Why My Sex Toy Material Is Better Than Yours

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With an overwhelming selection of sex toys to choose from, you need to ask an important question – What is the difference between the materials that sex toys are made with? Answering this question could make all the difference when  purchasing a product. This is a complete guide which will inform you all about CyberSkin, Elastic, Latex, Plastic, Rubber, Jelly and Glass materials.


Mens masturbators are now made from a material which is commonly known as CyberSkin, it feels extremely lifelike and my god it’s amazing. If you have a Fleshlight or any other product made with this type of material, you should know how good it really feels!  Adult Lifestyle Company Topco Sales originally used CyberSkin in their “Average Joe” product range, who accredit its discovery to an injection molding machine that was originally made by NASA the National Aeronautics and Space Administration! I mean how is cool that? The main ingredient that goes into the making of this material is Polyvinyl Chloride and Silicone, these ingredients are what it feel elastic and human like. Since CyberSkin is made from Silicone it is recommended to use it with a water based lubricant such as Wet Stuff or a sex toy friendly lubricant like SuperSlyde.


Elastic is an extremely broad term since there are numerous elastic mixes available which are used to make sex toys. Dildos are often made from elastic since the material provides a solid and tough structure which helps to keep it erect. On the off chance that you see the term “regular elastic” printed on a sex toy box, the term is another name for latex which originates from plants like the Elastic Tree. Elastic is easy to clean, you can use some mild soap and warm water or you can use some antibacterial spray. Elastic can also be phthalate free and is available at different prices.


Sex toys which say that are made from latex, normally have a layer of latex covering the surface of the sex toy whilst the interior of the sex toy is made from a different material like foam. They often feel exceptionally smooth to the touch but when you squeeze the sex toy in your hands it will feel squidgy. It is known as an extremely solid material which is why it is used to make condoms and surgical gloves. It is recommended to use sex toys made from latex with water based lubricants. They should also be cleaned thoroughly after use with antibacterial cleaner.

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You will be able to find a lot of sex toys which are made from Plastic. Plastic sex toys often feel hard and rigid but they do make a decent hypo allergenic alternative.

Rubber And Jelly

Rubber and Jelly sex toys were originally mass produced since they are extremely affordable to make which is one of the reasons why they were so popular.  Although they are budget friendly, they use chemicals to make the material soft, flexible and clear. Some of the chemicals which are used include phthalates which are not safe to use with the body since they are toxic. In fact, some of the toxins have been banned in the United States Of America and in Europe. If you decide to buy a Rubber or Jelly sex toy, it is recommended to place a condom over it so it does not get in contact with your body. These materials are considered to be porous which means they can trap harmful bacteria within its pores, these products will need to be thoroughly cleaned after each use with antibacterial cleaner.


The glass which is used in sex toys is strong, hypo allergenic, non-porous and can be easily cleaned. These sex toys can last you a lift time if you take care of them. Pipedream Products has designed a glass sex toy product range which is called “Icicles”, these products are made from tempered glass which means if you drop it or use it, it will not shatter. Glass is very resilient and 1 inch glass can hold 3,000 pounds of pressure so you never have to worry about it shattering while inside your body. I’ve dropped one on tiles before, it didn’t even chip the toy but broke a tile instead.

Glass is great for temperature play as you can easily heat it up in warm water before you use it, I love using glass sex toys on cold nights. During summer you can also place the sex toy in a fridge or freezer to cool it off before use.

These days it is common to find sex toys that are made to feel soft, luxurious and velvety. With advancements of technology and information about what products are body safe, there is now a huge range of high quality sex toys that are available to purchase from online stores like Adultsmart and physical shops like Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres. If you buy only at Adultsmart, they offers discrete shipping worldwide. They also regularly offer special discounts so that you are able to find yourself a bargain!




My Daily Dose Of Electro Sex

Electro Sex Toy By Eymalis

Electro stimulation is not something you can just jump into with no research or experience. Something I personally would never have thought of before I decided to try electrosex or Estim toys but after some serious research into the Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator I have discovered a whole new world and a whole new perspective on electro stimulation sex toys. There are some serious things to consider before you try it yourself.

The Many Ways To Use The Electro Stimulating Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator

So what is electro stimulation and how do we use it? What do we use it for? And does it really feel good?

