16 Reasons To Be A Gerontophile!

Modern medicine has a knack for inventing strange names for great pleasures. Gerentophilia is one of them, and it refers to having a sexual preference for older persons. My obsession with older women is further categorised as anililagnia! That is to describe men who love older women. Thankfully, doctors say it is not really a problem and requires no treatment. That would be one perception I would gladly take anyway.  Unfortunately others say it is a mental illness that I wish to say is unfair and not true.

Cougars,MILFS, Grannies, Matures are commonly known as the older women, that I beieve are diamonds in the rough, easy to miss while chasing the glorified young  goddesses swinging their tight merchandise all over town. This is one experience  no man can afford to miss, and avoid those petty theatrics of younger women. These are reasons why any self respecting young stud should be batting in the senior leagues:


Sexually Attractive Elderly Woman

  1. Stylish and more elegant: An older woman might not look as tight and smooth as younger women, but she  more than makes up for it in elegance. Any discerning man will skip those  bubblegum girls in skimpy miniskirts, and opt instead for the mature cougar  in the Versace suit. Older women have outgrown the style disasters of youth,  and have developed cultured and elegant mannerisms to go with it.
  2. Experienced: Experience is the best teacher and an older woman has seen it all. From all  types of men, looks, and sexual prowess, she has seen and had them all.  She will instantly recognise a great man and treat him well. She has also  learnt over the years how to please a man, and will wow you with all manner of sexual moves. Age also bestows a delicate touch to all humans, a valuable  asset when dealing with a young man.
    Focused: When an older woman likes you, its game over for the competition. Cougars have learnt over the years the folly of losing a man. It is you who is the apple in her eye, and will she will not bother looking elsewhere for other options. With such undivided attention, any man will feel like the king of his own castle.
  3. Less needy and more self reliant: Beautiful as they may be, young women can be extremely needy. Girls have a habit of inventing emergencies from the most minor of situations. All these attention seeking can make the loveliest of women a pain to be with. Having raised a family, older women understand that men don’t like being bothered with trivia. You can lie back and have the time of your life, without being bombarded by the latest fingernail tragedy. This is what I probably like the most about older women. There is no chasing her all over town trying to prove you are sent from heaven. An older woman knows what she needs and will say yes without too much ado. Nothing beats getting straight to the point with a woman, for it can only mean you will hit the goodies faster the neighborhood jock.
  4. Financially stable: She is more likely to have a successful career, live on a fat alimony settlement, or piles of cash from the empire her pop left her. An older woman is confident and rich enough to spend on her man. Forget those gift hungry and demanding girls. What’s more, older women are not wowed by expensive gifts. A bunch of flowers will do the trick, and she is more understanding of your thin wallet.
  5. Its forbidden fruit: Yes, your folks will be horrified and friends will snigger. It is a big turn on knowing you are doing the craziest of things. Sneaking around to avoid family and friends will send your heart racing. And that is very good for the sack.
  6. Patient: Older women have spent years dealing with bad men, demanding kids and stubborn husbands. She will be very patient with your youthful hubris and lack of experience. Furthermore, she knows she has ever dwindling chances of finding another stud, and thus tolerate your bad behavior better. This is especially so if you cheat. Older women are more accommodating of infidelity, for they know you may need to sample a different body once in a while.
  7. Highly sexual: It may sound strange, but older women go full throttle as age advances. A young man, with all that pent up sexual energy, will fit in perfectly with a cougar. Older women also know a man’s needs can’t wait and will let you have your fill no matter how often without needless grumbling.
  8. Doesn’t Want or Can’t Have kids: She is past that age, so its sex and more sex without the scares of missed periods, pills or marking calendars.
  9. More adventurous: A lot of sexual fantasies and kinky stuff that may horrify a young brat but will be par for the course for older women. She is experienced enough to know the folly of frowning on your latest fantasy. She is also more willing to try out new things, having been treated to the monotony of sex over the years.
  10. Readily available: There are countless lonely and desperate women out there who have been jaded by wayward husbands. With today’s high divorce rates, you can choose and pick from a large pool without much competition. You will only have to worry about potbellied and greying fathers way past their prime. You get to spend less energy chasing, and more having a ball.
  11. More confident: Older women have risen to senior positions at work or power. They have also had many relationships and know exactly what to do. Age also makes women more accepting of their bodies. They are more comfortable with nudity unlike younger women who fret over the tiniest of skin blemishes, instead of letting you get on with the erotic deeds.
  12. Easy to seduce: Beautiful and on demand, young women think they have it ll. An older woman knows she is languishing at the back of the queue, as all men chase smoother thighs. Just a little attention and she will cut all corners to have and keep you. She may not look as good, but in today’s world, rarely will you get a more sure thing.
  13. More honest and openness: A mature woman has learnt to be open. She is confident too, so she will speak her mind. You can say goodbye to those infamous sulks and moods. A cougar complains less and does not nag. That is every man’s dream come true.
  14. Less judgmental: After going through bad marriages, sex and crazy teens, an older woman is less choosy and expectant of men. She will not criticize you for the little things you fail to do or achieve, for she is just happy to have you in the first place.
  15. Mother Figure: It always feels safe and secure being wrapped in the arms of an older woman.  Being snuggled unconditionally and having someone older to take charge and be answered to.  This is part of what I enjoy with these relationships – going back to feeling safe like when I was a child.
  16. The rich also do it: You will clearly not be inventing the wheel. It may seem shameful, but there are a heap of famous elderly women that have toy boys sometimes 40 years and more their junior, yet for some reason they are not judged in the same way as the teen down the block dating his mothers friend. With power and wealth comes more acceptance which is simply not fair.  I enjoy dating elderly women and do not believe that is a mental illness nor should I be misjudged.


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