattern of the preparation. Use the media, put up some posts on any gay group site on Face book and in a few hours consummate for as much as many confirmations to start your preparations. Make it clear what you are looking for as if you need only men that are turned on in group sex. You should post your ad on Craig lists, Google, Yahoo Classified, gay blogs and differential websites you feel can make your party complete.

If you get various invites, you should insist on a photo with every confirmation. Even though you can keep talented potential guests from coming to the party, you will have the chance of seeing the guests of the party before coming. Ensure that you resolve comprehensive and uttered descriptions from the guests and what they would be expecting from the party, in fact, make it known that you will not hesitate to cast out anyone who shows with a fake description. It is a gay sex party and not a business meeting.

You should choose the guests based entirely on your and theirs desires and expectations from the party and their ages. If you can, find some racial and ethnic blend so that you will have the chance to carry out the diversity. Pulling this one can be a bit tricky unless you reside in a really diversified city, otherwise, don’t try it. If you want to make sure that you get the best from a gay exchange program with its many members, don’t tell out the venue from the initial communication you have with them. This will keep gay basher out from your party.

Gay Sex Party Food

An important thing that makes a gay sex party successful is food. With all of the sweating and various other fluid explosions, you lose a lot of important fluids over the course of an orgy, and food that is high in salt is necessary, and also deliciousness. You shouldn’t worry too much about food though. The inexperienced gay sex party enthusiast never decides to host a party, so if someone is bold enough to host a gay sex party, you can assume they have been around this process before and they know what they are doing. Any self respecting guys that host these kind of parties will probably have all the essentials already on hand.

What is important for a gay sex party, the question is

“What should I bring with me?”

Gay sex parties aren’t like weddings. They are simple to cook for and when preparing for most events, you don’t have to consider everyone’s dietary needs. You don’t need to keep in mind, the people who don’t eat meat, who only eat healthy foods, or who is allergic to fish. At an orgy everyone is swallowing whatever they can find into their body. Blindly and happily swallowing things is what an orgy is all about. You can’t go wrong with it, so relax and have a little fun. Some fun food name suggestions are the following:

  • Meat Testicles
  • Crab Cakes
  • Shrimp Cocktails
  • Mc Gang Bang Sausages
  • Cheese Sizzling Nach-hoes
  • Double Penetrated Burgers

Gay Sex Party Dress Code:

Most of the time you will be naked. Nudity is both the best and worst thing about a gay sex party. It’s great because, everyone can see your balls, but it’s also bad because it tends to lead to a lot of confusion. When you go to a standard party, you’ll meet a variety of people who you can distinguish by the way they dress. You get those same people standing naked in a room together and it’s not quite as easy to tell them apart because, naked people, all basically look alike. The problem, since it’s too difficult to distinguish your genitals apart from some other guy’s genitals, is that other gay sex party attendees might forget and lose track of who they have been intimate with. Some men may see your testicles or your penis and mistakenly conclude that he has already slept with you when, in fact, it was another guy he’s slept with. Now you’ll never get your turn with him.

If you want to make sure you get your turn with everyone at your gay sex party, you are going to need to wear something that separates you from the other men. Most gay parties these days are colour coded, so you wear a particular colour and it already identifies you between the other boys. Where each colour symbolizes your role and what you are into. If you show up and the party has already started, do not feel the need to just jump right into it. It’s really dependent on the atmosphere of the party and what everyone else is doing.  Start out simple with the following things – especially if you’re shy. They don’t immediately throw you into the action, but they get you close to it.

Its a sex party, get to the point. If someone is interested, they’ll let you know. If they’re not interested they’ll let you know too. Remember that just because you’re both there for sex, doesn’t mean that they will be interested in you. Be polite, but remember that no, means no.

  • If you hit it off, ask for a number or a date. Who knows, it could be the start of something refreshing, new and a long lasting relationship. Well, you still kind of met at a party, right?
  • Falling in love at gay sex party is a wrong move – not only have you barely met them but you need to take them on a date outside a sex party. Remember the difference between lust and love.  Don’t have illusions. Gay sex parties are the parties that gay people like you go to have fun and not to mess up emotionally with other people. They go there just to relax and have sex. Follow my advice and only have fun when you go to a gay sex party.