“Erotic electrostimulation (abbreviated e-stim and also known as electrosex) is a sexual practice involving the application of electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body, with particular emphasis on the genitals, using a power source (such as a TENS, EMS, Violet wand, or made-for-play units) for purposes of sexual stimulation. Electrostimulation has been associated with BDSM activities, and erotic electrostimulation is an evolution of that practice.” ~ Erotic Electrostimulation, Wikipedia

The use of electricity for entertainment and sexual arousal has been around for hundreds of years and at this rate has no signs of slowing down. People are intrigued and those who have experienced electro stimulation say they will never find pleasure like it with anything else. So how do we use it? There are endless ways to use electro stimulation as the sex industry has quickly adapted to world of electrosex and they can provide anything from electro stim vibrators, cock rings or even chastity belts. But if you are new and looking to find a way into this world of electrosex but you’re not quite ready to jump into the chastity belt, start small and start with the Electro Stimulating Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator. Not only is it an electro stimulating vibrator but the versatility of this sex toy is remarkable.


  1. Use it as a vibrator. Yes although it is a Estim vibrator it can be used without the electrical side, it has been designed it be used as an internal vibrator for the anus and vagina
  2. Use as an electro stimulating dildo or switch on the vibration for a mix of both. It is important to note that when using the electro stimulation setting you insert the vibrator into the vagina/anus before you ignite the electro setting and turn off the setting before you remove the vibrator.
  3. Use to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. As the Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator is designed to deliver mild electrical waves that stimulate the muscles in the vagina or anus, what better way to use this vibrator to your advantage by kicking your pelvic floor muscles up a notch or two.

*Electro stimulation sessions are limited to 15 minutes per use so the muscles do not tire.

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Lubrication And Electro Stimulating Vibrators

When it comes to using a lubricant or Electro stimulating gel with the Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator you must be aware of what you are using and how it will affect the sex toy. It is recommended that you use a gel soluble in water, sterile, greaseless, transparent and non-irritating lube; I would even go as far to suggest staying away from edible, flavoured or highly scented lubricants. It is not recommended to use Vaseline or any type of fat based.

*Be sure not to get lubricant in the battery compartment as this will cause damage.

Staying Safe When Using Electro Stimulating Vibrators

With electro stimulators of any sort a few more warnings and care instructions do ensure. For example:

  • Keep out of reach of children (especially when it comes to any kind of electrical current this is more important than ever if you have this vibrator at home).
  • It is not to come into contact with any piercings you or your partner might have.
  • It may not come into contact with an IUD a type of contraception placed inside a woman’s vagina.
  • Be extremely careful not to let the vibrator come into contact with water or soak in any liquids e.g. Lube.
  • Do not insert the massager in its entirety into the vagina.
  • When cleaning, ensure you remove the batteries before any cleaning or washing.
  • Remove batteries when not using the sex toy.
  • When disposing of the intimate love toy it is important that you do not just throw it away in household waste bins or set it alight, it must be recycled responsibly as any other electrical appliance.

Do Not Use If

  • If you are pregnant.
  • If you wear a pacemaker or any kind of medical equipment that uses electrical current.
  • If you have a bladder or vaginal infection.
  • When you are menstruating.
  • Or if you have any serious or treatable genital conditions or ongoing medical issues.

*It is so important that when you are using any kind of electro stimulating sex toys or other that you read the instructions and warnings carefully because if something was to go wrong it could be devastating.

Something To Consider

Although there are a lot of warnings and cautions to consider when using any kind of electro stimulation, the benefits are far worth it. Not only is estim a great way to explore something totally different but it can benefit your body and mind by letting you reach more intense stimulation and orgasm. The Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator is a fantastic mix of a sleek comfortable vibrator and mild electrical waves that stimulate the nerve endings in the vagina or anus to increase arousal and sensation. It is easily controlled through four buttons located on the base of the sex toy, indicating vibration mode, electro mode and the increase and decrease buttons. Over all it has 9 settings of intensity through 2 modes allowing you to easily start slowly and increase as required. The sleek design makes for a beautiful piece of equipment with the electrodes plated with 24 carat gold ensuring a perfect conductivity and low risk of allergic reaction.

Overall the Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator has proven to be a gentle stepping stone into the world of electrosex. Although there is a lot to think about before you decide to try electro stimulation including if you qualify under the health warnings, it is something completely out of the comfort zone and it could change your bedroom preferences or it might just be a one off trial but either way I encourage anyone to give it a go. It is shockingly delightful. For more information read our complete guide on electro-stimulation.

Author: Nikki is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle CentresSave





The Untapped Pleasure Of Spotty

Nomi Tangs Anal Sex Toy Spotty RC

A little while ago I was extremely lucky to receive a Spotty RC by Nomi Tang. In all honesty, I’d not heard of the brand before I got my hands on the box and I was very curious. At the time, being the curious soul that I am, I opened it up had a look at what it could do and was really excited to get it home and give it a whirl. This, on first impressions, looked different. It looked awesome. And it looked fun!

