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Review: Lux 4 Cock Ring

Lux Penis Ring

After all the reviews I’ve done one different cock rings ranging anywhere from small disposable ones to high end luxury rings, I have never found a cock ring that has made me have such mixed feelings as the Lux 4 Cock Ring. By now I would like to think of myself as bit of a cock ring connoisseur, knowing full well that there is no perfect cock ring for everybody but if you look hard enough you can find the perfect one for you. If you are looking for a strong vibrating and tight premium cocking that has most if not all the features you would want into such a small sex machine then The lux could be your perfect cock ring.

When companies make their cock rings for consumers majority of the time they fall in one of these three categories, for his pleasure, for her pleasure and for erection stamina. The cock rings that try to do all three usually fail to do any adequately but most that are for just one function serve pretty well and do a good job. The Lux 4 Cock Ring claims to provide great erection control and fantastic pleasure for both parties but is that actually possible? If it is then it come close to the most perfect cock ring I’ve seen for most couples.

When I first saw the Lux 4 Cock Ring I was intrigued by its cigar like box and it’s manly looking packaging. It definitely is promoting towards the male market but don’t worry this little toy has something for everybody. In the box you will find you lovely little toy, multiple different adapters for different countries, the sex toys charger and a neat user manual. Even though this toy is very easy to use , the manual is still very useful to learn all the features and if anything dears goes wrong with the toy you have clear instructions on how to claim you 1 year complimentary warranty.

Lux Penis Ring
Sex Toy: Lux 4 Cock Rings

 

The Lux 4 Cock Ring itself is pretty average size for a cock ring but it’s wide shape means more coverage over the clitoris or male testicles depending on the position you have the toy in. So not only is this toys pack filled amazing features like being completely 100% waterproof and usb rechargeable  it also has a really strong motor jammed inside it. The motor has multiple functions and can hit speeds of 10000rpm. The powerful vibrations are controlled by a single push button on the top of the penis ring. Press and hold the button down to climb through the multiple speeds of vibration and simply press the button once to switch the vibrations off. A red LED lights up during use so you can find the operations button with ease.

The ring part of the toy looks pretty small at first but thank goodness is very stretchy, it’s smartly made out of a high grade of silicone and can definitely accommodate the well endowed men. The toys works best with good quality water-based lubrication.

The Lux 4 Cock Ring is very comfortable to wear and also comfortable to receive the pleasure on the woman’s end without any real interference. Unfortunately all woman are different and in some cases the Lux doesn’t always have enough length to reach the clitoris, it’s very dependent on ones anatomy. That in mind, because of the power behind this toy if you have it pressed against the skin firmly then the vibrations can travel to the right spot and send any woman crazy.  The biggest downside to this toy is the price, it’s more so of bummer that many people won’t be able to enjoy such an amazing cock ring purely because it’s out of their price point. Is it worth it though? I think it’s a hard price to sell me at but knowing how powerful it is and having all the features I would want might convinces me, but maybe not some others.

Overall it’s a fantastic cock ring and for many couples it could potentially be their perfect couples sex toy or sex ring in general but unfortunately the price is a little high especially when there are some amazing premium vibe rings that are just as good but are a little cheaper.

 

About the Author: Bronson is a consultant at the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Being A Submissive Masochist

The BDSM Submissive

As most of you know, I’m an active member of the BDSM community. I identify as a sub/masochist, but I’m always evolving. Being so open about my kink world and talking to friends about it, I find that most folks think that people in this lifestyle are strange, weird, crazy and just plain scary. Well that’s very far from the truth. The most important rules in this lifestyle are – Safe;  Sane and Consensual. Respect and trust are critical. You wouldn’t want to be tied down by someone holding a flogger, a knife, or any other painful implement when you don’t trust them. You respect people’s boundaries. Once trust has been established, you play safely and you literally place your life in someone’s hands. There is a big difference between consensual ‘hurt’ and physical, mental, or emotional ‘harm’.

Aftercare is extremely important. Aftercare happens after play……after all the intensity is over. It’s the time when you need cuddles, maybe a soft gentle stroking of your sore body……a warm throw blanket to be wrapped in. A time when you re-connect with your partner. Without aftercare, it is simply a twisted form of abuse, even if it is consensual to begin with. Reputation within the community is very important, so those true to the lifestyle follow the rules. If a member has behaved badly, word gets around. Following protocol is essential.  I often get the question “What is it you enjoy about Being A Submissive Masochist?”