This article is intended to inform all newbies about gay sex parties. After a long battle with your sexual orientation, now that you have come out of the closet, you deserve to have fun. There are a lot of homophobic beliefs in the world today, but a gay sex party is the safest place to be. Relax, be yourself and have fun. Don’t ruin things by forcing things to happen the other way. Get down, suck some cock and please some men. You won’t regret it.


The Best Penis Pump For You!

Being a penis pump user myself, I wanted to give everyone who is here, that is interested in pumping the basics of pumping. I personally use an LA Penis Pumps and it is part of my routine. The following things are needed before pumping:

  • 1 x LA penis pump – A high quality pump with a pressure gauge with a correct size tube
  • You will need a lubricant. A lubricant creates the perfect seal.
  • A small hand towel for clean up reasons during pumping.
  • Safety
  • A hard penis during the pump sessions

So where do you start on purchasing a quality pump? You should get a penis pump with a pressure gauge so that you are aware of how much pressure you are putting on your penis. I advise you to get an LA penis pump. What size of tube will I need? Get a penis pump with a tube that is not big enough to suck your balls but allows your penis to grow.  The following information can tell you exactly how thick you can get in each size tube:

  • 1.5in Tube size = 4.75in Girth
  • 1.75in Tube size = 5.5in Girth
  • 2in Tube size = 6.25in Girth
  • 2.25in Tube size = 7in Girth
  • 2.5in Tube size = 7.75in Girth
  • 2.75in Tube size = 8in Girth

LA Pump Deluxe Package

Now that you know what size of tube you need to get, it is time to use the penis pump safely. Yes, it is true that penis pumping can be dangerous. However it is also true that pumping can have significant positive effects on the strength of your erections and the size of your penis. Two things that can cause damage with pumping are too much pressure and long use of the pump without the leaving your penis some time to buildup or recover cells. First of all you should always follow the manufacturer’s guidelines. A quality penis pump like the LA penis pump will have a manual with guidelines. Read the user guide it to avoid any problems never use pressure above 5hg if you are a novice and never use the pump for over than 20 minutes without a break. Now, if you are a more experienced user and you have been using a penis pump for quite some time, you can use a pressure level up until 10hg.

If you use the penis pump at too high pressure or overuse it without taking some breaks in between, you can or will experience an injury or a massive amount of blood spots, blisters or even a nasty looking ring. If these aren’t enough, you may even experience a ruptured blood vein that can cause you erection problems. Avoid the ring as much as possible and make sure you take frequent breaks. Low comfortable pressures, and short duration’s with many breaks in between, is the perfect plan for using an LA penis pump.

Now it’s time to pump! Get your LA penis pump ready for use. Put some lubricant at the inside of the tube and on the base of your penis as this will cause an airtight seal. Next get fully erect and insert your penis into the tube while gently pressing the tube against your pubic bone. Make sure that as much of your skin is pulled away from the pump as possible. Then carefully start pumping to your desired pressure. Be careful not to have your testicles sucked up into the pump. Men that are new to pumping should take it slow at first, until their penis gets accustomed to the pressure the pump puts on the penis. For the first few days use the pump every day for 10 minutes at 3hg. This will help you condition your penis for future consistent pumping sessions. The next days you can go ahead and put some pressure. Raise the pressure up to5hg. Always focus on what you feel as you should never feel uncomfortable.

While you have your penis inside the tube you will want to stay hard. Entertaining yourself with a porn movie is the best way to do this. Perform some kegel exercises and at the same time milk the tube up and down slightly. Milking is the most efficient way to stay hard in the pump. Milking the tube is basically grabbing the tube and trying to pull it away from the base of your penis by only 1 inch up the shaft. As you will notice that milking the tube causes the pressure to increase and then go back to where you had a steady even pressure. Be sure not to pull up the tube to high or hard because the pressure will go up really high or you will lose your airtight seal and you will need to start all over again.

Between sessions you should rest by watching TV. Always ensure that fresh blood is supplied to your penis every 10 minutes or so. This is very important if you would like a penis pump to really deliver significant results. You will notice that after a pump session that you will become thicker and fuller throughout the day. After some time you will notice that your flaccid penis will feel heavier, will be looking longer and will be feeling thicker. You will feel the difference with your erections after using the LA penis pumps for a small amount of time. If you follow the information in this article series, you can gain a large penis over time.