Charge Up Your Sex With Neck & Wrist Restraints

Do you want to spice up your love life?  Let’s face it most people do!  But surprisingly it can easily be done by adding a bit of light bondage play for a changed sexual routine? For a newbie, just imaging the thought of being restrained and surrendering your sexual control to another.  How liberating this can be I find it difficult to express so why not use the words of Fuller,

“Many individuals have this misguided judgment that the individual who’s in control in life all the time needs control in the bedroom,  Often that is totally in reverse. They need to sit back, unwind, and surrender [control] to their partner.”

Always Check How Your Partner Is Feeling

Before you start BDSM role-play it is essential to make the rules of what is acceptable and what is not!  This is the most important part as to surrender you must have trust and if the guidelines are not clearly defined it can cause angst and fear.  Also a clearly defined ‘Safe Word’ between the partners must be agreed upon.  The safe word means that when used both parties must stop what they are doing immediately.  It means that one or even both parties are uncomfortable to where the play is heading and the act is changing from consensual to non-consensual.

When you have your first session start small!  It will probably not be enjoyable if you start by trying to emulate the scenes from the writings of the Marquis De Sade, rather start slowly – perhaps with some silk ties and as you grow more and more comfortable expand your repertoire of bondage aids.  Communication is key, always talk to your partner before and after what could have been done differently, what they really enjoyed and what they would like to try next time.  It will make for hotter and sessions as the trust in each of you grows.

Go together to your local adult shop to see the different things you can add to your erotic sessions or go to a bdsm shop online where you can view all the devices available in the privacy and comfort of your own home.  Whilst in your home work out where you are going to carry out your bondage games and when.  As opposed to regular sex it is more exciting to not know where or when your will be intimate together bondage play is all about planning and control.  The more planning takes place the more comfortable and secure the sessions are.

Having participated in light BDSM play for many years one of my favorite devices to use in the Bondage Sessions is a neck and wrist restraints.  I am not into pain and suffering more in allowing my partner to take control or visa versa.

We like to ‘switch’ roles in different sessions.

These restraints consist of a set of cuffs that are placed around the wrists that are attached to a chain that on the other end has a collar that fits around the neck.  The restraints that I choose to use are comfortable to wear and my preference is to have the wrists to the rear rather than the front as it gives the dominant more control.  We incorporate other toys in our play, generally sensory like feather ticklers and my favorite the wartenberg wheel.  The pin-wheel is my favorite as the needles titillate and I know that if too much pressure was put on them they would draw blood but I know that my partner only uses them with a light touch so they tickle or give ever so slight pricking feeling.

You can position your ankles and wrists in countless ways at the front or back of the body, dependent on whichever manner your wear it. You can also use the cuffs with other bondage accessories like ropes, leashes or tethers that you own already. This undeniably sexy bondage that will definitely help you and your sexy playmate get involved into some undeniably exciting and compromising positions together. You can also use other adult toys in combination with the neck and wrist restraint to create some extremely pleasurable and sensual moments if you like.

Restraints Neck & Wrist
Neck & Wrist Restraints

 

My other favorite is the Neck & Wrist Steel Restraint, crafted from surgical steel and bearing a T-bar neck design and wrist bondage is equally sturdy and sexy. Team it up along with a sensuous mouth gag and have your sexy partner begging like a slave for mercy. Let the amazing experiences take you to another world when you take chances on being the slave. With the collar diameter of 13.2 cm, wrist cuffs diameter of 6cm and length of the in between long bar at 20 cm, the collar sets fittingly on every individual.Buy some Neck & Wrist Steel Restraint. At that point invigorate their erogenous zones with an ice solid shape, plume, flame wax, or vibrator. You could likewise attempt oral or manual incitement.

“There are two ways crimp dreams can go, you can discover this is something you’ve been lost in your sexual coexistence or that the thought was better left as a dream.” says sex teacher Cassie Fuller, Touch of Flavor.

Cassie describes herself on her website as  – ‘Hi! I’m Cassie Fuller, a kink and intimacy expert, educator, and coach. I began teaching in the kink and polyamory communities in 2008. I co-founded TTB Ventures (Touch of Flavor’s parent company) in 2009 with the mission of providing awesome education to kinky and poly folks.We founded Touch of Flavor itself in 2011 after the release of Fifty Shades of Gray. At Touch of Flavor we spent our first few years focused on educating newbies through media appearances and conferences. We had a ton of fun, and along the way were able to educate both the public and media on sex, intimacy, and kink.’

The steel neck and wrist restraints are a great way to get into BDSM Play and of course they are distributed by the best Bondage Supplier Hell’s Couture.  Hell’s Couture fine surgical steel products and leather gear are a cut above what is available in the market.  Click this link to find your nearest seller of hells couture bondage gear. You can also buy their Bondage & Fetish gear on Amazon and ebay.  They not only deal in restraints but stock the largest array of penis plugs selling across the globe discretely and cheaply through DHL.  You will be amazed at the low cost of their products and the quality and range that they stock.  Ask for them by name and if you retailer has not heard of them, then they are not serious about Bondage and Fetish equipment.

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena's and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

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