I Love Being A Cuckolded Man!

We became friends, then lovers, then engaged, and now married. It never dawned on me that I Love Being a Cuckolded Man. Cuckolding may be a silent fantasy, but rest assured it is very popular, especially among married couples.

I was a ‘normal’ guy before I met my gorgeous 28 year old wife two years ago.  Things were very casual for me.

Dating one woman at a time and devoting my time to her.

All was good for me, or so I thought.

When I met Sheila, I thought she was too hot for me and wondered why she even gave me the time of day.  Things sky-rocketed since meeting her at a restaurant I frequented every Tuesday.

Our sex life was okay, but definitely nothing to write a book about.  I thought Sheila was satisfied with what I had to offer though I knew deep down she would have loved more.

The thought would come to my mind every so often, but I shut it down every time.

This became routine till the day I came home with my childhood best friend I had not seen in over a decade.  Sheila knew most of my male friends and never had a problem when any of them came over, even if it was to spend the night.

Things were to proceed as they usually do.

Have a beer while Sheila made one of her delicious meals, eat the meal together.  Talk for a few hours over some relaxing glasses of wine and say our ‘good nights’.

This time round, during diner, Sheila started a conversation that sounded like a discussion at first but spiraled into a suggestion. ‘Bob, do you have a wife?’ he asked my friend.

‘I am divorced,’ Bob replied.  After expressing her apologies, she outright asked, ‘what are your thoughts on cuckolding?’

I almost choked on my food.

Looking over at Bob, he seemed not to be offended and said he had no problem with it.

A little into the conversation, it was crystal clear that Sheila wanted to have sex with Bob.  The most shocking thing is that she wanting me to see her do it.

A Cuckolded Man

The bottom line is that I found myself giving into the idea.  No matter how absurd I found it.  But that wasn’t what surprised me.

What did surprise me was how much I enjoyed the whole experience.

My wife was on the couch all over Bob and I was on the opposite seat watching them.  I found myself taking pleasure to the way she moaned and writhed her voluptuous body all over Bob.

He made her make noises I had never heard before in all the two years we had been together.  That’s when it dawned on me, I had never given her the kind of sexual pleasure Bob was giving her at that moment.

And that I love being a cuckolded man…….

The experience might have been uncomfortably new.

But the intensity with which I found myself enjoying it made me think of the possibility of making it a more permanent situation.  I mean, Sheila was having one of the best sexual experiences of her life.

And I was getting multiple orgasms just by watching her with another man.  I saw it as a win-win situation for both of us.

What exactly is a Cuckold?

Shortly after the first encounter, Sheila and I had a discussion where she made me understand what a cuckold is.

This is a world that I did not know existed, but found I enjoyed it very much.  I learned the type of cuckold that enjoys watching his wife have sex with other men while I masturbated over the experience.

There were other different types as well which Sheila happily enlightened me about.

Types of Cuckold

There was the bi-cuck who was into bisexuality and would enjoy having sex with his wife and lover.  The sissy-cuck who was into wearing feminine attire while performing household chores for the wife in the presence of her lover.

A chastity cuck enjoyed the wife using a male chastity device on him to prevent him from experiencing an orgasm while watching his wife have sex with her lover.

And finally, there was the humiliation cuck who enjoyed, or at least tolerated, being humiliated by his wife in the presence of her lover.

Curious About the Chastity Cuck

I was a bit curious about the chastity cuck and the kinds of male chastity devices used for the experience.

Something about being turned on to the point of coming.  But being denied the opportunity to do so really sent a rush through my spine.

I think it was the control part of the whole situation, but I wasn’t sure.   Just had to try it.

We Set Up Some Rules

Sheila and I talked about the whole cuckold issue, seeing as to how it would now become a regular thing, and came up with a few set of rules.  For starters, she was to choose the men she wanted to sleep with.

Secondly, I was to say something whenever I felt uncomfortable about a situation.  She wanted me to enjoy myself as much as she was.

Finally, whenever a chastity device was to be introduced, I was to speak if it hurt.

My First Chastity Device

The first time she used a chastity belt on me, she had me lick her entire body.  I almost had an orgasm but couldn’t because the belt prevented it.  She then grabbed my balls which were filled with cum teasing and tagging.

The pain and pleasure feeling was so good that I knew I would want to wear a chastity belt again.

Since then, Sheila and I have been experiencing different beautiful cuckold moments.

If you had asked me a few years back if I would ever let another man have sex with a woman I love, the answer would have been very different from what I am doing today.