Let me tell you, that it’s really difficult to get a good prostate massager – and in my time working with sex toys and as a sexual educator I have tried more than several. They’ve each had their flaws though which after a couple of times meant that they just didn’t work for me, or they were a great shape but were just boring. Times change though, and technology gets better and now, I’m really happy to announce, that I have found one that works really well for me. It’s not perfect – but it hits the spots, it hits them well, and I have enjoyed every single minute of this sex toy inside me. So for that, I’d like to say thanks!

What’s Included With The Spotty RC

So with that in mind, let’s get this review started. The box is pretty simple, and masculine. Black with silver writing. The box, doesn’t give too much away in the sense that it’s pretty sparse and simple, but you will instantly realise that this prostate massager uses a remote control. Now if you’ve ever had something shoved up your ass between your legs when your hands are lubed up and you’re desperately trying to maintain THAT position where it’s hitting the right spot but you need more power – then you’ll know exactly how handy that remote is going to be. Scrap handy, it’s a god send – and by god send it’ll be an – oh my god send. Or something like that. More on that later on. The box is great because it can double as a storage box as well – but to be honest for my purposes where I don’t have a lot of space, I’d rather put it in my own little bag altogether – I’m still a massive fan of included storage bags and was a little disappointed that there wasn’t one.

First Impressions Of The Spotty RC

You open the box, there nestled among the packaging is the prostate massager, the remote, the cord and a book. Pulling out the prostate massager I cradled it in my hands. It still looked pretty awesome, and now it felt pretty awesome as well. I loved the fact that I didn’t need to be an anal pro and that the insertable shaft was of reasonable proportions. I was a little confused by the handle – I’m still not sure why they all point backwards so you still have to do that whole reach around to grab hold of it – but I liked that that it was made of silicone. I love the silicone material, it wasn’t too soft, it wasn’t too slick and it still had a nice bit of grip to it. Most of all though, I loved the ‘softness’ of the tip. It wasn’t rock hard, it had a little give on it. Which was awesome, because in this little head was the feature that I was most excited about.

It rotated. It moved. It was going to massage my prostate.

For once, I was going to be in a position where I could simply lean back, turn the remote control on, and have the sex toy vibrate. Not only that, but it was going to massage my prostate as well – and the prospect of that thrilled me. Sure, call me lazy. Call me a starfish – but I move around in sex. I have other sex toys that work my muscles and work out my PC muscles – I wanted a lazy sex toy. I wanted a sex toy that did the work for me – and I’ll tell you straight up – it does that, mostly.

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How I Used The Spotty RC

So after charging it up – I turned it on and fiddled with the remote. It’s remarkably simple, you press the buttons on the base of the sex toy – and once it’s on you can control it with the remote. Simples! After fiddling, and playing with and getting accustomed to the settings (and after mesmerizingly watching the prostate massager twirl around against the air and not on me) I couldn’t take it anymore and just had to jump right on it. Lubed it up with my favourite water-based lube – got down and dirty. The silicone, once lubed up, glides effortlessly and I was really content with how easily it slipped it in, and I was even more content with how it sat. Sometimes, you’d slip in a massager and it looked right, and it didn’t sit right and it didn’t matter which angle you were at, it just wasn’t going to work. I liked this. I didn’t particularly like how the angle I was on (on my back) meant that the handle was hitting the ground and changing the position and pressure of the massager, however, a pillow and raising the hips upwards fixed that. I could still be the starfish. Once comfortable, I turned it on and almost stripped the sheets off my bed. It wasn’t the most powerful of vibrators I’d had before – but it was definitely a shock to the system. A pleasurable shock. It felt good. The dual motors were exactly where they needed to be and the vibrations were happily rumbling through my body.

The first part of the prostate massager worked really well – but I was curious to see how the rotating head would work. So, gritting my teeth I cycled through the settings to get where I needed to be. Which, actually, is one of the little issues I have about this product. I can’t control the rotations and vibrations separately and am limited to pre-set functions. Which on one hand is really simple. But on the other, lacks variety. But it’s a small issue – and if they ever decide to upgrade the sex toy adding another button would be simply amazing. Hint hint, nudge nudge.

After turning on the rotations, I sat there. I must say I was a little disappointed. Whilst they were good – they weren’t as earth shattering as I thought it would be. Having the sex toy on the rotate only setting was actually pretty dull for me. I could see that if I sat there long enough and wriggled a little bit that I could probably induce a prostate orgasm, but for me personally, the arm just wasn’t quite there. The motor at this point was noticeably louder, but didn’t detract from my experience. It’s not something that I would use if it was late at night and with thin walls, but it’s certainly not a mack truck.

