Okay, I am about to admit to something I am not proud of. In fact, I am completely ashamed of myself and have had trouble when I slept at night because of the weight of this secret. Are you ready? Here it goes… I like 50 Shades of Grey… isn’t that just the worst?
I was captivated by the 50 Shades of Grey books when they first came out and I watched the movie in secret multiple times when no one was home. All my friends dissed it and they laughed about how it is such a horrible movie. I nodded my head in agreement with them while I secretly anticipated the release of the next movie. I have seriously considered the possibility to travel interstate to see the movie in the cinemas due to the fear if I run into someone I know in a Sydney cinema is too much to comprehend.
Many people in the BDSM community are mortified with the representation of the dominant and submissive relationship in 50 Shades of Grey. I agree that this movie does not do the BDSM community justice. A dominant and submissive relationship is dynamic and would be extremely difficult to represent or interpret on the screen. If the movie industry showed a more realistic bondage scene, I don’t know whether it would go down well with a mainstream audience.
I do however think that the 50 Shades of Grey franchise has done some great things for female sexuality and empowerment. I know there are countless people who would disagree with me. They may say that it is misogynistic and has degraded women but from my view, it has put sexuality out in the open. This can be seen when you think about the high number of women of all ages who sat on public transport and have openly read the book. When you see how much women have had to suppress their sexuality and sexual desires in the past, I am amazed at how far we have come when we can read erotic fiction in public and no one bats an eyelid!
The 50 Shades of Grey franchise has caused many individuals to explore and experiment with their sexuality. I have seen these effects when I worked at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres as over the last few days, I have had multiple men come in who have asked for Ben Wa Balls. Their wives and girlfriends had instructed them to buy them after they saw them featured in the 50 Shades Darker movie.
In the movie, Christian Grey who is a dominant male instructed Anastasia Steele who is the submissive female to insert the Ben Wa Balls into her pussy before a special event. At the end of the night, he gave her a spank on her bottom that shook the balls inside her which provided her with waves of orgasmic pleasure.
In my experience, this is not an exaggeration of the power and pleasure these sex toys provide! This is why they are my all-time favourite sex toy! They provide remarkable pleasure when you go about your day. If you wear them for the sexual play they are great for your pelvic floor muscles. Some of the many great sexual effects of a strong pelvic floor include stronger orgasms, decreased occurrence of urinary incontinence and ease of recovery with childbirth.
I have many beloved brands of Pussy Balls and Kegel Exercisers. My collection includes the Je Jou Ami Kit, Svacom Nova Balls and Nalone Yany exerciser but today I have reviewed the L’Amourose Mya Beads in Pro from their Black Diamonds collection. L’Amourose sex toys are simply incredible and the Mya Beads are no exception.
L’Amourose have perfectly described the Mya Beads as
“Incorporating an elliptical shape, microvibration design, and a responsive, easy to clean exterior, MYA Beads represent a potent combination of practicality and pleasure.”
I couldn’t have said it better myself… but I will at least attempt to.
The L’Amourose Mya Beads are extremely elegant, they are presented in a simple black box with a bow and sturdy black storage case. The L’Amourose Mya Beads in Pro is a plum colour. It has a connection harness made of a super soft silicone and the beads are securely encased in a phthalate-free and FDA approved hard plastic. The L’Amourose Mya Beads include a single setup and a double bead setup. The single bead weighs 39 grams and the double weighs 76 grams.
Unlike other sex toys in the adult market such as the LELO Luna Beads or the Nalone Yany Exerciser, the L’Amourose Mya Beads don’t have changeable weights. I can see that not being able to take the beads out can make it a little bit trickier to thoroughly clean the setup, however, a soft toothbrush or the usage of cotton tips would be able to get into the small spaces easily enough. The Mya Bead’s shaking vibrations are subtle compared with other brands. I see the larger weight size inside the casing could be for that reason. For me, the differences are small however if you were after something that will have a greater shaking vibration, then I think the LELO Luna Beads are the way to go.
An incredible thing about L’Amourose Mya Beads is the superb quality and 18-month warranty with a lifetime guarantee. This means that you are covered for any manufacturing damages for 18 months. After the 18th-month warranty expires, the lifetime guarantee will give you 50% off a replacement.
There are countless cheaper alternatives on the market however if you want a sex toy that has an 18-month warranty with a lifetime guarantee, is luxuriously designed and will elegantly give you the 50 Shades Darker experience you have always fantasised about, then The L’Amourose Mya Beads are the sex toy for you.
About the Author: Sophie is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres