Longer During Lockdown – What do most men do in their spare time? Masturbate and everyone wants to take the opportunity to Last Longer During Lockdown. We all know as men, that if you have the house to yourself or we are sitting down for a profuse amount of time either procrastinating or doing nothing, our mind starts to wonder and we start to fantasize. We start to get horny which generally leads to us chasing a little dopamine hit by masturbating. However, over the course of our life, most men masturbate as quickly as they can so that they can 1. Get that sweet dopamine hit straight away and 2. Get it over and done with so no one awkwardly interrupts them (Either though the thrill of getting caught is pretty hot). Without even realising it, this simple act of trying to get it over and done with quickly, becomes a habit that can severely hinder how we perform in the bedroom. Ejaculating as soon as you get aroused becomes a habit, which becomes a problem.
A major theme that COVID has taught the majority of humanity is to slow down and to embrace the moment, to appreciate your downtown and to use your spare time to better yourself. So how can you use your spare time to improve your sex life and conquor your bad relationships with ejaculating pre maturally? It’s simple. These methods that I am going to provide you will help you without having to spend a single dollar. They will also give you a long term solution rather than just put a bandaid on it for now (The problem with the bandaid solutions as it makes you overthink, especially when you want to have spontaneous sex and the bandaid is no there). So here they are:
Masturbating
less but masturbating for longer periods: One of the most powerful things in this world is the power of self discipline. Being able to control your mind and body can lead you to do some great things and in this case.. Have some great sex! By cutting down the amount of times that you masturbate and picking and choosing when you do, this sends a signal to your mind that you are in charge of your urges. You will not be a slave to your sexual desires. This in itself will play a big role in your ability to control your climax and ejaculation. Why should you masturbate for longer periods of time? Well this all comes back to habit. By slowing down your mastubation process, edging yourself and playing with yourself for a solid 15-20 minutes at a time, for a minimum of 3 month period, will teach your body and your mind that in order to ejaculate; you will need prolonged stimulation. This one habit in itself will play a big role in helping you conquer quickness in the bedroom.
Mantak Chia’s method
Shower scrub method: Mantak Chia is one of the worlds best spiritual teachers especially when it comes to the area of masculine sexuality. In his interview with Brian Rose from London Real, he discusses that in order for men to last longer, we must give our penis constant stimulation to get ourselves used to the feeling. To really feel into our bodies. The best way he explains to do this is, whilst in the shower you have to pull your penis in a downward motion 50 times from the base to the tip of the shaft. Then upwards 50 times in the same motion. To the left 50 times and to the right 50 times. By doing this everyday for 3 months. This will begin to program the mind and the body to sustain continuous amounts of pleasure. The shower scrub method isn’t for the faint hearted. This method is great for men who are not circumcised. See your foreskin actually protects the penis head making it more sensitive. Those men who are circumcised are constantly having their penis head desensitized because it is rubbing up against the underwear all day long. The best way to desentize the penis head is whilst in the shower, get a body scrubber and slowly for 2-3 minutes twist it on the head of the penis. Do not do this hard however do it with enough pressure that you can feel it. By doing this everyday for 3 months you will notice a difference.
The pull out method
One of the oldest tricks in the book. The pull out method if you don’t want to do point 1 and 2, if applied right… will never fail you! So this method is used when you’re having intercourse or in the middle of foreplay. You’re getting too excited and heated, instead of ejaculating. You pull out. You bring all the attention back to your partner. Continuing to stimulate them. Continuing to arouse them. Whilst your body slowly calms back down. What this will also do is showcase that you are a generous lover and you aren’t just about your own pleasure. It shows that you can hold your urges and have enough self control to prolong your ejaculation.
Using affirmations
The power of affirmations have been promoted for years and all across the globe. Constantly telling yourself a thought will soon implant it into your subconscious and then showcase through your actions. A few great affirmations to say every single day to yourself will help you in the bedroom without even realising it:
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I am able to always control my ejaculation
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I am able to have amazing sex for long periods of time
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I am surging with sexual energy and testosterone
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I am amazing at pleasing my partner and giving them the pleasure they deserve
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I am a sexually confident male
These 4 methods if applied and completed consistently will not only supercharge your confidence but they will prolong your ejaculation which ultimately will allow you to perform better in the bedroom and please your partner for longer periods of time. I think that is a win-win for both parties.
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