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Photo: masochism

 

I have thought about this many times and although I know that that’s all I ever wanted to be, I could never, till now come up with a proper answer that could be understood by those who aren’t in the scene, or that would satisfy others’ curiosity. You see, every person has their baggage. That internal pain that is always buried deep inside us. The kind of pain that we don’t like showing to the world because we are “strong”. The kind of pain that floats about in our head as we walk around, the kind of pain that enters our mind as we try to sleep and keeps us awake at night. The “why me” question that creeps in and makes us feel helpless at times.

What does Being A Submissive Masochist make me feel? 

When standing or kneeling in front of my Sir/Sadist, I feel like He lifts all that pain in my soul. I feel like He is reaching deep inside my heart and removing the not so pleasant dark areas I feel at times. The dark parts in the depths of my soul……emotions that have been purposefully buried so deep for so long, because I’ve been too afraid to let them out. Too afraid to even think of them, yet not dealing with them means they eat away at me slowly, day in and day out. I love the power He has over me. The fact that He is able to even have that kind of power over me is phenomenal. He might not be fully aware of how great an affect He has on me. The dominance, the fear of the unknown and the very strong urge to please Him. The incredible yearning to serve His every need….the final rush of adrenaline, the primal fear and pain being heightened to the point that I enter a trance like high – ‘subspace’.

As every strike stings my body, I forget about all the internal pain, all the thoughts, all the “why me’s” and all the things buried deep in my soul that have caused me pain. It distracts me, and the whole world disappears with all its problems. The only thing that exists, is the submission which I feel so strongly, the sweet sting on my bare body and the powerful eyes and voice of my Sir/Sadist. The need to serve completely consumes my mind. Once the mind enters that state, there is no place safer. There is no place more relaxing to be in, and there is no place I’d rather be than in submission. It’s not about the sex – this is very different to a sexual experience. It’s about the power of the mind – being able to control your mind and pushing certain boundaries. It’s about focusing on your weaknesses and strengthening your mind to face your fears and insecurities.

Trust and respect. There is no greater feeling than literally placing your life at the fingertips of your Sir/Sadist, and knowing you are in the safest spot in the whole world!! Knowing that He is orchestrating while you relax in your safe spot.  I have been very fortunate to be experiencing this journey and I appreciate this lifestyle with all its ‘weird and crazy’ (to those that don’t know) protocols.  I have been blown away by the respect, tenderness, and acceptance of those that I have met along the way.  I can’t speak for others, but I have found some real healing, and been able to deal with some of my demons simply by choosing to push these boundaries.  I have grown in ways I never would have imagined. I love Being a Submissive Masochist.

About the Author: Sofie is a consultant at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Review: Rianne-S Moon

Rianne-S Moon Hand Held Massager

The Moon hand held vibrator was created by adult company Rianne-S. The Rianne-S Moon Vibrator is shaped like a crescent moon, it is the type of moon you would have seen drawn in fairy tale books. The vibrator comes in three different colours including French Rose, Coral Rose and Deep Purple Rose. The colour choices are adorable, so every time you will use the vibrator it will make you feel like you are really splurging and pampering yourself. The bottom trim of the vibrator is made with a champagne gold colour which give’s the vibrator a high end quality look. The vibrator is made from medical grade soft silicon which feels silky smooth, gentle and delicate which give’s the vibrator a high end quality feel. Since the sex toy is silicone based, it is best used with a water based lubricant. The vibrator is 188mm in length by 82.5mm in width by 78mm in height. It is paper light at 350 grams, so you won’t end up feeling like you have just ran a marathon from using it!

Although the Rianne-S Moon has a rechargeable lithium-ion battery, it delivers a faint buzzing sound at 49db. I’m pretty sure if you used the vibrator right next to a connecting wall, the person in the next room would think that there is something in their wall or they may assume what you are up to. Though the sound is nothing that a little bit of relaxing music can easily cover up.