I would have thought the situation would have made me jealous.  But I found the sight of another man driving his shaft in and out of my wife while she made her erotic pleasure sounds very exhilarating.

Sex after she is done with her lover is usually breathtaking.  Our sex life has never been better since I worked out I love being a cuckolded man.

Male Chastity Is The Right Choice For Me!

The important question in my life in marriage was between sex and marriage, which one was more important.  In my case, it was not just about my marriage, it was also about my relationship with the women in my life.

Being unfaithful at times may be out of control.

In my case, it was out of control because my multiple sex partners would still come to me and my body would be pulled towards them.

Then I got My Male Chastity equipment.   I realized that I was not giving my family the attention that they needed.   Always quarreled with my wife because I was unavailable to help her with family matters.

I also spent a lot of money entertaining my sexual partners and booking rooms.

At some point my marriage was in the brink of collapsing.

We separated for two nights until a friend of mine suggested that we visit a relationship expert. The relationship expert created the right environment for us to discuss our marital problems.

Although I had been denying that I was cheating on my wife, I discovered that she already knew.

During the forum, she told me of various occasions when she got hotel receipts in my pocket.

I confessed to cheating and agreed to get help.

The relationship expert advised me to change my mindset and focus on my responsibility as a father.

This did not work. I still got seduced back to my behavior and found myself reconnecting with my sex buddies.  I lost control of my sexual behavior again.  Googled for solutions until I got an article that recommended the use of male chastity toys.

I got the equipment and started using it.

When I told my wife about the equipment, she agreed to hold the key for me.  This equipment really helped my life and relationships when it came to abstaining.

I would wish to get back to my past behavior because all my other partners were available and convincing.  But because I wore the toy, I was restrained.  I must say that my mind was already conquered.

If I was to make the decision based on how I felt and thought, I would have been lured because I was willing to go the mile.  But I did not have the key.

Well Designed Equipment

Other than helping with abstaining, the equipment proved useful to blend with the human body morphological design.

It is much more than any other solution that you may look for.  Convenient in many ways including the following that it is always with you!

You strap the chastity equipment on your waist give your wife the keys and you are ready to live your well-controlled life.

Just go About Your Normal Day

Visit with your friends, act like everything is normal but you will be rest assured that you will not involve in illicit sex because your guard is always with you in the most essential area.

Better still, your partner will be confident that you will not be making mistakes because my male chastity key is with them.

My equipment left my wife with a peace of mind.

And I was also protected from myself because it was always with me.  Protects erection and sexual drive.

The way to control your sexual drive is through the mind.  I agree with that. From experience, the mind needs something to motivate it and push it to make the right decisions.

The equipment does this.

When I had the equipment on, my erection was controlled. Whenever I tried to have an erection, the toy restrained it.

This way, my sexual drive was suppressed. Ultimately, my mind was withdrawn from whichever sexual desires that were coming up.

I must say that this approach to sexual control is effective and unrelenting.

At first, I got equipment that held my cock tight. I could feel that my penis was constrained whenever I wore equipment.

When I had an erection, it became painful and I was hurt. I had to get one that fit me properly.

There are many sizes from which I could choose one that I felt was the right size for me.

I opted for one that was loose enough to let me feel comfortable but held me whenever I felt like having an erection. With such comfort, I did not even feel the equipment within me.

Concealable within I realized that most of my friends who stopped the promiscuous behavior wore the equipment under their pants.

I did not know this before. They looked normal and wore the same clothes that they wore without any indication of an additional equipment under their pants.

My friends wore the equipment and told me that when I informed them of my development.

I was surprised and promised to always keep my protector with me.  It is comfortable to use it when going to the toilet without any challenge.  I also learnt that they come in different designs and sizes.

You can get any chastity equipment for various designs and that are made of varied materials.  All you need to do is have an opinion of what you need.

Maybe you think its archaic or perverted but it works.

You will agree with me that anything that saves your marriage and relationship is worth trying.  I love the equipment because you can easily conceal it.

This way, you may wear it without feeling the stigma that comes with the realization that you are wearing something that prevents you from indulging in non-permitted sexual behavior.

My Male Chastity will not break when interfered with.

But it protects my marriage from breaking.  It is the best equipment that has come my way because it has given me the trust of my loved ones and has held my family intact.

My wife opens the lock for me and allows me to be free when she is around. Then I cannot deviate.

She has thus trusted me again and our relationship has become more happy with the developed trusts.