The Ideal Gay Orgy!

An orgy is a big fantasy for many, many people. The orgy room in bathhouses has been the location for many fantasies that ultimately come true. So you want to know how to plan for the ideal gay orgy sex party. The first thing you need to know about planning and hosting an orgy is that this is work and not a game. Yeah, you get a hard on from looking at those hot pictures you receive, but it takes a lot of time to coordinate this type of event. While some orgies do happen spontaneously, this article deals with staged orgies with a specific guest list, pre-arranged scenes, and some agreed upon rules for participants.

The first thing you need to do, it get the word out and make the orgy known to people. There are several options on how to make this happen. Firstly you can put an advertisement out in a local queer paper, or simply advertise in on the wall of your local club.  If you have an extensive and trusted friend network you can put the word out on them and get them to invite some people. Or, you can add it on Facebook and create an event and limit who can and can’t come to your orgy.

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It is during this initial posting of messages that you must have a clear idea of the type of men you wish to attract. One of the reasons for a private orgy, as opposed to a group scene in a public sex club, is that you can narrow the criteria and choose specific types of men. Maybe you only want men who are into the bear back scene. Maybe you want water sports enthusiasts or bondage lovers and fetishists. If you are like me, what you want is fit in shape guys between 18 and 35. I find the specific age range to be a success. The older men lust after the young guys, but it is almost always the older men who have the experience and the balls, to keep a scene of going on. Young men are often very shy in a group setting and need a bit of a push to get going.

You need to learn to read between the lines when checking the several responses from men wanting to attend. Asking for photos can exclude men from coming to your orgy, but this is sometimes the appropriate thing to do and is actually not uncommon for swingers parties and sex parties. Ask for a photo and for a complete description. If a person is vague about something, assume they are hiding something. You need to be straight in responding and observing incomplete descriptions. After all, the advantage of communicating via email is that you or the person responding does not need to write back if they choose. It is routine for guys who don’t fit your criteria to make an attempt to get into the party. Make it clear to everyone and do not hesitate to turn anyone away at the door who has presented a fake identity.

It is an important step to complete your guest list properly. It is crucial that you select a balanced group of men both by age and desires. Another major factor is the various kinks and fetishes a person is into. To put it simply, make sure you have enough tops to please your bottoms and vica versa. It is nice if you can arrange your list in order to have some racial and ethnic diversity. Many men find people of other colors and backgrounds to be highly erotic.

Ensure that you provide some directions and put in place some rules. It is important to put some written rules before guests come. If someone doesn’t like the rules, they can simply decline to come. A well though-out list of rules can help make it clear that you take this party seriously. This helps you because then your guests take your invitation more seriously. Rules can include safe sex only, that a simple no means no, and to respect not only yourself, but others within the environment as well.

Another important thing is to greet your guests at the door. This is essential if you want to make certain and confirm that your guests are only those invited. You will also have the chance to leave out people who have lied about their body, age or some other thing. The down side to greeting is that you lose your anonymity. This can be most unfortunate because men may turn to you as a host when you would rather be the guy receiving the pleasure. Another idea if you prefer is hiring someone you trust to work as bouncer and do the face control. Make sure you have a very specific time in which people may arrive. Allow 30 minutes for people to come after the designated hour and inform your guests and the guy at the door that the door is locked after that certain time. This ensures that the mood and atmosphere isn’t disrupted by the late arrival of a guest.

Setting up the orgy is important too. You get a room full of horny men in your house and very often the first moments can make the party really uncomfortable. It is good to ask two or more guests who have expressed particular enthusiasm to arrive earlier before the announced time. These guys can come to the party and strip down and get into sex before others. When others arrive at the designated time, you will already have men fucking each other and this will make your guests feel a little more comfortable and ease into the swing of things

Other things to do in advance are to provide soft drinks, alcohol, lots of hand towels in each room and ample amounts of lubricants and condoms. Take care that the lighting isn’t too bright as people will feel more comfortable in the dark. Rent several porn movies and cover all the chairs and sofas with sheets. Make sure room temperature is set to normal because things will get hot too fast. Provide paper bags or a room for your guests to store their clothing.

Finally, after the party is taking a fire, move from being the host to being a participant. Lay back and enjoy your gay orgy party. This is the party of a lifetime.

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