The Rianne-S Moon is made to be used for external body stimulation. Here are some tips on using the moon vibrator:

  • Place the crescent hole at the base of your finger, as if you were wearing it as a ring. When you turn it on, the vibration will wave throughout your finger that it has been placed on. For a stronger vibration, you can also move the crescent moon just above the knuckle of your finger. Use your finger to masturbate, for anal or clitoral pleasure.
  • Surround your clitoris with the crescent points to have direct clitoral stimulation.
  • Place the curve of the moon, length ways on your clitoris for an overall stimulation which will also reach your urethral spot.
  • Your sexual partner can place it on their finger and stimulate your g spot.
  • Use the vibrator as a full body massager.
  • Place the vibrator on the head of a penis or cupped under the balls. Use a piece of cloth around the vibrator to make the vibration softer.
Rianne-S Moon Hand Held Massager
Sex Toy: Rianne-S Moon Bag

 

The Rianne-S Moon vibrator has two different powerful motors. The motors run from the bottom, and the vibration travels through the arm’s of the device. The motor has three different intensities that use four different speeds. The moon vibrator has seven unique modes that include:

  • Mode’s 1, 2 and 3 power a constant vibration mode which increases in intensity
  • Mode 4 is a wave vibration mode
  • Mode’s 5, 6, and 7 are different pulsation modes

To begin using Rianne-S Moon, you can shift slowly through Mode’s 1, 2 and 3 to begin relaxing your body. Switch to Mode 4 to get your body into a rhythmic wave. Then to excite yourself, switch to Modes 5, 6, or 7 to make the climax more surprising. To make thing’s long lasting, the moon vibrator can last for up to 2 hours of play time and is 100% waterproof for some extra bath time or sauna fun. There is a small light that changes depending on the mode you select. The light isn’t to intense, it is there to soothe you.

When you buy the Rianne-S Moon it comes with a lilac luxury cosmetic bag. The cosmetic bag has a heart shaped lock with a equally adorable key.  Safely store your vibrator and power chord in the bag, lock it up and no one can access it without the key.  The bag can also be used to carry make-up or beauty essentials for any type of holiday or special event. It would be great gift set to buy your girlfriend, wife or best friend for a special occasion or just because they deserve to be pampered.

I feel that the Rianne-S Moon could deliver you multiple orgasms, giving you waves and waves of relief. The moon vibrator will leave you literary “feeling moonstruck”. Although the device does appear to be “girly”, don’t judge a vibrator by it’s cover! Do not under estimate the amount of pleasure and the type of pleasure it can give you. The Rianne S Moon Vibrator can give you so much pleasure I really can not describe it! I honestly, do not come across many quality vibrators that you can power as a vibrator but also use as an extension to your finger. I feel like it empowers individuals to give themselves greater amounts of sexual relief without having to rely on anyone else for help. Since you can use your own finger the stimulation feels very natural. To make things even better, we know our own bodies better than anyone else so if we use it on ourselves, it will just make the orgasm even better. And if your partner want’s to help out, they can have some fun to.

I do recommend you come into a Oh Zone to make sure the product fits on you or your partners finger! The Rianne-S Moon is available in Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre’s throughout Sydney and Adult Smart Online Sex Shop.

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Fifty Shades of Grey

Love that endures

We are (or should all be aware of the 50 shaded of grey. Some of us were behind to start with. I was at work one quiet day and a middle age gentleman came into the store. He asked me did we sell the Fifty Shades of Grey book. I had heard nothing of it and pumped him for information.  He replied all his friend’s wife’s were reading the book and they were all bragging that they were getting more sex and more attention in the bed than ever before and he wanted in on the action.I had no idea what he was talking about however as a guise under good customer service I was going to find out what Fifty Shades of Grey was.

Over the next 2 weeks I had middle age women float into the store and say thank god there is a woman her and then whisper to me “Do you have the toys in the Fifty Shades of Grey book”?  Still not knowing much about it I pumped the women. They actually were drooling from more than one body part as they told me it was just the hottest book they had ever read and they want to do what Anastasia had done to her.  I finally found the book in k mart at the bargain price of $9.99. I soon found out there was 3 books in the series and so in for a penny in for a pound I was soon the proud owner of said books.