A little disappointed but determined, I flicked the vibrations on and this is where it was again, magical. The vibrations with the little tickle, provided the intensity that I was seeking and after turning up the vibrations again – it wasn’t long before the orgasm hit and the sheets were being pulled off the bed in that oh my god moment. An experience which was momentarily disturbed when I twisted and knocked the handle again which took a slight edge off. But hey – I got there and it was good.

In summary my disappointment with this product concerns two things. Firstly, the shape and direction of the handle and secondly the rotations by themselves.

You can’t wear this sitting down and doggy style on all fours with your ass in the air and letting gravity provide that extra pressure – whilst fucking amazing – takes away from the lazy experience I was seeking. I really dislike the handle and the limitations It provides on the positions I can use it in. The rotations also weren’t my best friend by themselves – but they were an awesome addition when they came to the party with the vibrations. Maybe I just wasn’t being patient enough – or maybe my body just responds well to intensity. I can definitely see that there’s great potential for people that want to sit back, and experience stroke after rhythmic stroke against their prostate that it’ll do wonders for their slow climaxing – but it’s not for me.

Why I Love The Spotty RC

What I love about this prostate massage tool is the vibrations. The strength. The intensity. The way the motors pound my ass into orgasm, screaming and roaring every single inch of the way. I also love the material and the size. It’s perfect for those that aren’t size queens that like prostate play and for me – the perineum arm was well shaped. Once in, it stayed there. For those looking for a new prostate sex toy that fits outside of the mould, and does that pretty well, then I would definitely recommend the Spotty RC by Nomi Tang.

Please note that this video is of the Nomi Tang Spotty (not the RC).

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VIP Interview With August McLaughlin The Founder Of Girl Boner

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Girl Boner® is the brand that was founded by August McLaughlin, which includes a website, podcast and forthcoming book. Her Girl Boner blog series began in 2011 and entails a wide range of articles that are created to positively inspire women’s sexualities. It is “Where good girls go for sexual empowerment”! This blog has been ranked within the top 10 of Kinkly’s 100 Sex Blog Superheros list.

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Girl Boner Radio was established in 2014 and made it to the starring role of iTunes’ New and Noteworthy list for 7 whole weeks! To this day, it is still within the high ranks of iTunes’ What’s Hot list in the sexuality category. August is recognised throughout the media and she and her work have been featured by Sexual Health Expos, World Sexual Health Day, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post and Dame Magazine. Most notably she had attended the United States of Women Summit by the White House and was a speaker of a TEDx conference about surviving an eating disorder.

August McLaughlin is also the author of a novel named In Her Shadow, a thrilling story about a woman who meets a series of unfortunate events including the tragic passing of her parents. As she is coping with her eating disorder she comes across the secrets of her families past.

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This is a VIP Interview with August McLaughlin the founder of Girl Boner.

Tell me about yourself. What would you like people to know about you?

What people perceive about me online, in public and on my show tends to be pretty accurate of me in “real life,” too — or so I’m told! I really value authenticity.

What is it like being able to run a podcast, blog and write books? What do you enjoy about each aspect of your work?

I love having multiple platforms to freely explore sexual empowerment related topics, and to connect with lots of different people. I enjoy writing more than most anything, but thrive on interaction as well. And the variety keeps things fresh and fun for me. The chance to shed light on needed and often taboo topics is probably my favorite part across the board.

What inspired you to talk about sex?

You can learn all about that here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V5mZu3-UMSY

Embracing my sexuality also helped me heal from an eating disorder and more. I share a lot more about that in my Girl Boner book, which will be released by Amberjack Publishing in 2018.

What stories have you heard that have moved and inspired you?

Far too many to name! Stories are such a powerful way to learn and teach. I share many — my own and those of others — on my show and in my forthcoming book. One of the most powerful stories I’ve heard recently came from Girl Boner Radio guest, Tika Thornton, who survived sex trafficking in Los Angeles. She’s one of the most inspiring people I’ve ever met, and that episode is one of my favorites.

What problems do you find people face with sexuality?

Shame is probably the biggest, and underlies countless other challenges.

Do you feel that people can talk about sex more openly these days? How do you wish it would change?

I have seen a great deal of progress, but lots of work remains, too. I’d love for no individual to ever feel ashamed of their body or sexuality.

What would you say to someone who is struggling with their sexuality?

You’re not alone or (even remotely) broken, and there’s a ton of hope to be had.

What do you wish people would know about sex?

It’s wondrous and beautiful, but not everything.

What are your favourite sex tips of all time?

