I’ve put together a lesbian strapon guide in case it’s your favourite like me. Strapons are one of my absoute favourite things to use during sex.
It’s been a long road of learning what straps make me feel most comfortable and what style of dildos I like using. And which ones make me feel good when I spot myself in the mirror.
Making Strapons More Fun – A Strapon Guide
Dildo choices have come a long way over the last few years. There are so many new brands that have come out with toys that don’t look like penises. But still have a great range of different shapes, sizes and colours.
Then there’s the brands that have come out with revolutionary dildos that look and feel ultra-realistic, some get erect and some even ejaculate.
Then there’s share dildos….
3 years ago I admitted that I couldn’t hold one in. This is still the case. So, today I’ll be giving you my updated list of toys that makes using straps a little bit more exciting for the wearer.
Strapon Guide – We Vibe Chorus
We Vibe update their couple’s vibrator every few years. This year they released the chorus and it’s stronger and better than ever. My personal favourite to combine with my straps.
It gives you both internal and external stimulation whilst being a completely hands-free toy.If you insert the bigger motor, the smaller motor sits nicely flat in the front where the strapon dildo sits.
You can feel the vibrations through the dildo, making it a little more fun for your partner as well.You’ll definitely need the remote to control the toy once inserted and then it’s up to you who gets to be in control.
Strapon Guide – We Vibe Jive
If you’re a beginner with toys or you’re the kind of person that gets over stimulated if too much is going on at the same time, then the We Vibe Jive is a better toy start off with.
For me personally I find the Jive to be a little weak. But for someone who can’t handle a lot of vibration, this is perfect.
It has a longer body than most standard eggs It has a curve to it so when you’re using it with straps it would move with your body when you’re thrusting. On the tip of the tail you’ll find your control button.
Strapon Guide – Romp Wave
Let me just start with, this toy won’t work with all types of straps, it will need support to stay in place.
Boxer short harnesses or any harness that has 2 straps running underneath your bits should do the job. The Romp Wave is an external vibrator that has a larger body and motor then just your standard bullet.
It should sit nicely under your bits, massaging different areas while you’re thrusting up against it. It’s quite a thin toy and it’s covered in soft silicone so it will be nice and comfy.
YouTube Finds Gay Kiss is Offensive
In this day and age homosexuality is being accepted by more and more people. Gay Marriage is at the forefront of discussions and protests with many major Governments as a Human Rights Issue.
Equal rights for gay, lesbian and transgendered people is accepted by most now as a human right. So, why would YouTube terminate one of their accounts for a gay kiss?
YouTube policy is that sexually explicit content like pornography is not allowed. Videos containing fetish content will be removed or age-restricted depending on the severity of the act in question.
In most cases, violent, graphic, or humiliating fetishes are not allowed to be shown on YouTube.
Gay Kiss Posted Online and Deemed Offensive
Adultsmart online posted a video clip of two fully clothed lesbians sharing a loving and passionate kiss. This was deemed as offensive and breaching community standards by YouTube.
There was no nudity, no sexually explicit content. But YouTube found that lesbianism breaches their community standards.
Unfortunately, YouTube offers no direct contact options to account holders. As the account was terminated by YouTube as being gay apparently contravenes their Community Standards, no appeal against this termination can be made.
What about Gay Rights?
So we have people demonstrating local and federal governments being righteous for the civil liberties of others. But YouTube, the most popular video sharing site in the world says being gay breaches community standards.
A Sexual kiss is perceived in many societies around the globe. Most by far of grown-ups everywhere throughout the globe have encountered the clumsiness, energy, perplexity and delight of it.
One must concede that all over the act of kissing is more than somewhat peculiar.
What is it about a Kiss?
So, why do we make out and eat leftovers at the same time? Is it just a weird thing we do or is there more to it?
Scientists have different ideas about why we kiss. Some say it’s a way to gather info about potential partners. When we kiss, we get up close and personal with someone.
We can smell and taste them, and our saliva carries hormonal messages. Plus, the face area has glands that emit chemicals with genetic and immune info. Basically, a person’s breath, lips, and teeth can tell us a lot about their health and hygiene, and whether they’d make a good mate.
Another Theory
Some experts believe that kissing is more than just a physical act. It’s actually a way to show and deepen feelings of trust, intimacy, and closeness with another person.
Think about it like clinking glasses when you’re having a drink. It’s not just about the taste, it’s about engaging all your senses and making the experience more complete.
When you kiss someone, you’re bringing in the senses of taste and smell to amplify the intimacy even more. And when you kiss someone, you’re opening yourself up to being vulnerable and potentially exposing yourself to germs or sickness.
But that’s what makes it so special.
It’s a true expression of trust and openness. So, kissing is not just a way of showing affection, it’s also a way of saying “I’m cool with your natural juices.”
Recent studies suggest that kissing can actually help suppress feelings of disgust, especially in women. So, if you’re getting hot and heavy with someone, a kiss is a pretty good sign that things are going well.
But, if there’s no real connection or attraction, kissing might not be on the table.
That’s why you don’t really hear about sex workers, victims of assault, or anyone else who’s not feeling the vibe, getting into kissing.
Kissing Can Get You in the Mood
And let’s not forget that kissing can also be a pretty effective way of getting someone in the mood. Ladies’ lips, it is hard to deny, look like the labia.
So, have you noticed how women all around the world love to paint their lips red? Apparently, it’s because red is associated with sexual excitement and it highlights the role of lips in seduction.
And get this – research suggests that men are more into wetter kisses with more tongue action than women.
Let’s Not forget the Tongue
It ishard to deny it is a phallic organ. A blend of a clammy open mouth and an entering tongue mimic intercourse particularly.
What’s more, a few specialists guess that the male inclination for wet kisses is identified with the way that male salivation contains testosterone. A hormone connected to sexual excitement in both sexes.
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