I packed the 3 volumes, my hat shoes, sunblock and 3 bottles of belvedere and headed for River island. Where I merrily swung in my hammock with book firmly wrapped in my mit. I will say the Fifty Shades of Grey book is very poorly written, and it is an easy read. However I was hooked. I fell in love with the book and could not put it down. Now anyone with shame at this point in time could put it down to the belvedere. However how can I explain that I read the 3 books in 3 days?  I loved them. Why did I fall in love with this poorly written misogynistic piece of crap.  So I have tried to Strip back the book and the movie and have honestly given my opinion.

Fifty Shades of Grey is a story of a young girls sexual awakening. The plot has been done to death and is very old fashioned. However, it seemed to give the majority of women the courage to look further and deeper into what they wanted when it came to sex. It seemed to allow oneself to be given the freedom to do what they had been fantasying over since they uttered those words I do. How bad could the book be for you. It was sold in K mart and Target. Right beside the good old women’s weekly for god sake.

Sexual dependence, thy name is Anastasia Steele. Why are we supposed to believe that this girl has gone 21 years neither having had sex nor masturbating?   Christian’s supposed sexual prowess makes a bit more sense now, as does Ana’s assertion that he has a giant penis. She has absolutely zero experience, and she’s never once had anything “in there“. Thing could be the size of a baby carrot and she’d still be like, “Oh, my god! How is it ever going to fit?!”  It’s good that she stockpiled all those potential orgasms, though, because now she’s capable of having like, 15 a day or something. It’s ridiculous.

Fifty Shades of Grey
Photo: Fifty Shades of Grey

 

Since this is considered nothing more than “mommy porn”, I will attempt to pander to that  demographic for a moment. Were the sex scenes well-written? NO!!! The sex scenes…honestly, they were  boring. I’ve had more exciting sex myself. I guess reader response to the sex scenes is dependent on reader experience. There’s nothing revolutionary here, and a lot of it is just plain unrealistic. I mean, come on, he pretty much jackhammers her hymen and she walks away with nothing more than a pleasant soreness? . How about the time he gives her a hand-job with a soapy washcloth?  Apparently neither one of them has ever had a UTI. Oh, or we could talk about her first time giving Christian a blowjob, during which Ana established herself as some kind of Queen of Deepthroat.

I hated the attempt E.L. James made at giving these pathetic personalities. Ana wears Converse, drives a vintage car, and likes classic British lit. Bored yet? And Christian; we know Christian’s super deep and sophisticated because he plays the piano and listens to obscure classical music. This is how we know Christian is really just a lost soul in need of love; his love of music. Everyone knows that no one threatening listens to music. Music lovers just aren’t capable of doing anything bad.

Anyone wanna hear about the tampon scene? Oh, you’ve already heard about the tampon scene?  For some reason, you imagine it being worse than it actually is, while at the same time, reading about it is more horrifying than you could possibly imagine.

“He reaches between my legs and pulls on the blue string…what! And…gently pulls my tampon out and tosses it into the nearby toilet.”

Look, I’m not against sex during your period, but a guy plucking out a girl’s tampon? not everybody’s cup of tea. I’m no  prude, but there are certain lines people just shouldn’t cross. What makes it worse is that Christian is just thrilled that Ana’s bleeding because he hates using condoms. Apparently Christian doesn’t know that a woman can get pregnant while on her period. Which is hilarious considering all the teaching and training he’s doing to remedy Ana’s sexual ignorance.

There are people who enjoy aspects of Fifty Shades of Grey while also criticizing its glorification of domestic abuse;  To recap: the Christian Grey experience depicted in the books and to some extent in the movie includes but is not limited to stalking, gas lighting, manipulation, forced alienation from one’s friends and family, and rape threats. None of those behaviors are part of BDSM. None of those behaviors are acceptable in a relationship. Fifty Shades of Grey movie presents a less explicitly abusive dynamic than the first Fifty Shades of Grey book, but that’s in no way an endorsement of the film. If anything, that just makes its influence even scarier.However sexy no, Hot hell no. I was in wonder as to all those women young and old telling me it was the hottest thing they had ever read. What was I missing. What were the women of today missing?

So after doing this review it has dawned on me. It was the romance. Take out his inexcusable behavior,he wanted her and nothing was going to stop him. Is that what I am missing is that what the average female wants. Just to be needed, wanted adored. Sounds good to me. now where can we find that without the perverse predatory behavior? Not behind my couch i have looked.

 

About the Author: Leonie is a consultant at the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

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