Explore your own body, prioritize pleasure, and when you’re with a partner, aim to be present.Save








14 Crazy Places To Have Sex

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Having sex in public places will get your adrenaline pumping in a new way which you may have never experienced before. Here are 14 crazy places you can have sex.

  1. In A Canoe On The Water: If you are planning on having sex in a canoe you will need to be careful as you may accidentally flip the canoe over and capsize from all the moving around. To top that off, the wood may feel very hard on your body so you should definitely use a blanket. As long as you don’t flip the canoe over, having sex in a canoe would be a lot of fun!
  2. In A Stairwell Or Elevator: If you live in an apartment building that has an emergency exit door that is linked to a stair well that is secluded, it would be relatively safe to have sex there late at night. You could also try having sex in your apartment’s elevator that has been stopped, but keep an eye or ear out for when it starts moving or any doors that are opening or closing as that could be a sign of people coming your way. Living in the moment is the key to thoroughly enjoying sex in a stairwell or elevator as you will get an adrenaline rush from the feeling of almost getting caught.
  3. In An Attic: Due to all the objects and boxes sitting around in an attic, there isn’t too much room for movement but the lack of room will make you stay nice and close to their body.
  4. In The Backseat Of A Car: If you plan on having sex in the backseat of car, I suggest you do it in a long car, one where you can put the seats down. Some of my companions have attempted it in a little automatic subaru car however the sex turned out to be a disaster. Sex in a car can be hot though it can also be somewhat awkward if you don’t have enough space. To make things easier you can opt for a hand job or a finger fuck in the drive in cinema or in a secluded car park. Industrial areas are generally deserted and if you want to ensure you remain anonymous you can pick an area that’s not local. For your personal safety ensure your doors are locked and the windows are up to keep any bugs away.
  5. At A Waterfall In A State Park: If you go to a public area like a waterfall, be cautious of who is around. I recommend swimming to a faraway secluded waterfall to ensure that when you are having sex you can do so in complete privacy.
  6. In The Restroom Of A Plane:  So you are planning on taking a trip in an aeroplane and want to have a quickie in the restroom. The first rule is to let your companion know which restroom you will be in so they can meet you there without any stress. That way, nobody would be suspicious.
  7. In A Pool On A Loft: The great thing about using a pool on a loft is that anyone who comes across you having sex will realise it but they will be unable to see anything clearly since your bodies are under the water.
  8. In The Office: There’s certainly one way to clear a desk in an office and put everything in the out folder. Discretion is key in this situation. There was a couple in New Zealand who were caught in the act in their building, both of them faced a rather awkward and potentially damaging office meeting during the incident.
  9. In A Movie Theatre: A movie theatre is a perfect place to indulge in some finger fucking or a quick hand job. Pick a seat which is in the back row and ensure there are only a few people around.
  10. On A Park Bench: The best time to have sex on a park bench is at night, under the stars to add a touch of romance.
  11. At A Beach: If you plan on having sex on the beach, be careful where you get the sand! But if you have sex with your bodies under the water, not many people who see you will know unless they are up close and personal.
  12. On a Hiking Trail: You can find private areas on a hiking trail that are often hidden with shrubbery, bushes and trees.
  13. At A Golf Course: You can have sex at night time on a clean cut golf course. There will be spinklers, low lighting and a lot of soft mountains of grass to roll around on.
  14. In The Change Rooms: Having sex in a change room is probably a risky spot since there are normally people waiting outside but it will definitely give you an adrenaline rush!
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A Sex Toy You Can Wear In Public

If an adventure like that isn’t exactly what you’re after, you can try using a discrete couples sex toy like the We-Vibe 4 Plus the number 1 couples vibrator. The We-Vibe 4 Plus is worn inside the vagina which can be used comfortably during penetrative sex. It comes with a wireless remote or you can download the We-Connect application to your smartphone and control the sex toys vibrations no matter where you are in the world. The vibrator can be worn when you are out and about. For example, a lover can wear it when they are on the train and their lover can control the vibrator functions. Or maybe you can use it when you’re doing a mundane task like when you are grocery shopping.

Remote Controlled Sex Toys For Men

Don’t panic boys, there are remote controlled sex toys for you as well. There are many remote controlled Butt Plugs for those that enjoy anal play and there is also the NU Sensuelle Remote Controlled Cock Ring with 20 functions.

So Why Limit Yourself To Just Bedroom Sex?

I’m not suggesting you replace it entirely but you can definitely kick things up a few gears by exploring your sexual lifestyle outside of the bedroom. All these places have different levels of risk of being caught however this will intensify the thrill and completely expand you’re sexual mind. Enjoy and happy exploring!




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